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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #525 on: January 02, 2018, 10:06:13 PM »
Sorry 3 and 1/2 hours from London.  Amsterdam and other closer cities are 3 hours or less. 

My point is that anyone in Europe is far closer to Russia than from North America.  Here it's a minimum of 10 hours and with connecting flights usually.  In total it takes me 16-18 hours from my city to Moscow.   So an extra hour to you should mean nothing!

'Sorry' .. a bit like you suggesting you never dated one British girl in London - 'coz Russian women are more attractive'.. you are being a mite disingenuous..like any nation - there are attractive women...London has more than it's fair share.


The average flight time between London and Moscow is 3hrs and 53 minutes.. http://www.flight-durations.com/London-to-Moscow..I do believe my 'adding' 7 mins is far more accurate than your subtracting 23 ;)

BTW Kyiv is 3 hrs 18 mins...

I fully accept that New York to Moscow or Kyiv ( just over 9 hours - 1 mile different)  is 5 hours longer - but I think the time zone difference is the main 'killer' to making short trips



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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #526 on: January 02, 2018, 11:28:24 PM »
Dude I lived in London for a time, the biggest city in the UK.  I have to admit British girls are far less attractive than Russians on the whole, hence I didn't even bother asking one out.  I didn't have any problems finding girls from other cultures in London.  The UK is no more competitive than America, the rest of Europe or anywhere.   It basically comes down to the person.

You've just proven my point - you could not get a decent British girl in London - why do you think that is - the competition!
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #527 on: January 02, 2018, 11:52:44 PM »
You've just proven my point - you could not get a decent British girl in London - why do you think that is - the competition!

I interpreted Sting23's comment as, " I didn't see an attractive British girl", rather than his having any difficulty in 'pulling'...;)

Perhaps he can correct one of us ?!

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #528 on: January 03, 2018, 12:16:04 AM »
I interpreted Sting23's comment as, " I didn't see an attractive British girl", rather than his having any difficulty in 'pulling'...;)

Perhaps he can correct one of us ?!

Exactly my point...I literally didn't meet one British girl who I wanted to ask out.  I don't know how Trench interprets English. Maybe that's why he has problems!

Had dates with American, French, Chinese, Czech.... many Eastern europeans that I met too.. Polish, Hungarian..  This was a long time ago and I had no idea about Russian girls or I would have tried to find them too!   there are tons of Russians in London. if you can't even get a date with one there, why bother going abroad Trench?

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #529 on: January 03, 2018, 12:17:18 AM »
You've just proven my point - you could not get a decent British girl in London - why do you think that is - the competition!

Me thinks you don't speakie Englishie

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #530 on: January 03, 2018, 12:24:08 AM »
Trench just proved - once more - that he is either inattentive, wilfully ignorant - in that he doesn't listen / read folks posts- or plain daft

Either that or just trolling

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #531 on: January 03, 2018, 01:26:16 AM »
Stopping at one is not enough, you need at least two to get a decent level of protection. Three or more kids will have near enough all prospective competing males running for the hills. A guy who sees a woman with a kid already will think 'ok she has one but I can still have a couple more with her and it be manageable enough'. With three you are just being used as a b*tch.

In anything there's no guarantees but having kids tends to reduce the risk. Giving a woman two or more kids to deal with should keep her busy from pursuing lovers in her own interest.

Trench, this is a topic close to home. I have 3 children , I also divorced their serial cheating mother. Children have no bearing on if a woman will have an affair. I joined an affair support group 3 years ago to get advice, now I'm a moderator and giving advice. 2500 members and 90% have children. Their ages generally range from 30 - 50, the prime age for infidelity.

There are many reasons for a woman to have an affair. In a lot of cases, a woman who is loaded up with children and is  dealing with the boring aspects of day to day life, combined with an inattentive husband,   is more likely to cheat  than a woman without children.

You might say that's BS, a woman who has children is less likely to betray her family, but statistically that's not the case and once it starts often there is no guilt. There's something called an a "affair fog", there are  probably men and  women here who know exactly what I'm talking about. The cheating partner will rationalise their destructive behaviour while in the fog. The betrayed partner  and children come a distant second to their affair partner.

In my case my ex was a school  teacher, counselor and a child wellbeing officer. During her last affair,  she went from a loving mother to being reported for emotional child  abuse and lost custody of our children.

