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I have so far used Fdating.com and DMnotify.com.  Haven't had any real success

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« Reply #1 on: August 17, 2022, 09:37:46 AM »
this means you're advertising a product (YOU), that no one wants to buy...
if you are NOT a successful product that wimmin want, then stop trying to take the easy way out of marketing yourself and hoping you're gonna rack up a sale anyway

step #1 to making a sale is to FIRST develop a successful product, this takes time and effort, but because of your horniness that needs immediate gratification, you skip this step entirely
you have no product development experience, no marketing experience, and you wonder why you fail...



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« Reply #2 on: August 18, 2022, 11:44:08 AM »
I have so far used Fdating.com and DMnotify.com.  Haven't had any real success

Krim makes a good point. Thing is with Fdate is that you're up against a lot of Keyboard Romeo's who will chat on with a girl for ages once they hook one without any real intention of going out there. So you're up against a fair amount of others, not usually as many as western dating sites in my opinion from what I've seen but still a fair few other guys. DMnotify will have less guys to compete with in all likelihood as it's a pay monthly website but less well known than Fdate so tends to be less women also in my opinion. Fdate being free is basically an advertisement to any western guy wanting to kill time, kill loneliness, or just fool around so you're stuck in with the rabble on that one.
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« Reply #3 on: August 19, 2022, 07:02:54 AM »
I talked with a few people and they are a nice bunch.  It is a small group of guys on WhatsApp.  I am learning a lot from them as well. 

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« Reply #4 on: August 19, 2022, 05:02:53 PM »
I talked with a few people and they are a nice bunch.  It is a small group of guys on WhatsApp.  I am learning a lot from them as well.

Who are they? Other western guys looking to date in the FSU? Good that you are learning stuff anyway as it mostly all helps.
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« Reply #5 on: August 21, 2022, 01:15:26 PM »
I talked with a few people and they are a nice bunch.  It is a small group of guys on WhatsApp.  I am learning a lot from them as well.

Think the main thing is to be a bit careful about the WhatsApp group whatever it is and whether those on it have much experience. The good thing with this forum is that the guys here are heavily experienced as this forum has been going a long time, I've certainly learnt a lot during my time here. With less experienced venues though there is the risk that it may be the blind leading the blind.
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« Reply #6 on: August 22, 2022, 02:57:30 AM »
They are actually in the process of applying for K1 visas for their girls.  Pretty smart guys.  Very friendly. 

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« Reply #7 on: August 22, 2022, 05:27:39 AM »
They are actually in the process of applying for K1 visas for their girls.  Pretty smart guys.  Very friendly.

They might be smart guys but getting a girl into the US with a K1 visa and marrying her doesn't necessarily indicate success. Women have been known to 'upgrade' along the way particularly after they become eligible for their green card so sometimes the girl just leaves the guy at that stage even if not another guy on the scene. Potentially some FSW are canny enough from the outset to just get the first guy willing to marry them to get abroad knowing they can ditch him later. Some just decide later the guy is not for them. I'm not saying they are onto a bad thing, they may have met a decent girl but some guys get carried away also.
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« Reply #8 on: August 22, 2022, 10:04:47 AM »
Yes, I understand that it's never 100% success until it's 100% success.  However, these guys are smart and they all have high paying jobs. 

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« Reply #9 on: August 22, 2022, 12:17:07 PM »
Yes, I understand that it's never 100% success until it's 100% success.  However, these guys are smart and they all have high paying jobs.

Possibly they are but even some guys with high paying jobs foul it up. They think it's a case of go in wallet waving and their money will do the talking. If they're not street savvy smart then they could easily be taken for a ride. In the US like the UK a FSW can get a nice payout upon a divorce.

The guys here might seem a bit harsh at times but they tell you what you need to know. Other guys elsewhere may be more pleasant seeming but might as a result be unaware of a lot of stuff.

What's your plan of action to date so far leading up to your visitation in March/April?
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« Reply #10 on: August 22, 2022, 12:46:21 PM »
Women have been known to 'upgrade' along the way

They are actually in the process of

Trench & RWO this is a sticky topic, meaning that it has been pinned so that newbies
will hopefully check it out first and get started down the right path.

Neither of you have any business posting in this thread. Both of you are
inexperienced and neither of you had any success at this to date. Why
don't you pair off and start a new thread about stuff you would have
packed for your first trip if you owned your own jet.

I am sure it would be a scintillating discussion.

