Questions on Sex

[52topps]

How often should a normal couple RW and AM be having sex? Is the sex not good rough sex once in a while. Nobody likes a dead fish. But if my future woman was approaching me naked or all sexy and trying to have sex then I would be more than willing to give her what she needs.? What is normal in a marriage that is cross cultural?

[BC]

How often should a normal couple RW and AM be having sex? Is the sex not good rough sex once in a while. Nobody likes a dead fish. But if my future woman was approaching me naked or all sexy and trying to have sex then I would be more than willing to give her what she needs.? What is normal in a marriage that is cross cultural?

May I ask how old you are?

[52topps]

43

[BC]

43

How often should a normal couple RW and AM be having sex? Is the sex not good rough sex once in a while. Nobody likes a dead fish. But if my future woman was approaching me naked or all sexy and trying to have sex then I would be more than willing to give her what she needs.? What is normal in a marriage that is cross cultural?

I thought much, much younger based on the question.  RW are exactly that... Women..  so as always the frequency and type of sex will depend on the sexual desires of both partners in the relationship.

Do you have experience with long term relationships?

[52topps]

Yes, 10 years. I was under the impression that sex frequency is pretty much the same around the world. More in the beginning and as the relationship progresses then the frequency drops off over time? Yes/No I have no experience with FSU women thou.

[ML]

How often should a normal couple RW and AM be having sex?  What is normal in a marriage that is cross cultural?

You have noted one key here . . . the 'cross cultural.'

Although most guys here don't know it . . . there are different positions required in these cross cultural situations.

In fact one position is  the modified cross.  Best learn and practice it before you attempt with an FSU woman.

[52topps]

  so funny.   That's an easy one to know

[BC]

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2137297/Munich-nymphomaniac-Second-victim-weeping-street.html

Since I know German I could try to find her contact info for ya.. 



Otherwise IME women are more or less as horny as men are.

[52topps]

That's funny. I don't need a sex maniac. Not sure I could handle three times a day. I'm good with 4 a week. Any more than that and I will need to rest. Maybe stay at home and rest all day while she goes to work.

I just want a woman who loves me who is attractive. 30-45 range.

[Larry1]

Yes, 10 years. I was under the impression that sex frequency is pretty much the same around the world. More in the beginning and as the relationship progresses then the frequency drops off over time? Yes/No I have no experience with FSU women thou.

I suspect that fewer RW will engage in the practice that many AW wives have of using sex as a carrot or stick: granting sex when the husband has done something the wife likes and withholding sex when the husband has done something the wife dislikes.

[52topps]

That's one reason I am looking for a foreign woman. Right now I'm leaning on Belarus. I just want a nice calm happy relationship.

Also thanks for all your help, some throw me under the bus but offer little help.

[Faux Pas]

That's one reason I am looking for a foreign woman. Right now I'm leaning on Belarus. I just want a nice calm happy relationship.

Also thanks for all your help, some throw me under the bus but offer little help.

You wouldn't recognize help if it bit you on the ass

[52topps]

Faux Pas  If you feel that way then please stop leaving comments and trying to help me. Thanks

[BillyB]

I suspect that fewer RW will engage in the practice that many AW wives have of using sex as a carrot or stick: granting sex when the husband has done something the wife likes and withholding sex when the husband has done something the wife dislikes.

Agree, FSU women are less likely to use sex as a weapon. Sex is a need. Of course every woman is different and it's still wise a guy chooses a woman who enjoys sex with the same frequency he enjoys.

[Turboguy]

Some women love sex.  Some women like sex.  Some women tolerate sex.  Some women don't much like it but put up with it for the sake of the marriage and some don't like sex.  Some women see it as a tool to snag a man.   Some women use sex as a tool to manipulate their husbands.  Russian (and Belorussian) women are women and can fall into any category.   Find one you are compatible with and you should be fine. 

[ML]

Some women love sex.  Some women like sex.  Some women tolerate sex.  Some women don't much like it but put up with it for the sake of the marriage and some don't like sex.  Some women see it as a tool to snag a man.   Some women use sex as a tool to manipulate their husbands.  Russian (and Belorussian) women are women and can fall into any category.   Find one you are compatible with and you should be fine.

I agree up to you last sentence.  Sure, it helps to find someone you are INITIALLY compatible with.

But the woman (man) often changes regarding your first points over time . . . and the compatibility disappears.

While well intentioned your advice is naive and is akin to stating that if one only purchases stocks that will perform well over time . . . everything will be fine.

Yes, we must try . . . but in what . . . half the cases, failure will still occur.

[Turboguy]

While well intentioned your advice is naive and is akin to stating that if one only purchases stocks that will perform well over time . . . everything will be fine.

Yes, we must try . . . but in what . . . half the cases, failure will still occur.

Well, I do my best to try and pick stocks that will perform well over time.  I probably have as much luck at that as guys do in picking women they hope will stay active sexually.   I could have suggested finding a nympho but the odds are many would not be able to satisfy her and she will end up doing anyone she came across.   Notice I did say "should be"   Life is a crap shoot.

[Larry1]

I agree up to you last sentence.  Sure, it helps to find someone you are INITIALLY compatible with.

But the woman (man) often changes regarding your first points over time . . . and the compatibility disappears.

While well intentioned your advice is naive and is akin to stating that if one only purchases stocks that will perform well over time . . . everything will be fine.

