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Time Over Again
« on: March 30, 2024, 09:31:25 PM »
So what would you do differently in your life if you had your time over again?

Not just FSU Dating but moreso perhaps when you were younger.

If it was me when I was younger in my teens I would time over again knowing what I now know, I would get a decent set of dumbbell weights and lift them regularly, maybe even go down the gym from about the age of 12-13 years onwards. That would hopefully gain me the interest of loads of chicks :D

At the time not much was known about the gym world and weight lifting in my family, no internet to find out. So it would probably have been a bit of a learning curve to say the least. I did know one guy in School I was on decent terms with who was into weight lifting, he wasn't exactly well built at all, shorter than me and not obviously muscly. He no doubt knew more than me though so would have been the one to ask. Apparently at the tind hd thought the weightlifting might have stunted his growth by starting with weights so early on but looking up on the internet that doesn't seem to be an issue.

After that if it didn't help me get settled with the girl of my dreams early on then I should have left education at 16, got a full time job to get the money in and learnt Russian, by evening class, recordings, private tuition, whatever. Probably investing in buying a small house before the housing market took off, rented it out then go over to the FSU to get with the women. That I think could have helped me get on a lot earlier and sooner.

I didn't realise how crap the women had become over here and how everyone going off and doing degrees would screw us all over money wise. Never mind I guess I wasn't the only one. If I had kids I would like to teach them how they should be far more on the ball with what is really going on around them and clue in that things going remain the same and the ground can be shifting from under them without them realising. That they need to realise what those changes are and his it may affect them and what they do. The future cannot be assumed or predicted easily but what is happening at the time in terms of societal change is important to use to be in a good place in the future.

The stuff I mentioned I wouldn't have fathomed at the time of someone said go learn Russian, I would have wondered, why? Long term gym training I also wouldn't likely see as a top priority that it should have been I'm thinking. If I had sons I would say two things, learn Russian & do Gym, Russian & Gym, Russian & Gym, Russian & Gym, etc, etc, etc :)
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Re: Time Over Again
« Reply #1 on: March 31, 2024, 06:08:23 AM »
I would have tried to do much better in high school and actually graduate.  Then I would take appropriate college courses to attain entrance to medical school.
I would specialize in dermatology.
My patients would never be cured, but they would never die (if I stayed away from skin cancer cases).
A beautiful woman is pleasant to look at, but it is easier to live with a pleasant acting one.


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