Is this normal for Russian Women?

[Mappy]

Boomstick surely you cannot be as idiotic as your post suggests?

[ML]

Just as I suspected.

A new poster shows up here with a completely fake story.
The goal is to get a lot of back and forth going to combat his/her boredom.

And sure enough . . . many have taken the bait.

This thread with fake story will go on and on for many pages.

[msmob]

Hi Geoffrey

Sounds scammy - but as you are a guy asking for help

Is THIS the place ?

http://tinyurl.com/yddazx7z

[BillyB]

The real advantage to meeting (first time) your FSU woman in "her" hometown.....as opposed to a "vacation" somewhere else is.......you get to see how others feel about "her". How they regard her.....resect her.....the type of friend, daughter etc.......she is.

That is one of the best reasons to visit a woman in her hometown. Some guys try to rationalize visiting the woman in some romantic setting when in fact he would make better use of his time figuring the woman out first. Save the romantic vacations for girlfriends, fiancees, and wives.

My wife and I are 13 years apart.......and because of that difference....."I'......almost passed her by. It was my Father who convinced me.....at our ages......me 51.....her 38......"what was the problem".

Thank god I listened to my "Dad".

Men chase women, women choose the man. If a sincere woman wants an older man, why ask why?

If I had listened to the naysayers I would have never even stepped foot in Ukraine and my wife would have falling into the scammer category.

Most citizens in your country and mine have been educated by the media. They know all women over there are gold diggers and all men pursuing them are losers. We, at the forum, don't label a woman a scammer just because she lives overseas.

Just as I suspected.

A new poster shows up here with a completely fake story.
The goal is to get a lot of back and forth going to combat his/her boredom.

And sure enough . . . many have taken the bait.

This thread with fake story will go on and on for many pages.

It doesn't bother me if this guy is making up a story. Thousands of people read this forum everyday and will get good info from this thread. If the OP is real, he's not the only guy getting help. I'm sure a few readers see themselves in the OP's shoes in some capacity. Maybe they are unemployed? Maybe they got a girl writing them similar things such as saying she'll sell everything and spend her every last penny to get a tourist visa to America?

[LAman]

It's amazing how many people here love to feed the trolls!!

[msmob]

It's amazing how many people here love to feed the trolls!!

Not a trollish comment, at all ....

[LAman]

Not a trollish comment, at all ....

talking in general msmob, not a particular post


BTW msmob, I found 4 Maza towns in Russia

[Bounder]

I'm always optimistic because listening to people tends sometimes to more harm then good. If I had listened to the naysayers I would have never even stepped foot in Ukraine and my wife would have falling into the scammer category. But I did take stuff into consideration without confrontation if I asked people's opinions. That being said...I don't think you'd listen anyways Geoffrey with no matter what anyone says on here because some people are deadset on their own ideals and know all the signs. its like my ex-best friend. His wife has cheated on him 6 times...one of those times he even caught her on top of a guy naked getting it on in a car. that would be scarred into his brain for life. After he caught her and needed time to himself...he went back out into the dating world and it scared him. His wife by most men's standards would be considered pretty and even out of his league..he lucked out. every girl he tried to get to know rejected him. Even below average girls.. being desperate and lonely he gave her a chance again and again, etc. Now what I'm getting at is... everyone could tell him that he was stupid for getting back with his wife and tell him the sore truth and he wouldn't listen. He only liked to complain about things and get things off his chest and if you mentioned one thing that wasn't good about him sticking around her...he dismissed it and didn't want to hear it. So what did I do just to see how stupid people really can be. I just said...oh man...she's just probably going through a mid life crisis the same way guys do...she's getting older and wants to feel attractive and wanted by men...let her get it out of her system...she'll finally realize after a while how great of a man you are...he smiled and said..yes..see man..you actually get it. I agreed that she was still an amazing girl and watched him get cheated on again. I've recently seen on his Facebook page a picture of his wife fishing in a river and it titled..."my dream girl". Wow... nobody commented on it because they knew the whole story on her...what's so dreamy. Was I being a bad friend...nope..after countless times of listening to him saying he got cheated on...why try and convince someone that wasn't going to listen. I just said what they wanted to hear. Then I dropped him because he was dead weight to me...true story.

The only thing I can say Geoffrey is this girl sounds amazing...any girl that sells all her stuff to get with you is truly a catch. There is no way she's a scammer. You could read tons of red flag posts on women and she wouldn't be considered in the same category because she is truly is unique. This girl is displaying some of the most endearing sacrifices I ever seen a girl do...if only most men met a girl like this on the sites, they'd hit the jackpot. Being a lonely village girl must be rough but you came into her life at the right time...you got this man...good luck.

Thank you for sharing that story Broomstick.  It should serve as a cautionary tale.

