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Starting Out / Re: Are you man enough for a RW?
« Last post by krimster2 on Yesterday at 07:14:12 PM »
we gossip like a bunch of old Russian babooshki......
what this board REALLY needs
is a rant from a virtual paranoid schitzophrenic!!!!
AMIRIGHT??!!

ya'll better forget about all the non-important stuff...
cuz none of it's gonna matter after the next decade

while yur all focusing on gay cowboys vrs latin immigrants (never mind the man behind the curtain)
all yur really doin is responding to massa's programming
which is designed to distract ya from the fact that he's gonna grift on yur Social Security/Medicare to keep massa's taxes low

ya''ll need to read "The Grapes of Wrath"
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Grapes_of_Wrath

cuz when the debt bombs all explode in the 2030s, and the drought comes to the midwest
it's gonna be deja vu all over agin

the yearly interest on the federal debt will exceed the increase in GDP for the entire economy
and will KEEP INCREASING
resulting in a permanent negative growth rate for the USA and all who trade with the USA
a death spiral, and we're already IN IT!!!!!!

but this is just the very, very, beginning....
you won't actually start feeling major things until AFTER 2025...
then it all goes downhill faster and faster...

the result is gonna be a repeat of the Great Depression/Dust Bowl
almost EXACTLY like the last one 100 years ago
only MUCH, MUCH worse!!!

and while massa got ya all debating the merits of gay comboy reading day and whatever other distractions he comes up with, Taylor Swift nip slip, whatever...
he's hiding his play to cut Social Security and Medicare for workers to pretend and extend massa's imploding economy for just a few more years
enuff time for him to bail out and secure a space at Vault-Tec

as Marx said, the struggle is ALWAYS gonna be between rich and poor
so ya need to distract the poor with the Gay Cowboy stories
while your oligarchs use the government to rob them to give the oligarch class a few more good years

anyone watching Trump, and Harvard where legacies account for 75% of admissions still think we live in a meritocracy?

you'd ALL better start prepping

your dollars will be freeakin worthless and yur assets are all priced in dollars...oopsie

I'm thinking of making a robot for making toilette paper!!!!
and you can attach guns to it as well!!!!
sometimes ya go out and you and yur robot go fighting
and sometimes you and yur robot make toilette paper to trade with the villagers for food

cuz...
afterall...it's still America
and tis my right to keep and bear weapons......
but threy didn't go into too much specifics....

the pen is mightier than the sword?
yes!!  mine is a single shot .22 LR - you actually have to place it on someone's head/neck and flip the spring to fire it
much handier than a sword...
and I look like such a sweet smilin' ole geezer....

the older I get, the less I find "life in prison" or even certain death to be a persuasive deterrent...
silly me...

the worst man to fight is always the one with nothin to lose
why?
cuz he'll take major risks to shank 'ya, that a more cautious man wouldn't take
which forces you to play defense insteada offense

how you white boyz gonna survive in this wicked world?
show the slightest weakness and you will be roasted alive and eaten by the natives...
how ya gonne earn their respect????
fear??
love??

hmmmmm.........

to think, that Donald J Trump, is the LEADER of The Christian Nationalist Movement*
is either the FUNNIEST
or most DISTURBING THING EVER
maybe BOTH!!!!!

OMG!!! I REALLY AM CRAZY!!!!!!!
this can't really be happening....can it....
I hope he picks "Crazy Al Yankovich" as his Vice President!!!!!

*you know they wanna have a "firey cross", right....
these ain't no "knights in white satin" Bobby...
they are performing a "venerated ritual"

damn good thing, I have light colored hair/blue eyes, cuz when I was 6 yrs old a car full of klansmen pulled up next to me and asked me for directions
if they knew I was a Jew, I'd been a 'goner fer sure, they'd killed a 6 yr old like me, like they did to some black kids back then
I totally "played it cool" even changed my voice to sound just the way their kids sounded at skool, like they sez "DAWG"

Mossad shoulda recruited me RIGHT THEN!!!!!
I'd had no problem slippin on some c-4 on a magnet under their old Chevy with a 30-sec delay-detonator
"ya'll have a nice day now, ya hear?"


and legally a 6 year old could't EVEN be charged with murder!!!!
and for that reason, I'd only charge HALF what an adult would charge for the same "hit"

anyway....
that's kinda how I "got started"

anybody have a better story than that?


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Starting Out / Re: Are you man enough for a RW?
« Last post by Trenchcoat on Yesterday at 03:36:45 PM »
Well he claims to have met her in real life before the war broke out, but that she joined the Medic unit of the Army to help out wounded soldiers.

Apparently he claims she only gets about two weeks leave a year so her family take priority over him (parents, etc) and so she wishes to spend that time off with them and not him.

She apparently won't leave her country to be with him now that she is committed to being a Medic in the Army.

