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Experienced / What is an MOB'er?
« Last post by 2tallbill on Yesterday at 12:37:08 PM »
I will now offer my answer.
A MOB'er (the modern day version) is someone who gets up off his arse, gets on a plane and meets a woman in a foreign country with the hopes of marrying her down the line.

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Experienced / What is an MOB'er?
« Last post by 2tallbill on Yesterday at 12:36:56 PM »

No offense meant with the following:


What is an average MOBer, and how do you differ?  I don't know, GQ, I've read your posts going way back, and your story of meeting, living life, age gap, etc., seems to echo commonalities with many other that I've read and is also divergent from many others.   Nothing wrong with that as all of our stories have some aspects in common as well as differences.  What I don't understand is the constant need to distance yourself from the elusive, enigmatic, and I reckon stereotypical profile (whatever that is) of an "MOB'er".  So what exactly is it?  (anyone?)


Perhaps a good thread topic but here would be as good a place as any..

Seems to me that they project what they wish to believe.  Some guys will inevitably fit the bill and others won't.


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Experienced / Re: only a desperate dumb man would search R/U women
« Last post by 2tallbill on Yesterday at 12:26:39 PM »
After 5 years of on and off searching for a wife from Russia/Ukraine,  and 2 very miserable trips to Ukraine to meet what only turns out to be typical R/U woman scammers and their agency , I finally realized that only a very stupid desperate man would search R/U women. Sure some of you guys have got and or will get very lucky to find a good honest R/U woman but thousands and thousands of men just like me have only got and or will only get scammed into losing lots of $ and wasting lots of time again and again time after time after time. 
 So I haven't even bothered or cared to search any more R/U women for about a year now because Russian Love Match and Anastasia Web very well proved and have shown so well how much of an easy 90% of the more attractive R/U women on the Internet are just scams/scammers  . Even if you do find a real sincere beautiful woman as I'm sure I  did a few times you will most likely do as I did and turn her off and away from you because you can't just go hop on a plane to go see her until you know for sure she is real and sincere about trying to form a meaningful relationship with you that would hopefully lead to mirage.  And she sure won't like you acting like a detective interrogating her to find out if she is for real or not .
Since I finally pulled my head out of my ass and wised up about R/U women on the internet and went totally Latin  I had the best of luck way beyond my expectations with  so many  beautiful Latin women  that were really and truly serious about marriage no matter how young and  beautiful they were.  I did correspond with a few women that were only looking for presents and a good time but they really didn't try to hide their intentions much at all.    Latin scams/ women scammers were almost non existent in my  search before I found my current gf-fiance. The reason for this seems to be that Latin women for the most part are more religious which seems to give them higher morals , better family and cultural values ,total dedication and loyalty to their man. I don't think any R/U woman would ever drag me into church just so she could give thanks to God for bringing me into her life.  Two Latin girls did this to me even though they knew I'm totally not religious  .  All the Latin women I corresponded with really despised all the Latin men in their country as cheaters,beaters, drunks and lazy. Gringos are definitely unique and very desired with the Latin women and It sure nice to be noticed by a lot of Latin women on the internet and when I visited Brazil and Colombia .
You should know your really stupid and desperate to search R/U women when all the scammer web-sites  on the whole Internet are about 99% R/U scams/scammers . :cluebat: The only so called Latin woman scammer site I was able to find is almost all about R/U scams/scammers  . I'm sure there is a good bit of Latin scams/scammers going on but I  had almost no problems what so ever probably because I stayed away from agencies and women who showed any kind of insincerity about showing me she was for real and wanting a serious relationship.  At the beginning of my search , 2 women insisted that I must first show my-self on a web-cam. This really told me that I was now searching women who were for the most part real and very serious about finding their soul-mate.
The best Latin sites I used are latineuro and latinamericancupid. I really like LAC  because the site has unlimited /unrestricted online chatting for $25 a month. Also I really like that the women will hide their profile when they are no longer available and many of them do this very soon which really shows how serious,  honest and loyal to their man that they are .   When I would chat  with the girls  many times we would go to MSN to chat , exchange photos and sometimes have a web cam/voice chat . Most of the time it was a very good connection to see and hear each other .   The girl that I'm dating now also has high speed Internet and we see and talk to each other every day like we are sitting across the table from each other. There is absolutely no better way , besides in-person, to get to know each other this way to find out if we are compatible or not. If not for MSN , I really feel I would have wasted a lot more time with this other girl I had started a fiance visa with.  On my MSN list at one time I had about 30  Latin women and several of them are now engaged or in a serious relationship .Further more I could easily get into 30 serious relationships with almost any good looking Latin woman before I could even find one ok looking for real  R/U woman that is honest and really serious about a relationship with me that would hopefully lead to marriage .  I estimate that I at best had about a 5% chance of finding a R/U woman that fit all my desired requirements of the type of woman that I want to marry . As to where I guess that I easily have about a 90% chance of finding a  good looking Latin woman that fits all my desired requirements of the type of woman I want to marry. I now feel so stupid that I was really getting so desperate with R/U women by lowering so many of my requirements so low that would have absolutely no doubt led to a unhappy mirage that would for sure have failed .

