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What sort of tactic is this?
« on: August 07, 2017, 07:02:23 PM »
I've been a lingering dilletante in the realm of FSU women.  But my intentions are become more serious, as far as pulling the trigger and going over there.
 
I've been at one particular agency site that has a Chat utility.  And of course the Chat invitations arrive in a steady stream.  I'm seeing a wide range of female intent, from the nakedly mercenary to commercial to starry eyed novitiates to pragmatists to an occasional nice girl.    So, there's all kinds of games going on.   It looks like website management seems to take a hands off approach to the dervish of hijinks and concoction.

Question:  Just what is the game when a lady claims to be at a hotel in your town at that very moment,  which is usually a physical impossibility?  An obvious impossibility since the only location I've published in U.S. city of residence.  Like I said, there are all kinds working this site.  Heh.

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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #1 on: August 07, 2017, 07:29:23 PM »
No telling.
Could even be in your town.(unlikely but possible)

One thing to remember- the local agency, (in fsu) is certainly not hands off on such sites ,lol!! and is absolutely taking their  share.
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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #2 on: August 07, 2017, 08:21:44 PM »

Sign up for Mamba.ru, it's free. You will learn women aren't going to light up your message box requesting chats. That's how real women behave. You need to chase them.
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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #3 on: August 07, 2017, 09:08:10 PM »
Do NOT sign up for mamba.ru - it's time has past - my Russian partner says it's mostly men looking for sex - not a relationship ..


Better try fdating.com - it's NOT free - but the owners don't control your messages and the free version of mamba will not get you noticed, anyway

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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #4 on: August 07, 2017, 09:32:04 PM »
Do NOT sign up for mamba.ru - it's time has past - my Russian partner says it's mostly men looking for sex - not a relationship ..


I don't think macktwo39 is looking for men for sex and doesn't have to worry about getting harassed by horny men sending dick pics. He'll have the edge over his competition since a lot of ladies there are looking for a LTC relationship. Main thing is guys need to understand how real women operate and sites like that are a clear difference than pay for play sites that have hired employees inviting customers for chat.
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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #5 on: August 08, 2017, 01:05:20 AM »
I don't think macktwo39 is looking for men for sex and doesn't have to worry about getting harassed by horny men sending dick pics. He'll have the edge over his competition since a lot of ladies there are looking for a LTC relationship. Main thing is guys need to understand how real women operate and sites like that are a clear difference than pay for play sites that have hired employees inviting customers for chat.

The point being, many FSU  ladies looking for LTR's won't use mamba.ru ....    I asked FSU two ladies - who are single - before posting - in addition to knowing SC's opinion of mamba.ru ..... and I've seen the sort of correspondence she got ...



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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #6 on: August 08, 2017, 03:04:35 AM »
Do NOT sign up for mamba.ru - it's time has past - my Russian partner says it's mostly men looking for sex - not a relationship ..


Better try fdating.com - it's NOT free - but the owners don't control your messages and the free version of mamba will not get you noticed, anyway

say again? fdating is free site.  "100% free online dating" is even their slogan..
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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #7 on: August 08, 2017, 03:17:08 AM »
say again? fdating is free site.  "100% free online dating" is even their slogan..

Quite ... I meant dmnotity.com though  - my bad ... My excuse it that I hadn't been to either of them in a long time

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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #8 on: August 08, 2017, 03:29:04 AM »
Quite ... I meant dmnotity.com though  - my bad ... My excuse it that I hadn't been to either of them in a long time

Thanks ...for pointing out my HUGE howler [red face]

huh? "ERR_NAME_NOT_RESOLVED"

Maybe you meant  http://dmnotify.com/   :cheesy:

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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #9 on: August 08, 2017, 03:36:25 AM »
Once again, I'm in your debt ...!   We did have six kittens at the Dacha and one escaped and was run over this am .... It feels like 38C and I had to bury the little chap... 






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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #10 on: August 08, 2017, 03:44:28 AM »
Once again, I'm in your debt ...!   We did have six kittens at the Dacha and one escaped and was run over this am .... It feels like 38C and I had to bury the little chap...

I accept cash payment or a cup of coffee and ticket to next years F1 race in Sochi  ;D
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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #11 on: August 08, 2017, 04:07:31 AM »
I accept cash payment or a cup of coffee and ticket to next years F1 race in Sochi  ;D

 :D

Next years race is in October - apparently at the request of the organisers ( near the  World Cup ) and  there is a nasty rumour that the Franchisee may lose the contract .. 

