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Hi guys thank you guys
« on: February 12, 2019, 06:04:49 PM »
Hi,

this forum has given me a lot of help thus far on how to start.

One question though, I'm 23 years old and consider myself fairly mature. Do you think it will be hard for a 23-year-old male to find a girlfriend/wife from FSU?

From what I've seen so far most women on these dating websites are on average 25-30 years old.

Regards,

yesman

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Re: Hi guys thank you guys
« Reply #1 on: February 13, 2019, 07:57:43 AM »
as you may have deduced, most of the guys here are old enough to be your dad, myself included...  in fact, I have a daughter just a few yr younger than you (forget about it, you don’t stand a chance...)

I don’t know your goals or background so that makes it difficult to offer specific advice

here are some observations to consider

hustling women in Ukraine is a lot more expensive than doing it in your own country!
you have travel, place to stay, etc, and because UW are sooo poor, all expenses are on YOU, including ALL of theirs!!
you also must take time off from work, etc, all these costs add up to a 'tidy sum'  vrs a dinner and a movie in your home town in the evening or weekend...

women date and marry “up”, meaning they prefer men who are wealthier, more social status, etc
I remember how awful it felt in silicon valley that at best I could date women 5 years younger than me, and I even dated women older than me.  you’ll have this issue (but in reverse!), I’d stick with 18-19 yr olds if I were you, 18-19 yr olds in Ukraine are not at all like that age in the USA, and I have two teenage daughters, and many, many yrs ago I had a 19 yr old girl friend in Kyiv.  so I CAN compre the two, 18 yr old Ukrainian = 28 yr old American (on average, always ouliers), in terms of their "maturity" level...

if I were a young handsome stud like yourself, I know 100% what I’d do!!!
Medical School at Ternopil State Univ
classes are taught in English
I visited the campus with my wife more than 10 yr ago, saw a few hundred super models walking around, from one of the taller buildings I saw beautiful women with long pale bodies sunning themselves nude on the roof of a smaller building across from me, they didn’t care in the least bit if anyone was observing them

if you were a Western Medical student there, you should get a stunt penis so you don’t wear out your real one from excessive use

word...

now, just from older man to younger man....
you're young, I wouldn't think of getting married just yet...
what i'd do if I were you, is to "chase" the girls in Ukraine, until one day one of them catches you...
try not to get caught by the first one you meet, I had MANY Ukrainian girlfriends before my last girlfriend (my wife) caught me!
trust me on this, if a beautiful Ukrainian woman "wants you"
she will use every feminine wile and manipulation and seduction technique you could ever imagine, and quite a few that YOU CAN'T!!!
A Ukrainian Woman knows how to "get inside your head" and figure out your "secret sexual fantasies"
she will then use this to manipulate you to GREAT EFFECT!
on top of this, they play the subservient woman routine, cooking your meals, serving you at the table, constantly flattering you and so forth...
and if that's not enough, they look like freakin super models, HARD bodies with HUGE hooters!!!!
you will not stand a chance...
this is why you gotta get some basic experience so you can stand up to a Ukrainian woman's raw sexual "power"
or you will end up being a male praying mantis

when a Ukrainian woman sets her erotic charm on maximum
her intent is to stun her "prey" with it
that you will be held helpless in her grasp
like a fly in the spider’s web

so build up a defense
i'd still be a player, if I wasn't myself played by someone better at the game than me (my wife!)
she still dominates and controls me this way today!
I've tried breaking free, but I can't...

for you single guys, I think the moral of this story is thus, "if you let a Ukrainian Woman control your penis, the rest of you has to go along for the ride as well"
just make sure your heart, brain and other vital organs will be able able to "maintain the pace" during the journey as well!
and if the sound of all this doesn't seem very appealing to you...
well VR porn in say 10 more yr is gonna be pretty damned good, so just hang in there and be an "early adopter" like Bee Farmer...




« Last Edit: February 13, 2019, 01:48:10 PM by krimster2 »

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Re: Hi guys thank you guys
« Reply #2 on: February 13, 2019, 09:38:04 AM »
Forget entirely about any women who are outside of your country.
You don't have the time or money to do it.
And, just as important; unlike most of us here . . . you have no real need to do it.
At your age, you can have your pick of the most desirable local gals there are.
For the rest of us older men . . . we have to go to places suffering economic hardship so that we can 'trade-up' to obtain the younger, prettier, sexier, thinner gals that we desire.
« Last Edit: February 13, 2019, 12:20:57 PM by ML »
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Re: Hi guys thank you guys
« Reply #3 on: February 13, 2019, 12:11:55 PM »
Yes man you are from Finland.  Get on a plane and find out.  Don't listen to advice from the other side of the Atlantic.  Go find out.  That's what youth is for exploration.  How can people who don't know you advise you.   In life there's only one person who knows you and that's you.

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Re: Hi guys thank you guys
« Reply #4 on: February 13, 2019, 01:37:58 PM »
Finland?
damn, I thought that was an Alabama flag, Finland, my bad...
hey, do they celebrate Sinko De Mayo in.... in.... Hell Sinki??????

dewd, you can freakin drive from Parikkala to St Petersburg, it can't be that long of a drive...

just drive there next time you get a long holiday in Finland...
do you know how to speak Russian?
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Re: Hi guys thank you guys
« Reply #5 on: February 13, 2019, 01:39:59 PM »
Hmm, Krim beat me to it.

