People Dressing Badly in Ukraine

[Trenchcoat]

So this is something I have noticed recently. Looking up on Fdate the women seem to be dressing badly on there. Even Elena's Models they are doing so though with better posing and photography work. The old studio photography with the woman dressed up in a nice dress is pretty much out the window their now. Maybe the guys found when they came to meet her she just didn't wear that stuff anyway and felt duped lol.

Even looking up the men on Fdate for Ukraine (yes there are even some Ukrainian men in there but not as many) they are dressed poorly. Brightly coloured t-shirts and shorts, some are quite literally looking a right state like overgrown boys just badly dressed. I mean I don't expect everyone to jog around in a suit but some of them look pathetic even from another guys perspective.

I mean I get the whole being who you are and not putting across a false picture of yourself so as people don't feel duped and feeling reasonably comfortable in what you wear. However, it just seems that dressing standards have just tanked it out in Ukraine compared to what they were a number of years ago. It's kind of such a shame to see, people walking around looking a state when they used to look so much better not so long back.

What I've learnt along the way (as I wouldn't say I've been the best dressed or have become the best dressed) is that you first have to go out and buy bad clothing as the first step before wearing it. It is better to consider if what you are buying is bad looking clothing I think and whether it is a good idea to buy it. A bit like Olga's friend Lena with the stuff she buys without guidance.

That said it may not necessarily be a case that all women have to wear dresses, but I think if not then being very selective and carefully staging the whole look a girl (or guy) wishes to make is important. For example with Olga's friend Lena I would say if she is going with black military boots then perhaps a plain black short crop top, a short black jacket (probably not leather biker jacket though - too many FSW seem to be wearing them and it doesn't suit many) and then some kind of short black trousers (not jeans) that are quite close fitting. Something like that might not look bad and do it for some guy who gets off on the military bad girl look.

[olgac]

Yes I agree that it might be a good look.
But I still think men would prefer a more feminine look.
I am for having at least 1 or 2 professional photos in a profile.
And yes dresses are nice 😊
I think if it works out for a couple they can anyways change a bit the
Way they dress. There is nothing like compliments that give a woman motivation to dress up 😊

Unfortunately now that there is a war going on people might not be in a mood to dress up 😔

[krimster2]

it's NOT easy finding clothes in Ukraine
it's NOT easy affording expensive clothing in Ukraine

it's a problem for the wimen there
their problem, is yur big opportunity

[Trenchcoat]

Yes I agree that it might be a good look.
But I still think men would prefer a more feminine look.
I am for having at least 1 or 2 professional photos in a profile.
And yes dresses are nice 😊
I think if it works out for a couple they can anyways change a bit the
Way they dress. There is nothing like compliments that give a woman motivation to dress up 😊

Unfortunately now that there is a war going on people might not be in a mood to dress up 😔

I agreed 1-2 Professional Photos are a good idea coupled I think with 1-2 Well Done Personal Photos for men and women. So 3-4 Photos in general for a Dating Profile. Many more Photos than that can be too many I would say about 5 photos as the upper limit max. For Personally taken Photos it's important to read up on pointers for taking good photos and check them on Photofeeler to see which ones come out best and use those. Reason for using good personal photos is to make the viewer feel there is a real person there and not just staged not real life image. However Professional photos do really lift up a dating profile and pull the viewer in and make them buy into that person I think, they are with their weight in gold I think. Time over again I would get Professional Photos done and I would use this company:

http://www.heysaturday.co

I think they have a good take on it. The have a good use of colour and probably more importantly for many of them give a sense 'of who that person is'. One photo studio photo is great but a photo in the person's favourite place/doing their favourite thing tells the viewer volumes, i.e, out running, cycling, reading a book, listening to music, hanging out in a bar, etc, etc. All too often on Fdate I saw photos of people just stood in random places, wearing random clothing with no profile description and not having a clue about them. That's a pretty bad place to have to work from and can lead to people not meeting the right person and lots of wasted time. I think if a person defines the one thing they are most into in at least one photo then it can show that person instantly what that person is about and whether they would get on with that person potentially.

