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« Last post by Trenchcoat on Today at 11:56:33 AM »
Ukraine looks to be threatened by Russia's forces on its northern border: http://www.euronews.com/2024/05/26/ukraine-war-zelenskyy-warns-of-russian-advances-kharkiv-strike-death-toll-rises-peace-summApart from troops stationed on its northern border Ukraine doesn't currently have any troops in reserve. This is a precarious situation for Ukraine to be in as although Ukraine is holding Russian troops back at present were Russian troops to break through anywhere Ukraine would be screwed. That's a military flaw Ukraine needs to urgently rectify by bringing up more troops and quickly. If it doesn't it's leaving itself open for a easy defeat where it needn't suffer one in the next few days to weeks. Belarus will need watching too. Now that they have finished installing Russian Nukes on its soul it leaves Belarus more capable of joining the attack. That this has been completed at this time may be no coincidence. A joint Belarusian & Russian attack on Ukraine's northern border could be difficult for Ukraine to answer to even with dug in fortifications. Ukraine will need to boost it's number of soldiers significantly so not to be caught napping and be agile on its feet to responding to such threats. Belarusian forces are now better equipped and trained than in previous years so they could be a significant threat on the battlefield.
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« Last post by Trenchcoat on Today at 12:09:15 AM »
I got way too far into the weeds, so I am simplifying this.
Each man has what should be considered a package.
1. Looks: How purdy are you?
2. Physique: This includes height, weight, muscles, stamina or the lack thereof.
3. Social skills: How well do you function in a social situation with women?
4. FSU experience: Have you dated one or more of these creatures before?
5. Language: Can you say more than Da ili nyet? Do you know what ili means?
Can you read any Cyrillic?
6. Living/Lifestyle?
Do you live on a beach in Hawaii? (good) in Nome Alaska (bad) in your
mothers basement (very bad) Last wife was eaten by a crocodile (bad) local
cannibals (very bad) The oil fields of Norf Dakoty (bad) member of a cult (bad)
7. How much time, money and energy can you spend on this pursuit?
8. Money:* If you make more than $100K (acceptable) or less than $100K (risky)
Two weeks of vacation per year and/or using credit cards to pay for it = In your future
both your kidney's will be sold to pay for your divorce. Dialysis = Your future.
Do not attempt this if you are poor and/or don't have the ability to travel frequently.
* There are exceptions to the money. If you make less than $50K per year, you will have
problems, E.G. Making the trips, paying for all the things that you will need to pay for that
will pop up. Sending wifey home to visit Mamma. Her teeth and can easily be a total mess
and require thousands to repair (or she could be toothless).
You will have to buy family health care which is highly expensive in the US these days. This
can exceed $700 per month.
Take your age subtract 10 years and stick to that unless, you have a great package with
many of the traits above. If you have less of the package go with less than 10 years.
Lastly don't lie to yourself.
You forget in your equation is that the girl also has a value number Beel  That effect things. However I would say even with equations done in both sides there can be more to it. One the girl has to be open to dating older guys (if we are talking about a large age gap). She also might have problems dating herself for whatever reason. She might have preferences to the type of guy she would like. She might just be looking for a guy she is into regardless of age, etc. There could be many reasons why it could work with a large age gap. For sure there is always the much older guy hoping for a hit young thing who possibly might be deluding himself or beyond his means. However, I think with some women it's less of a thing out in the FSU as it is here. Some but not all prefer older guys (but not likely granddaddy older guys) who they may feel more comfortable with than younger guys. Some women can mature faster mentally than men and so prefer a man who isn't clowning around or feels like he is like a brother, is junior to her at least feelings wise. I would say though that older guys need to be wary of some younger girls who say they like older guys when really they are just out to fleece the older guy on shopping trips, etc. End of the day relationships don't necessarily tend to find down to a number equation but instead what just works, do the people get on well together, are each others type, are into each other, emotional bond, etc. I personally have tended to prefer much younger Women. Somewhere towards at least 10 years. The girl being my junior tends to make me feel more at ease and let's face it with many FSW they can be fairly dominant types so a age too near mine is likely to produce a relationship where the woman dominates too much with too much of a battle on my hands to push back against it. It's really just keep trying until you find a girl where the relationship just works for you both I feel.
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« Last post by Trenchcoat on Yesterday at 11:44:41 PM »
I dated women who were my daughter's age.
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« Last post by ML on Yesterday at 08:57:22 PM »
I dated women who were my daughter's age.
But I drew the line (just above) at dating those who were my granddaughter's age; not that I had a granddaughter.
But then, if I were a billionaire and Anna Nicole were still available !!
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« Last post by ML on Yesterday at 08:44:33 PM »
Lastly don't lie to yourself.
That's no fun !!
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« Last post by Trenchcoat on Yesterday at 04:43:05 PM »
Banon belongs in jail...
people lie
numbers don't
The funding of the whole Trump Wall scam that he pulled if I vaguely remember correctly. I didn't read deep into it but apparently he set up a fund to fund some of the wall then ran off with the money.
