During the nine days with Tatyana we talked about many issues. One of them was how she ended up having her profile on the website where I found her. It is an other story how I found her.
First she went to one of her local marriage agencies. They wanted to take photos of her, choose the photos (and not let Tatyana to choose them) and they wanted that she would answer to men's letters even she did not like the guy. She did not like this and she decided not to use their services.
Instead she went to one photo studio and made photos. She got four. I saw three of them on the website. When I visited her home, she showed me all four, but at first she didn't show lower part of one photo, which I hadn't seen. She let me see it completely. It was a type of photo women quite usually have: lean forward and main subject being her breasts. She did not want to use this photo. Some women does, but she didn't.
She placed her profile on one big website and she got many letters in short period of time. She cancelled her profile for reasons. One reason was that she thought that many men just write to new women. She has long working days. Would you read all letters after a hard working day?
Then later she placed her profile on quieter website, because she thought that men who would write to her would be interested just in her. Now she got only few letters and my letter was one of them. My letter was not a generic letter (except for one part). It had a lot of references to her ad.
Many girls don't have opportunity to use Internet. Their only(?) possibility is to use local agencies and some of them might be like the one she told me about. Girls are used and men are used in this setup.
Tatyana has her own e-mail address and a possibility to use Internet every day. This is the reason she could search a man without local agencies.