Write one? Write many?

[2tallbill]

You could always move to South Dekody!  I believe they have trees. 

Yes, the area around the Black Hills is absolutely beautiful the only problem is
that the jobs are scarce and the pay is low. I took the girls there and luckily I 
managed to get them back in the car to drive back Norf



Photo from Yesterday with 60+ mph winds

[2tallbill]

I was born and will die as a WOVO man

That's fine, it's a high risk high reward strategy and many have been successful at it,
I do recommend that the visit one guys have a backup plan. Too many guys have a
backup plan that involves moping around feeling sorry for themselves.

[GatoMoon]

That's fine, it's a high risk high reward strategy and many have been successful at it,
I do recommend that the visit one guys have a backup plan. Too many guys have a
backup plan that involves moping around feeling sorry for themselves.

Yes, of course, despite that I am a WOVO man, I always have a Plan B

[2tallbill]

I resurrected the thread from 2005 but it should have been titled

Visit one? Visit many?

I don't think that anyone suggests that you only write to one girl but
probably somebody does.

I've written many, many thousands of girls and dated hundreds

[jone]

I resurrected the thread from 2005 but it should have been titled

Visit one? Visit many?

I don't think that anyone suggests that you only write to one girl but
probably somebody does.

I've written many, many thousands of girls and dated hundreds

Did you get any social diseases?

[2tallbill]

Did you get any social diseases?

Only foot in mouth occasionally

[ML]

Big Bill, I never had any trouble keeping track of who is who, even when meeting close to 20 gals on a trip.

And I never had to memorize anything.  It's a gift . . . maybe.

However this probably explains why I know nothing that is very important.  My limited brain capacity is filled up with trivial matter . . . leaving no room for anything important.

[TagUrIt898]

It's unfortunate the two friends happened to receive the same letter.  When I was searching, I would use a pretty generic email, but I would change some of the details to fit the person I was writing.  There is question that you should write many. They and you will eventually weed themselves out and one will rise to the top of the list. Or more than one 😊

If are really into girl that called you out. Try explain, yourself again and if she doesn't understand than you avoided a potentially drama-filled relationship anyways.

In the end, you have to do what's best for you. The next question which has already presented itself will be WOVO/WMVM. I preferred to write many and visit one and it worked out pretty well for me. You have to trust your gut and (they're all beautiful and charming women) pleased don't get fooled by the pretty.


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[2tallbill]

Big Bill, I never had any trouble keeping track of who is who, even when meeting close to 20 gals on a trip.

And I never had to memorize anything.  It's a gift . . . maybe.

However this probably explains why I know nothing that is very important.  My limited brain capacity is filled up with trivial matter . . . leaving no room for anything important.

I remember that Jesse Sapolu was drafted in the 11th round of the 1983
football draft, now why do I need to know that? I can't think of a situation
where knowing that will come in handy.

I don't see the purpose of exchanging emails with them before you meet if
you are going to visit many. What little information you glean is worthless
until you see if you have chemistry. On a visit many trip you know that almost
all the girls aren't going to work out and at best ONE girl will.

Since you don't know which girl you will find a connection with why exchange
emails with a bunch of girls that probably aren't going to work out? 

In my mind a visit one guy does all his sorting before meeting a girl. This is
risky because you never know if you are going to have chemistry when you
meet in person, but if you do make a connection you are much further down
the road and you've spent the time before a trip developing a relationship of
sorts.

In my mind the visit many guy waits to do this sorting in person. If things
between him and the girl don't click then he immediately moves on. He must
keep his brain clear and be decisive. Many a guy kept after the smoking hot
girl who was so-so interested in him. You gotta dump that luke warm girl.
You don't want any luke warm so-so interested girls.

There are also the indecisive Candy shop guys. They keep dating when an
excellent girl is right in front of them because they are caught up in the process
rather than the goal. The Candy shop guys aren't cut out for a visit many trip.
Maybe they need to just date for a while until they can focus on what the goal is.

The worst are the guys who are goal pushers. They want to be married in the
worst way and they put so much time and effort into this girl so they are going
to marry her and let the red flags and the fact that they barely know each other
be damned!

Those are my dva kopecks,

Bill

[ML]

I remember that Jesse Sapolu was drafted in the 11th round of the 1983
football draft, now why do I need to know that? I can't think of a situation
where knowing that will come in handy.