A word of warning..... Since this is a big issue for you. 70% of long term relationships experience infidelity..... single incidents (one night stands), emotional affairs, physical affairs or online affairs. The biggest percentage of married people that cheat are around the age of 40. At 40 people tend to reflect on their life and if they are in an unhappy relationship, or in many cases lack morals and empathy, they are more open to being unfaithful .... So I'd suggest finding someone your own age, since you are close to 40, as you will be her exciting new life, not another guy in 10 years time if you marry a 30 year old.
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #532 on: January 03, 2018, 02:06:32 AM »

The average flight time between London and Moscow is 3hrs and 53 minutes.. http://www.flight-durations.com/London-to-Moscow..I do believe my 'adding' 7 mins is far more accurate than your subtracting 23 ;)

BTW Kyiv is 3 hrs 18 mins...

I fully accept that New York to Moscow or Kyiv ( just over 9 hours - 1 mile different)  is 5 hours longer - but I think the time zone difference is the main 'killer' to making short trips

There's a reason why I never took a liking to Brits, girls or guys....stop counting every minute, you get my point. It's far closer to go to Kiev or Moscow from London than it is from USA.  And I ain't even on the east coast like New York.  Think California.  A 10 hour time difference.  Add in 15 hours of travel and basically you need a few days to recover from the jet lag.

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #533 on: January 03, 2018, 02:29:40 AM »
There's a reason why I never took a liking to Brits, girls or guys....stop counting every minute, you get my point.

If you post incorrect data  - or 'exaggerate' - in your case - you'll get picked up ... my lineage has nothing to do with being a pedant ! I'm more 'Irish' than British - best add them to your 'list' based on my 'bad' example ;)

It's far closer to go to Kiev or Moscow from London than it is from USA.  And I ain't even on the east coast like New York.  Think California.  A 10 hour time difference.  Add in 15 hours of travel and basically you need a few days to recover from the jet lag.

We agree - I already stated the jet-lag factor  is the greater hardship - given that folks from the British Isles don't all fly via London nor choose partners who conveniently live in Moscow or Kyiv ! 

I realise not all posters profiles are accurate - but when you've a few trips under your belt - you state none -you can cease 'theorising'..

The 'Europe advantage' is an oft used 'excuse' by N.Americans ..   You guys can often get flights for less than we can .. but that might be down to the 'value ' of the GBP ?

Do 'we' have an advantage - unquestionably ... 




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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #534 on: January 03, 2018, 02:54:41 AM »

I realise not all posters profiles are accurate - but when you've a few trips under your belt - you state none -you can cease 'theorising'..


Don't believe the lack of info on the profile...I signed up here a few years ago and basically forgot all about it until now.  Been too busy working and living in Russia and Europe lol.   

So I've done these trips more than a few times.  I connect through different cities and when the first flight is 10 hours the 2nd connecting one feels much shorter.

You must be joking when you say flights are cheaper from the USA than UK, from which city?  It's usually $1000 or more depending on high or low season.
I've seen flights from London to Moscow for just over 100 pounds.

Anyone from Europe has it waaaay easier if they want to go to Russia or Ukraine.

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #535 on: January 03, 2018, 04:11:23 AM »
Don't believe the lack of info on the profile...I signed up here a few years ago and basically forgot all about it until now.  Been too busy working and living in Russia and Europe lol.   

WHY do folks mislead re their profiles ... some sort of 'game' or just lazy ? ;)  But thanks for clearing that up


So I've done these trips more than a few times.  I connect through different cities and when the first flight is 10 hours the 2nd connecting one feels much shorter.

You must be joking when you say flights are cheaper from the USA than UK, from which city?  It's usually $1000 or more depending on high or low season.
I've seen flights from London to Moscow for just over 100 pounds.

I wish... Possibly when the low cost airlines flew there

Anyone from Europe has it waaaay easier if they want to go to Russia or Ukraine.

Ironically, in the Summer, flights from North America are often more competitive to onward cities ... but then I seem to chose women in the corners / centre of Russia ;)

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #536 on: January 03, 2018, 04:25:19 AM »
WHY do folks mislead re their profiles ... some sort of 'game' or just lazy ? ;)  But thanks for clearing that up


Mislead? you're reaching there. When I joined I thought this was just a site about dating Russian girls.   I didn't know people actually did trips over there for the sole purpose of finding a mate.  You've been on this forum for over 10 years so you must be the resident expert on everything here.  You certainly act that way telling people not to post this, don't tell your story to the peanut gallery..blah blah.. to do that.  Just chill out man.  Live and let live.

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #537 on: January 03, 2018, 07:53:26 AM »
My vote goes to Boston. It would not surprise me if C. S.Lewis had this city/town in mind when he wrote The Great Divorce.


It IS a CITY, not a town. And it is one of the best in the US  >:(
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #538 on: January 03, 2018, 08:10:01 AM »
Trench, this is a topic close to home. I have 3 children , I also divorced their serial cheating mother. Children have no bearing on if a woman will have an affair. I joined an affair support group 3 years ago to get advice, now I'm a moderator and giving advice. 2500 members and 90% have children. Their ages generally range from 30 - 50, the prime age for infidelity.

