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Offline Trenchcoat

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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #50 on: July 08, 2018, 03:08:09 PM »
Trench...Insurance is cheap. I pay $90/month on a Gold Plan...

As for Government paid University? You've heard of supply/demand yes? Ask the women and men in Ukraine what a government paid for University got them. It's expected. It's 13th Grade. It devalues the entire purpose of higher education if everyone gets it.

That's cheaper medical insurance than I thought it would cost. I'm sure I heard in the past it could cost thousands a year per person. So if that's the cost then it's not too bad assuming it covers all medical problems.

I think there can be a problem with too many going to Uni. During the 90s and thereafter in the UK, University went from being a priveledge to a rite of passage. This was a big mistake it meant the labour market was massively over supplied with graduates, lowing the salaries to wages you can get for any non-graduate mundane job.

So many would have been better just getting the mundane jobs and giving University a miss, basically those that weren't up to it and those that messed around. However, admission was based on academic merit rather than the size of ones wallet ;D
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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #51 on: July 08, 2018, 05:01:19 PM »
"Some men use that to their advantage."

and some women dear god would never, ever, ever, ever, use their sex appeal to manipulate men to their advantage
they would never stoop so low to that kind of behavior...

ever met a pharmaceutical saleswoman?
they're almost escorts for doctors
the one I personally know makes over $200,000 in commissions and she has just a high school diploma
but she's a super hot MILF
who also gets "gifts" from her doctor clients on top of that
she's one of the smartest women I know and one of the most beautiful...









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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #52 on: July 08, 2018, 09:11:20 PM »

Oly, most people here will give you advice on what to do as if they see themselves in your shoes or give you advice as if they were your parents. Do what's best for you. If young men don't turn you on, don't marry them. I married my wife in 2011 when she was 19. I didn't listen to people here how she is a gold digger and was going to use me for a green card. We're still married and our marriage is getting stronger. Based on your few posts here, you seem to be more mature than most ladies your age and you seem to be a good person and you are looking for a good person. Two good people make good things happen so I hope you find him. I think you will do fine in life.
Fund the audits, spread the word and educate people, write your politicians and other elected officials. Stay active in the fight to save our country. Over 220 generals and admirals say we are in a fight for our survival like no other time since 1776.

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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #53 on: July 08, 2018, 11:37:25 PM »
Oly, most people here will give you advice on what to do as if they see themselves in your shoes or give you advice as if they were your parents. Do what's best for you. If young men don't turn you on, don't marry them. I married my wife in 2011 when she was 19. I didn't listen to people here how she is a gold digger and was going to use me for a green card. We're still married and our marriage is getting stronger. Based on your few posts here, you seem to be more mature than most ladies your age and you seem to be a good person and you are looking for a good person. Two good people make good things happen so I hope you find him. I think you will do fine in life.

Thank you very much! I wish you happiness in your marriage  :)

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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #54 on: July 09, 2018, 07:19:51 AM »
poor guys basically get screwed in the dating game!
the entry to the dating game for poor guys has a gate
and a woman will control your entry through the gate
do you make enough?
are you willing to pay her credit card bills?
spend the rest of your life paying off her mortgage?
willing to suspend all your personal interests while supporting hers?
willing to do whatever she tells you to do?
willing to accept her if she’s 20-30 pounds or more overweight?

if the answer to these questions are all true, then the gate opens for you!
and aren’t you the lucky one!

rich guys, listen up, you don’t need to be a sucker like the poor guys, they can’t help it, they don’t have a choice!!

but you do!

start a business in Ukraine
and hire a secretary

I’m tellin ya...
a 20 yr old fluent in English secretary
with a body like a long distance runner
but generally with larger breasts

salary = 4X normal secretary salary (but this is REALLY generous)
+clothing
+travel

you will have your pick of candidates...





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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #55 on: July 09, 2018, 08:50:14 AM »
Krim,

While this doesn't really say much about relationships in Ukraine, it says loads about how you view your relationship in your marriage.
Kissing girls is a goodness.  It beats the hell out of card games.  - Robert Heinlein

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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #56 on: July 09, 2018, 09:26:13 AM »
"While this doesn't really say much about relationships in Ukraine, it says loads about how you view your relationship in your marriage."

and yet 19 yr and two children later still happily in a relationship wit the same person
golly it must say that I'm pretty good at it
thanks for pointing this out!



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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #57 on: July 09, 2018, 09:39:09 AM »
Oly, most people here will give you advice on what to do as if they see themselves in your shoes or give you advice as if they were your parents.

I'll bet our BillyB had the likes of me in mind when he posted this TRIPE

Oly, Welcome to the forum :  I have a daughter your age - 19

IF she told me she wanted to date an 'ol git like BillyB I'd suddenly be a fan of gun ownership !

Most older guys seek a younger woman and may not want kids - or hope to be better Dads the second time around

I have a great friend who is happily married to a lass 7 years - they lived together 3 years before that and she fell pregnant by him when she was 20 and he was 53..

