Let me guess ML - you have never turned down sex. Not being critical, just suggesting everyone is different.
One instance comes to mind. Not that it was a definite sex, but . . .
A graduate student was working with one of my small companies. Age 23 or so. I was at least 30 years older at the time.
I had known her for several years before employing her; can't remember how we first became acquainted.
She liked the outdoor life and had grown up on a large farm, even as her father was a medical doctor.
Once, when I bought several wooded acres in the area, she said she wanted to go visit with me.
She had told a few weeks before how her parents were starting divorce procedures, and she was sort of caught in the middle and they both were using her to convey messages to the other, etc. It was quite stressful to her and she had shown 'breakdown emotion' at work a couple of times that I had observed.
Anyway, out in the woods we had to cross over some small creeks, fallen trees, etc. Can't remember which, but I took her hand to help her over in those cases. After one such incidence she kept holding onto my hand, pulling it into her body and said . . . why don't we just stay here for awhile.
The thing I remember is that I immediately thought that this was all due to her stress and she just wanted someone to be close with, and perhaps even intimate . . . and that it had nothing to do with any real attraction to me.
So based on the 'no real attraction' and her distressed state of mind, I just kept us walking along.
I think in this situation the appropriate call was to take no action. I think in your (Gator's) situation the appropriate call was to take action.