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Offline YoungBuck

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Writing too fast/soon?
« on: February 27, 2013, 09:36:30 PM »
I was curious to know if there is such a thing as a three day rule for writing back and forth. I normally fire off an email reply as soon as I get one. If I leave it for another day, or later, then I will never get back to it. I dont want to give the impression that I am just lurking around waiting for an answer (e.g. being clingy), but I also know myself, and that one email reply that comes naturally after reading an email, will take a few days to compose, if I get to it again.

Any experience on this?

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Re: Writing too fast/soon?
« Reply #1 on: February 27, 2013, 10:09:49 PM »

I've never heard of that rule and if it is a rule, it's a bad one.

If a woman likes you, she'd want to read your words everyday or at least after she sends you a letter. If things are going smooth, don't wait too long before asking for her phone number. If you don't make the moves or too slow doing it, another guy will.
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Re: Writing too fast/soon?
« Reply #2 on: February 28, 2013, 11:20:04 AM »
You never know.
You could be writing someone who writes 20 guys every day.

Until you meet someone, you really haven't met.

Up to you..but I'd toss the handle 'youngbuck'   :welcome: anyway
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Re: Writing too fast/soon?
« Reply #3 on: February 28, 2013, 11:36:53 AM »
I thought the 3 day rule was put to rest after the movie "Swingers" in 1996?

You never know.
You could be writing someone who writes 20 guys every day.

Until you meet someone, you really haven't met.

Worse than that you might be paying to correspond with a dude :)
I would try to find out who you are writing to before you spend too much time on it.

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Re: Writing too fast/soon?
« Reply #4 on: February 28, 2013, 05:43:21 PM »
Buck, try to write emails in any foreign language and you WILL have a "so many days" rule.

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Re: Writing too fast/soon?
« Reply #5 on: March 10, 2013, 09:56:09 AM »
I'm serious with one RW and the only time  issue I've come across is being to impatient with moving the relationship forward to more serious levels.  Trust in each other comes with learning details of who you both are plus time.  You should write when you have a natural desire to - one or two days or a week.  Be relaxed and and enjoy the experience!  :D

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Re: Writing too fast/soon?
« Reply #6 on: March 10, 2013, 12:31:22 PM »
Starting to write the same day you got divorced does seem a bit fast.  :P
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Re: Writing too fast/soon?
« Reply #7 on: March 10, 2013, 04:05:00 PM »
YoungBuck

In case the lady is writing to 20 guys everyday, you need to answer some questions.  If she doesn't answer, move on.

If she writes too many "Dear YoungBuck" - move on, because it is most likely "copy and paste" letter.   

If she writes your name by mistake, for example "OldBuck", move on

I do not know about you, but I moved on when she writes too many "dreaming" romantic.  (most likely copy and paste).

I like real letters and will accept some romantic details but not too much or too dreamy

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Re: Writing too fast/soon?
« Reply #8 on: March 11, 2013, 10:07:24 AM »
Starting to write the same day you got divorced does seem a bit fast.  :P

Not really. I was in the middle of mine when I started.  :P
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