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Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« on: February 06, 2021, 07:23:43 AM »
Just wondered if anyone has any experience of this? Does it work well or do problems occur as a result of the love triangle? Presumably the guy is handy if one, both or more of  the Bi-sexual women want children but do Bi-sexual women often want children or do they see it as unhelpful to their relationship situation? Do any specific problems arise in Bi-sexual relationships specific to Bi-sexual relationships?

I've personally never been in a relationship with Bi-sexual women nor I believe physically ever met any that I recall or at least known about so kind of wondered what the deal is here?
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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #1 on: February 06, 2021, 11:03:31 AM »
To clarify, is a bi-sexual someone who has two sets of genitals (like a trans person who couldn't make up their mind), or just a person who is neither male nor female (aka the they-them-their thing)? I can't keep all the confusion straight. 
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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #2 on: February 06, 2021, 12:25:48 PM »
To clarify, is a bi-sexual someone who has two sets of genitals (like a trans person who couldn't make up their mind), or just a person who is neither male nor female (aka the they-them-their thing)? I can't keep all the confusion straight.

I know it's all for a bit ridiculous and silly these days. A Bi-sexual is into both males and females and may be either male or female them self. So I m talking about women that are into both males and females hence making her a Bi-sexual woman. Her organs stay as a woman and she is content with that as she is also content with getting it on with either men or women.

A few weird women (or men) like to go further in terming themselves neither this gender nor that gender or mess around with their genitals but we're distinctly not talking about them. They distinctly should reside in the looney bin as they are just too shot away to be remotely sane.
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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #3 on: February 06, 2021, 12:40:16 PM »
I thought bi-sexuals were those who liked to have sex on bicycles.
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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #4 on: February 06, 2021, 12:59:57 PM »
I know it's all for a bit ridiculous and silly these days. A Bi-sexual is into both males and females and may be either male or female them self. So I m talking about women that are into both males and females hence making her a Bi-sexual woman. Her organs stay as a woman and she is content with that as she is also content with getting it on with either men or women.

A few weird women (or men) like to go further in terming themselves neither this gender nor that gender or mess around with their genitals but we're distinctly not talking about them. They distinctly should reside in the looney bin as they are just too shot away to be remotely sane.

Ah, okay gotcha. So a woman who could be a straight woman or a lesbian woman depending on the mood. Of all the non-traditional activities that are going on today I think this is about the only one I could get behind (lol).
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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #5 on: February 06, 2021, 02:10:33 PM »
To clarify, is a bi-sexual someone who has two sets of genitals (like a trans person who couldn't make up their mind), or just a person who is neither male nor female (aka the they-them-their thing)? I can't keep all the confusion straight.

A bi-sexual person is sexually attracted to both men and women.

Hermaphroditism, the condition of having both male and female reproductive organs.

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Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #6 on: February 06, 2021, 02:11:39 PM »
I thought bi-sexuals were those who liked to have sex on bicycles.

I dated a girl who was a tri-sexual, she would try anything.
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Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #7 on: February 06, 2021, 02:29:09 PM »
Just wondered if anyone has any experience

I dated a women a couple times who previously had a girl friend, 
it didn't work out. You are really asking about you having sex with
two girls, or getting yourself in a situation where that might happen.

If this is a bucket list fantasy that you absolutely must experience then
hire a couple escort then describe to them in detail exactly how you want
it to play out, then get them to agree with your details.

There is no scenario where you figure out how to make this happen organically
with normal, somewhat attractive women after listening to sage advice on the
forum. Besides you NEVER listen to sage advice, surely you would foul it up.

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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #8 on: February 06, 2021, 03:30:32 PM »
I have three close female friends who are bisexual. Two are from one circle of friends and one from another. The two date men, but have got together in the past, usually when they’ve had a few drinks and are single. I got together with with one casually occasionally, but never as a threesome. One is now engaged to a man.

Unrelated to my friends above, five years ago I attended my first speed dating event. I got there early and started chatting with two women who were friends since school (had their first sexual experience together) and there was some chemistry with one especially. We all decided to go out for drinks and they kissed a few times during the evening. Later we ended up at one of their houses and one thing lead to another and I had something to write to the penthouse readers forum about 😂. We got together a few times, after a night out drinking.

