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Re: My wife is amazing...
« Reply #100 on: May 27, 2018, 12:46:58 PM »
Billy, Billy, Billy....
why do you want to make this about “how big of a man you are”
you know the kind of men who think this way?
little men, Billy, little men...

first, this story IMHO is being magnified in both the telling and the hearing

since you seem to be entirely ignorant of the nuances of Russian social etiquette
let me offer you my much needed assistance...

a response by YOU towards any offender of your wife’s “virtue”
is ONLY required if it is done in your PRESENCE
otherwise Russians will think you are some kind of possessive “Psycho”
if you respond later

that’s one thing

second, if this guy is some kind of oligarch
you are outgunned so badly that any approach by you
would end in your complete humiliation
if you are lucky

what our man experienced is all normal there
you better learn to adapt to it and the other 540 things that will piss you off there


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Re: My wife is amazing...
« Reply #101 on: May 27, 2018, 12:54:18 PM »

Krimster, this doesn't have to be complicated. If you wife asks for your help, it's a simple yes or no answer. Keep dancing around the question if you want.
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Re: My wife is amazing...
« Reply #102 on: May 27, 2018, 02:14:35 PM »
your wife would never ask you for help in this situation, seriously!

I know, because as I have said, I have been there and done that
and what I learned was:

1. it's not an actual threat to your family so you don't have to escalate this to a life or death situation
2. if you make any kind of public scene about it, YOU will be the bad guy!

it's REAL easy for someone who wants to do you harm, to go ahead and do just that if they want
they could sue you in court for title to your property and pay the judge
take over your bank accounts
all that is super easy for someone with wealth and power to do
or just pay someone to kill you and make it look like a robbery gone bad

to people of power you always want to present yourself as someone who someday might be useful to them
if you can use common sense to not be on their shit list you better use it

but like I say this is just one type of potential problem, that arises from something halfway accepted in one culture
but is a trigger in another culture
hope you like people cutting in front of you in line - you gonna have a fist fight each time this happens?
what will you do when you see your neighbors dumping their garbage on your lawn, ya gonna fight them to?
when pedestrians run right out 20 feet in front of you without looking, you gonna run em over?
and on and on and on.....

no, you are not

you are going to mellow the hell out
and not act so god damned insecure
because to be quite honest with you Billy,
if you're livin large in Russia
ya got better things to be doin than fightin with pretty much every single person you meet there
when you go to Russia
leave insecurity at home
and bring a metal detector or something useful like that instead

 

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Re: My wife is amazing...
« Reply #103 on: May 27, 2018, 02:29:58 PM »
your wife would never ask you for help in this situation, seriously!


You just keep dancing. Never say never. The situation in your nightmares isn't anywhere near as bad as Deccie has stated.

Gentlemen, I've got over 11,000 posts here. I've probably read over 100,000 posts. I've been on  forums like this for over a dozen years. I've been involved with numerous FSU women for over 20 years but it's funny you are trying to educate me on how bad businessmen and mafia are in the FSU as if I never read or was told about it. Even if they are bad people, if your wife is in a bad situation and she asks for help, the answer should be clear. If she's asking, a simple yes or no answer is all that is required. Trying to educate her on how bad businessmen and mafia are is silly after the question. She's factored in those facts before asking the question.

Trust the women who lived there that they know about their culture and if they feel the circumstance requires their man to have a talk to the guy, what will you do? Don't keep dancing and say it will never happen. What will you do Krimster if your wife asks for help? I know your wife won't put you in harms way unnecessarily unless doing nothing is more harmful based off the way it's escalating. Any married man or single man here is free to answer the question. Hopefully you don't get a dance partner Krimster.
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Re: My wife is amazing...
« Reply #104 on: May 27, 2018, 02:44:21 PM »
an oligarch is untouchable under any circumstance
especially by a foreigner
wife would have to avoid all future contact with him
if that means she takes a leave of absence from work...

you cannot make ANY public move against this guy, period
any attempt at intimidation will be met with laughter by him
he’ll call you a “bug" he could easily crush, and he’s correct...
but, this conversation make just him a little paranoid about you
so really what you just did was “tip him off” about your evil intentions

if you have to have a go at the king
you better not fail
and you better not tip him off

you just don’t sound like the kinda guy to do this
cuz if you were
you’d never “talk” about it
hmmm hmmm
cuz you wouldn’t have to
right...??

