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Offline Trenchcoat

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How do you find dealing with women?
« on: April 10, 2019, 02:46:54 PM »
So as suggested by Boethius I am starting this thread to ask with women do you have to read the backstory of what is going on through goings on and what is not said rather than a direct communication to what is going on?

I consider myself to be at least somewhat perceptive though apparently I might not be figuring out what women are really saying or even if they are coming onto me possibly, any ideas? as I'm confused.
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Re: How do you find dealing with women?
« Reply #1 on: April 10, 2019, 03:14:48 PM »
Trench, why not watch 'What Women Want'? In your world you may believe it as the gospel. It has H. Hunter and M. Gibson in lead rolls.
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Re: How do you find dealing with women?
« Reply #2 on: April 10, 2019, 04:42:02 PM »
OMG

Trench, how many times will you start threads with questions you will never pay any attention to the answers you get?..

Your perception (lack of ) is a good place to start..

I am not sure how you can fix this issue.









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Re: How do you find dealing with women?
« Reply #3 on: April 10, 2019, 05:04:20 PM »
gozpedy

because you’re obviously a foreigner there’s going to be more body language than spoken language

at first, you’re not generally expected to do a lot of talking for the average UW
which is a HUGE advantage for you

if a UW gets in your “personal space"
if she smiles at you
if she makes eye contact and then when you make eye contact she looks away quickly

then the next thing you do is signal that you “recognize her" and you’re open and friendly
so big smile soon as you make eye contact
and you have to say something “cute and witty” to her in Russian

don’t say too much about yourself, say you’re an architect and your’re from London
you want her to talk about herself and you act like her words are the most fascinating sound you’ve ever heard in your life
I’d go with the “you had a girl friend you came to visit for first time but when you got there she changed her mind and went back to her boyfriend
say “Yalky Palky” at the end of your story....

you need to figure out YOUR demographic Trench, I really don’t know you well enough to choose for you, hopefully you know yourself

sure Shevchenko park for young college girls with little experience
sweetest eye candy EVER, but so difficult and moody these young uns
and will NOT be useful in the kitchen generally, providing they get out of bed in the morning
downtown has the office girls, older more experienced
markets on Saturdays have blue collar girls shopping, even more experienced
if they aren’t approaching you for some reason, then
your “mark” is the REALLY pretty girl in the market with the weak wardrobe
dead giveaway every time of a girl you can be nice to...

also, this applies to EVERY guy going to Ukraine, no matter who you are
you want the devs to REALLY notice you?
I mean for real?

work the hell out and get some biceps and triceps
get a flattering shirt that shows it off but not in an angry aggressive way
but in a sensual way
if UW had erections this'd give em' a woody for sure!!!


« Last Edit: April 10, 2019, 05:11:22 PM by krimster2 »

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Re: How do you find dealing with women?
« Reply #4 on: April 10, 2019, 06:39:38 PM »
gozpedy

because you’re obviously a foreigner there’s going to be more body language than spoken language

at first, you’re not generally expected to do a lot of talking for the average UW
which is a HUGE advantage for you

if a UW gets in your “personal space"
if she smiles at you
if she makes eye contact and then when you make eye contact she looks away quickly

then the next thing you do is signal that you “recognize her" and you’re open and friendly
so big smile soon as you make eye contact
and you have to say something “cute and witty” to her in Russian

don’t say too much about yourself, say you’re an architect and your’re from London
you want her to talk about herself and you act like her words are the most fascinating sound you’ve ever heard in your life
I’d go with the “you had a girl friend you came to visit for first time but when you got there she changed her mind and went back to her boyfriend
say “Yalky Palky” at the end of your story....

you need to figure out YOUR demographic Trench, I really don’t know you well enough to choose for you, hopefully you know yourself

sure Shevchenko park for young college girls with little experience
sweetest eye candy EVER, but so difficult and moody these young uns
and will NOT be useful in the kitchen generally, providing they get out of bed in the morning
downtown has the office girls, older more experienced
markets on Saturdays have blue collar girls shopping, even more experienced
if they aren’t approaching you for some reason, then
your “mark” is the REALLY pretty girl in the market with the weak wardrobe
dead giveaway every time of a girl you can be nice to...

also, this applies to EVERY guy going to Ukraine, no matter who you are
you want the devs to REALLY notice you?
I mean for real?

work the hell out and get some biceps and triceps
get a flattering shirt that shows it off but not in an angry aggressive way
but in a sensual way
if UW had erections this'd give em' a woody for sure!!!

Thanks Krim, you're always exceptional with your advice :)

My choice would be Blue Collar girls so all the best places they hang out would be ideal. I know there is a touristy market - Bessarabsky not far from Shevchenko. Would this do or be too touristy. Any other suggestions on this would be great.

College girls for sure can look real hot and sweet. I would love to be a good ten years or so younger again. I guess I don't look real old or anything some might even say a bit youngish for my age though obviously not that young by any stretch of the imagination. I don't discount that a LTR could happen with a college girl but I don't think it's a demographic that would work well for me long term, it might but probably not.

White Collar girls IDK if they were just the office types at the non professional end then maybe. Professional career girls I think might be an awkward match for me. Any low grade office type of areas could be handy, or not the law district, lol.

Single mums I don't have anything against but I think they would be towards the end of the list for this trip at least in terms of deliberately targeting those areas. If I met a girl and she happen to turn out to be a single mother and there was natural chemistry I would just see how it went I think.

I've been working out but still more to do I think, but it good to know how to go about showing it of right if I get in shape enough.
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Re: How do you find dealing with women?
« Reply #5 on: April 10, 2019, 07:47:24 PM »
I consider myself to be at least somewhat perceptive though apparently I might not be figuring out what women are really saying or even if they are coming onto me possibly, any ideas? as I'm confused.
If this isn't satire, it's just sad.

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Re: How do you find dealing with women?
« Reply #6 on: April 11, 2019, 06:54:00 PM »
If this isn't satire, it's just sad.
Either way you still have to laugh 
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