I came across this article, in particular-- it started me wondering about some of our contributors on this forum -- and how these characteristics are not present in some .
The basics really apply to anyone women are talking to - !
This is translated -- so a little clumsy in places.
5 main signs of a successful manAt the start of a relationship, it is not always possible to understand who you are destined to be - a future millionaire or a poor fellow - a loser.
There are many examples where men with modest financial capabilities, but possessing the necessary qualities, became successful and climbed to the top of the social ladder, writes in the blog Elena Lubchenko.
So
, 5 key qualities of a man with a perspective:
1. He is an optimist. Find a way out of any difficult situation, encourage others and yourself, not to see problems, but opportunities are sure signs that your husband is an optimist and you will not get lost!
2. It is inherent in flexibility and creativity. The world survives those who can quickly adapt to changing circumstances. Change the specialty, close the business, start a completely new business after the crisis - it can only people who are psychologically flexible and open.
3. Responsibility is another important quality of men with perspective. Creativity is good, but it's important not to break away from reality and understand your responsibility for the family, your business, your word.
4. He is energetic and easy to climb. Without a lot of reasoning, your man can get involved in active activities, and not for years plan and dream, discussing the successes of others over beer.
5. He knows how to get along with people. Scientists call this "emotional competence," and research claims that success in career and life is 80% dependent on this skill. In men with a high level of emotional intelligence, everything usually develops well - both in life and in careers.
Now change the five listed pluses to cons - and you get 5 alert alerts.
Studies show that pessimism; stiffness and inflexibility; Lack of responsibility; inertia and apathy; inability to get along with people and eternal dissatisfaction with others - they can even transform a major with a good start into a classic loser.
http://ukrainianwall.com/society/v-tochku-5-glavnyh-priznakov-uspeshnogo-muzhchiny/