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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #100 on: May 17, 2018, 05:05:14 PM »
It's possible for a woman who loves money to also love a man. People can love more than one thing in their lives. If I asked a woman like Anfisa out, I'd figure her out quick and if I asked her for another date, it wouldn't be to develop a relationship with her.

Leaves me wondering if goldigger girls find it hard to get guy. A lot of guys no doubt figure them out at some point and steer well clear of them and/or they get repeatedly dumped quickly and often.

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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #101 on: May 17, 2018, 06:09:01 PM »
Leaves me wondering if goldigger girls find it hard to get guy. A lot of guys no doubt figure them out at some point and steer well clear of them and/or they get repeatedly dumped quickly and often.


I don't think so. All the gold diggers we know here have wealthy guys lined up on standby. No need for uninterested guys that make 100k a year when there are interested guys clearing 8 figures.




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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #102 on: May 17, 2018, 06:14:36 PM »
Leaves me wondering if goldigger girls find it hard to get guy. A lot of guys no doubt figure them out at some point and steer well clear of them and/or they get repeatedly dumped quickly and often.


I don't think so. All the gold diggers we know here have wealthy guys lined up on standby. No need for uninterested guys that make 100k a year when there are interested guys clearing 8 figures.



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90 day Fiance
« Reply #103 on: May 19, 2018, 11:47:29 AM »
Leaves me wondering if goldigger girls find it hard to get guy.
A lot of guys no doubt figure them out at some point and steer
well clear of them and/or they get repeatedly dumped quickly
and often.

Gold Diggers aren't trying to find a guy for marriage.
They are looking to get money, gifts etc for minimal
effort. They do this by responding to losers who believe
that they need to spend money to keep a woman's interest.

I can spot a gold digger a mile away, they aren't very subtle
and anyone who has even moderate social skills can avoid
them. 

As long as there are losers, there will be gold diggers willing
to empty their wallets. Losers flock to the MOB industry because
they believe that they can exchange money or lifestyle for love.
Those people are fooling themselves.

The key is to find a good woman, with good values and win
her heart. Everything else is secondary to that.

« Last Edit: May 19, 2018, 11:55:43 AM by 2tallbill »
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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #104 on: May 19, 2018, 11:58:11 AM »
Gold Diggers aren't trying to find a guy for marriage.
They are looking to get money, gifts etc for minimal
effort. They do this by responding to losers who believe
that they need to spend money to keep a woman's interest.

I can spot a gold digger a mile away, they aren't very subtle
and anyone who has even moderate social skills can avoid
them. 

As long as there are losers, there will be gold diggers willing
to empty their wallets. Losers flock to the MOB industry because
they believe that they can exchange money or lifestyle for love.
Those people are fooling themselves.

The key is to find a good woman, with good values and win
her heart. Everything else is secondary to that.

Well said, Bill. 
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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #105 on: May 19, 2018, 12:15:03 PM »
Anyway back to the topic here, do you think it's possible to have a relationship
with a girl like Anfisa (a goldigger) and have her love you and be loyal to you?
Or are goldiggers a lost cause?

Don't try to fix women. Find one that doesn't need fixing.

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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #106 on: May 19, 2018, 12:23:49 PM »
Don't try to fix women. Find one that doesn't need fixing.


He needs to fix himself first.
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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #107 on: May 19, 2018, 10:12:25 PM »
 :ROFL: :cheesy:
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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #108 on: May 20, 2018, 06:30:04 AM »
Don't try to fix women. Find one that doesn't need fixing.

Sure, but Anfisa here makes the point if she were fat and/or ugly he would not want to know her (and I guess guys in general). I have to admit that she might have a bit of a point here. I'm not necessarily after a model, I want chemistry first & foremost, but in all honesty like most guys I'm likely to not be very attracted to girls that are fat and/or ugly (as most guys probably see ugly).

However I've never seen much milage in a goldigger and a lot of girls that are pretty looking to any degree probably sway towards thE goldigging mentality (even some fat/ugly chocks do). So is or a valid point or just her bullsh*ting to get what she wants?

By the same token some girls go after guys that really work out/handsome looking. So are women such as Anfisa confusing the two issues. Since a girl could go with a guy on the same terms that he is hot looking, though giglo's are few & far between as far as I know, lol. So I assume hot guys hanging out with girls on the basis of who they are and not for money. Unless of course she is saying Jorge should pay up as a result of him being overweight.