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Re: My wife is amazing...
« Reply #105 on: May 27, 2018, 02:51:11 PM »
Finally a sensible comment.  I said the same at beginning.  "It is getting deep in here."


I disagree.  He didn't post that 350 roses were delivered in one vase.  350 roses is just under 30 dozen.  They can be delivered, either on stem or in vases, likely not in one vase. 
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Re: My wife is amazing...
« Reply #106 on: May 27, 2018, 03:14:37 PM »

If I were born without testicles and someone asked me if I was the type of guy who would risk my life to protect my kids if they were facing harm, I would not dance around the question. I would not hesitate to answer. I would not say it could never happen because I can't have kids. I would say "Yes, I'm the type of guy that would protect my family." Easy answer.

When I joined the military, I understood that could mean dying for my country. That doesn't mean I'll run into a hail of bullets without thinking first. In war and Deccie's situation, all options are bad but the situation to be dealt with in a way to cause the least amount of harm but harm already happened and can get worse. If asked to reduce harm to the wife, it seems some men here feel harm to the wife is better than harm to themselves.

an oligarch is untouchable under any circumstance
especially by a foreigner

I thought you knew about Russia. A few oligarchs are sitting in prison right now. Give Putin grief and they are getting touched. Creating an international incident to have fun with a married woman and hurting Russia's image is plain stupid. I mentioned upthread how to plant a seed in the guy's head without threats.

Anyway, I'll chalk your answer to be a "no" if your wife asked for help against a businessman because you automatically assume he's an oligarch. You're rationalizing every incident is worst case scenario.

He didn't post that 350 roses were delivered in one vase.  350 roses is just under 30 dozen.  They can be delivered, either on stem or in vases, likely not in one vase. 


I assume a florist would deliver them like any florist would, in a van with a few employees carrying them to the recipient.
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Re: My wife is amazing...
« Reply #107 on: May 27, 2018, 04:37:18 PM »
"I thought you knew about Russia. A few oligarchs are sitting in prison right now. Give Putin grief a"

seriously, so you're on Putin's level now are you, wow!!!
you better put on a uniform and salute yourself in the mirror
AT-TEN-TION!!!

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Re: My wife is amazing...
« Reply #108 on: September 12, 2018, 02:16:46 PM »
your wife would never ask you for help in this situation, seriously!

I know, because as I have said, I have been there and done that
and what I learned was:

1. it's not an actual threat to your family so you don't have to escalate this to a life or death situation
2. if you make any kind of public scene about it, YOU will be the bad guy!

it's REAL easy for someone who wants to do you harm, to go ahead and do just that if they want
they could sue you in court for title to your property and pay the judge rencontres russes take over your bank accounts
all that is super easy for someone with wealth and power to do
or just pay someone to kill you and make it look like a robbery gone bad

to people of power you always want to present yourself as someone who someday might be useful to them
if you can use common sense to not be on their shit list you better use it

but like I say this is just one type of potential problem, that arises from something halfway accepted in one culture
but is a trigger in another culture
hope you like people cutting in front of you in line - you gonna have a fist fight each time this happens?
what will you do when you see your neighbors dumping their garbage on your lawn, ya gonna fight them to?
when pedestrians run right out 20 feet in front of you without looking, you gonna run em over?
and on and on and on.....

no, you are not


You are going to mellow the hell out
and not act so god damned insecure
because to be quite honest with you Billy,
if you're livin large in Russia
ya got better things to be doin than fightin with pretty much every single person you meet there
when you go to Russia
leave insecurity at home
and bring a metal detector or something useful like that instead
Let's hope, let's love
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Re: My wife is amazing...
« Reply #109 on: September 12, 2018, 03:25:19 PM »
You are going to mellow the hell out


Hmm

You live in Ukraine ?

