In a previous relationship 'kherson girl' mentioned what some of her friends/people she knew thought of me, even though again they had not met me.

I remember my first sex with a girl too, it was sooooo fun and exciting. I never felt the
compulsion to talk about her ad infinitum. I never analyzed it to death. I never related
that to any another relationship in my entire life.   

You overthink things far too much and while I am sure you have fond memories, you
need to move on from that girl.

Udachi!

I would be careful about how or if if is brought up before meeting, with some girls such talk could be an early sign to her that you are a sex tourist. She may go into hitting you for buying her stuff on arrival especially if she doesn't like you all that much. Even humourous talk on sex may start her thinking the wrong way.

I have excellent interpersonal skills. I understand what works for me, might not work for
someone with low level social skills. I also have the ability to make girls laugh, that also
helps them lower their barriers to communication. Sure, they have fears, but not of me,
and not for long.

I can read a woman's face, her body language etc. Sometimes I read it wrong and thought
a woman meant for me to come hither (she is only human) when she did not. 

You get better at things with experience.

sheeeeet holmes
3rd grade handjobs were the GREATEST!!!
Otherwise, I WOULDA HAD NO IDEA MY 'THANG' COULD DO THAT!
Talk about SURPRISED!!!
still probably the most important physical discovery I ever made!!!
OMG!!! Look At What it can do!!!!
 
and totally legal for me back then!!!! didn't even think about gettin caught or punished...
such sweet girls, and ya didn't even hafta take 'em to dinner!!!

I did stuff in the 3rd grade with those girls, that if I got caught doing it today as an adult, would put me in prison for the rest of my life!!! and the BAD PRISON, not Club Fed
so, I'm probably NOT the person whose opinion ya wanna consult over "Skool Sex" cuz I was VERY much in favor of it!!!

a-a-and another thing!!!
ya know why VETS can't get mental health care at the VA?
cuz the VA ain't there for the VETs, it's there to do "damge control" for the Pentagon's PR Dept
so the public doesn't blame the Pentagon for creating un-treated traumatized soldiers who become psychotic and "do stuff"
The VA is still trying to phuque VETS up, even decades after they left the service

Step 1 of VA mental health intake, is "perform danger assessment to community"
and I immediately saw 'the trap' right there, that they were gonna put me in, so I said "I feel better now"  and left....

you should be FAR more worried about people LIKE ME than Gay Cowboys in Drag reading short stories in skool
the FEDS keep 'lists' of people like me, to keep track of us
but NOT the gay cowboys
I hope you understand why that is...

The 'Real Threat' yur facing is the 1950s 'bubble' yur tryin to live in
is getting harder and harder to maintain as time goes by...

maybe, it's time to let go of it
you'll have to, sooner or later...

Gay Cowboy Literary Festival Day
is gonna be the least of the problems yur gonna be facing in the next decade
covid was just a tiny glimpse of what the future's gonna be like

In the next decade, there will be REAL FEAR coming yur way
and not the FAKE FEAR of Gay Cowboys being peddled by Republicans to get yur Christian Evangelical Vote

if you wanna 'buy' their product, be my guest, it's a free country, buy as much of it as ya want!
to me, it's garbage
all of it!

to each his own...
but the very same people who are foolin ya now, will at the end of the next decade...
be the ones living comfortably down in Vault-Tec
while yur family's left on the surface in the Wasteland

insteada being 'played' by them, I find it much more enjoyable to be one of those who  'plays them' instead...

This is an article that highlights the stupidity in UK society these days:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c72plr8v94xo

Basically single women bemoaning that they cannot buy their own homes, like duh

Do they not realise that it is the same for most single men???

The silly mare in the article doesn't want to get with a guy to make it work but instead expects the world to adjust for her lol.

Even if she got her own home it would just make it less likely for her to get a guy as then she would be complaining that she has her own home, he doesn't.

My guess is that her parents are charging her rent hoping that she will come to her senses. I really feel sorry for her parents they were probably hoping on becoming grandparents some day and instead get this poor excuse for a female specimen of the UK.

That's the dire state of the UK today, lots of silly single women running around wanting to have their own separate lives creating single men thereby pushing up house prices as all have to have their own separate accommodation.

Fortunately finally a relief comes for UK single men in the form of Ukrainian and Russian women refugee/asylum seekers. Many are available right here in the UK and will gladly get with a single UK guy who can then give a good 🖕 to the stuck up single British females of the nation like this girl who for a change can suffer at the arse end of it all. Oh happy days!