I started seeing one casually. We would go out for dinner regularly and went to a few rodeos and a B&S ball. There was some tension between the friends and eventually I stopped hanging out with the girl I liked. I’m stilll FB friends with her and we chat occasionally. She got married to a man a few years back and divorced him last year.

The most recent experience with a bisexual women (likes women more), was the first FSU person to contact me on FDating. We become what you would describe as pen friends for a few weeks and in a round about way she’s the reason I took this dating adventure.

My advice not through experience, but reading a lot of stories on relationship forums
is...don’t ever bring a third person into a committed relationship (casual..ok). Most people’s stories end in tears. Someone always seems to catch feelings for the third person and the threesome soon becomes a twosome and the third left regretting they suggested or agreed to the idea.

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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #9 on: February 06, 2021, 04:25:05 PM »
I have three close female friends who are bisexual. Two are from one circle of friends and one from another. The two date men, but have got together in the past, usually when they’ve had a few drinks and are single. I got together with with one casually occasionally, but never as a threesome. One is now engaged to a man.

Unrelated to my friends above, five years ago I attended my first speed dating event. I got there early and started chatting with two women who were friends since school (had their first sexual experience together) and there was some chemistry with one especially. We all decided to go out for drinks and they kissed a few times during the evening. Later we ended up at one of their houses and one thing lead to another and I had something to write to the penthouse readers forum about 😂. We got together a few times, after a night out drinking.

I started seeing one casually. We would go out for dinner regularly and went to a few rodeos and a B&S ball. There was some tension between the friends and eventually I stopped hanging out with the girl I liked. I’m stilll FB friends with her and we chat occasionally. She got married to a man a few years back and divorced him last year.

The most recent experience with a bisexual women (likes women more), was the first FSU person to contact me on FDating. We become what you would describe as pen friends for a few weeks and in a round about way she’s the reason I took this dating adventure.

My advice not through experience, but reading a lot of stories on relationship forums
is...don’t ever bring a third person into a committed relationship (casual..ok). Most people’s stories end in tears. Someone always seems to catch feelings for the third person and the threesome soon becomes a twosome and the third left regretting they suggested or agreed to the idea.

Yeah I see what you mean from what you say it's probably not going to be beneficial to me. It looks like the whole Bi concept adds a whole another layer of complexity to the relationship situation in probably many ways. Thinking about it at a base level it means the Bi person is attracted to way more people than a straight person or lesbian since they do both genders. I've heard some can have a slight preference for one gender over the other but odds are unless a perfect relationship was strayed upon a relationship probably wouldn't last long. My guess is that Bi people as a result probably live to live more than they live to settle down in life.
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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #10 on: February 06, 2021, 06:21:52 PM »
Trench, if you want to have some casual fun, now is the perfect time (early 40’s).

I met my ex when I was in my teens and missed all the fun most men have in their teens and 20’s that I see my sons having now. I was determined after my divorce to experience that too.

It was an eye opening experience. There were lots of women in the same situation as me who just wanted some fun after long and often sexless marriages at the end. The opportunities are endless and women are very forward now days. There were times where I’d be at a pub with my female friends, they introduce me to someone they knew and half an hour later I’d be back in their bedroom. One women i’d met 5 minutes earlier followed me out to my car and basically molested me in the car park!!

Sure they aren’t most aren’t marriage material, but if I was you I wouldn’t be singularly focused on just FSU women because first you’re missing some good times at home and maybe one of these casual interactions is the woman of your dreams. Secondly FSU dating isn’t as easy as it’s made out to be. I’d say it’s a the same odds as winning a coin toss at best for most men in 2021 (unless you’re searching in the 40+ age range)

The first woman I met after my divorce was just after some casual fun, she was intelligent and as attractive as most FSU women (11 years younger than me). We developed genuine feeling for each other and if it wasn’t for my ex blocking me in court from moving interstate with her, we would probably be married now.

Go out and have fun at home between your FSU trips and you might be surprised who you will meet.... If not you will have some fond memories and no regrets when you’re too old to have those opportunities.

The added bonus for you is any time spent in a woman’s company as someone who hasn’t dated much is a benefit. I was clueless when I when I first started dating and even those “chew your arm off in he morning” situations were valuable lessons and I had my fair share of them. The more I dated, the more my confidence grew and the bigger my female friendship circles become which snowballed into further introductions..... So after several years of this lifestyle, when I arrived in Russia it didn’t feel daunting at all. I knew what I was looking for and it felt as as natural as it did at home.