Only an idiot would lump all women in two countries together.
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Trip Reports / A trip within a trip report (2023)
« Last post by 2tallbill on Yesterday at 12:21:10 PM »
Bill - 9 years! Oh my lord. I am truly hoping this journey will stop in 2 years at most. I thought I hit the jackpot a few months after my divorce when I found the most beautiful Ukrainian girlfriend who had a masters degree and spoke English well. Now it is going on 4 years and we are no longer together and the search continues. I am optimistic but I have gone an entire lifetime without meeting my soulmate so another 5 years could be in the cards.

But as we age our expectations are lowered and tempered. I just want to someone who can be a good friend everyday and stimulate my mind. I am very lucky to meet some beautiful women but I'm realistic that soon I'll enter into an age where I won't attract the kind of women I still desire.

I'll just regard the blonde chess champion as a nice rendezvous.

The solution is to focus and don't waste time/date any woman that you would not marry. You should always/only pursue 
a top level woman. Looks, brains, character and a woman who wants you at least as much as you want her.

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Odds and Ends / International travel
« Last post by 2tallbill on Yesterday at 12:06:17 PM »
but...
what becomes of the progeny of those who have been the white man's slaves for centuries, when it was a
CRIME for them to be taught to read and write in this country, black people have spent more time under slavery,
then they have being freeno other group in the USA was ever treated this way, even Native Americans were
taught to read maybe this has some connection 'to the problem'

Good lord! 100% of those were teaching laws were State laws enacted by Democrats, surely you know that.
Your point on Natives is even worse. Blacks have far higher college degree rate than Natives. The Dems/Left
don't think that educating black kids equally to others is a good thing. That was the point of my previous post.
The left in the US has a long history of holding Blacks back


if you raise up Black People, a hand-up and not a hand-out
they are not an island unto themselves, they are a big part of this nation
we will ALL be raised...

You are preaching to the choir, however Democrats/the left don't agree with you.
The hand out is most important because they don't believe that blacks can make it
without them.

They don't think that educating black kids equally to others is a good thing. That was
the point of my previous post. The left in the US has a long history of holding Blacks
back

The left = racism and controlling/restricting your behavior.
The right = helping you be the best with accountability when you make bad decisions.

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Odds and Ends / Re: international travel
« Last post by krimster2 on Yesterday at 10:02:49 AM »
you ain't pronouncin "international" correctly....
it's "internationale" like the French Tovarisch

http://www.marxists.org/history/international/comintern/english-appeal.htm

maybe i'm a sympathizer subvertin ya'll, so ya don't continue as tools of the plutocrats and autocrats, or maybe i'm just a jokester
even I don't really know which...

either way, I plan on welcoming our future social benefactors
who are almost certain to arrive by the end of the next decade
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Odds and Ends / Re: international travel
« Last post by Grumpy on Yesterday at 09:36:12 AM »
A Florida man was stunned to come back from a European trip and – upon checking his phone bill – realize that he had been charged a staggering $143,000 by his phone company for using his device while overseas.