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« Last post by krimster2 on Yesterday at 10:27:57 AM »
Banon belongs in jail...
people lie
numbers don't
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« Last post by Trenchcoat on May 24, 2024, 06:55:31 PM »
That was a good video post Grumpy, I watch the video and the guy doing it had a good take on the situation by the looks of it. He also drew attention to Russia's Soviet Arsenal running out in about a year's time if that now. I saw news headlines on Yahoo that Putler was up for peace now perhaps he's concerned about the Russian disarmament programme unfolding before his eyes. Looks like he wants to keep hold of the territory he's taken. I don't see the Ukrainians willing to agree to that, wishful thinking on his part I think. Here's a link for Krim to take a peek at. I saw it on Twitter (X) and if looks like the type of stuff he likes to talk about: http://twitter.com/GBNAmerica/status/1794065830897995819?t=d231zlKTj2v264x4rtNAlQ&s=19
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« Last post by krimster2 on May 23, 2024, 07:26:07 PM »
general advice
1. don't be an idiot
2. 'learn' before you 'do'
understand that while yur lookin for one thing, you may completely miss other things which may turn out to be more valuable than what you were searchin for
in fact, I can guarantee this...
if you served in a western military - do NOT go to Russia right now!!!
wear clean socks
women choose men based upon what's "missing" in their life
take a good LOOK at yourself
what do YOU have to offer a woman to fill the missing piece she's lookin for?
this question will cause 90% of you to stay home, cuz in reality, ya got nothin much to offer. them..
and it's better for you to figure this out first, so yur 'fee-fees' don't get hurt later
if you come to some kinda understanding that ya need to find "someone" who will "complete you"...yawn...
then the ONE thing you can do IS FIND A WAY TO MAKE A LOT OF MONEY!!!
no, money ain't 'crass'
it's the most useful thing you can have
and you NEED to make YUR OWN
you don't wanna be no "wage slave"
you wanna make yur own way, yur way, and yur time, and not some "boss"
and you need to make AS MUCH AS YOU CAN!!
as the king, you realize the kingdom costs a LOT!!!
lack on money is the root of all EVIL in a marriage!!
only search for somone to 'complete you' after you complete yourself first!!!!
most of ya'll ain't even started yet...
and sometimes you try an old man's patience
to the point where he just HAS to reach across the bar and "bitch-slap" ya off yur stool
respectfully, The Old Cynic A.KA. "Smert"
I took acid in Jerusalem
and I witnessed the crucifixtion
I stood where Pilate stood, and I heard him say, "Ecce Homo" "Behold the Man"
as Jesus drew his last breath...
but it was just those damned "historical re-enactors" phuquing with me!!!
but fer a minute there..
in Europe, I've seen FOR REAL much, much stranger stuff in places where a LOT of people had died
this led me to do research on using polarizing light filters at places where a lotta people died
to capture optical wave lengths of different phases of light that humans can not normally perceive
that's how polarizing sun glasses work, reflected light has a different phase than incident light
my first two inventions were devices based on these new materials for polarizing optics to detect extremely minute amounts of methane
and the second one, was for detecting ghosts!!
I had lenses, I didn't wear them as glasses, just lenses that I looked through
that would allow me to see patterns of light that ONLY existed in places that had experienced a LOT of human death,
and I could walk around places like battlefields and see all these moving transparent silhouettes that didn't exist in regular light
and that unfortunately was as far as I got with that research...
all my tools and instruments are in Russia now, behind enemy lines
ohhhhhh
the fun I could be having there now DAWG!!!!
OMG!!!! times a billion!!!!
the first thing Russia's gonna do in central America is to integrate itself into the coke trade
some of this money will go to "bonuses" and some for "bounty's" to be placed on American assets
"bonus" is the new corruption
it's a "performance bonus" with an internally accountable and transparent finance that makes thievery nearly impossible, cuz every cent of it is internally auditable by multiple checks and balances
it rewards good behavior by top managers and punishes bad ones
but NO STEALIN!!!!
this is a system invented in the 1960's by a Soviet math wiz named Tsetlin, a guy who was like 50 yr ahead of his time, may he RIP
for example, a narco carttel may be offored 100 million dollars to send a truck bomb to the NSA Headquarters at Fort Meade, Maryland
and DAWG, I SWEAR
draw a straight line from "The Cube" to the Patuxent River...it's a long walk
but, what are those copper rods doin in the river bank? eh?
why's there latino graffitti 5 feet away - it's how "they" spell mine
so I'd back up the same way ya came if I was you
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« Last post by Trenchcoat on May 23, 2024, 05:24:37 PM »
There are so many problems with your situation.
1. Age gap
2. Your story, you are a university professor but only get 10 days?
3. Met on Eharmony
4. Cart before the horse.
5. Are you too broke to do this?
6. This is just the tip of the iceberg
In theory a FSW interested in dating a western man then a western dating site could make sense, big all were necessarily scammers but it might be a bit suspicious. Age gap needn't necessarily be a problem if there are extenuating circumstances. People come in all sorts and some issue of one or another may mean that a FSW prefers an older guy, to a point at least. I think the main thing that stands out from OP here is that like many FSW seekers he is too quick to jump to Marriage. It needn't be a long drawn out affair but jumping to a Marriage on a first visit isn't usually a great way to go about it. It tends to be lacking in a grounded reality check. Instead I think OP should just go and visit her more than once. While the travelling is a pain on the guy any guy that is into a girl will put themselves out to do that. Both the UK & the US are hard to get tourist visas for FSU people. So it makes more sense to go visit the girl at least several times before getting to a fiancé visa and possible marriage. Overall I would say to OP nearly a decade too late that it can take time for two paths to merge. You meet a FSW and both you and her are likely to be living single lives under your own drive and direction. So often two people won't be moving in the exact same direction and matters may be full off circumstances at odds with one another. Give it time and keep talking to the girl without necessarily focusing on the issue but talking about stuff in general. Once each other have a better idea of how each others lives are and how they are moving in such a direction and why it can be easier for circumstances to change over time and towards a mutual path. When at first neither of you know the path the other is on fully then it's going to be pretty hard coming to a mutual path until you get to understand each other. For the girl here she probably doesn't want to drop her course under a system she understands, even if the logic seems to suggest it may be better too. However, once she gets to know the guy, can see his world and the path he is on, she may in time see that there is more logic in such thinking. Relationships take time to build they don't often happen instantaneously.
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