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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #11 on: February 07, 2021, 12:41:43 AM »
TBH, why would you bother...?🤔

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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #12 on: February 07, 2021, 12:54:33 AM »
Clearly Krimster has succumbed to the unknown virus of unspecified origin as he would be all over this...

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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #13 on: February 07, 2021, 03:06:32 AM »
Clearly Krimster has succumbed to the unknown virus of unspecified origin as he would be all over this...
Are you saying he's gone down with the Wuhan Wog...?

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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #14 on: February 07, 2021, 05:12:28 AM »
On a similar subject does anyone know where JayH has gone?. The moment Corona hit our shores he’s been MIA. Even on whatapp he’s been missing, which is unusual because he communicated with his GF on there daily.

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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #15 on: February 07, 2021, 05:19:29 AM »
RIP Krimster, If this thread didnt bring him out, nothing will

Never wanted a 3 some, turned them down when  casually dating. My GF before going to Russia, after 5 years thought she wanted to try it. I refused, she kept insisting. I was hoping I could turn her into wife material, that was the last straw. I get 100% of the emotional energy of my girl, I dont share. So I went off to Russia in search of women sheltered from Western Depravity. It was the 90s then, found one, but guessing it caught up in Russia by now

Trench, think of it this way. You often think of things, money vs sex . Its like taking on another girl in your house. You pay all the bills, and you only get half the sex from the one you love. Heck, after the first week, you might not even like the new girl. What if the new girl has a BF on the side, she is going to want to invite your GF to spend the night with them.

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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #16 on: February 07, 2021, 07:40:09 AM »

I met my ex when I was in my teens and missed all the fun most men have in their teens and 20’s that I see my sons having now. I was determined after my divorce to experience that too.

It was an eye opening experience. There were lots of women in the same situation as me who just wanted some fun after long and often sexless marriages at the end. The opportunities are endless and women are very forward now days. There were times where I’d be at a pub with my female friends, they introduce me to someone they knew and half an hour later I’d be back in their bedroom. One women i’d met 5 minutes earlier followed me out to my car and basically molested me in the car park!!

Davo, that's my story  also.

I was just barely 20 when married, so missed all the wild 20s adventures.

When I was freed from a very long marriage, I went to FSU because I knew I could trade up there.

Spent time with a ton of women, many of whom were sex starved.

I told just recently here how one gal wanted me to bring a second gal into our bedroom.  But I told her she must find the second gal.
Nothing actually occurred.
This gal was off the chart with sex drive, but too volatile for me.
She eventually married another UM.
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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #17 on: February 07, 2021, 08:27:35 AM »
Just wondered if anyone has any experience of this? Does it work well or do problems occur as a result of the love triangle? Presumably the guy is handy if one, both or more of  the Bi-sexual women want children but do Bi-sexual women often want children or do they see it as unhelpful to their relationship situation? Do any specific problems arise in Bi-sexual relationships specific to Bi-sexual relationships?

I've personally never been in a relationship with Bi-sexual women nor I believe physically ever met any that I recall or at least known about so kind of wondered what the deal is here?


I was married to a beautiful Bi-sexual woman for 12 years...and we had a son.


She lived with a rather unattractive butch woman before she met me,but she never expressed any desire to bring any other woman into our relationship...or have a relationship with any.


We sometimes went clubbing in London and yes she'd be kissing with other women,but she never expressed any desire to get romantically involved with them,although she certainly was attracted to women.


Since we split up ten years ago she's only been in relationships with men.


Interestingly the one woman i went to meet in Ukraine came out as Bi-sexual on our second date when she brought up she was quite happy to get passionate with girls  she met when she was out clubbing.


Last i heard she is married to a Ukrainian man and they have a child.


I doubt there's any hard and fast rules about Bi-sexuals..

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Re: Dating a Bi-sexual woman
« Reply #18 on: February 07, 2021, 04:35:53 PM »
Clearly Krimster has succumbed to the unknown virus of unspecified origin as he would be all over this...

Either that or things have not gone well with the Russian Mafia he was marrying his daughter off too while apparently going to work for them at the same time. I assume that would have all gone through now however it worked out.
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