Question to Russian woman

[Marc Dayton]

Question for Russian Woman

 

Top 10 reason for not weighting back to a man that has sent you an e-mail. I would like to here what you feel turns you off in a mans letters to you.

[Elen]

A man starts to write in second letter he falled in love with you  (and manages to forget your given name in his fourh letter:D)

Too many braggings about his wallet and bank's amount


nonsenses about democracy in America and tyrany in Russia and showing absolutely ignorance about events in Russian history (added special for Dan;))

[Elen]

And BTW whose exactly opinion do you ask??  Do you held hope for appearance of some others Russian women at this "board for american males only" - as sombody claims here or you will be glad to here something from women "who respectable man will have" .

[Kvinna]

Hello Tatiana my sweetie, I was very glad to get the letter from you and I
read it with great interest. It was very wonderful the style you use to
describe your life. I was a little surprised that you wrote to me because I
think maybe I was a little rude to you when I make comments about your son
at home. I did not mean this as the insult....I am ignorant about Russian
culture and I apologize if I disturb you in any way. I am not the bad man,
I am outspoken at times and maybe too much so. I like to say what is in my
mind instead of acting in the false way. Anyway, I am glad to hear from you
again. I think you are very pretty lady and nice in feminine way. Even I
think your toes are cute! (smile) I have read much about Russia and Ukraine
on the internet and everyday I try to find some topic to study. Today I
read about Chernobyl reactor disaster from the time of 1986 and it is very
interesting to me because I study the nuclear engineering when I was in the
US Navy and attending engineering school for the submarine fleet. I know
about the reactor design and operation so I could understand the documents
with good clarity and I was fascinated by the photographs of the
contaminated area. It is so awful to see the people die and suffer because
of the government carelessness, but that always happens in every country.
The governments do not care much for the welfare of the population, only the
money and the power and the corruption. Also I look at many photographs of
the city of Minsk in Belarus and I think it is the most beautiful city. It
looks very modern and very clean and I would love to visit that place some
day and go to the lovely parks and the War and History Museum. I like very
much the history and I love to study about the aircraft of WW 2 and I know
about the Ilyushin, Tupolev and Yak aircraft fighters and bombers. I have
even built the models of some of these aircraft and I still do this today.
I also spend much time to collect the photos of the WW2 aircraft from the
internet and I print them on my printer machine. I am always proud of the
way the Russian forces defeated Hitler and the Nazis after suffering so much
defeats from the Germans. I can't believe how many Russian people die in
that terrible war. I just now find your photo at the end of your
letter....I almost miss it! You are very pretty Tatiana in that picture and
I like your hair and the lovely smile....you are the sexy woman for sure.
Is the photo taken at your place of work? Thank you for that nice photo.
I want to ask you some questions please. How are you writing the letters to
me? Do you use the translator or do you compose the words yourself? Your
English is not perfect but it is very good and easy for me to understand.
How well can you speak English, can you speak with me on the telephone? Are
you interested to get married and come to live in the United States? You
are brave enough to make that dream happen for you?? It will take the
strong woman with good attitude to leave her life behind and come to the new
land. What sort of company do you work for now, Tatiana? Is it related
to the aircraft industry? It seems like we have some good interests in
common like nature, gardening and wanting the nice home. Are you the good
cook? I am pretty good cook and I also like to make the sweets. Today I
have extra time so I make the pumpkin pie for myself. I like all kinds of
food....I am very easy man to please and I am not hard to satisfy.....I
appreciate everything in life and I live the simple life with no
complications. I have much free time to spend with my wife and take the
little trips and go camping and skiing together. I would get much pleasure
to have the gorgeous woman such as you to make my bed warm! (smile) I hope I
do not offend you Larisa....but it is true! If someday you will give me all
your love and affection, I will be the good student for you and you can
teach me what pleases you. I will be happy to comply! (smile) Do you
like to pick mushrooms or the berries? I used to pick mushrooms in the
mountains but I have not done so for a long time, but it is something we
could do together. Also, there are many berries in the summer that we could
pick and make jam and berry pies. I also today have looked at photos of
your city and it is very interesting and wonderful city. I did not know it
was founded so long ago and had such the German influence. I saw the
Pregolya River, the seacoast town of Baltiysk, the town of Cranz, Kant's
Cathedral and the amber museum. In my country, amber is the fossilized
remains of the tree sap that is very ancient and is valuble to collectors
and people who make the jewelry. It is the same in Kaliningrad? I enjoy
the old buildings and the architecture of your city and would like to see
them in person. I work in the construction so I am always interested in the
old buildings and houses. Please tell your girlfriend thank you for
letting you use her computer to write me the letters. You ask me about my
family so I will tell you something . My mother abandon me when I was 6
mos. old and my father leaves also so I am adopted by my Grandparents who
are both passed away now. They were my parents to me and when they die, my
family was disappeared. I never see my mother these days and I never see my
father...I think maybe he has died...I do not know. I have two
half-brothers but I never see them....I do not care because they like to use
the drugs too much. I am better to stay away and make my own life and that
is why I am very independent guy and can do many things for myself. I am
private person and quiet but I have no problem to have the good time and
enjoy life. You can make the life even better for me my dear and I can make
you happy and give you much love and you may always trust me to see you as
my only lady and lover. I am not the treacherous man and I am not the
cheater. You can find this out if you take the time to know me in my heart.
I was married very young when I was in the military and I have the son in
1965. My wife and I get divorced and I work overseas and I never see my son
until he is 11 years old and he is raised by my wifes second husband. My
son and I never get close too much but now he is the man and has the son of
his own and the happy marriage to the good girl. I got married for the
second time in 1972 but it did not work out very well and I divorce again.
I have no more children. After that divorce I say this is not for me and I
will never get married again to any woman....my luck is not good in that
way. Now that I am older I am very tired of being alone and having no
companion and sometimes I get very depressed when I think I can be at the
end of my days and I will still be alone and never find the wonderful lady
for me. This is not good. So, I want to try and find a nice girl who can
love me and I to her and we can be two silly kids together and it will be
very nice for both of us. I have a nice home but I need the lady to make it
the happy beautiful place. I cannot keep everything nice like the woman can
do and it gets to be too much the toil for one person alone. I am tired of
it and I want to make the nice change and have the lady come to my home that
has not the house and it will be hers as mine. I am very tired now
Tatiana and I must clean myself and go to sleep. I will wait for your reply
with impatience. Your name can also be called "Tanya"? Bye, bye my
sweetie cake......Kenny. I am sending more photos for you: 2 photos of my
city of Portland, and two sceneries in my state, one is the Pacific Ocean.

