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Re: Life Continues
« Reply #250 on: January 14, 2018, 10:21:14 AM »
Hardly, if you bothered to ask her - she'd even tell you it was CRAP advice



I'm not going to contact her. I do know based on how you wrote it, it was your opinion the embassy was giving her bad advice, not her opinion.


BillyB, if you or he posts 'adviSe' contrary to my experience - and he's got  virtually none.. I'll post as such - lest some newbie thinks his ( or your )  'adviSE' is 'gold' ....  I don't 'dislike' someone I've never met - and quite often I meet folks from forums I have 'battles' with and keep in contact...



Just put your advice next to his and let people choose what makes sense. That's all you need to do without taking shots at others. What's the goal? To show you want to rescue newbies from those who are wrong? How much do you care about people? Did you tell your current wife you are a carrier of a sexually transmitted virus you believe your ex gave to you or is she in the dark about it?


quite often I meet folks from forums I have 'battles' with and keep in contact...



Are you inviting Trench out for dinner and will become buddies?



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Re: Life Continues
« Reply #251 on: January 14, 2018, 11:35:16 AM »

I'm not going to contact her. I do know based on how you wrote it, it was your opinion the embassy was giving her bad advice, not her opinion.

Given that you didn't read then and - clearly- have reading comprehension skills, now .. I'll remind you... It was not just 'my opinion'... it became hers.. :deadhorse:

Are you always this obtuse,  BillyB?


Just put your advice next to his and let people choose what makes sense.


Ah, you mean like now ...   ?  You are just another poster guilty of thinking you knew about folks lives better than they did ))  You clearly don't know the laws appertaining to Divorce / legal separation / in England/Wales ...

What's the goal? To show you want to rescue newbies from those who are wrong?

Ah we're back on Trench ?

That is - a crude way of putting it ...  I try to say why I differ, giving examples ...

How much do you care about people? Did you tell your current wife you are a carrier of a sexually transmitted virus you believe your ex gave to you or is she in the dark about it?

As I was pretty upset at being told AFTER the event - I think even you could figure out the answer ....  Which you would have known. ...My having posted how  and when ( and numerous other times)  to deal with such issues...  I made a thread on it .. perhaps you missed it ....  :ROFL:

Ah, but you contributed to some of those threads....

You really should see someone about your memory issues, BillyB ..I'm sure you weren't trying to stir the pot...

http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=21676.msg456982#msg456982



Did you notice that you are making a pillock of yourself, yet ?   ;D


Are you inviting Trench out for dinner and will became buddies?

You just never know, BillbyB ;)
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Re: Life Continues - Billy's knowledge of Divorce,etc., in the UK
« Reply #252 on: January 16, 2018, 03:21:57 AM »
As you suggested the 'advice' V was being given by the RU Consulate in the UK was only 'bad' in my opinion ...I thought I'd provide you with FACT ..

Here's what I was doing to prove I had no idea how to serve her legal notice and was doing due diligence:

http://www.gov.uk/divorce-missing-husband-wife

"You can get a divorce or end your civil partnership if you don’t know where your partner is or they’re presumed dead.

If they’re not presumed dead
The process might be quicker if you can find their current address. The ways you can do this include contacting their:

relatives (including children)
friends
last known employer
trade union or professional organisation"

Now tell us it was 'wise' of the Consulate to advise ignoring legal petitions ...

Yeah, BillyB ... 'right on the money' ...
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Re: Life Continues
« Reply #253 on: January 16, 2018, 05:52:55 PM »
I don't know Mobe you seem to be having the longest divorce proceeding in history, most would have been done by now. It can be done in as little as around a month if both sides are agreeable. From what I've heard from you on the past on it you split from your wife amicably and she was not interested in pursuing you to take you for all its worth.

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Re: Life Continues - Billy's knowledge of Divorce,etc., in the UK
« Reply #254 on: January 16, 2018, 10:52:33 PM »
Now tell us it was 'wise' of the Consulate to advise ignoring legal petitions ...





What you wrote years ago was the Russian Consulate was advising your ex to ignore YOU, not legal petitions you're now claiming. Maybe you like to follow people you don't like and harass them? I doubt you were even filing legal petitions. You wanted to stay married a little longer so her son can get permanent residency so he wouldn't have to pay a lot more at college if he were labeled a foreigner.
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Re: Life Continues
« Reply #255 on: January 17, 2018, 03:29:40 AM »
I don't know Mobe you seem to be having the longest divorce proceeding in history, most would have been done by now. It can be done in as little as around a month if both sides are agreeable. From what I've heard from you on the past on it you split from your wife amicably and she was not interested in pursuing you to take you for all its worth.

From what you've heard and your thinking are two openers from you that means you are going to post without a clue...

Cluebat...Until 5 years have past it can be difficult to divorce with the ease you imply without the cooperation of both parties.

In the interim I sought the legally separate....incl. our finances.



