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Re: Tinder - Am I crazy?
« Reply #100 on: July 20, 2018, 10:04:01 PM »

Footnote: WTF is Trenchcoat talking about?

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Re: Tinder - Am I crazy?
« Reply #101 on: July 20, 2018, 10:17:35 PM »
I just wanted to add some advice for men in a similar financial situation as the OP. The OP is an attorney, so he probably already knows. For others that have lots of assets before marriage, DO NOT comingle them with any joint accounts you will have after you marry.

If you have lots of real estate, establish a trust for ownership

Bad idea. It's hard for a woman to develop love for a husband if he continues to live as he's single. But what if love develops and husband and wife want to be together forever yet keep assets and accounts separate? When the government contacts them to apply for the permanent green card and interview, they may be in for a big surprise. Because there is little evidence that they are living as a married couple, the interviewer may not believe they are in a legitimate marriage. American men who brings a woman over here, get her name on utility bills, your automobiles, bank and credit card accounts if you want to keep her.
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Re: Tinder - Am I crazy?
« Reply #102 on: July 21, 2018, 09:21:03 AM »
I would suggest though that the FSU acts in a different way, they have a different thought process to Venezuelans no doubt. A lot of scams are not direct confrontations or acts of aggression. It's more a lot of acting and passive carry on for the most part. There are of course those that go further as has been illustrated. A lot of Ukrainians for example are a load of pussies they are not hard core South American gang types, they know that a bad fight can see them in a sh*tty state rum hospital in Ukraine - it could be the beginning of the end for them, they have other concerns. So they will often just try to blag or trick for the bit of extra money.


No Ukrainian is going to go to jail, where he will be at the bottom of the prison hierarchy, for robbing a foreigner of $100 or $1000.  Plus, robbing a foreigner carries a higher sentence than robbing a local.


A number of years ago, an oligarch in Donetsk was attending a football match.  He was a target.  Someone wanted to get rid of him. So they blew him up in his stadium seat at the match.  The 12 or so innocents he killed were just collateral damage.  So yeah, Ukrainian criminals are real pussies. :rolleyes:
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Re: Tinder - Am I crazy?
« Reply #103 on: July 21, 2018, 10:54:28 AM »
Bad idea. It's hard for a woman to develop love for a husband if he continues to live as he's single. But what if love develops and husband and wife want to be together forever yet keep assets and accounts separate? When the government contacts them to apply for the permanent green card and interview, they may be in for a big surprise. Because there is little evidence that they are living as a married couple, the interviewer may not believe they are in a legitimate marriage. American men who brings a woman over here, get her name on utility bills, your automobiles, bank and credit card accounts if you want to keep her.


Billy,
You might be OK getting zero in a divorce settlement, but most people arent. US divorce laws are generally pretty fair. And the law in most states allow a man or woman to keep assets they obtained BEFORE the marriage, as long as it is not comingled. You see, I am 20+ years ahead of you, and had a great marriage with a FSU lady until the last few years when it went south(mainly my fault). Anybodys marriage can go south. However, we both will have comfortable retirements, because we obtained a lot of assets during those years.

imo- A quality FSU lady wants a smart man to take care of her and future children, not an idiot that would sign away everything he owned to someone he knew for a short period of time
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