 

also such letters

"Ken Campen" <***@hotmail.com>
Дата: Fri, 28 Jan 2005 16:54:17 -0800
Hello, Is there some reason you don't write anymore? Are you
Russian women all the same?? Its no wonder you are alone. Fuck off  

 

Your pussy stinking of sperm.You like to suck dick for money.When I catch you here,I will shit on you,you will eat my shit,"I will kill you of dick",I will fuck you also in ass.Better forget danmark.I am mafia.My hand will found you in belrus."cossa nostre".Go to police,they will send you to chirche on water and brad,they you need bich.Only water and brad.Fuck you self.Come to fuck for money,I will find you place.Price is 300 kr.Fucking,250 krones sucking with kondom.You can earn a lot of money,that ukraina girls doing all over the europe,soldates NATO fuck you like slaves.Group sex for moral of army.You are bich in blod.Fuck you,go to street and make money for internet and food.You loosing time.You are old bich 30 years.Your pussy stinking.Fuck you bich.You are daughter of 1000 fathers. I will shit in your mouth and give you mineral water.Fuck you bich.Thats ukraina,only whole and chep biches.In bosnia ukraina pusy is 30 euros half an hour.You are ex bich too.You fucked for money but you are too old.Maybe you have aids.God punish you.Fuck you whocker.

 

[Goombah]

Curse of using form letters, which that long one pretty much was.

Whats with the 2nd and other letters?

Kevin

[Elen]

I took that the letters #2 and #3 were from the same "darling" Kenny. So it does not matter what the real second and others letters were. The end of love story is just "perfect" :X

 

[Goombah]

Elen -

No lady should EVER get letters like that.  As a member of the writers gender class, I appoligize.  Unfortunately, there is little else I can do unless I assume the post of "Angel of Death".

