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Offline mies

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Re: Her commenting on your physical appearance
« Reply #100 on: May 02, 2012, 09:39:04 PM »
I think I really stood out because of itr. A lot of the younger girls (15-25) would tell me I was beautiful  or call me lapochka ( I don't really know what it means but I guess its a complement ), one girl started it then everyone started calling me it, it became somewhat of  nick name. Even some of the nurses who are older 35+ would tell me  how beautiful I was Some of the compliments may have been sarcasm though. like if I was looking in a mirror fixing my hair or putting on chap stick, they'd say yes you're beautiful or of course your beautiful.

I wouldn't ask though, just have confidence like you know it.  If she's talking to you, she must have some interest in you.

You did stood out, but you can look at online profiles of ukrainian guys - girls compliment them all the time, even guys of questionable looks. If you need a proof - I can provide some.

For example, read girls' comments to this photo: http://www.bizarre.kiev.ua/cgi-bin/photo/show.pl?n=!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!DREAM00.jpg&s=M&p=ok&i=03000102&l=will_date_foreigner&sx=f

or this one: http://www.bizarre.kiev.ua/cgi-bin/photo/show.pl?n=%f4ap%eca%f6e%e2%f2%2903.jpg&s=M&p=ok&l=will_date_foreigner&i=08030401&sx=f
« Last Edit: May 02, 2012, 09:47:57 PM by mies »

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Re: Her commenting on your physical appearance
« Reply #101 on: May 21, 2012, 01:28:40 PM »
In my experiences on EM that women have given positive feedback to my appearance. I am not a guy that women would call gorgeous or could pose for the cover of a romance novel, but thanks to God my appearance is ok.
If all the women are not commenting then either you are fugly (as someone else said) or you are posing the question wrong. I'm not an expert with Russian women or women in general, but women want a man who is confidant regardless of his features. You can be a good looking guy but if you are not confidant then women won't express how good you look... they will simply walk away.

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Her commenting on your physical appearance
« Reply #102 on: March 19, 2024, 09:07:43 AM »
You can't be insecure around any woman you are pursuing, FSUW in particular.
If you need the girl you want to pursue to tell you that you're handsome, then
you are probably too insecure.
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: Her commenting on your physical appearance
« Reply #103 on: March 19, 2024, 01:24:49 PM »
24 or so years ago, I was with a RW in  SpB.
I mentioned that I wanted to lose some weight.
So said: "No, only one of us needs to be slender."

21 or so years ago I was with a UW in Kyiv.
My gut was getting even larger.
I asked her what she thought about it.
She said: "No problem."

15 or so years ago I was with a UW in Kharkiv.
She said: "You are so slender everywhere except your stomach."
I knew she didn't like it, so I knew it was over with her because no matter how much weight I lost, I would have the pot gut that runs in my father's family.

This week I saw myself in mirror (sideways) and was shocked at how big my stomach had become.
I told my now wife that I was embarrassed at how terrible I looked.
She just shrugged her shoulders and smiled.
A beautiful woman is pleasant to look at, but it is easier to live with a pleasant acting one.

 

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