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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #109 on: May 20, 2018, 08:08:06 AM »

By the same token some girls go after guys that really work out/handsome looking. So are women such as Anfisa confusing the two issues. Since a girl could go with a guy on the same terms that he is hot looking, though giglo's are few & far between as far as I know, lol. So I assume hot guys hanging out with girls on the basis of who they are and not for money. Unless of course she is saying Jorge should pay up as a result of him being overweight.



You speak of chemistry - yet you ignore the fact that some of us have wifes / g/fs that turn heads and are smart - without us being mega rich or having the body of Adonis..

More wasting of cyberspace ..a guy theorising with b all experience ...  :thumbsdown:

« Last Edit: May 20, 2018, 09:34:54 AM by msmob »
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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #110 on: May 20, 2018, 09:27:10 AM »


You speak of chemistry - yet you ignore the fact that some of us have wifes / g/fs that turn heads and are smart - without us being mega rich or having the body for Adonis..

More wasting of cyberspace ..a guy theorising with b all experience ...  :thumbsdown:

Ask your other half if she would like you to have the body of Adonis?

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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #111 on: May 20, 2018, 09:35:39 AM »
Ask your other half if she would like you to have the body of Adonis?

She doesn't care - as long as I am healthy ... 
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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #112 on: May 20, 2018, 11:09:38 AM »
She doesn't care - as long as I am healthy ...

You mean like Anfisa she would leave you if you fell ill ;D

Admit it Mobers you didn't ask her did you? It's just what your mind would like to hear.

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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #113 on: May 21, 2018, 01:38:55 PM »
My guess was early on anfisa was an escort or cam girl he met in moscow.
Still waiting to see if that plays out.
Even if not the reality,  it would make good reality* TV, so they may run with it.

TC, dont base your questions off paid actors in some TV series.
The amount of reality,in reality TV is akin what it was in hulk mania wrestling.
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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #114 on: May 21, 2018, 01:40:21 PM »
She was a webcam girl, that is how he met her.


She was never a stripper or a prostitute in the US.
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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #115 on: May 21, 2018, 01:51:24 PM »
My guess was early on anfisa was an escort or cam girl he met in moscow.
Still waiting to see if that plays out.
Even if not the reality,  it would make good reality* TV, so they may run with it.

TC, dont base your questions off paid actors in some TV series.
The amount of reality,in reality TV is akin what it was in hulk mania wrestling.

she claims she was a virgin when she met him  :rolleyes:
and all the enhancements she made to her body, he paid for :) That he also admits to..
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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #116 on: May 22, 2018, 01:35:53 PM »
She was a webcam girl, that is how he met her.


She was never a stripper or a prostitute in the US.

I certainly wouldnt think so once here.
I do believe they are required to be in the actors guild and paid a decent amount per episode.

Btw- I was not saying it in a judgemental way, at all  ,I just assumed from right off she worked as a cam girl.or more.
They both seemed incredibly immature ,and its reality TV, and certainly is played up drama for ratings.
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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #117 on: May 22, 2018, 01:55:00 PM »
I certainly wouldnt think so once here.
I do believe they are required to be in the actors guild and paid a decent amount per episode.

Btw- I was not saying it in a judgemental way, at all  ,I just assumed from right off she worked as a cam girl.or more.
They both seemed incredibly immature ,and its reality TV, and certainly is played up drama for ratings.

They are payed, but ridiculously little. There was one from the last season (a friend to one of the men) that put it up on social media what he got per episode, and that was if I remember correctly $1000 (yes I found the video).. and these people is followed around 4-5 months by cameras, making 12-14 episodes, that's not a lot of money.
Since she was not under contract by the network in any way, she could spill a lot of "secrets" about the show, how everything "exciting" is scripted and set up by the producers, how they where fed lines during recording and so on..




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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #118 on: May 22, 2018, 02:28:21 PM »
They supposedly are paid $7000 per episode.  The American spouse receives the full amount before the foreign fiance can work.
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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #119 on: May 22, 2018, 05:53:35 PM »
That explains why Anfisa is still with Jorge.
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Re: 90 day Fiance
« Reply #120 on: May 22, 2018, 09:00:46 PM »
You mean like Anfisa she would leave you if you fell ill ;D

Admit it Mobers you didn't ask her did you? It's just what your mind would like to hear.

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