Trophy Wife

[TigerPaws]

Lets touch on the "Trophy Wife" aspect of why we (men) go to the FSU in order to find a lady:

 I hope most who read and post on forums like this know and understand the basic reasons we go to the FSU in the search for a lady. But what about the reasons we do not talk openly about? After all what is wrong with wanting a young, beautiful, sexy and intelligent wife who has more traditional values? What is wrong with wanting to be with a lady who knows how to dress nicely and take care of her appearance? What is wrong with having a "Trophy Wife" if both people are happy?

 Quite honestly when I started my search I was 44 with 2 teen age children, my prospects of finding a beatiful 25 year old lady in northern California who wanted to settle to a quiet home life were extremily slim (non existant would be more like it). Why should a man have to compromise for a worn out feminist in the throws of mentapause when there are other options?

 Some have said what will happen when the man who may be 20 years older turns 65 and she is 45? Ok lets be honest most women are over the hill somewhere between 45 and 50 years old, there chances of finding a man their age or near it are much slimmer than they were when she was 25 and you were 45. So enjoy the ride and your bride, don't worry what other people say or think, they are most likely jealous anyway as they look at the fat, old nag they are stuck with.

[BC]

Good topic.  Guess it's sorta like having a Ferarri in the driveway..  Most of the younger crowd can't afford it, takes a good chunk of time effort and funds to maintain, makes the neighbors envious, attracts thieves and as we get older, reaction times get too slow increasing the risk of totalling it. Besides all that, driving to fast might give you a heart attack.. What a way to go!

What's that old saying?.. "Watch out what you wish for..." :cool:

.. damit why can't I listen to my own advice

[Jack]

Hey, count me in. I'm all for having a trophy wife.     I think if anyone tries just a little they can get a trophy looking wife, as I learned on my first trip.

Once I knew it was somewhat easy to find a trophy wife by appearance, I set my sites and goal to find a woman who was just as beautiful on the inside, as she was on the outside, and one you had chemistry with. Now that took a lot more work, effort and time.

One important things guys must learn is that must be reasonable with their expectations. You must be honest with yourself. If you are a 7 (on a scale from 1 to 10) then you can seek a woman who is 8.5 with ease.  If you are a 6, then expect that you can upgrade to a 7 or 7.5 in a woman, but don't waste your time seeking a 9 or a 10 which a LOT of guys do. If your an 8, then by all means try to find a 9.5.

Be realistic with your expectations.

[TigerPaws]

Jack,

 While I generally agree with you I will say that if like BC's post a man takes his time and looks through the available pool of ladies in the FSU he can find the perfect 10 (in his opinion). A lady who will have the intelligence, beauity and values he desires, so in my humble opinion in general any man can have it all if he is willing to put the time, energy and money into his search.

[Donna_Pedro]

While you are discissing a trophy wife issues, your girls on russian forums are discissing how to squeeze more money out of those "old goats" and dump them before it too late... :D You, guys deserve each other..

[TigerPaws]

LoL Donna,

 Then you and a few of the men n this forum should read the thread on prenups, trusts and offshore accounts because not all men are going to be taken to the cleaners.

 

[Jack]

Hey Tiger, I agree with what you say. I personally have never met a 10. I have met some 9.5's and 9.6's but haven't met a 10 yet, and I'm sure their are some, just haven't met them. I think if a man waits for a 10 he could let a lot of good ladies get buy, as I think I might have been guilty of in my earlier days. Basically I suggest to guys if you meet an 8.8, 8.9, 9.0, 9.1 you had best try to see if their might be some potential their because those 9.4's, 9.5's, 9.6's are hard to come by.
 
And Donna, well my dear, their are many fine young Russian women who truly do love their older husbands. Not all younger Russian women who marry older men have ulterior motives. To bad you have not meet any of them and I would have thought by this time you would have. It is un-fortunate that their are those Russian women, as you are speaking of, who will lie, use sex, and whatever to get their ass to America and then dump him. But just as their are those bad Russian women, their are many good Russian women that we hope men will take their time and try to meet.

[BC]

hmmm.. maybe we can figure these numbers out in real terms.. how 'bout this:

Each single male member can put his picture in a poll with 1 to 10 selection..  Donna and Olga (believe these are the only two RW around) can then rate them so that each has his own 'baseline' to calculate with!

Sort of a RWD 'hot or not' rating

Any brave AM here wanna start?

[Donna_Pedro]

---To bad you have not meet any of them and I would have thought by this time you would have.

---Thanks, hon,  I dont need a sugar daddy.  Or better say, he does not need me - it would be hard for me  to live  life knowing I was a cause of someone's death of heart attack. I am not the right type of Russian woman for that. I like things to be my way. I like to hold my family in my small tight fist rather then be an arm-candy. Besides  I would rather eat your tie then sign a pre-nup.   So I guess, it makes me completely   ineligible for a sugar daddy..    