Now they have one of THE strongest marriages I know - but he nearly died last year and she supported the family financially as he was at death's door - for six months - he was the main bread winner

I honestly don't know why men can get women pregnant when women of a similar age cannot have kids

Mum's and Dad's normally know better by their mistakes and it is hard watching their kids making them

« Last Edit: July 09, 2018, 12:58:36 PM by msmob »

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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #58 on: July 09, 2018, 10:16:38 AM »
About passports. In place where I live bunch of people are citizens of Romania/Bulgaria. Yeah-yeah, don't forget about Bulgaria. Ethnic bulgarians also have chance to get passport and move. You rarely will see family which doesn't have relatives abroad, especially in villages. Almost all my relatives aren't in Ukraine anymore and never will come back. For job and life we usually move to Italy, more rare Spain, Portugal and Greece and even more rare Germany/France. Poland....hmm...not as often as Southern Europe. Personally I don't know anyone who went to Northern Europe or UK. Also, I never saw girl from my place with western/northern european guy. Again, I say about my native city which is far away Odessa. None of my friends isn't interested in westerner.
 So, please, there are bunch of ways to move if person really wants it. Getting mail order and cry about no choices is last thing person can do. But yeah, if woman wants get everything in the easiest way without making paper work herself, hard work in new country and doesn't mind be with old dude, it's her choice. These women represent only small part of our society, but they are reason me and many my friends to be ashamed telling foreigner where from we are.

I put your age at about early to mid twenties.  Because women who are not in relationships in the FSU when they reach 35 are in somewhat of a panic mode and a foreigner sounds very good to them.
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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #59 on: July 09, 2018, 10:35:39 AM »
Jone, yes, I am in mid twenties and don't panic about no husband. Plus, I'm out of stereotype, woman have early to marry and born kids :)

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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #60 on: July 09, 2018, 10:40:19 AM »
why all the BS?
the average schmuck reading this board is lucky to get a visit to meet his potential bride-to-be in her country and then has to decide whether or not to do a 90 day K-1 visa for her to come to his country

at what point does the “love” kick in
the first week or the second week of the K-1 visa?

love??
does this mean you’ll go to the prom together??

are you doing this just to make your mother jealous or something
cause this sounds like some kind of teen-age anxiety you’re feelin

not something I’d expect a “grown ass” man to feel



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Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #61 on: July 09, 2018, 10:56:23 AM »
Thanks for your opinion about it. :) I believe I'll can find what I'm looking for. I also know that many people are still children in many ways. Even men 40-50 years old. And it's not in a bad meaning.

Oly,

Welcome to the forum.


My advice is to join Elena's models, they have significantly more men members than
women. I also think that you should use a more narrow range for men especially in
the beginning.

If you put up to age 30 or so on your profile you can always change it upwards later
and don't worry, older men will still write to you no matter what age you put down.

Here is my opinion as to why you should seek a younger man in the beginning. Older
men seem more worldly because they are more experienced, as you gain life experiences
they will most certainly seem less worldly as time goes by. In 20 years you will be a
experienced woman with most of your life still in front of you and a 45 year old will be
65 years old with most of his life behind him.

When you are 39 you will enjoy things like sex far more than you do now, and a 65
year old man will have difficulty fulfilling your needs and desires. If you married a 30
year old man you wouldn't have the same issues in 20 years. You could still go hiking,
skiing, backpacking, camping etc. together or with your kids when they come home
from the University.

That's just my two kopecks

Udachi!

Bill
« Last Edit: July 09, 2018, 11:00:37 AM by 2tallbill »
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #62 on: July 09, 2018, 03:05:27 PM »
I actually think Oly is genuine and serious enough in her intentions. I've had girls in their early to mid twenties tell me they weren't too young but in reality were in terms of being able to give a serious relationship the mindset needed to make it work. Basically a mindset which prizes holding onto a committed serious relationship above all other concerns with the right man.

I think Oly is one of the few women in her late teens to mid twenties that appears to have a good grasp on why she wants an older guy, the right reasons for being with an older and some of what she can expect in such a relationship.

I think though she is short in some of what she can expect in such a relationship as 2tallbill points out. That is reasonable to expect given he young age though she is unusually well placed on other aspects as said.

Would I date a 19 yr old girl? At my age of late thirties, I did not. The youngest was with a meet with a girl of 24 when I was 38. To be honest even going out on the plane to meet her I felt I was doing something ludicrous. I find younger girls I have an attraction with but I think some are just too young. I'm not really sure that I would feel I was in proper relationship with someone so young, I think it would feel too strange a territory for me. Like some strange dynamic was going on but that it didn't really amount to a partnership buy rather perhaps more a father/daughter combination.
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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #63 on: July 09, 2018, 06:56:38 PM »
Oly, Welcome to the forum :  I have a daughter your age - 19

IF she told me she wanted to date an 'ol git like BillyB I'd suddenly be a fan of gun ownership !


I'm glad you could think of a good reason to own a gun. If any man wants to control the life of your adult daughter, that is the first nutcase you should shoot. You can't control your daughter forever.
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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #64 on: July 09, 2018, 07:16:51 PM »
so if you shoot someone...
and spend the rest of your life in prison
did the gun own you


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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #65 on: July 09, 2018, 07:27:28 PM »
Miss O, Please retain some of the posts for future reference. But do not worry most guys are not so whacked out as some posting.

You might find a decent guy around the corner and it might be a guy from another continent.

If he is from a distant planet please use caution.
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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #66 on: December 15, 2018, 05:23:24 AM »
I think you guys scared Olga away. Nice girl just looking for a man. :-\ You guy's have good information here but your presentation and how you respond to people is not good.

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Re: Russian girl wants to find a good man!
« Reply #67 on: December 15, 2018, 07:32:31 AM »
Welcome to the forum Oly

I have a daughter your age and I'd seriously worry about my daughter wanting a relationship with an man twice her age.

Saying that, I do know couples who have such an age difference and they are very happy

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