VVP's popularity has nose-dived - mainly over the pensions age being raised

He's spent public money he didn't have on vanity projects

A combination of his economic mis-management, away games in third states and corruption and nepotism at upper echelons is coming home to roost. 

The last elections were a farce ...  A ticking time bomb of discontent will need to be appeased 
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Re: My wife is amazing...
« Reply #110 on: September 12, 2018, 03:33:25 PM »
Pretty clever, Arti, if that post was intentional. LMAO!
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Re: My wife is amazing...
« Reply #111 on: September 12, 2018, 03:36:17 PM »
Hmm

You live in Ukraine ?

VVP's popularity has nose-dived - mainly over the pensions age being raised

He's spent public money he didn't have on vanity projects

A combination of his economic mis-management, away games in third states and corruption and nepotism at upper echelons is coming home to roost. 

The last elections were a farce ...  A ticking time bomb of discontent will need to be appeased

VVP's popularity is not relevant. Putin is a lame duck. Next election is 2024 and he is constitutionally barred from running. Which means he'll have to sit out until 2030 unless he wants to do a term as PM.

If Putin were eligible to run his team knows which ballot boxes need stuffing to get the required vote count to win.

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Re: My wife is amazing...
« Reply #112 on: September 12, 2018, 04:05:00 PM »

Deccie, in another thread, posted he met the rich guy who was chasing his wife and everything is cool now.
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« Reply #113 on: September 12, 2018, 06:40:14 PM »
Deccie, in another thread, posted he met the rich guy who was chasing his wife and everything is cool now.

Good news. Glad to hear it.

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« Reply #114 on: September 12, 2018, 07:20:26 PM »
Deccie, in another thread, posted he met the rich guy who was chasing his wife and everything is cool now.

What thread is that ?
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Re: My wife is amazing...
« Reply #115 on: September 12, 2018, 08:10:19 PM »
What thread is that ?


I do remember Deccie saying this.
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« Reply #116 on: September 12, 2018, 09:57:37 PM »
VVP's popularity is not relevant.

 :ROFL:  EVERY leader likes and even needs to be popular ...   


Putin is a lame duck.

He is ? ... He's only about a 10th into this term ?... Do you you see him resigning ?;)


Next election is 2024 and he is constitutionally barred from running. Which means he'll have to sit out until 2030 unless he wants to do a term as PM.

He'll just change the constitution or a 'replacement' will serve in name only with the 'Prime Minister' being 'the man' ..

Weren't you paying attention when Medvedev was 'leader' ?



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« Reply #117 on: September 12, 2018, 10:26:07 PM »
Good news. Glad to hear it.

Unfortunately the other thread he talked about situations in his life worse than what happened in this thread. In this thread I didn't recommend him to disrupt his and his family's life by running away. Based on what's going on his life now, I recommend him and his family leaving Russia forever.

What thread is that ?

It's the thread where he said he's got serious financial issues. It's one of the last posts he made in the thread.
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« Reply #118 on: September 12, 2018, 11:00:51 PM »
:ROFL:  EVERY leader likes and even needs to be popular ...   

Putin doesn't care if the people approve of a project he wants carried out. If Putin wants the project done he'll get it done whether or
not the Russian people want it done.


He'll just change the constitution or a 'replacement' will serve in name only with the 'Prime Minister' being 'the man' ..

Weren't you paying attention when Medvedev was 'leader' ?

Putin will be 72 in 2024 so there's always the chance he might not do a term as PM. Maybe take 6 years off and relax and then run in 2030?