---who will lie, use sex, and whatever to get their ass to America and then dump him

well, not right away.. It would be  too foolish. Dump him and then struggle for survival in US all alone? Nahhh.. Of cause they will dump him, but not  before they get  education, profession,  start working, see the world (for his account of course), save some money and theeeennn...when the husband becomes older...  

[Goombah]

Go to "www.hotornot.com" and post there.  Cloths make a huge difference - I've been rated 6.5 to 7.5+ depending on what photo I post.

Kevin C.

[BC]

Goombah,

Try listing on hotornot.de to see how you come across to European women.  At least take a look and get idea how they rate each other.  You'll see quite a difference. You might be a 7.5 rated by US girls and only a 5 or less by European women.

[Goombah]

Couldn't quite make it through the registration, seemed to get tripped up on what I think was a phone number request (the pull down to the left had 4 digits numbers and an "intl" that I tried).

[Goombah]

OK, what is "PLZ"?  (IMTranslator got me through the rest)

[BC]

is zip code.. try 54662

oops.. sorry for messing your thread Tiger.. guess I could have pm'd the zip..

[Goombah]

Got past that, replied to the e-mail to enable the account, but screwed up and didn't get a picture to post (needed the activiation number that was in the e-mail).  Having a tough time navigating the German screens to find my profile and specify where to load my photo.

This is much more of a dating site than the USA one.

Kevin

[TigerPaws]

Donna,

 You said a woman "who will lie, use sex, and whatever to get their ass to America and then dump him well, not right away.. It would be too foolish. Dump him and then struggle for survival in US all alone? Nahhh.. Of cause they will dump him, but not before they get education, profession, start working, see the world (for his account of course), save some money and theeeennn...when the husband becomes older..."

 This is exactly the reason I started the thread on prenups, protected trusts and offshore accounts to hopefully save a man from being taken to the cleaners by a RW who would do such a thing.

[Son of Clyde]

Donna, welcome to the board.  I chased the "eye candy" two times then reality set in. I have found someone beautiful, not too young and she knows about life. Finding her on a marriage site I at least was able to purchase her address and eliminate the agency from day one. It won't be easy but nothing in life worth having is very easy to obtain. 

[Doug Salem]

Hi Guys,

Whenever we have company over I get out one of those special cloths, meticulously polish Olga from head to foot, and try to put her up on a shelf in the den where the light hits her just right and everybody can admire her. But she jumps right down and puts me in a ferocious scissors lock - something about trying to squeeze a Master's Degree, a good job, and a few more trips to Hawaii out of me before she dumps my sorry 20-years-older-than-hers ass.

The dog thinks it's a game and barks maniacally.

Needless to say, this usually makes our guests feel a little uncomfortable.  But we're having a great time so we don't care what they think.

- Doug 2/too

[Admin]

[user=89]Doug Salem[/user] wrote:

Hi Guys,

Whenever we have company over I get out one of those special cloths, meticulously polish Olga from head to foot, and try to put her up on a shelf in the den where the light hits her just right and everybody can admire her. But she jumps right down andputs me in a ferocious scissors lock - something about trying to squeeze a Master's Degree, a good job,anda few more trips to Hawaiiout of me before she dumps my sorry 20-years-older-than-hers ass.

The dog thinks it's a game and barks maniacally.

Needless to say,this usually makes our guests feel a little uncomfortable.But we're having a great time so we don't care what they think.

- Doug 2/too

My visual took me in the direction of that "scissors lock" you mentioned - but alas, this is a PG-rated board so I guess we can't go there

- Dan

[TigerPaws]

LoL,

 Yes lets not go there please, my imagination is to big as it is.

[jb]

What was the topic again???

Oh, Trophy wife, and what's wrong with having a beautiful wife....

There's absolutely nothing wrong with being married to a pretty woman as long as you married her because you love who she is, not what she looks like.  Physical looks will fade over time, slim and shapely bodies will plump, strech marks will remain long after the baby arrives, boobs will become the victim of gravity, and the 25 year old trophy will not look like the same woman at 35-40 years.

If you believe otherwise, I'm really going to bust your bubble when we finally get around to talking about Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy.

[TigerPaws]

jb,

 Lets be honest here, with a 18 to 20 year younger lady when the man is 70 she can still be attractive and if he is lucky to live to 80 then he will no longer care how she looks. So why not go for it all, good looks, brains and a lady who will be happy with you.

[jb]

TigerPaws,

I never said a man shouldn't marry a good looking woman, I just said he should marry her for the right reasons.

I married a woman younger and far above of the league I would have dated here, so I'm in agreement on that score.  I guess the post by fairbro had me thinking strangely today.  Let me clear the air by saying/stressing that a man should expect to do better in the FSU, otherwise there'd be no reason to look beyond the next street in his own home town.

He should, however, have his head screwed on right before he ventures into the gaming arena. It's a jungle out there.

[jb]

jungle,,, Tiger... get it?

[TigerPaws]

jb,

 Agreeded!