That is how I recall it from what Beefarmer has put before.

The war is now in its third year in Ukraine yet still no visitation on the cards for our Beefarmuh. I hope it's not a long war as otherwise it will be many years before they get the chance to see each other again. Till then it's plenty of penpal writing to be done!

A shame that she won't spare a few hours to see our Beefarmuh during a visit to her parents if he were to fly over, keep the romance flowing for real :-\
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Starting Out / Are you man enough for a RW?
« Last post by 2tallbill on Yesterday at 08:33:08 AM »
I fear our Beefarmer

There is no reason to worry about Beefarmer. He has a pen pal. He hasn't met her in
real life yet so she is just a cyber friend at this time. I have several cyber friends.
The girl I met in Georgia is sort of like his dream girl.

She was a virgin, went to church 3 hours every Sunday, fasted every fast. Read psalms
and all the other things, that chaste girls do. I was her cyber pal every day for almost a
year. I visited her and romance did not happen.

Real girls like this need to be romanced in person. You have to go to church with them
and fast with them for at least a year maybe two. Then she will marry you. It can't
be done over the internet. I don't have any way to make money while in Georgia
or wherever else you find this type of girl.

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Starting Out / Are you man enough for a RW?
« Last post by 2tallbill on Yesterday at 08:18:12 AM »
I don't believe you.  You're either lying, or you never had any standards to begin with.

A guy marrying a woman who is divorced or has a kid is an act of desperation.  A guy with standards isn't going to get married to a divorced woman or a woman with a kid as a first choice.  And the woman knows she has to lower her standards to get a guy.

I was divorced with a child, my wife was the same. She is honest with excellent character.
We have been married for 9 years (10 in November). I have been very happy with my
wife at my side and raising/playing with the boy we made together.

You have a pen-pal who has taken leave (maybe several) and didn't tell you about it or
lied about it. She has been feeding you porkie pies and you have been eating them.
This woman doesn't have a child?

Many FSU women use abortion as birth control. How many has she had? There is no
way to know or to tell.

I am saying she has gone on leave. I am saying that she preferred to go on leave and
spend time with others rather than with you. Maybe that's because you are pen pals
rather than in a serious relationship.
 
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Starting Out / Re: Are you man enough for a RW?
« Last post by Trenchcoat on Yesterday at 02:07:48 AM »
I fear our Beefarmer doesn't have much capability to be able to get with a decent woman. That it's only the low hanging fruit that he may be able to get and that for him is such a turn off as it would for most men of course. I think he tries to hide behind having 'high standards' as an excuse to avoid the embarrassment of the otherwise all too obvious lack of ability of being able to score a decent woman. The soldier girl being just a convenient proof to that narrative that he has something going on and is 'OK' whrn really he isn't.We may be able to help him here is he comes to his senses on this and opens up to us.

His soldier girl out in Ukraine is most likely getting plenty of it (sex) from the troops out there. She's unlikely to not be doing it all this time unless she is real ugly. Bothe her and the troops will be randy for it and may know that they could die tomorrow so who cares. Many of those soldier guys will be well worked out and athletic looking from all that activity, running around loading shells, lifting stuff, etc. That will be attractive for her and they will be yearning for it. Our Beefarmer is just to fill in for lonely moments penpal style when not much is going on. Once the war ends she'll have other things happening to be wanting to bother about him. But he can carry on wait'in.
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Starting Out / Re: Are you man enough for a RW?
« Last post by krimster2 on May 02, 2024, 08:44:43 PM »
the comedy of BeeFarmer "pontificating" on his theory of successful relationships despite never having had one.... LOL!!!
nor seeing how ridiculous he looks in this role as spokesman for the Incel movement while defending his "profound thoughts"....

frankly, the only reason I come here, is for the humor....
some of ya'll, are REALLY FUNNY!!!!!

I guess, if I had any empathy, I'd feel sorry for ya....
but I poured out what little I had....it was old...
so unfortunately, I'm just fresh outta empathy....

which means....
HA HA!!!

and GUESS WHAT?
The guys who ARE man enuff for a Russian woman....already HAVE a Russian woman
and those who aren't man enuff...have what BeeFarmer has....his right hand (unless he's left handed)

but I think BeeFarmer could use his "shtick" that' he's been workin on here, for a pretty good stand-up comedy routine about incel culture, which is BeeFarmer's primary field of understanding
ya'll have questions about Incels - Beefarmer is yur "go-to" guy

I can't wait to read his latest proclamations!!!!
Mr. "I-am-not-desperate" is probably off watching porn at the moment, so is unable to reply until he 'tidys up' a bit....



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Starting Out / Re: Are you man enough for a RW?
« Last post by ML on May 02, 2024, 07:52:08 PM »

A guy marrying a woman who is divorced or has a kid is an act of desperation. 

Hey . . . I married a widow with a child.

I wasn't desperate.