I am worried that many of the good people working there may be replaced and my position as the English voice of the track may no longer be required .... :(

We'll see




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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #12 on: August 08, 2017, 08:28:24 AM »
many FSU  ladies looking for LTR's won't use mamba.ru ....



That is true but the many remaining ladies at the site aren't looking for a fling either. I remember Aloe saying 99% of the guys there aren't serious. But, a group of guys at this forum found their wives at Mamba including me. I've also dated dozens of local FSU women right here in America because of this site. If a guy can't beat his competition there, he isn't going to get far with women anywhere.
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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #13 on: August 08, 2017, 08:48:35 AM »

That is true but the many remaining ladies at the site aren't looking for a fling either. I remember Aloe saying 99% of the guys there aren't serious. But, a group of guys at this forum found their wives at Mamba including me. I've also dated dozens of local FSU women right here in America because of this site. If a guy can't beat his competition there, he isn't going to get far with women anywhere.

Yes, BillyB, and many found their wives at EM - things don't stand still ... I'm stating that if you're looking for an LTR - there are better places - now - than mamba

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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #14 on: August 08, 2017, 08:57:28 AM »
Yes, BillyB, and many found their wives at EM - things don't stand still ... I'm stating that if you're looking for an LTR - there are better places - now - than mamba

Now this is where I do agree with you Moby, I've had forum members suggest these sites to me only to find out today they ain't all that good, no doubt some still find their other half off there but some of these become not nearly as good over time.
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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #15 on: August 08, 2017, 09:12:43 AM »
had forum members suggest these sites to me only to find out today they ain't all that good, no doubt some still find their other half off there but some of these become not nearly as good over time.


What's not good about them? The girls aren't so enthusiastic about writing you? Pay to play sites are fun because guys get a lot of action there. People are paid to give men action. Reality is it's going to take work to attract women into communicating with you. I wrote thread(below) years ago about my real time dating experiences with eventually led up to finding my wife. Using Mamba, I was getting a date every few days, sometimes twice in one day right here in America. In the FSU, it would've been easier for me to get dates. Getting tons of women to date me was the easy part and that site kept me busy. Becoming a local or international playboy would've been easy and it was very tempting to live that lifestyle. If I wanted a wife, I had a wide selection of ladies to choose from.

Some guys recommend Elena's Models. Other guys say they are a scam. They do use feeder agencies that they don't have complete control over. A guy has only so much time on his hands and can't use every site recommended to him. Whatever site you choose to use, figure it out to get the most out of it.

http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=11638.0
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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #16 on: August 08, 2017, 09:52:57 AM »
Quite ... I meant dmnotify.com though  - my bad ... My excuse it that I hadn't been to either of them in a long time

Thanks ...for pointing out my HUGE howler [red face]

Moby, put the info about this dmnotify.com in the below thread.
Also info about Fdating if it is not there.

http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=14615.0
« Last Edit: August 08, 2017, 09:55:14 AM by ML »
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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #17 on: August 08, 2017, 01:01:14 PM »
Moby, put the info about this dmnotify.com in the below thread.
Also info about Fdating if it is not there.

http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=14615.0

Is that an order or suggestion ? ;)

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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #18 on: August 09, 2017, 08:34:26 PM »
Hookers will do my plumbing?

I was once stopped at a long traffic light when a gal tapped on my side window.

I put window down and she said "I will do anything you want for $50."

So I took her home, gave her $50 and said:  "You can paint my house."
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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #19 on: August 09, 2017, 09:22:31 PM »
I was once stopped at a long traffic light when a gal tapped on my side window.

I put window down and she said "I will do anything you want for $50."

So I took her home, gave her $50 and said:  "You can paint my house."

If you had an extra $50, you could've gotten your pipe cleaned too.
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Re: What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #20 on: August 10, 2017, 05:25:24 AM »
If you had an extra $50, you could've gotten your pipe cleaned too.

Good one; you 'one-upped' me.
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What sort of tactic is this?
« Reply #21 on: August 10, 2017, 12:03:58 PM »
I was once stopped at a long traffic light when a gal tapped on my side window.

I put window down and she said "I will do anything you want for $50."

So I took her home, gave her $50 and said:  "You can paint my house."

I went down to Home Depot and picked up one of our brothers from
South of the border to paint my back porch. I got him the paint and
primer, cans, buckets, brushes the whole works and told him to paint
my porch.

He came back an hour later and said he was finished! It was an all day
job, so I asked if he was sure. He said Si Senor Beel, I painted it two
coats and it's finished! However, Meester Beel, it's a Mercedes not a
Porch.

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FSUW don't do vague
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