anastasiadate.com

[jone]

Hey Billy? 

Are you implying that the women I dated from ADate only dated me because of my money?  That's a novel thought. 

[BillyB]

There was no one dumber than John Wayne. 

Anybody can say his words and sound like a genius. Those who don't place any value in his words aren't as smart. I didn't grow up with John Wayne so I can't say I'm a fan of his but the faults of the man doesn't necessarily discount his words in this case.

Are you implying that the women I dated from ADate only dated me because of my money?  That's a novel thought. 

I thought you were implying something happened to you. I had to look up the word you said that happened to you "jobbed" which means according to an urban dictionary, "To be the victim of a conspiracy; to lose a seemingly fair contest because of deceit; to be guaranteed to lose. The term derives from the professional wrestling term "jobber". "


I don't know what bad experiences you had at ADate but you don't have to disclose it if you don't want. Throughout the years here, I've read so many stories from guys about their bad experiences at ADate that you probably wouldn't tell me anything new.


There are guys who will give ADate a second chance thinking they can beat the system after getting screwed the first time. The moment you pay someone a dime after they screwed you once, you've allowed yourself to be screwed again. ADate isn't the only place girls hang out. Give another business a chance.

[Gator]

Now Gator,

Give me a moment here. What do you want from me......"cold turkey"? I need my ADATE time. I am weaning off progressively. A bit like my mother depriving me of her breast milk. Painful, but it was done.

I realize this is not you, yet eventually you need to leave the Anastasia teat, no matter how easy, familiar and pretty it is? 

[ANTHONY OLIVER]

I realize this is not you, yet eventually you need to leave the Anastasia teat, no matter how easy, familiar and pretty it is? 

Hi Gator,

No - unfortunately - that is not me. But I think I may have chatted with that girl once or twice. I am pretty sure that is Tatyana from Odessa. She is a serious young woman interested:" in meeting a sincere and honest man with whom she can take late night strolls along the beach beneath the stars."

I know, I know......I am frustrating to be around. However, I am aware of the problems with the site at least and am now aware that the girls aren't necessarily as interested in meeting "their other half" as they seem to suggest. So progress is being made.

I am in the process of checking out Elena's models and abandoning the good ship ADATE. You will be proud of me soon I promise.

As an aside - we cannot but help notice the beauty of the women in their professionally done photographs. The agency is marketing and selling a product - so naturally, they put their best foot forward in terms of their advertising.

I might add that Olga was by no means the prettiest girl to have written to me. But my gut told me that she was quite sincere. Of course that was before the request for monetary transfers via "Western Union" and the little ruse of pretending to talk only to me whilst simultaneously speaking with another person (and telling him the same story - "no dear - I only speak with you").

It's a jungle out there man! And I ain't Tarzan!

Cheers

AO

[Jumper]

Anthony -
 You recognize its in your best interest to avoid Adate or any pay per letter, pay per chat website.The business model itself lends to it being the most profitable for the affiliate local agency in the FSU to dupe or shame,all while leaving the *home agency* free to say "we did not know" or "we will look into it" or "we are shocked and appalled and will take immediate action" etc etc. with the  best one being "we are sorry, the suspected shammer will be dealt with and we will give you your credits back to use" 

Think of it as a Casino slot machine,a good one that pays back 98%!!
entertaining perhaps, yet if you play around  long enough it has your money and time.

[LAman]

Anthony -
 You recognize its in your best interest to avoid Adate or any pay per letter, pay per chat website.The business model itself lends to it being the most profitable for the affiliate local agency in the FSU to dupe or shame,all while leaving the *home agency* free to say "we did not know" or "we will look into it" or "we are shocked and appalled and will take immediate action" etc etc. with the  best one being "we are sorry, the suspected shammer will be dealt with and we will give you your credits back to use" 

Think of it as a Casino slot machine,a good one that pays back 98%!!
entertaining perhaps, yet if you play around  long enough it has your money and time.

Yea Jumper excellent advice..... lets tell all men to use only free sites or monthy pay sites so that the 50+ men can find their 20 something girls and they can be rest assured of finding only serious sincere women!!!

[Jumper]

A/O
You'd   be better entertained with the following..
and while still needing to keep your eyes wide open ,a much better chance of finding someone sincere.

Elena's models
freepersonals.ru
mamba.ru

There are plenty more, since I'm married I'm not up to speed on what
is happening with the more legitimate websites lately.

It's best to stay away from pay per letter sites.. or any site where profiles have a preponderance of  profile names like 4yourlove, passionblonde, hotsveta4U, hottieangle, candy sun , sexy_suka, etc.

 

[LAman]

You'd   be better entertained with the following..
and while still needing to keep your eyes wide open ,a much better chance of finding someone sincere.

Elena's models
freepersonals.ru
mamba.ru

There are plenty more, since I'm married I'm not up to speed on what
is happening with the more legitimate websites lately.

It's best to stay away from pay per letter sites.. or any site where profiles have a preponderance of  profile names like 4yourlove, passionblonde, hotsveta4U, hioottieabngle, candy sun , sexy_suka, etc.

 

Please re-read what I wrote, you did not get my point.....

[Jumper]

Yea Jumper excellent advice..... lets tell all men to use only free sites or monthy pay sites so that the 50+ men can find their 20 something girls and they can be rest assured of finding only serious sincere women!!!

Hey, why bust my chops? lol
I said he always needed to keep his eyes wide open.

Also, I already gave him the age appropriate ,and be realistic , sermon!
 