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Re: Life Continues - Billy's knowledge of Divorce,etc., in the UK
« Reply #256 on: January 17, 2018, 03:36:38 AM »



What you wrote years ago was the Russian Consulate was advising your ex to ignore YOU, not legal petitions you're now claiming. Maybe you like to follow people you don't like and harass them? I doubt you were even filing legal petitions. You wanted to stay married a little longer so her son can get permanent residency so he wouldn't have to pay a lot more at college if he were labeled a foreigner.

A classic howler from BillyB..

The legal separation I sought is a part of the legal process and the documents...when signed by both parties ( in front of witnesses) are highly unlikely to be reversed in a Divorce settlement.


Your 'doubt' was just more pure BillyB folly....




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Re: Life Continues
« Reply #257 on: January 17, 2018, 05:56:14 AM »
From what you've heard and your thinking are two openers from you that means you are going to post without a clue...

Cluebat...Until 5 years have past it can be difficult to divorce with the ease you imply without the cooperation of both parties.

In the interim I sought the legally separate....incl. our finances.

Well I can't imagine you duped her into signing something in your favour if her lawyers were present. So I'm guessing it was fairly even stevens what each held and/or she had no claim to more than roughly the 50 percent be a use there were no children of yours below 18 she could claim more because off.

I'm guessing there is still a lot of ago between the two of you if you have not moved it to a settlement by now. This is stupid if the final outcome can be disputed no longer as you're arguing over nothing and just wasting each others time that could be more happily and fruitfully spent elsewhere.

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Re: Life Continues
« Reply #258 on: January 17, 2018, 02:12:56 PM »
Well I can't imagine you duped her into signing something in your favour if her lawyers were present. So I'm guessing it was fairly even stevens what each held and/or she had no claim to more than roughly the 50 percent be a use there were no children of yours below 18 she could claim more because off.

I'm guessing there is still a lot of ago between the two of you if you have not moved it to a settlement by now. This is stupid if the final outcome can be disputed no longer as you're arguing over nothing and just wasting each others time that could be more happily and fruitfully spent elsewhere.

Is it just me, or are youR first few words always indicative of the bollox to follow ? )) 

You guessed wrong and simply didn't bother to read ...    Financials sorted - just the rubber stamp on us being legally married to sort - could that be any clearer ?

Look, this is BillyB's sandpit and I'm mindful that this thread should be about him - not 'us' .. ( rather your inattentiveness / trolling )

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Re: Life Continues - Billy's knowledge of Divorce,etc., in the UK
« Reply #259 on: January 17, 2018, 03:00:58 PM »
A classic howler from BillyB..





What you wrote is still on the internet. I'm not going to link it and embarrass you. If you want to link your words here to prove you're right, feel free to do so.
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Re: Life Continues
« Reply #260 on: January 17, 2018, 03:12:06 PM »
From what you've heard and your thinking are two openers from you that means you are going to post without a clue...


Moby --when you see -- posted by Trenchcoat --    that is enough to know it is clueless ! :tmi: :cluebat:
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Re: Life Continues - Billy's knowledge of Divorce,etc., in the UK
« Reply #261 on: January 17, 2018, 03:43:59 PM »



What you wrote is still on the internet. I'm not going to link it and embarrass you. If you want to link your words here to prove you're right, feel free to do so.

Dear BillyB,

You are 'at it' again..  I  have checked what I wrote - as you raised it.  Unlike you - I have a good memory and don't ask loaded questions - forgetting you'd asked them before ... (STD/STI Herpes thread - followed by another of your howlers - asking the same question - AGAIN )



I've 'missed' when you countered my due diligence in seeking a divorce / financial settlement that would involve both parties.

Now, you've had the Embassy ( Consulate, actually) 'advice' thang, spelled out in a manner a 3rd grade child could understand and if you're out to prove I over-estimated your reading comprehension ....


I am mindful that you will 'counter' with something irrelevant - so the floor is yours
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Re: Life Continues
« Reply #262 on: January 17, 2018, 03:48:40 PM »
Is it just me, or are you first few words always indicative of the bollox to follow ? ))  You guessed wrong and simply didn't bother to read ...    Financials sorted - just the rubber stamp on us being legally married to sort - could that be any clearer ?

Look, this is BillyB's sandpit and I'm mindful that this thread should be about him - not 'us' .. ( rather your inattentiveness / trolling )

You are very often unclear in what you say Moby just giving part of the situation so can sound superior ;)

I think it would be best if the mod could move this from when it diverged so as to not ruin Billy's  thread here as it's no doubt a good read on his journey in the FSU dating scene.

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Re: Life Continues
« Reply #263 on: January 17, 2018, 09:25:13 PM »

I think it would be best if the mod could move this from when it diverged so as to not ruin Billy's  thread here as it's no doubt a good read on his journey in the FSU dating scene.

Agreed

You are very often unclear in what you say Moby just giving part of the situation so can sound superior ;)


Then we can discuss ( or not ) your 'comprehension skills' / inattentiveness or need to know boundaries
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