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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1325 on: May 07, 2018, 09:54:17 AM »
I'm doing my building work, time is money as they say. I merely write on here during breaks.

So...she was that type of woman, when the chops are down she's off. Not unusual many women in the UK are like that. During the recession as you no doubt know the divorce rate went up in England as women that were with men who were, wealthy, successful & providers became all of a sudden not so as they were laid off & economic downturn took its toll. So fail as a man and if your with a lady that got with you as she thought you were a sure thing and you're history.

That's not to say she was a poor choice on your part, sometimes we only have the choices to choose from that are before us.

When my career ended a tad suddenly my wife's response was clear and pragmatic as most FSU people are.
  Dont worry, I'll get a job
(Not,its ok,you'll find work)


Thankfully that wasn't required, but you need to understand in FSU culture it is not at all unusual for a woman to work,or for that matter to support her man.


To your point,yes some women of any nationality will abandon ship if it's in troubled waters.

What about you?
When she's older and no longer the young hotty.but a typical UK older mum?

Your mentality on relationships suggests your be like many men and buy a red sports car and chase university girls.

Hope not,but you can't throw stones from a glass house.
« Last Edit: May 07, 2018, 09:57:22 AM by Jumper »
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1326 on: May 07, 2018, 09:56:23 AM »
You obviously chose the wrong bank ;D

Ok , that was good.

Sorry moby ..lol
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1327 on: May 07, 2018, 10:38:22 AM »
You obviously chose the wrong bank ;D

Clearly, but I had no choice having been asked to provide 150k bonds to UK banks having 'no track record' when I moved back to the UK.

Not that this explanation excuses another one of your daft analyses...your being such an expert on LTRs with FSU women.


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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1328 on: May 07, 2018, 10:55:51 AM »
Ok , that was good.

Sorry moby ..lol

Given their prolonged misadminstration cost is SO much you'll 'forgive 'me wondering at your Trench-liike 'empathy'

Sorry Jumper....Trench wanted to score and did.




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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1329 on: May 07, 2018, 11:36:35 AM »
Clearly, but I had no choice having been asked to provide 150k bonds to UK banks having 'no track record' when I moved back to the UK.

£150k bonds? I thought it was normally the government that issues bonds Mobers, that's a lot of money to have lying around.
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1330 on: May 07, 2018, 08:13:45 PM »
Given their prolonged misadminstration cost is SO much you'll 'forgive 'me wondering at your Trench-liike 'empathy'

Sorry Jumper....Trench wanted to score and did.

Apologies, i actually did  feel for you going through all that at the time,and you seemed to recover well now .
Dint mean to make too light of it  or imply it wasnt something serious in your life,as I'm sure it was.









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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1331 on: May 07, 2018, 11:02:24 PM »
Real sensitive  subject

I was taking 50k month on credit card payments with a Cyprus bank, never thinking the UK banks would not respect my trading history and I had to change bank when changing country of residence.

Only one bank did not insist on blocking my payouts for three months ..in case of charge backs. ....

I had never had one.

I started getting clients saying  they weren't getting a service I had paid for...sometimes paying SEVEN times and it went on for 13 months

The institution took too long to admit their huge howler and our lives were hell.

All behind me now  but the bank took too long to admit the 479 instances of multiple charging and come to a satisfactory arrangement






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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1332 on: May 08, 2018, 12:54:52 AM »
I was taking 50k month on credit card payments with a Cyprus bank, never thinking the UK banks would not respect my trading history and I had to change bank when changing country of residence.

50k is a lot of money to be taking in a month, what services were you providing?

Maybe they thought it might be dodgy money with all the Russian money laundering that was going on in Cyprus.
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1333 on: May 08, 2018, 06:14:31 AM »
50k is a lot of money to be taking in a month, what services were you providing?

A perfectly legal service

Maybe they thought it might be dodgy money with all the Russian money laundering that was going on in Cyprus.

No.. I hadn't been resident in the UK for 8.5 years and had no UK based  financial history


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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1334 on: May 08, 2018, 06:57:33 AM »
try HSBC, I've had them for about 10 yr
not in my name but for a registered corp based in Isle Of Man
have not had to post bond for CC processing
good bank I like them
and I have a "cheque book" that I can write cheques in Sterling!
this means I'm British!
I want to vote to stay in the EU but keep British currency
and I want some damned Yorkshire pudding!!!
would you care for some tea?