He is more likely to at least have a legit date off the other sites,
where the girls motives might be less than sincere, playing for gifts ?
but he would not be wallowing through the Adate machine
and local affiliate agency scams that include taxi fare, interpreter, restaurant kick backs, flat kickbacks and so on and on! 

I'm at least helping to cut out the middle man?
 

On a legit site, he might even get an email from a sincere FSU woman
more  appropriate age wise etc, that might just  catch his attention?

The odds are at least better than that occurring on a pay per letter site where 20yo  eye candy emails come in 100 per day?

[Jumper]

Please re-read what I wrote, you did not get my point.....

My reply you quoted was actually intended to A/O, I simply failed to address it to him.It's corrected now.

As far as your point, pretty sure I got it.
You think he's quite unrealistic, and so there is no need to offer any advice.

The advice offered was sound.
Any advice isn't worth much if a man is unrealistic in his pursuit,
 so i agree the cart needs to be behind the horse.

[BillyB]

A/O
You'd   be better entertained with the following..
and while still needing to keep your eyes wide open ,a much better chance of finding someone sincere.

Elena's models
freepersonals.ru
mamba.ru
 

I'll throw in Bride.ru too. Anthony, I shall warn you that you will not have the same success at these sites with women as you've been having at ADate. When most of the women are sincere and truly looking for the right man, they will not reply to men as often as those who are gold diggers or agency working girls. You also will be dealing with companies who do not write letters on women's behalf. The responses will be fewer, you will have to work harder in gaining and holding the attention of women but almost everything you will experience is real and not a scam.

[ANTHONY OLIVER]

A/O
You'd   be better entertained with the following..
and while still needing to keep your eyes wide open ,a much better chance of finding someone sincere.

Elena's models
freepersonals.ru
mamba.ru

There are plenty more, since I'm married I'm not up to speed on what
is happening with the more legitimate websites lately.

Hi Jumper,

And thanks for that information.

I do understand the pitfalls of ADATE. Many of my replies are tongue-in-cheek.

I am actually quite cynical now of the whole FSU dating "thing". However, I will press on for a wee bit longer. You never know.......

Best wishes

Anthony

It's best to stay away from pay per letter sites.. or any site where profiles have a preponderance of  profile names like 4yourlove, passionblonde, hotsveta4U, hottieangle, candy sun , sexy_suka, etc.

 

[ANTHONY OLIVER]

I'll throw in Bride.ru too. Anthony, I shall warn you that you will not have the same success at these sites with women as you've been having at ADate. When most of the women are sincere and truly looking for the right man, they will not reply to men as often as those who are gold diggers or agency working girls. You also will be dealing with companies who do not write letters on women's behalf. The responses will be fewer, you will have to work harder in gaining and holding the attention of women but almost everything you will experience is real and not a scam.

Hi Billy B,

I hear you loud and clear.

I will give this site a try and report back with my experience in due course.

Thanks for your interest and guidance.

Cheers

Anthony

[jone]

Hi Billy B,

I hear you loud and clear.

I will give this site a try and report back with my experience in due course.

Thanks for your interest and guidance.

Cheers

Anthony

Not to be a 'nudge', but my experience with Bride.Ru is that it is a 'has-been' site.  The number of actual new women there seems to be minimal to non-existent.  Of course that was 1.5 years ago.  Things may have changed by now.  Or not.

[ANTHONY OLIVER]

Not to be a 'nudge', but my experience with Bride.Ru is that it is a 'has-been' site.  The number of actual new women there seems to be minimal to non-existent.  Of course that was 1.5 years ago.  Things may have changed by now.  Or not.

Hi Jone,

Got it!

Thanks.

Anthony

[BillyB]

Not to be a 'nudge', but my experience with Bride.Ru is that it is a 'has-been' site.  The number of actual new women there seems to be minimal to non-existent.  Of course that was 1.5 years ago.  Things may have changed by now.  Or not.

The number of new women who have signed up with bride.ru have slowed down over the years but there are still thousands of women there who are available.


Bride.ru advertises on Mamba.ru for new customers. Mamba is more of a dating site to search for locals so most women located in the FSU have no interest in foreign men and/or relocating. Every woman who listed herself on Bride.ru are open to foreign men and/or relocating. I did find my wife on Mamba but it's a uphill battle to get girls to talk to you if you live far from them.


The important thing is Anthony taking the first steps to using other sites. He will learn he's not as popular to ladies at other sites as he was at ADate and younger women aren't as excited to talk to older men as they were on ADate. By leaving the fantasy world, a guy will be in a better place to accomplish his goals and if he can beat his competition, he should have no problem in catching a woman at dating/marriage sites where women don't reply as much.

[SANDRO43]

Not to be a 'nudge', but my experience with Bride.Ru is that it is a 'has-been' site.  The number of actual new women there seems to be minimal to non-existent.  Of course that was 1.5 years ago.  Things may have changed by now.  Or not.

Not. Over these past 5 years or so, their newsletter listing new FSUW members went from daily with 20+ women to about fortnightly with some 12 or so .

[John Gaunt]

This is such old stuff it’s hardly news.

[BBrides]

I did not know anastasiadate.com was behind dating.com. That explains a lot. Same business model.

[Davo]

Welcome Sync....

There’s still lots of men falling for this PPL scam.

Here’s a video that a member made. It shows two PPL employees chatting about their job scamming foreign men....

[2tallbill]

Yesterday I registered at anastasiadate.com for another experiment - see if it beat my previous experiment 110 unopened mails in 7 days at $10 per letter!

All I did was my username, password and my date of birth  - NOTHING ELSE - no photo

Today end of Day 1:   10 messages  (this time 1st letter FREE!)

With AI they won't need to have any real women. They can create profiles/letters/etc.