I tend to agree with you, a little, that its not a scam, but honestly myself I don't know.  But for the OP, if she is real, and you have many supporters here, you need to get a grip.  Get some pride to start - get a job and get somewhere proper to live.  I suppose this would impress her.  Do you think she'll be living in your car with  you????

[calmissile]

 

[Bounder]

Hi Geoffrey

Sounds scammy - but as you are a guy asking for help

Is THIS the place ?

http://tinyurl.com/yddazx7z

That's only about a 100 km from Nizhny, but the guy said 200.  I found a Maza Forest closer to 200km.  Maybe she is a forest nymph spreading magic dust.  He doesn't respond and I suspect this thread is done.  Kudos to the Hairy Boris that concocted this idea and story.  It is fascinating!

[Bounder]

Has anyone directly answered the question on this thread? 

NO, it is not normal, it is RETARDED.

Do you have doubts?  Travel to meet her and find out!

Can't do?  Wrong forum, sorry.  There isn't any forum for you.  Who accepts unemployment and homelessness at the same time?

There's a mountain.  it's tall.  You'll have to climb it.  You aren't even anywhere near the base of the mountain. 

Get your ass up on the mountain.

[Doll]

Is it normal? Nooooooo! The girl is desperate to come to the USA, that's all.
I am not 100% sure  but as far as I know most of young people in RF have internet AT LEAST on their phones.
I guess, yes- one can own the room and sell it.

[Doll]

 "No Mobil service or in home internet"?
Ha-ha-ha! OMG!

[BillyB]

The girl is desperate to come to the USA, that's all.

Before coming to that conclusion, we must first figure out if our OP is dealing with a girl. Welcome back Doll. 

[Doll]

"Dealing" meaning what?
Regardless, my conclusion is 99.99% right. 0.01% is for she doesn't exist)) Or he))
Ah, I got it! Haha

( I go to Russia every year and can tell you guys that "no internet" is nonsense now. Years ago- maybe but not now.
It is cheap and works perfect).

[msmob]

That's only about a 100 km from Nizhny, but the guy said 200.  I found a Maza Forest closer to 200km.  Maybe she is a forest nymph spreading magic dust.  He doesn't respond and I suspect this thread is done.  Kudos to the Hairy Boris that concocted this idea and story.  It is fascinating!

Hi matey !

I checked Beeline and MTS and the OP's friend has 3G in 'MY' Maza - on Beeline ....

[Doll]

I didn't find this MAZA. What's the Russian for it?
Internet is EVERYWHERE  now.

[msmob]

( I go to Russia every year and can tell you guys that "no internet" is nonsense now. Years ago- maybe but not now.
It is cheap and works perfect).

I don't know where YOU go, Doll..but a quick zoom out on this map shows PLENTY of non 3 or 4G coverage..

http://novgorodskaya-obl.beeline.ru/customers/beeline-on-map/?v=on-map&nl=_4G&ln=44.21441996938996&lt=57.23166139805202&z=4&wt=0&na=now&

Take a train journey from say - Sochi to Moscow - and even with a Wifi router - you will be without data connectivity for long periods

[Doll]

Oh, found it.

[Doll]

msmob , Internet is on each cell phone. Remember- the girl is looking for the "international" marriage? With no Internet? Give me a break!
If she goes  to Internet café, then there is Internet there. Makes sense?

[msmob]

I didn't find this MAZA. What's the Russian for it?
Internet is EVERYWHERE  now.

My suggestion:

Маза
Nizhny Novgorod Oblast
Russia
606582

I posted the link to the place up-thread  - IF it s the one

BTW The Dacha we stayed n August is 2 km from the main road / rail link to 'Abkhazia' - NO wired internet and I only got - intermittent 3G by buying a 4G router and sticking it to the window..

There are lots of places less than 4Km from Sochi that don't have 3 or 4G and we turned down a place because there was no data coverage

[Doll]

I found this place

[msmob]

msmob , Internet is on each cell phone. Remember- the girl is looking for the "international" marriage? With no Internet? Give me a break!
If she goes  to Internet café, then there is Internet there. Makes sense?

Good point ...

Except  that one of the ladies I suggested to the guys recently ( Lady #2) has a Samsung Galaxy 8 and no decent internet at her home - and she is trying to marry, internationally;)

[Doll]

Another point- she works for the hospital that means there is internet there.
I have Galaxy "for Russia" with good internet.
My older son has a place in the mountains - just a small village. Everybody there (even teenagers) has phones with internet- at least in every household.
Anyway , it is not that important- the age gap is.
He asked if it was normal for Russia, my answer is NO.

[Anotherkiwi]

Another point- she works for the hospital that means there is internet there.
I have Galaxy "for Russia" with good internet.
My older son has a place in the mountains - just a small village. Everybody there (even teenagers) has phones with internet- at least in every household.
Anyway , it is not that important- the age gap is.
He asked if it was normal for Russia, my answer is NO.

Don't worry - in this case, everyone agrees with you!