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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1335 on: May 08, 2018, 07:16:21 AM »
try HSBC, I've had them for about 10 yr
not in my name but for a registered corp based in Isle Of Man


Tried HSBC, Natwest ( Streamline) , World pay, Lloyds card services - ALL UK card merchant services.. no credit history - they block payment for 3 months

I drink tea black - with Lemon, thanks - no sugar - sweet enough, x

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1336 on: May 08, 2018, 07:21:46 AM »
A perfectly legal service

No.. I hadn't been resident in the UK for 8.5 years and had no UK based  financial history

Yeah, yeah ;D Are you sure your wife wasn't using you unwittingly as a money mule, lol.
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1337 on: May 08, 2018, 07:24:21 AM »

Tried HSBC, Natwest ( Streamline) , World pay, Lloyds card services - ALL UK card merchant services.. no credit history - they block payment for 3 months

I drink tea black - with Lemon, thanks - no sugar - sweet enough, x

How come you didn't leave a UK bank account open with a few quid left inside. I know you told us you moved from Ireland to UK when you were school age, did you not remain in UK long after leaving School?
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1338 on: May 08, 2018, 07:36:02 AM »
"I drink tea black - with Lemon, thanks - no sugar - sweet enough, x "

Earl Grey or Darjeeling(black)?
we also have "egg cups" in my house

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1339 on: May 08, 2018, 07:37:07 AM »
How come you didn't leave a UK bank account open with a few quid left inside. I know you told us you moved from Ireland to UK when you were school age, did you not remain in UK long after leaving School?

My NatWest bank man advised me to close the account !

When I returned - he felt bad and offered me a £1500 biz overdraft facility ....   

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1340 on: May 08, 2018, 07:38:23 AM »
Yeah, yeah ;D Are you sure your wife wasn't using you unwittingly as a money mule, lol.

QUITE...  you mustn't get confused by the std of your 'conquests' ..

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1341 on: May 08, 2018, 07:40:35 AM »
"I drink tea black - with Lemon, thanks - no sugar - sweet enough, x "

Earl Grey or Darjeeling(black)?
we also have "egg cups" in my house

Lapsang souchong  - if you have no Lemons ... Either of the above are great ;)

I like soldiers to dip in my runny egg yolks ...

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1342 on: May 08, 2018, 07:45:32 AM »
"I like soldiers to dip in my runny egg yolks ... "

me to!!!

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1343 on: May 08, 2018, 10:32:18 AM »
My NatWest bank man advised me to close the account !

When I returned - he felt bad and offered me a £1500 biz overdraft facility ....

 ::) Always amazed at how some people can make a lot of money whilst sorely be lacking in common sense!
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1344 on: May 08, 2018, 11:55:00 AM »
::) Always amazed at how some people can make a lot of money whilst sorely be lacking in common sense!

I'll 'bite' - "Mr I've been an ex-pat - not "

Explain yourself and what you'd have done

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1345 on: May 08, 2018, 12:32:48 PM »
I'll 'bite' - "Mr I've been an ex-pat - not "

Explain yourself and what you'd have done

Quite clearly I would have left my UK bank account open, it would essentially cost nothing, they would be none the wiser nor I doubt care and it would have always been useful to you, just in case, of a return, to visit relatives, holidays, etc.

The offer of an overdraft facility is pretty much a damp squid.
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1346 on: May 08, 2018, 12:38:28 PM »
Quite clearly I would have left my UK bank account open, it would essentially cost nothing, they would be none the wiser nor I doubt care and it would have always been useful to you, just in case, of a return, to visit relatives, holidays, etc.

The offer of an overdraft facility is pretty much a damp squid.

I knew it - you ARE a soft sap


As I was earning overseas WHY would I keep a UK bank account open - I had NO tax affairs in the UK


I kept 2 UK credit cards and cleared them from overseas

NOT earning in the UK - no credit history

So, we can add 'financial adviser' to your long list of 'expertise '  :ROFL:


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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1347 on: May 08, 2018, 02:21:06 PM »
I knew it - you ARE a soft sap


As I was earning overseas WHY would I keep a UK bank account open - I had NO tax affairs in the UK


I kept 2 UK credit cards and cleared them from overseas

NOT earning in the UK - no credit history

So, we can add 'financial adviser' to your long list of 'expertise '  :ROFL:

Mobe, UK banks have no idea what you are earning nor tax what you are paying if any. If you had kept your bank account open you would have kept your credit reference file open part of which is details of bank details. Otherwise when they do a credit ref search there are big blank spaces where most people have bank details, etc. Hence your problem occurring.
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1348 on: May 08, 2018, 02:22:29 PM »
"I like soldiers to dip in my runny egg yolks ... "

a real Yorkshire man will have Colman's Mustard with his "soldiers"
the one with yellow tin...

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #1349 on: May 08, 2018, 11:58:17 PM »
Mobe, UK banks have no idea what you are earning nor tax what you are paying if any. If you had kept your bank account open you would have kept your credit reference file open part of which is details of bank details. Otherwise when they do a credit ref search there are big blank spaces where most people have bank details, etc. Hence your problem occurring.

Once again,

Just admit it - you ARE clueless

As I was not earning in the UK - WHY would I send money to a UK bank ?  Sending money there WOULD have caused Tax issues ..

Like I said - you've not got a clue - never been an ex-pat...just more Trench wasting cyberspace


I never closed the account - just didn't USE it



 

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