Yes, we must try . . . but in what . . . half the cases, failure will still occur.

I think this is true.

[2tallbill]

How often should a normal couple RW and AM be having sex? Is the sex not good rough sex once in a while. Nobody likes a dead fish. But if my future woman was approaching me naked or all sexy and trying to have sex then I would be more than willing to give her what she needs.? What is normal in a marriage that is cross cultural?

Regarding the FSU;
There are girls who will want to have sex with you only on your birthday and
there are girls who think that thrice daily is insufficient to scratch that itch.   
There are girls who know how to do advanced calculus in their head and there
are girl who can't count to eleven without taking off their shoes.
There are girls who can sing like angels and there are girls that make the neighbors
dog cry when they sing. There are girls who know 5 languages and there are girls
who barely can spell their names.

You want is a girl who matches you and is freaky the same way that you are
freaky.

How do you do that? You ask them. Birthday sex girl knows who she is just
like multi-girl knows. Many FSUW don't have many of the hangups and taboos
about sex that many Western women do.

Don't ask these questions during your first conversation, but when you get to
know the girl a bit ask her about frequency and whether she likes sex in a coat
closet at a dinner party or whatever else might drive you wild.

Udachi!

Bill

[dragonkid]

.Many FSUW don't have many of the hangups and taboos
about sex that many Western women do.

My ex was told a blowjob was for prostitutes, i pretty much dropped to the floor laughing]
Going down on a woman is "strange" for men to do

What i noticed was, at the start of the relationship, sex was good. We had long sessions in bed, where i wouldn't be able to walk the next day because my legs gave out. Once she started work, she would come back tired and stressed, after 30mins of sex she would tell me "can you finish now?". You can mould a woman, but if she is in the wrong environment, work stress, stress within the relationship, sex just goes downhill. A few have told me on here that sex frequency does go downhill after marriage. I just know that western women do put out, and sex isn't that bad, women do vary, but before marriage you can get it daily. I dated a bulgarian girl, and the sex was hot, rough, and as much as i wanted. 

Read this (Chart of sex frequency, russia tops the list)
http://chartsbin.com/view/uya

[ML]

Read this (Chart of sex frequency, russia tops the list)
http://chartsbin.com/view/uya

But they are not very satisfied with this frequent sex.

http://chartsbin.com/view/4f8

[2tallbill]

Going down on a woman is "strange" for men to do

Sounds strange to me too. I've never gone down on a woman with another man
present or participating  .

[ML]

Sounds strange to me too. I've never gone down on a woman with another man
present or participating  .

A big part of kindergarten is teaching to share. 

Did you miss those lessons ?

Also, doesn't it depend on how far down you go ?

[dragonkid]

I went to a sex shop to go pick up a few things in russia, the woman chased me out the shop 

 Apparently men don't do a lot of things...... To be fair, sex in her region sounded dead, more like bust a nut and rollover mentality.

[ML]

I went to a sex shop to go pick up a few things in russia, the woman chased me out the shop

A 'few' things ?

That's just outright perverse !!

[2tallbill]

A big part of kindergarten is teaching to share. 

Did you miss those lessons ?

Also, doesn't it depend on how far down you go ?

You mean you went below the boobies 

[ML]

You mean you went below the boobies 

Wouldn't that be sort of kinky ?

= = = = = = =

Also did you hear that Bill Clinton got in trouble again when he was out 'kissing the babies' for Hillary.

He was targeting babies that were breast feeding.

[Muzh]

How often should a normal couple RW and AM be having sex? Is the sex not good rough sex once in a while. Nobody likes a dead fish. But if my future woman was approaching me naked or all sexy and trying to have sex then I would be more than willing to give her what she needs.? What is normal in a marriage that is cross cultural?

Dude!!


I need to compose myself, give me a sec.


 


Okay, here's the "skinny" on these babes.


You make sure they are satisfied. Simple.


They are not nymphos, on the average, but the DO like sex. Like any other woman. The variation is that AW are a bit confused with all this "morality" men impose on them and then the same men complain that they are vicious bitches that use sex as a weapon.


Simply, don't impose any puritan beliefs on her and things will be a bit natural. They like to be romanced and the better job you do at romancing the better will be when she takes care of you. And you you don't know "romancing" better brush up on that at your local library. Go to the DIY section and get a copy of "Romancing for Dummies." I'm very serious.


If you can only handle 4 times a week, most probably she will be happy. The moment you start behaving bad, there's no soup for you. (With apologies to Sienfeld.)


A vial of Cialis will come in handy during the honeymoon. Also, get a new bed.


Just pick up cardio reps for your endurance.


Have fun.

[Dillinshaw]

52 Topps, I think your question is impossible to answer. I do not think FSU women are really any different at all from American Women. With my American ex-wife, she had her good weeks and her bad weeks. In her good weeks, when she was well rested and got lots of sleep, she was happy at home and happy at her job, and she was able to and had the time to exercise several times that week, she was very horny and wanted us to have sex about 5 times per week usually. In her bad weeks, when she was very sleep deprived for various reasons and thus very tired and stressed out, was having a bad week at her job and just was in a generally sour mood, she only wanted sex perhaps twice that week.

Sometimes women have good weeks and want lots of sex. Sometimes women have bad weeks and want very little sex. I do not think American women and FSU women vary very much in that regard. But you should talk to some of the guys here that have been married to both American women, as well as FSU women.