Daddy Issues

[Trenchcoat]

Not me but what if a FSW has them? We are often told here and elsewhere the sage advice not to go more than 10 years (possibly less) than our age. What though if the FSW has 'daddy issues' and actually likes older men, gets turned on by them where younger guys don't do it for them? Surely then in these circumstances a guy could find a much younger FSW that doesn't just regard him as a fool to take advantage off?

[Boethius]

"Daddy issues" usually means the woman is seeking financial stability. 

[Trenchcoat]

"Daddy issues" usually means the woman is seeking financial stability.

It might but I tend to get the impression it's more a girl that gets turned on by older men sexually and/or likes a father type of figure sometimes as their own father wasn't present or maybe just a genetic thing.

[ML]

http://www.healthline.com/health/what-are-daddy-issues#definition

The term “daddy issues” gets tossed around a lot, but most of the people doing the tossing are getting it all wrong.

It’s become a catchall term to describe almost anything a woman does when it comes to sex and relationships.

If she has sex “too soon,” doesn’t want to have sex, or is looking for reassurance, she’s got daddy issues.

If she prefers older men, likes to get spanked and called a bad girl, or calls her partner “daddy” in bed, must be daddy issues.

[John Gaunt]

It’s Trench trying to justify himself going for a young model with a sizeable age gap.

Saying that I have recently become acquainted with a couple with a huge age difference, about 36 yrs. he, early 60’s, she, early-mid 20’s.
She is UKR, extremely mature for her age. Financially astute and self sufficient and currently doing a PhD.
It’s not your usual case of WM seeking hot FSUW. In fact, he isn’t even Caucasian but seeing them together, they fit very well.

Unfortunately for TC, she blasts all his theories about FSUW motivations out of the water.
A lovely girl.

[Nightwish]

"Daddy issues" usually means the woman is seeking financial stability.

No, it's not what it "usually" mean at all.
Like ML pointed out it's a very wide variety of behaviors that is accredited this term.

[Maxx2]

I think Democrats have "daddy issues".

[Trenchcoat]

Ok I'm now fearing you may all be a bit too over the hill for this question more granddaddy than daddy lol

[Maxx2]

Ok I'm now fearing you may all be a bit too over the hill for this question more granddaddy than daddy lol

Yeap, for certain. I still can see a fool and his reasoning in doing stupid things.

[ML]

. . . she, early-mid 20’s.
She is UKR, extremely mature for her age. Financially astute and self sufficient and currently doing a PhD.
A lovely girl.

Hey . . . my wife is not that young !!!

[John Gaunt]

Hey . . . my wife is not that young !!!

I take it you fit the age bracket for the gentleman then?

[ML]

I take it you fit the age bracket for the gentleman then?

Hey, I'm straight . . . so why would you care ??  :-))

[2tallbill]

"Daddy issues" usually means the woman is seeking financial stability.

A woman with Daddy issues is somebody who has unconscious and often unhealthy
impulses and reactions as a result of her bad or lack of relationship with her father.
They are seeking something they were missing, wanting or needing in their childhood
from their romantic pursuits.

[2tallbill]

Not me but what if a FSW has them? We are often told here and elsewhere the sage advice not to go more than 10 years (possibly less) than our age. What though if the FSW has 'daddy issues' and actually likes older men, gets turned on by them where younger guys don't do it for them? Surely then in these circumstances a guy could find a much younger FSW that doesn't just regard him as a fool to take advantage off?

Women with Daddy issues are women who need psychological help dealing with problems
they developed as a child. Surely you don't seek to exploit broken young women hoping
that they might desire you to replace the father who never loved them (or worse).

Don't pursue broken women. You are not qualified to fix them and if you were then
100% of the psychologists will tell you not to treat somebody you are in a relationship
with. They WILL have relationship problems because of their childhoods, seek
out a woman with a healthy mind and attitude if you can.

[Maxx2]

seek
out a woman with a healthy mind and attitude if you can.

Good advice. Both of my ex-wives had daddy issues. Knowing what I know now about that it would have been Run! Forrest! Run! Even thinking of taking advantage of that situation is terrifying! Women with daddy issues generally hate men .... and sex. The ones that don't? You would never want to trust to be faithful.

[Trenchcoat]

Surely you don't seek to exploit broken young women hoping
that they might desire you to replace the father who never loved them (or worse).

[Trenchcoat]

Don't pursue broken women. You are not qualified to fix them and if you were then
100% of the psychologists will tell you not to treat somebody you are in a relationship
with. They WILL have relationship problems because of their childhoods, seek
out a woman with a healthy mind and attitude if you can.

Surely you could try not to fix them leave them to be mental and just enjoy/take the relationship for whatever it is. Good times could still be had

[2tallbill]

Surely you could try not to fix them leave them to be mental and just enjoy/take the relationship for whatever it is. Good times could still be had

Grasshopper, you have never lived with a woman with psychological issues. Imagine
living in a prison where you are seriously worried about getting a shiv in your spleen
24 hours per day. You don't know what you don't know.

Let me speak to your greatest fear. If you make a baby with them then your house
belongs to them to live in. You think you researched all the divorce laws but forget
the most important one. It's what happens to children in a divorce. If you make a
baby, she and the baby gets to live in YOUR house and you can live in a cardboard
box for all the courts care.

The only way to keep living in your house is to make enough money so that you
can pay her rent to live elsewhere.

Stay away from broken women with psychological problems. Seek out women who
are mentally healthy and happy. You don't know what you don't know and believe me
you don't want to know.

Udachi!

Bill

[Trenchcoat]

Grasshopper, you have never lived with a woman with psychological issues. Imagine
living in a prison where you are seriously worried about getting a shiv in your spleen
24 hours per day. You don't know what you don't know.

Let me speak to your greatest fear. If you make a baby with them then your house
belongs to them to live in. You think you researched all the divorce laws but forget
the most important one. It's what happens to children in a divorce. If you make a
baby, she and the baby gets to live in YOUR house and you can live in a cardboard
box for all the courts care.

The only way to keep living in your house is to make enough money so that you
can pay her rent to live elsewhere.

Stay away from broken women with psychological problems. Seek out women who
are mentally healthy and happy. You don't know what you don't know and believe me
you don't want to know.

Udachi!

Bill

Bill I understand but I'm not talking high level Psycho girls here. We're talking just about girls with daddy Issues that probably appreciate sitting on my lap and a good cuddle

The house issue could be a problem but I'm reckoning whatever potential falling outs the girl probably won't have the instincts of her more 'mentally healthy' Feminist cousins to rip the balls of the guy for everything his got. If anything they will probably want to be taken back in needing an older guy to look up too

[2tallbill]

Bill I understand but I'm not talking high level Psycho girls here. We're talking just about girls with daddy Issues that probably appreciate sitting on my lap and a good cuddle

All girls like to sit in their mans lap and cuddle.