ABC Action News reported that Rene Remund and his wife had toured Switzerland last September and had even gone to a T-Mobile store to share his travel plan with his phone provider before leaving.

But the gigantic bill apparently reflected using some 9.5 gigabytes of data while overseas on a phone that had not been set up for international roaming.

http://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2024/apr/18/143000-t-mobile-bill
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Ukrainian Front Discussion / Re: The Struggle For Ukraine
« Last post by krimster2 on Yesterday at 08:57:03 AM »
son of a gun!!!!

GOOD NEWS!
Ukraine bill may actually get voted on next week!!!!

BAD NEWS!
they're gonna throw out the old bill and start over with a new bills to separate Ukraine/Israel aid
so this is gonna take s'more time

meanwhile 'Moscow Marjorie"

Marjorie Taylor Greene has introduced an amendment to the foreign aid bill to require members of Congress who vote in favor of providing aid to Ukraine to join the Ukraine's military.

http://www.newsweek.com/marjorie-taylor-greene-ukraine-aid-billl-join-army-mike-johnson-republicans-1891582

after this stunt, it'd be freakin hilarious if Ukraine gave 'honorary' commisions in the Ukrainian Army to the yes voters

if the bill passes, there ain't NEVER gonna be a Trump Tower in Moscva City Center!!!

our 'Comedy Club Congress"
in response to 'Moscow Marjorie's amendment, a counter-amendment has been filed naming Moscow Marjorie as Putin's Envoy

http://crooksandliars.com/2024/04/rep-jared-moscowitz-submits-amendment-make





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Odds and Ends / Re: international travel
« Last post by krimster2 on Yesterday at 08:50:51 AM »
but...
what becomes of the progeny of those who have been the white man's slaves for centuries, when it was a CRIME for them to be taught to read and write
in this country, black people have spent more time under slavery, then they have being free
no other group in the USA was ever treated this way, even Native Americans were taught to read
maybe this has some connection 'to the problem'

in case you wanna assert 'that's all in the past'
I'm old enuff to remember segregation, and went to a segregated school (until it was forcibly integrated by federal law)

black people have been 'separate and unequal' in America from DAY ONE
do you even acknowledge this?
if so, what remedy do you propose?

if you raise up Black People, a hand-up and not a hand-out
they are not an island unto themselves, they are a big part of this nation
we will ALL be raised...

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Odds and Ends / Re: international travel
« Last post by 2tallbill on Yesterday at 08:07:54 AM »
we all have prejudices

My 33 year old son won't date a redhead, he thinks they are ugly. I totally stopped dating women
under 5-5 when I was in my late 40's.

The difference is with how left and right do something is stark.

***Over simplification alert ***

The left throe money, government regulations and government employees at a problem,
 vs
The right tries to fix it.

Problem, Black and brown kids do worse in school that Whites and Asians.

Left solution: Spend double the money per student in inter city Detroit than they do in
West Palm Beach Florida

Right solution: Let parents pick which schools the kids go to.
_____________________________________________________

University problem

White and Asians graduate from MIT in Stem fields at a far greater percentage than black or brown kids.

Left solution lower the entrance standards.

Right solution: keep the entrance standards or even raise them, but send the kid to Boston College.

26 to 28 percent of black students graduate from college, a full six years after admission at MIT.
Lowering the standards hurt the black students because they wouldn't have struggled at a
different school. Of the 28% who graduate most of them change fields to something less
difficult.

The lefty solution seems kinder unless you dig into the results.
What's better? To feel good and superior? Or to fix the problem?

http://web.mit.edu/fnl/vol/103/emanuel.html

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