I married because she had good future income potential and was young so she could later push my wheelchair.

This may backfire, as she might be aging quicker than myself !!

What unfairness ? !!
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Starting Out / Re: Are you man enough for a RW?
« Last post by Bee Farmer on May 02, 2024, 05:52:16 PM »
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I never lowered mine, I would not ask you to do it.

I don't believe you.  You're either lying, or you never had any standards to begin with.

A guy marrying a woman who is divorced or has a kid is an act of desperation.  A guy with standards isn't going to get married to a divorced woman or a woman with a kid as a first choice.  And the woman knows she has to lower her standards to get a guy.

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If any girl is serious she would find a way. She knows that she will get leave at some point
then you can visit her.

You assume that all women are the kind of women you would pursue...and you assume that I am looking for the same things you are looking for.

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It's time to find someone better who sincerely wants to be the future Mrs. Bee Farmer.

But you again assume all relationships should move along the timeline you want.

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You are making incorrect assumptions about me.

No, I don't believe I am making any incorrect assumptions about you.  But I do believe you are making incorrect assumptions about me.

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If that girl was killed tomorrow (God forbid) does that mean there is no other girl on Earth that would meet your standards?

Meeting my standards isn't enough. 

I'm not convinced I will ever get married.  While I don't consider marriage to be a high likelihood, I don't consider it to be zero likelihood.

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If you entertain the idea that at least one other girl on Earth could meet your standard, then my recommendation is that you should find that one other girl.

I consider your recommendation to be a recipe for disaster.  Simply because someone meets your standards doesn't mean you are compatible or should even consider pursuing a relationship.

Stop thinking that everyone wants the same thing you want, on the timeline you want.  I can assure you, the kind of women you have pursued, are the kind of women I want nothing to do with.  And I suspect that women I have dated, are not the kind of women you would have dated.
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Starting Out / Re: Are you man enough for a RW?
« Last post by Trenchcoat on May 02, 2024, 03:27:48 PM »

If any girl is serious she would find a way. She knows that she will get leave at some point
then you can visit her. If she is not serious about you, then she will not inform you when
she gets leave. Russia invaded February 24, 2022 she has received leave. She didn't
let you know about it.

It's time to find someone better who sincerely wants to be the future Mrs. Bee Farmer.

If that girl was killed tomorrow (God forbid)
does that mean there is no other girl on Earth that would meet your standards? If no other
girl would meet your standards then stay single. If you entertain the idea that at least
one other girl on Earth could meet your standard, then my recommendation is that
you should find that one other girl.

Men in WW1, WW2 and the Korean War all got leave. So did the girl you communicate
with. They know when it's coming up and when it will be over.

Our Beefarmuh's big issue is this I think.

'If the girl is not willing to be with him, to commit anything much at all to being with him even for a quick visit, then even if they got together, how are they going to stay together?'

The moment an argument, disagreement or other desire comes about if the girl doesn't feel strongly enough to have had to commit to a visit then she's not going to feel committed enough to stay with our Beefarmuh. She'll won't feel attachment to him and she'll split. Arguments are often an inevitable part of relationships but they tend to break up those where there isn't any or much form of wanting to commit to the other person, to feel any attachment.

So, what happens early on in a relationship, how the other person responds, how each other responds can form a reflection on what will happen later in a relationship.

Her response tells me that our Beefarmer is just wasting his time with this woman. Even if she did miraculously go with him to the US and I think that is not good odds, then by this I don't see it working out and it'll fall apart pretty quick and he'll have wasted a lot of time just sitting it out all this time.
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Starting Out / Re: Are you man enough for a RW?
« Last post by Trenchcoat on May 02, 2024, 12:47:26 PM »
I don't know what Beefarmer likes in terms of Standards, apart from character and personality what he likes with looks.

There is then Beefarmer himself and how he stacks up. Having high standards is one thing but Brad Pitt gets the hottie girls because he comes home good on many levels, looks, physique, money, game, social status, social skills, big house, nice lifestyle, charisma? etc, etc...

Everyone has their market value, Brad Pitt has his market value, a high market value, and so does the local pretty boy on the block who isn't good enough to be Brad because he doesn't have everything Brad has going for him, he has a high market value locally but not as high as Brad does. Then you get down to the everyday man and woman. They have not so high market value but some may overvalue themselves and stay single a long time refusing to 'lower their standards'.

It's fine having standards but if you overvalue yourself and refuse to get real with how the other gender actually rate you then there is always going to be a mismatch often resulting in no deal. Many people have problems so being aware not to get too carried away with pegging yourself too high and open to those that may fall down a little here & there can help people find their real market value.

There is of course attraction, love, personality, etc that comes into it but if you're not all that as you might think you are yourself and are too picky and refuse to budge a bit then nothing may ever happen. End of the day we are talking real people here not some unreal vision in our minds.
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