Depending on where you live in Finland, it might be faster to drive to St. Petersburg. 

Just make sure your granddaddy didn't shoot your potential girlfriend's granddaddy.  That would be an awkward Easter dinner...


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Re: Hi guys thank you guys
« Reply #6 on: February 13, 2019, 01:43:56 PM »
My grandpa and your grandpa
Sittin' by the fire
My grandpa told your grandpa,
"I'm gonna set your flag on fire."

Talkin' 'bout,
Hey now! Hey now!
Iko Iko un day,
Jock-a-mo fee-no a na-ne.
Jock-a-mo fee-na-ne

Look at my king all dressed in red
Iko Iko un day,
I betcha five dollars he'll kill you dead.
Jock-a-mo fee na-ne

Talkin' 'bout,
Hey now! Hey now!
Iko Iko un day,
Jock-a-mo fee-no a na-ne.
Jock-a-mo fee-na-ne

My flag boy and you flag boy
Sittin' by the fire
My flag boy told your flag boy,
"I'm gonna set your flag on fire."

Talkin' 'bout,
Hey now! Hey now!
Iko Iko un day,
Jock-a-mo fee-no a na-ne.
Jock-a-mo fee-na-ne
Jock-a-mo fee-na-ne

See that guy Krimster all dressed in green?
Iko Iko un day.
He's not a man; he's a lovin' machine.
Jock-a-mo fee na-ne

Talkin' 'bout,
Hey now! Hey now!
Iko Iko un day,
Jock-a-mo fee-no a na-ne.
Jock-a-mo fee-na-ne

Talkin' 'bout,
Hey now! Hey now!
Iko Iko un day,
Jock-a-mo fee-no a na-ne.
Jock-a-mo fee-na-ne
Jock-a-mo fee-na-ne
Jock-a-mo fee-na-ne

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Re: Hi guys thank you guys
« Reply #7 on: February 13, 2019, 04:52:16 PM »
Is it possible that some are being trolled?
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Re: Hi guys thank you guys
« Reply #8 on: February 13, 2019, 05:36:20 PM »
trolling trolls and the trolls who troll them trolling, is that what you mean?
or just trolling?

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Re: Hi guys thank you guys
« Reply #9 on: February 13, 2019, 06:25:41 PM »
Hi,

this forum has given me a lot of help thus far on how to start.

One question though, I'm 23 years old and consider myself fairly mature. Do you think it will be hard for a 23-year-old male to find a girlfriend/wife from FSU?

From what I've seen so far most women on these dating websites are on average 25-30 years old.

Regards,

yesman

If I was 23 years old, I would consider going to one of the local FSU Universities and
teach English. You couldn't help but meet a zillion University girls.

I wasn't ready to seek a woman for marriage when I was 23. I was more into seeking
out women for humpage. Some people mature earlier than others, I'm just starting to
get there myself.




FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: Hi guys thank you guys
« Reply #10 on: February 13, 2019, 08:31:37 PM »
Quote
humpage.]

 :D :D :D :D :D :D is that even a word ?? :-\


and no i dont need the definition thanks  ;)

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Re: Hi guys thank you guys
« Reply #11 on: February 13, 2019, 09:21:05 PM »
If I was 23 years old, I would consider going to one of the local FSU Universities and
teach English. You couldn't help but meet a zillion University girls.

Not likely that any FSU university would let an untrained 23 year old teach anything.

And by trained with respect to a university . . . it would be a PhD in Teaching English as a Foreign Language.

This is a different level than teaching English at some unaccredited night program that there are hundreds of in FSU.

But even there, hardly any of we here could actually teach the grammar rules of English.
We couldn't even answer questions as to why we use certain forms of a word in specific sentences.
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Re: Hi guys thank you guys
« Reply #12 on: February 14, 2019, 07:32:23 PM »
Thank you for your answers and advice guys.

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« Reply #13 on: February 15, 2019, 11:24:36 AM »
Not likely that any FSU university would let an untrained 23 year old teach anything.

And by trained with respect to a university . . . it would be a PhD in Teaching English as a Foreign Language.

This is a different level than teaching English at some unaccredited night program that there are hundreds of in FSU.

But even there, hardly any of we here could actually teach the grammar rules of English.
We couldn't even answer questions as to why we use certain forms of a word in specific sentences.

You won't get hired by the University, but you can easily get invited to talk to the classes.
I've been invited several times.

The Girl I visited in Dnepropetrovsk, her sister was a Professor at the University that taught
English. ALMOST NONE of the teachers in universities in the FSU are native English speakers.
You can't pay a native English speaker with a PHD or even a high school diploma $400-600 per
month. You have to hire a Eastern European with a heavy accent that learned it from a Eastern
European with a heavy accent.

These PHd's don't know that clothes isn't pronounced cloth-ES or months isn't pronounced
month-ES like bunches and punches. They are flabbergasted when they find out that they
were taught the wrong way to say things. The professor types really want to say words
correctly. 

An enterprising sort could pick up the odd tutoring gig here and there from talking to
various English classes.

FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

 

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