« Last Edit: August 22, 2022, 12:49:24 PM by 2tallbill »
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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« Reply #11 on: August 22, 2022, 01:13:15 PM »
Trench & RWO this is a sticky topic, meaning that it has been pinned so that newbies
will hopefully check it out first and get started down the right path.

Neither of you have any business posting in this thread. Both of you are
inexperienced and neither of you had any success at this to date. Why
don't you pair off and start a new thread about stuff you would have
packed for your first trip if you owned your own jet.

I am sure it would be a scintillating discussion.

The thread is a decade old Bill and likely for many parts very out of date. I recall many state issues with the sites ML states as many are no longer running. I know ML has responded about this and acknowledged that it was just how things were then. So should this really be a sticky topic with it being so old or time perhaps for a new sticky 101 topic that isn't a decade old! Perhaps you & ML could get your heads together for a redo of this sticky topic?

RWO, if you wish to start a new topic thread on how your journey is progressing then please do.
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« Reply #12 on: August 22, 2022, 01:56:20 PM »
I know ML has responded about this and acknowledged that it was just how things were then. So should this really be a sticky topic with it being so old or time perhaps for a new sticky 101 topic that isn't a decade old! Perhaps you & ML could get your heads together for a redo of this sticky topic?

You are mischaracterizing what I wrote in my last posting.

This should remain an open sticky no matter how old. 

It should be regularly updated with new info about old websites and info about new websites.

As Big Bill said, it is not the place to hold conversations back and forth that don't directly address a particular dating website.
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« Reply #13 on: August 22, 2022, 02:10:14 PM »
You are mischaracterizing what I wrote in my last posting.

This should remain an open sticky no matter how old. 

It should be regularly updated with new info about old websites and info about new websites.

As Big Bill said, it is not the place to hold conversations back and forth that don't directly address a particular dating website.

Well I wasn't exactly sure what was said all I recall is someone questioned the websites and you responded. Apologies if it wasn't quite an accurate recollection. I still kind of feel that a redo of this sticky would be better as it's too lengthy for a newbie to have to spend time reading it all through to make sense of it all. I think most would start at the first posting/page and when a lot of the links don't work just move on without reading all the rest.
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It's ok RWO, they've split the topic so just continue as you were here.
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I have so far used Fdating.com and DMnotify.com.  Haven't had any real success

This is a numbers game. It's like mining for gold. To find gold you have to
shovel a lot of sand and gravel. The more sand and gravel you churn through
the more gold you will find.

Write 100 girls, then do it again. Rinse and repeat until you found a girl with
the eyes of an Angel and a heart of gold who wants to iron your shirts and
wake up next to you every morning forever.

FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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« Reply #16 on: October 10, 2022, 12:02:31 PM »
it's too lengthy for a newbie to have to spend time reading it all through to make sense of it all. I think most would start at the first posting/page and when a lot of the links don't work just move on without reading all the rest.



A how to/do-it-yourself, how-to-find-an-excellent-woman suitable for marriage
and lifelong happiness thread is going to be more complicated than a porn
amalgamation site. Where you click on the photo of what excites you the
most, but then give up when you can't find the barefooted midget nuns
that really makes you hot.

By necessity, there are more steps involved finding a woman for marriage than
what to wank off at.

A newbie knows nothing about how to go about this and has usually heard a
dozen things that are 180 degrees from the truth. The advice is free and
people with very low knowledge of the subject (like yourself) are allowed
to comment and offer advice.

A newbie needs to power through that thread and dozens of others if he
wants to stand a chance in the FSU. Otherwise he will almost certainly fail. 


« Last Edit: October 10, 2022, 12:09:18 PM by 2tallbill »
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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A how to/do-it-yourself, how-to-find-an-excellent-woman suitable for marriage
and lifelong happiness thread is going to be more complicated than a porn
amalgamation site. Where you click on the photo of what excites you the
most, but then give up when you can't find the barefooted midget nuns
that really makes you hot.

By necessity, there are more steps involved finding a woman for marriage than
what to wank off at.

A newbie knows nothing about how to go about this and has usually heard a
dozen things that are 180 degrees from the truth. The advice is free and
people with very low knowledge of the subject (like yourself) are allowed
to comment and offer advice.


A newbie needs to power through that thread and dozens of others if he
wants to stand a chance in the FSU. Otherwise he will almost certainly fail.

At least 'very low' you honour me with your compliment Beel :D
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