"Why don't you just date an American woman?"

[TheTraveler]

FT,

You following rivardco across from one forum to another (and one that bears no relation to your geographical interests/experiences) - and then almost exclusively posting ONLY in response to rivardco - is, well, kind of creepy in an internet stalking kind of way.

- Dan

i noticed that, too.
 
it's like fathertime is rivardco's own personal paparazzi.

[Muzh]

It is a homogeneous group here - like a church / support group.  First, you presume that my associations to the porn industry paint my life, as if one would spot me, or have diner with me ... and say "hey, you are in the porn industry".   Ludicrous!   What kind of skill set  must a person possess to negotiate with banks to accept high risk paper / processing?  Not what you are guessing - I GUESS

And, it may be very interesting to you narrow-minded fellas, that even "good girls" - when they see that I can win the approval of difficult parents and brothers quite often are TURNED ON - NOT OFF - by my professional associations. 

But, I imagine that is a world that none of you good people know anything about.   The idea of being "good in bed" is something you guys probably need to "psych your self up for"  LOL  I mean, based upon your comments and observations, it is a little world that you live in .  I find that many women want to be with a man that does not have to guess, and has some rather exceptional experiences.

You are so funny rivardco. 

So, let me get this right. You go to some porno seminars and then to Colombia (or vise versa, it don't matter), shack up with a few latinas and that gives you all the answers to life and love? AND in Latin America?

I would waste my time trying to straighten your misconceptions but why bother.

Let's just say that in your small little world the so called "church/support group" is basically your ethos. The standard that is used to measure civilization. Then, of course, there are the exceptions. You claim to be that exception and I agree.

However, you are not exceptional.

Hope you can understand that.

[IAmZon]

So, let me get this right. You go to some porno seminars and then to Colombia (or vise versa, it don't matter), shack up with a few latinas and that gives you all the answers to life and love? AND in Latin America?

LOL - THANK YOU TOO for demonstrating my point!

So, let ME get this right!  You receive some fragments of my life, read posts, assumptions, and name calling from people who have never met me, nor know me ... and that, qualifies you to even begin to sum up my life ?!?!?  But, nevertheless you do with the above quote?

DO YOU UNDERSTAND?!? 

[Muzh]

LOL - THANK YOU TOO for demonstrating my point!

So, let ME get this right!  You receive some fragments of my life, read posts, assumptions, and name calling from people who have never met me, nor know me ... and that, qualifies you to even begin to sum up my life ?!?!?  But, nevertheless you do with the above quote?

DO YOU UNDERSTAND?!?

I thought you were being funny. Now you are bordering into the idiotic. 

I didn't invent anything about you. There are about 100 pages full of your "accomplishments," videos included, provided by yourself.

And loving all this attention.

Now, do you understand?

[missAmeno]

Riv, not sure if you are aware but ... capitalizing full word or phrase is same as shouting online.

[LiveFromUkraine]

LOL - THANK YOU TOO for demonstrating my point!

So, let ME get this right!  You receive some fragments of my life, read posts, assumptions, and name calling from people who have never met me, nor know me ... and that, qualifies you to even begin to sum up my life ?!?!?  But, nevertheless you do with the above quote?

DO YOU UNDERSTAND?!?

Yet, you seem to be doing the very same thing.

Shall we go through all the posts were you make assumptions about the members here?  It could take some time. 

Do you understand?

[IAmZon]

Attention?  A Mild diversion. 

The truth is I am curious to see if one, or all of you is going to say "Ah, I was just kidding."  Or, maybe you guys are some strange version of the "Pro-Marriage Jerry Falwell Society."

Mush; Ms. A; G; LivefromUkraine

That's about it.

[LiveFromUkraine]

Attention?  A Mild diversion. 

The truth is I am curious to see if one, or all of you is going to say "Ah, I was just kidding."  Or, maybe you guys are some strange version of the "Pro-Marriage Jerry Falwell Society."

Mush; Ms. A; G; LivefromUkraine

That's about it.

Maybe we can get Gator or Bo to translate for you.  The delusions are getting so strong it is hard to follow.