I remember the third woman I met on a trip in 2009.
Her name was Irina.  The hair on her head was red, but the hair in her panties was brown.
This will come in handy because I, and everyone else who reads this, will know that red headed women don't always have red hair in their panties.

So Big Bill, you have a wrong idea about what info is useful . . . and you were wrong about many other things you wrote.

It's a good thing you found your woman, because you wouldn't be successful the next time around unless you only contacted women who didn't wear panties.

[2tallbill]

So Big Bill, you have a wrong idea about what info is useful . . . and you were wrong about many other things you wrote.

Not everyone agrees with my theories

I remember the third woman I met on a trip in 2009.
Her name was Irina.  The hair on her head was red, but the hair in her panties was brown.
This will come in handy because I, and everyone else who reads this, will know that red headed women don't always have red hair in their panties.

It's a good thing you found your woman, because you wouldn't be successful the next time around unless you only contacted women who didn't wear panties.

97% of the women I dated had no hair inside their panties.
(at least the ones that made it to to that point) many of the girls
that I met for tea and cake didn't make it to the panty checking
or grooming habit stage
 
But it is a good thing that I found my woman we both agree on that 

[jone]

Not everyone agrees with my theories

97% of the women I dated had no hair inside their panties.
 
But it is a good thing that I found my woman we both agree on that 

You went into the panties of 97% of the women that you dated?

 

[2tallbill]

You went into the panties of 97% of the women that you dated?

 

Not even close. I was still editing my post when you jumped on that

[jone]

Not even close. I was still editing my post when you jumped on that

Sorry Bill.  My sense of humor got the best of me. 

If ever there was someone that was conservative with women, it would be you.  Angel Eyes is a lucky woman. 

[LAman]

Not everyone agrees with my theories

97% of the women I dated had no hair inside their panties.
(at least the ones that made it to to that point) many of the girls
that I met for tea and cake didn't make it to the panty checking
or grooming habit stage
 
But it is a good thing that I found my woman we both agree on that 

You guys have failed to properly describe whether the panties were on or off when checking for hair in/on panties!!

[ML]

With 'see through' panties . . . doesn't make any difference.

[civi68]

Great advice from everyone. Always keep in mind that anything can change, particularly if you haven't met the girl yet. Most women and also the men prefer to be the only one and don't like to hear that they are meeting other people. A good way to approach it is not to bring it up or explain or apologize too much. Simply say that you haven't met her yet but hope things will work out. Don't lie but don't bring it up too much. I met women over there that wouldn't meet me again if they thought I was meeting other women. But guess what? If that same woman had you commit to only meeting her and later decided she doesn't want you, you won't get sympathy from her! I had that happen once. Of course, if things are working out and there is intimacy or sex, then a guy needs to choose quickly and not worry about losing other potential matches.
   But one of the mistakes I made back when I used tours and dating agencies was meeting too many and then having to end dates early to meet other ones when the girl wanted to spend more time with me. Writing and meeting women is a balancing act. If I learned anything, relationships can end for any reason at any point so just keep up with the women that are sincerely interested. Many will fade out on their own if it is not working unless they don't have anything else better to do. If any signs of lack of interest, fickleness, or the woman not sure about you don't stay too long or spend too much time trying to figure it out! Also, be prepared that at any time, you may have to start over, whether it be during the letter writing or while you are there.

[2tallbill]

Sorry Bill.  My sense of humor got the best of me. 

If ever there was someone that was conservative with women, it would be you.  Angel Eyes is a lucky woman.

LOL, I'm not a priest by any stretch of the imagination. It's just that I'm
not some kind of superman swordsman who met a hundred girls for tea
and convinced each of them to send their knickers flying only to repeat
the procedure an hour or so later.

I'm the lucky one who found Angel Eyes 

[ML]

only to repeat the procedure an hour or so later.

Might be best to wait 2 hours before repeating . . . if you are a man, that is.

For the woman . . . 30 seconds or so will suffice.

[LAman]

Might be best to wait 2 hours before repeating . . . if you are a man, that is.

For the woman . . . 30 seconds or so will suffice.

Ahhhhh, so that is the time it takes to have a smoke!!!!!

Just beware if the smoking is done during the procedure!!!