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hiii98:
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is my russian wife cheating on me?
Lately i've had a odd feeling my russian wife is cheating on me or at least hiding something from me. I dont speak russian and she just left for the weekend to visit her russian guy friends. I found this message on my computer from her to them. Long story short i want to be able to trust her and I hope someone can translate this letter and let me know what she is saying and if i'm overreacting.


19:19:04 bla bla bla
19:19:23 pomnish, ty u menya vsegda vinovat
19:19:55 gde seychas?
19:19:58 doma?
19:20:01 spish?
19:21:13 zasnul vchera v mashine, ne razbudit, ne poproshalis :)
19:21:25 ona shyfruetsya
19:21:26 est
19:21:32 u mneya
19:21:36 menya
19:22:08 pokinula, tebya tankom ne razbudish, zasnul, raskinulsya vo ves rost
19:22:39 pyan'
19:23:27 kakih vpechatleniy?
19:24:23 s toboy razgovarivat - vse ravno, chto golovoy ob stenku bitsya- odin effect
19:24:50 nikogda pryamo ne otvechaesh
19:24:58 vsegda razmyto kak-to
19:25:25 pravilno, von pohodite s oley v klub pofotkaysya
19:25:31 vystav fotki
19:26:12 dazhe esli ona zahochet vernutsya, vse ravno rano ili pozdno tebya opyat brosit
19:26:28 tak chto dumay golovoy
19:27:01 hochetsya verit, chto est chem
19:27:03
19:27:34 o, dim, platye moe ostavila u martynova doma
19:27:49 tolko kupila v Akire vchera :)
19:28:50 priezzhayte, muzh uedet skoro v utu, tak chto budu odna :)
19:29:34 chto o
19:30:06 hot tub(e)
19:30:10 umnik, hahah
19:30:42 a tebe lizhby buhat
19:30:48 zavyazyvay
19:32:00 ya v dells hochu, v waterpark
19:33:00 hochu v waterpark
19:33:38 shut up
19:34:18 eto ty mne?
19:34:23 sam biatch
19:35:35 podseli k sebe roommate, devushku kakuyu-nit
19:36:37 von marinka ishet zhilye opyat
19:36:54 marinka zahochet
19:37:17 a pochemu normalnaya ne zahochet? 1 bedroom? ty na divane budesh :)
19:38:00 ya tebe tut miss wisconsin nashla, ona zahochet :)
19:40:22 nu togda ishi sam krasivuy
19:42:05 chto eto znachit? ya tebe nayti dolzhna? chtoby esli chto, ya vinovata ostalas
19:42:17 net, spasibo :)
19:42:28 ty luchshe ishi, a ya otsenivat budu
19:43:17 pochemu?
19:43:38 kstati, fotki ty eshe ne udalil, ya ih mogu videt
19:43:47 tyazhelo, dimochka, da?
19:43:49 =)
19:44:58 :)
19:45:50 "Zabey na chest, dengi vazhnee" - kruto
19:46:04 osobenno fotk
19:46:09 8A
19:46:58 LADNO, POBEZHALA POKURU POKA CUSTOMERS NET
20:38:20 slushayu poshla ty na....
20:38:50 mama pozvonila nervy mne poportila ((
20:41:22 chto ne izmenilos?
20:41:44 ya ne dumayu, chto ona ochen odobryaet moy brak
20:42:57 govorit kultury raznye
20:43:20 koroche, ne ey sudit
20:44:37 ladno, ty budesh v skype pozzhe?
20:45:03 ok, ttyl, u mneya seychas nastroeniya net

hiii98:
20:46:57 Eto ya, dobav menya. Ira
20:47:43 ne beri durnogo v golovu i tyazhelogo v rot
20:47:54 davay, pozzhe poobshaensya

i should also add that i've tried all the online russian to english translators and they dont work.  I assume because the text is written which english characters rather than russian letters.

I'm curious what the summary of the conversation holds not a word by word translation

we've been married for a year now and have a 1 year old son.  Lately i just feel like something has changed in her... I really hope i'm wrong and overreacting.

JR:
She just left for the weekend to visit her Russian guy friends....

Sorry but are you sure the child is yours? Did she leave the child with you? There is so much wrong with this.

hiii98:
yeah i had to stay home with our child all weekend while she spent the night partying with her "guy friends"...  till 10am then came home sunday night drunk after being dropped off from chicago to wisconsin by the same men who so kindly (hmm) drove her up here after she missed the last bus back home..

Just my alarms are going off and I dont want to be played for a fool.

I'm not the jealous type anymore, i just have a million opportunites in my own personal life to be with other people but i've been 100% faithful to her (i used to have a bad track record BEFORE i met her, 3 years ago).

Ravens9273:
I found this translator that may help. I tried some of the sentences you posted and it translated 90% of it.

Although these online translations can lead to false representations and possible conclusions should not be solely based on these translations but rather get the opinion of a professional.
I say this because the sentences I did translate using the translation I am showing you does not look too good.
Maybe you will understand better.
However they do have the word hot tub in english in this discussion. Unless you just bought one this is concern.
One sentence I translated came out to this

приэзжаыте, the husband will leave soon in уту so I shall be one
This sentence had happy face at the end.

But I still recommend you get professional translation. I do not want you to have wrong impression from false interpretation.

http://translation2.paralink.com/Russian-English-Translation/

To add. One sentence in conversation was translated as this. It was sentence that had 1 bedroom in it.

And why нормалная will not want? 1 бедроом? You on a sofa будеш

Now in this sentence someone mentioned the other being on a sofa. So this looks like it could be a friend.

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