[fathertime]

FT,

You following rivardco across from one forum to another (and one that bears no relation to your geographical interests/experiences) - and then almost exclusively posting ONLY in response to rivardco - is, well, kind of creepy in an internet stalking kind of way.

- Dan

1.  I communicated with Rivardco off the forum and he mentioned this site and that he was having trouble with with some people.  I was curious and decided to take a look, and now I'm interested in participating.  These boards are populated by individuals, some of which have stories that interest me, regardless of what the country they are searching in. 


2.  You may find it creepy, but that is not relevant to me.  I could say I find certain things about you creepy too, and I would assume it is not relevant to you either.


Fathertime! 

[fathertime]

Actually, I have grown fond of FT in a weird kind of way.

But, again he assumes that I know women like History 101.  And, to some extent that is true.  I have not been interested in developing real, deep, relationships until recently.  But, the relationships I have had have been sufficiently deep for comparison and conversation - especially when we consider the group here.

Well Rivardo,  Something has always told me that you weren't being truthful about your interest or lack of interest in the ladies.  Based on what I've read of yours, it seems to me that you HAVE BEEN interested in having a relation/marriage with a lady but haven't been able to muster the necessary characteristics within yourself to pull it off.  Since you realize this, you go on an 'anti marriage' rampage, in order to make yourself feel like you are doing what you want.     In my opinion, you should be working on the aspects of yourself that have been holding you back in regards to women and what it takes to commit and be happily married with one. 


Fathertime! 

[fathertime]

i noticed that, too.
 
it's like fathertime is rivardco's own personal paparazzi.

All his posting has turned me into a Rivardco fan!  I find his story to be an interesting novel, the main problem with it though that he can't put a wrap on chapter 1 and move on to chapter 2, that is the part I'd be even more interested in hearing about! 


 


Fathertime! 

[BC]

Well Rivardo,  Something has always told me that you weren't being truthful about your interest or lack of interest in the ladies.  Based on what I've read of yours, it seems to me that you HAVE BEEN interested in having a relation/marriage with a lady but haven't been able to muster the necessary characteristics within yourself to pull it off.  Since you realize this, you go on an 'anti marriage' rampage, in order to make yourself feel like you are doing what you want.     In my opinion, you should be working on the aspects of yourself that have been holding you back in regards to women and what it takes to commit and be happily married with one. 


Fathertime!

Sounds like pretty solid critique. (I hate the term advice).  In a way it seems you care and that's good.  Maybe a bit of BTDT (been there done that) kinda thing?  Not suggesting the same road, but instead general moral compass direction.

[fathertime]

Sounds like pretty solid critique. (I hate the term advice).  In a way it seems you care and that's good.  Maybe a bit of BTDT (been there done that) kinda thing?  Not suggesting the same road, but instead general moral compass direction.

Correct sir!  I relate to Rivardco (sometimes).  I have overcome my own shortcomings, in part because I've been honest with myself and others.  It just seems to me that that is not the case with Rivardo, and he is only hurting himself by refusing to confront/overcome his own shortcomings.  I also enjoy giving him a VERY hard time, because I think he needs it! 


Fathertime!

[BC]

Correct sir!  I relate to Rivardco (sometimes).  I have overcome my own shortcomings, in part because I've been honest with myself and others.  It just seems to me that that is not the case with Rivardo, and he is only hurting himself by refusing to confront/overcome his own shortcomings.  I also enjoy giving him a VERY hard time, because I think he needs it! 


Fathertime!

Fair game for the 'clue bat' IMHO....

But don't expect miracles.. some learn only by the rules of 'hard knocks'.  Even the best teachers need to know when to let go.

[TheTraveler]

All his posting has turned me into a Rivardco fan!  I find his story to be an interesting novel, the main problem with it though that he can't put a wrap on chapter 1 and move on to chapter 2, that is the part I'd be even more interested in hearing about! 