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Re: My wife is amazing...
« Reply #119 on: September 13, 2018, 01:21:04 AM »
 :o :o :o
Putin, oligarches, mafia....
OMG :o

Does this rich powerful guy exist ?
Every princess needs a Dragon to let the prince being a brave hero
Every man wants to feel himself @superman@ and @one and only@

There are lot of crimes, mafia, corruption in Russia.
But in 99,99 % even super-puper oligarch can not just take woman or buy woman. If she doesnt want of course.
90 is finished



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« Reply #120 on: September 13, 2018, 05:25:05 AM »

90 is finished

Yes, and now the 'mafia' is the govt and officials are corrupt from the top down ((

DaveNY, you've not BEEN there and lived there recently ...   

Example:  You are working in your office and a couple of Police enter without warning - stating they have come to inspect the computers for 'pirate software' ...

'Fine' says upstanding RU citizen and businessman - and you've a warrant ?

'No', says Policeman.. We'll come back with one ...

Two hours later, they're back with a warrant and there's four 'Policemen' and an order to stand back from the computers ..

The Computers are a combination of Windows, Linux and BeOS - some of which floors the 'Police' as their flash sticks and bootable DVDs / CDs cannot cope.

They 'claim' to find unlicensed MS Office and 1S accounting software on the Windows PCs ...having given up on the BeOS ones ..

'There is no unlicensed software on any of our computers' , says upstanding and previously patriotic owner ..

'We will confiscate the computers as evidence', unless you pay us - you'll be convicted on a criminal charge of copyright theft ' says one Policeman who finds the owner won't play the game

The computers are taken and a receipt is given....

There ensures a series of Court hearings and the owners is able to prove that as a dealer for the software he has loaded - they are programmers - they are allowed said software. The computers are returned

During the time before the trial the owner was unable to leave his region and had his intl passport removed

Turns out the Police gang are moving from town to town within the region and when all clients were warned - they'd already HAD a visit ...








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« Reply #121 on: September 13, 2018, 05:50:15 AM »
Yes, and now the 'mafia' is the govt and officials are corrupt from the top down ((

DaveNY, you've not BEEN there and lived there recently ...   

Example:  You are working in your office and a couple of Police enter without warning - stating they have come to inspect the computers for 'pirate software' ...

'Fine' says upstanding RU citizen and businessman - and you've a warrant ?

'No', says Policeman.. We'll come back with one ...

Two hours later, they're back with a warrant and there's four 'Policemen' and an order to stand back from the computers ..

The Computers are a combination of Windows, Linux and BeOS - some of which floors the 'Police' as their flash sticks and bootable DVDs / CDs cannot cope.

They 'claim' to find unlicensed MS Office and 1S accounting software on the Windows PCs ...having given up on the BeOS ones ..

'There is no unlicensed software on any of our computers' , says upstanding and previously patriotic owner ..

'We will confiscate the computers as evidence', unless you pay us - you'll be convicted on a criminal charge of copyright theft ' says one Policeman who finds the owner won't play the game

The computers are taken and a receipt is given....

There ensures a series of Court hearings and the owners is able to prove that as a dealer for the software he has loaded - they are programmers - they are allowed said software. The computers are returned

During the time before the trial the owner was unable to leave his region and had his intl passport removed

Turns out the Police gang are moving from town to town within the region and when all clients were warned - they'd already HAD a visit ...
Where was their Krisha?

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« Reply #122 on: September 13, 2018, 05:54:41 AM »
...The Roofs were all eradicated and now the state 'protects' you ..

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« Reply #123 on: September 13, 2018, 06:05:09 AM »
although I think this topic is about different....

yes, msmob
Things in any business still works the way you discribed))) 8)

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krysha) i really enjoy all your messages)) :-* :D :D :D

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« Reply #124 on: September 13, 2018, 06:41:04 AM »
krysha) i really enjoy all your messages)) :-* :D :D :D
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