I can say that "cut & paste" can often trip a guy up, but by the 4th letter, there shouldn't be much, if any, of that going on.  I'm happy to report that with my current lady, I have not used ANY form letters - everything has been unique and custom.  As I have mentioned, this was an unusual start due to us being introducted by a common friend.

Kevin

[Elen]

Ah, boys You just have not idea how many such letters our girls receive from "import getlemen".  As for "forms" it's hard to detect them if it's not your mother language.

 

[Albert]

Very strange . . . . . the original letter posted by Kivina was not written in English by a native English speaker, but rather it was written in English by a native Russian or Ukrainian speaker.

So why is a native Russian speaker writing a letter in English to a Russian woman?

[Elen]

Why do you think a guy was from FSU but not from Europe or Canada?

[Albert]

Elen, I said it was written by a native Russian or Ukrainian speaker.  I do not know where the person is currently living.

[Elen]

Well from another approach why do think it was written by Russian speak persone?

I'm curiouse coz I myself don't know English such good to figure out the nationality of English speak persone. Any signs for we would see in future is it "our" heroes?

[Albert]

Elen, I have corresponded with hundreds of Russian persons, as have many other of the men here.  After a bit, certain forms of speech and writing patterns start to be discernable.  There are dozens of such in the letter above.

Here are just a few:  The native English is in parenthesis following the Russian version.

I did not mean this as the (an) insult....I am ignorant about Russian
culture and I apologize if I disturb(ed) you in any way. I am not the (a) bad man,
I am outspoken at times and maybe too much so. I like to say what is in (on) my
mind instead of acting in the (a) false way. Anyway, I am glad to hear from you
again. I think you are (a) very pretty lady and nice in (a) feminine way. Even I (I even) think your toes are cute!

[Marc Dayton]

To all Russian woman, thank you for posting your stories men need to see this to understand. These men who send these types of letters are also the one who cry Who Me I have done nothing wrong. I hope that the RW keep telling these kinds of stories.

[Elen]

Yep all those the and a are just usefull (to my mind) things in English which I never could be abble to understand:?

Is it problem only for Russians-speak persones? What about Bruno:D? What're his typical mistakes as a persone with French mother language?

[Bruno]

Albert, it is possible that someone like me who is not a native english have write so letter... of maybe some American with enough low education... i have already read letter from native American that i can't understand because it is very very bad writen...

Again, for check this, it was need the full e-mail, with the header and IP and not only the text...

[Elen]

As for that type of letters then there are a lot of complaints from girls about males become ve-e-ery rude if something goes not in that direction they would prefer to:? 

So may be we can't use the and a right but we do know almost all English non-lliterary word-stock already:( 

[Albert]

No, Bruno.  As I stated the word choices are particularly unique to native Russian and Ukrainian speakers.

 

[Elen]

Well it's not such big matter what nationality  the author of that letter had. The fact stays the same - We don't like insult letters:X

Let continue with the main idea



* Too many "cries" about former wife,

* Presence of statements a-la "all american women are ....... (full complect of insult vocabulary)

 

[BC]

Could also have been an english letter sent via translator and retranslated from Russian to English..

In any case I'm sure such letters are quite frequent..

[Marc Dayton]

Wile living in Tver I have seen many letters that ask girls things like what is your cup size, how would you feel about getting bigger busts, can you send me photos in sexy underwear,

 

These are things that men need to know, but first letters?  You must understand that if you are using a letter service or an agency. Those men that ask such questions are looked at as jerks the girl that you sent the letter too. They will here things like are you going to write him he just after sex. He is not a nice man if he asks these kinds of questions.

 

Pear presser' Russian Ladies have pride, and they don't want to look bad in front of other Russian woman. So you should just think, and ask yourself when the right time to ask, what the wrong time to ask is.


 

[acrzybear]

A gentleman is a gentleman no matter what country he is from.  Holding doors open for ladies (does not matter if you know them or not), offering a seat to a woman or elderly person etc... 

These are just common courtesies no matter which country one is in and any lady will recognize this very quickly.  This world is full of self absorbed people looking for the  BBD (bigger, better deal).

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