Fathertime!

since he has invited you, then i guess that means you're not a stalker.  that's cool.  my bad!
 
i enjoy his posts, too, which i find entertaining and interesting --- never boring.
 
i am in full agreement with the idea that what he (or anyone) posts is fair game for vigorous debate.
 
i have noticed a handful of posters on this forum hurl insults and call rivardco names repetitively (pimp, pornographer,...).  they seem more interested in shouting him down or running him off this website than in debating him.  that i don't agree with.

[missAmeno]

i have noticed a handful of posters on this forum hurl insults and call rivardco names repetitively (pimp, pornographer,...).  they seem more interested in shouting him down or running him off this website than in debating him.  that i don't agree with.

I would love to answer to that but it seems that we all turning this thread into resumption of closed thread.

[Faux Pas]

since he has invited you, then i guess that means you're not a stalker.  that's cool.  my bad!
 
i enjoy his posts, too, which i find entertaining and interesting --- never boring.
 
i am in full agreement with the idea that what he (or anyone) posts is fair game for vigorous debate.
 
i have noticed a handful of posters on this forum hurl insults and call rivardco names repetitively (pimp, pornographer,...).  they seem more interested in shouting him down or running him off this website than in debating him.  that i don't agree with.

I haven't seen rivardco interested in debating anything with anyone. I have numerous times asked him pointed questions to which he only deflects, avoids and ignores. Then he repeats, rinse and repeats.

Rather than discuss/debate the topic at hand he continuously reverts back to his collective opinion of the forum members and has turned even this thread into "all about riv". He's boring. At least there was a little spice to him when the discussion was in his thread and about porn and pimping. He's about as entertaining and interesting as boiled okra ever since.

 I did refer to him and Jonny Zon Zon as a pimp and he/them are or were in fact pimp(s). They are one and the same are they not?

[kmin]

OK,

Hello everyone, how is it going? 

I can see that all of you have become quite lost and need directions back to the OP.

If you look  over that direction you can see the trail is through the bush, over the hill, and past the river.

Ok back to why you don't just date an American Woman....

Well my answer (new and improved....a little on the sarcastic side) is......

I found my soul mate in Siberia and we are engaged to get married this fall, and as such I am not dating any American Women or any other woman because I found the one who I want to spend my entire life with.

[Gator]

Well my answer (new and improved....a little on the sarcastic side) is......

I found my soul mate in Siberia and we are engaged to get married this fall, and as such I am not dating any American Women or any other woman because I found the one who I want to spend my entire life with.

Congratulations! 
 
Presuming you met your wife on the Internet, what compelled you to go to those webpages when it would be far easier to meet someone from your hometown.  You had to obtain a Russian tourist visa, you had to buy an expensive air ticket, you had to rent an apartment, you had to use your vacation time, etc.  That is a $3,000 blind date vs. $50 with a local woman. 

[Muzh]

Okay, let's follow the OP.

Why don't I date an American woman?

Because I'm married at the moment. 

[Turboguy]

That is a $3,000 blind date vs. $50 with a local woman.

There is an old saying "You get what you pay for." 
 

[Faux Pas]

Okay, let's follow the OP.

Why don't I date an American woman?

Because I'm married at the moment. 

I dated many, many AW and loved them all. I even married one that turned out to be Satan's spawn. I loved her too, for a while 

[ML]

FT,

You following rivardco across from one forum to another (and one that bears no relation to your geographical interests/experiences) - and then almost exclusively posting ONLY in response to rivardco - is, well, kind of creepy in an internet stalking kind of way.

- Dan

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Dan, that same thing happens right here within this forum.

Watch and you will see the 'Saints' following some others from thread to thread and attacking.

[LiveFromUkraine]

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Dan, that same thing happens right here within this forum.

Watch and you will see the 'Saints' following some others from thread to thread and attacking.

You must have been a hall monitor back in your school days.

Now, certain members can't post in the same threads as Riv otherwise they will be called stalkers? 

[ML]

There is an old saying "You get what you pay for."

And, you yourself have given ample proof before that this is not true.

Remember your examples of getting identical TV dinners at Walmart at significantly lower price than at Giant Eagle, Kroger or where ever.

I have NEVER believed in this old saying.