Why all the padding?

[Trenchcoat]

So my girl I have noticed has a tendency to wear padded wonder bra's. This surprises me as she actually has quite nice big boobs While wonder bra effect can be quite impressive looking it also seems a bit unnecessary on a girl that is already quite large in that department. So I was wondering why she does it. I notice its not only her that does it but also other young girls. I noticed it last year when out in Odessa/Nikolaev so from I see it seems to be a Ukrainian, most probably FSU fashion trend. Now I don't mind this in itself its quite provocatively feminine. However, it does unfortunately have the downside that when touching her I am often just feeling the padding in this area and hence little actual stimulation that might otherwise occur is missed out on. I was wondering if others on here have come across this phenomena and what your thoughts are on it all. I'm in two minds on it, its kind of nice visually, though sometimes a bit over the top perhaps but if you know there's going to be an intimate moment I think it might be something I might prefer that's not in the way. How do you guys deal with this?       

[BillyB]

Some girls know big boobs catches more men. Quality men. Padded bras help with the illusion. She caught you didn't she?

[ML]

The padded bras provide more support than regular bras.
The breasts of women vary greatly in their 'solidity.'
Many women have very soft breasts that can 'sag' even when they are young.
The padded bras help keep the breasts 'up there.'

[Trenchcoat]

Some girls know big boobs catches more men. Quality men. Padded bras help with the illusion. She caught you didn't she?

[Boethius]

Padded bras don't provide more support.  Underwire bras do.  I suspect she is wearing a molded bra, not a padded bra.  They're very popular in the West as well, but usually of better quality than what the average Ukrainian woman can afford.


No offense, Trench, but why is this a problem?  Are you that inept with women?  If you can touch her breast, removal of the bra is likely not an issue.

[Trenchcoat]

The padded bras provide more support than regular bras.
The breasts of women vary greatly in their 'solidity.'
Many women have very soft breasts that can 'sag' even when they are young.
The padded bras help keep the breasts 'up there.'

How did you get so knowledgeable in this area ML

Her breasts seemed pretty solid to me, possibly the fear of them sagging is greater than any actual sagging. I know the bigger the boob the more likelihood of sagging apparently so maybe she is safeguarding against this. So yes quite possibly she uses them for support purposes, but I wonder if they might push them up higher than needed, i.e over support. I know some recent research even said it may be better to not wear a bra at all as then the ligaments strengthen which they don't so much if a bra is worn. I know many normal bras are underwired for support and while perhaps not the same I think this would be preferable if the girl knew she was going to be getting into an intimate situation is my thoughts.

[Trenchcoat]

Padded bras don't provide more support.  Underwire bras do.  I suspect she is wearing a molded bra, not a padded bra.  They're very popular in the West as well, but usually of better quality than what the average Ukrainian woman can afford.


No offense, Trench, but why is this a problem?  Are you that inept with women?  If you can touch her breast, removal of the bra is likely not an issue.

It may well be a molded bra, well put it this way she can afford it when she is with me lol.

Of course I could remove her bra, what I am talking about here is smoothness & fluidity in intimacy and also moving through foreplay in a simple and easy manner. If you can feel her breasts from the off then your much better placed in my book.

[msmob]

I am reminded of a Ronan Keating song..

"You say it best, when you say nothing at all "

Trench - I hope your lady will not see this tosh

[msmob]

..mind you - if she does - you can always offer a boob job - I've read this often the last act of a guy - before the lady moves on ...

[SANDRO43]

I know some recent research even said it may be better to not wear a bra at all as then the ligaments strengthen which they don't so much if a bra is worn.

I have some doubts about that. The 'burn-the-bra' movement of the 1960s produced some weird results: I recall a very nice girl sunbathing bra-less in a resort in the 1980s and showing ugly pear-shaped breasts. I asked a fellow guest who was a doctor what could have caused such a bad result, and he opined that probably the girl's mother had made her wear no bras during her young years .

[jone]

When I was growing up, I swore up and down that the fathers of the girls I dated welded their bras shut.  No matter how hard I tried to get them undone, they would never comply. 

[msmob]

Jone,

that's quite an admission ..... 
 
I once fumbled as a teenager ...the lass sighed and the straps went loose .. it was a front-loader ..... 

[Trenchcoat]

When I was growing up, I swore up and down that the fathers of the girls I dated welded their bras shut.  No matter how hard I tried to get them undone, they would never comply.

Exactly my reasoning here

[Boethius]

But you're not an adolescent.  I am beginning to understand why you had little success with UK women, and it has nothing to do with feminism.


I really hope your UW is a good woman, or you will be eaten alive.

[BdHvA]

But you're not an adolescent.  I am beginning to understand why you had little success with UK women, and it has nothing to do with feminism.

I really hope your UW is a good woman, or you will be eaten alive.

Trenchie, I suspect some one should take you out behind the shed and speak with you (or beat you).

What Boethuis notes is very much the reality in my opinion.