Personal photos I would leave out if a decent score could not be obtained on Photofeeler as it's better they don't detract from the good professional photos. But good personal photos can help I think.

I definitely think a lady in a nice dress appeals to a broad range of men you are right there. If going for a particular type of person like say the militaristic combative look then it's best that that is done as well as possible also. For inspiration on that one look at such looks from the Movies, etc. For a female with such a look I think pairing it with something feminine like a crop top can give it the edge. An Architecture lecturer once said to a class I was in that whether you decide on a modern design or a traditional design do it as well as you can, don't settle for a watered down messy version. So a good traditional building will have finely detailed cast iron guttering that looks the real deal and not cheap tacky looking. A modern building meanwhile will have built in hidden guttering on the roof that can't be seen from the pavement and everything will be streamlined and flush. Point being is if your friend is going for a certain type of look is to pull it off as best as she can (and in a feminine way).

A dress coupled with other photos in that look may work as well I think as dresses are normally a winner with the guys.

If your friend really wants to sick the ball out of the field in a dress she should try something like this:

http://www.aritzia.com/us/en/product/contour-mini-tube-dress/118308.html

The Boob Tube is the best!!! It really draws a man's attention and plays on his mind. The idea that it's just a quick pull down and the boobs come right out and a quick pull up of the bottom of the dress and out comes the girl's bum makes this a superb choice for the lady to wear!

[Trenchcoat]

it's NOT easy finding clothes in Ukraine
it's NOT easy affording expensive clothing in Ukraine

it's a problem for the wimen there
their problem, is yur big opportunity

Why what have they done with all their nice clothing they used to wear? It can't have all disappeared suddenly surely?

[krimster2]

yes, it disappeared!
there was a clothing rapture in Ukraine...
the dresses all flew up to heaven
leaving only the unsavory clothing down here on earth

[olgac]

Very cool dress, Trench, and inexpensive!
Though hard to wear for a woman with big boobs unless she wears a corset.

[ML]

Very cool dress, Trench, and inexpensive!
Though hard to wear for a woman with big boobs unless she wears a corset.

Olga, would this do the job?

http://tinyurl.com/2s3nvfj7

[olgac]

Olga, would this do the job?

Yes this is what i meant by corset 😊I was more thinking of myself, for my friend she might get away with the taped ones, the ones you tape to the skin on the bottom

[Trenchcoat]

Very cool dress, Trench, and inexpensive!
Though hard to wear for a woman with big boobs unless she wears a corset.

Thanks Corsets are good and/or plenty of cleavage coming out of the top 

Main thing is to get one with as good as decent material as you can to avoid it looking cheap/tacky. Maybe a bit of a shiny version or something.

I remember when I was younger as a Uni Student on Freshers night there was a reasonably facially attractive, fairly tall girl with long brown slightly crimped hair wearing a shiny Red  Boob Tube Dress. All the guys were drooling over her including myself, she was getting a lot of looks from the guys. So I think it's definitely one worth giving a go if only to see if any difference in results. Again. Light black tights go well with it.

I sometimes wonder if I should start up a dating make over agency for girls 🤔

[Trenchcoat]

yes, it disappeared!
there was a clothing rapture in Ukraine...
the dresses all flew up to heaven
leaving only the unsavory clothing down here on earth

Lol 😄

I'm wondering if women just don't feel in the mood now, like you allured too if they are losing loved ones in the war then they probably aren't in the mood to go around like a tart.

One girl looked pretty miserable, almost shell shocked like so all those missiles flying around there and sleepless nights probably aren't helping then electricity outages etc. Plus I guess with many men being away at the front less men to impress maybe. I noticed may single Mothers also in there, probably way more than before. Wouldn't mind guessing many might have lost their husbands in the War at the front quite possibly.

[olgac]

I sometimes wonder if I should start up a dating make over agency for girls 🤔

Well it's a business idea!

[olgac]

I'm wondering if women just don't feel in the mood now, like you allured too if they are losing loved ones in the war then they probably aren't in the mood to go around like a tart.

Yes I think You are right!