There are many reasons for a woman to have an affair. In a lot of cases, a woman who is loaded up with children and is  dealing with the boring aspects of day to day life, combined with an inattentive husband,   is more likely to cheat  than a woman without children.


Shocking! Where have all the morals of the olden days gone to? :popcorn:
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #539 on: January 03, 2018, 08:32:43 AM »
PS, Trench - A former poster here married an FSUW.  She became pregnant immediately, although it wasn't planned. He is wealthy, so she never worked.  She still managed to find a lover, despite being a stay at home mother, and booted the husband out to install her lover.  So your theory is no inoculation against adultery or abandonment.


Absolutely correct. He will just be hooked on alimony and child support payments for life.  :P
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #540 on: January 03, 2018, 05:14:37 PM »

Absolutely correct. He will just be hooked on alimony and child support payments for life.  :P

Of course that is why she did it, funny there are stories of UK girls doing similar to rich UK guys. They essentially go up to a rich guy in a posh London city centre bar or similar. They then throw themselves at the guy just to get pregnant knowing that the guy will earn a lot and they can get a nice payment routinely for the next 16-19 years. Shows how careful you have to be some girls are out on their own agenda and don't care about anyone else.
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #541 on: January 03, 2018, 05:26:16 PM »
It wasn’t about his wealth. She came from a wealthy family as well and didn’t marry him for money.  We don’t know why she took a lover. Perhaps she was lonely. Or bored. Or he was lousy in bed. It doesn’t really matter, though. The point was that impregnating a woman won’t inoculate you from divorce. If she is unhappy for whatever reason, eventually, you will be alone.
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #542 on: January 03, 2018, 05:40:16 PM »
It wasn’t about his wealth. She came from a wealthy family as well and didn’t marry him for money.  We don’t know why she took a lover. Perhaps she was lonely. Or bored. Or he was lousy in bed. It doesn’t really matter, though. The point was that impregnating a woman won’t inoculate you from divorce. If she is unhappy for whatever reason, eventually, you will be alone.

Why women always think its the guys job to entertain them I don't know, lol.
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #543 on: January 03, 2018, 05:54:18 PM »
Trenchcoat just made a rather crude comment here regarding the OP's update on this thread: 
http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=15509.msg473996#msg473996

Luckily he deleted it but I still saw it.  Let's just say you don't ever want this guy around anyone's daughter. 

Trench I know what you wrote and it's pretty sick.

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #544 on: January 03, 2018, 06:13:30 PM »
Yes.


Notice the cheap, nasty, gross $8 K-Mart Sweater and $1.99 Fruit of the Loom Wife Beater. Someone likes to dress as cheaply as possible, even for their VK profile picture!!! In my experience, Slavic women do  not like men who spend a grand total of $10 on their wardrobe.
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #545 on: January 03, 2018, 06:22:59 PM »
Why women always think its the guys job to entertain them I don't know, lol.

No one is talking about entertainment. 
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #546 on: January 03, 2018, 06:23:52 PM »
Trenchcoat just made a rather crude comment here regarding the OP's update on this thread: 
http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=15509.msg473996#msg473996

Luckily he deleted it but I still saw it.  Let's just say you don't ever want this guy around anyone's daughter. 

Trench I know what you wrote and it's pretty sick.


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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #547 on: January 03, 2018, 06:28:32 PM »

Posters cannot delete their posts.  They can only modify them.

Hmm...I saw it clearly with my own 2 eyes.  Then when I refreshed the page it was gone.

Trench.. you wrote: "Blimey...." yes?  I won't repeat the rest but it was quite crass and rude.  Maybe one of the mods deleted it.
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #548 on: January 03, 2018, 08:12:38 PM »
Yes.


Notice the cheap, nasty, gross $8 K-Mart Sweater and $1.99 Fruit of the Loom Wife Beater. Someone likes to dress as cheaply as possible, even for their VK profile picture!!! In my experience, Slavic women do  not like men who spend a grand total of $10 on their wardrobe.

I pulled it off dressed in second hand shop clothes and sunglasses, in a very grainy picture and the women loved my 2nd picture, dressed entirely inappropriately for the situation, bare feet and all.
If you can't pull off the sophisticated man about town look...  go for the, life's going to be a little crazy, but fun persona.
Might be a bit difficult for trench to achieve the rugged outback man look though  ;)
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #549 on: January 03, 2018, 10:26:06 PM »

It IS a CITY, not a town. And it is one of the best in the US  >:(

Wrong Boston, pitbull!  :D  The article in question is about ENGLISH towns - Boston is in Lincolnshire, with a population in the 60 thousands.

 

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