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Offline delagator7

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Cherkasi and Kiev Agencies
« on: September 29, 2014, 11:51:55 PM »
I found a lovely girl in Cherkasi I would like to meet. I don't want to go at this alone, because of being afraid of scammers. I also do not want to put all my eggs in one basket.

Are there honest local agencies in Cherkasi?

Should I just do most of my searching with a respectable Kiev marriage agency, and visit the one girl from Cherkasi?

Are there small respectable international marriage agency meet and greet tours in Cherkasi/Kiev?

Where should I start.

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Re: Cherkasi and Kiev Agencies
« Reply #1 on: September 30, 2014, 02:26:49 AM »
First question to ask yourself is how emotionally invested you are in this girl, and how much you would really give a backup plan an honest chance should it not work out. I have read a lot over the years about guys with multiple baskets, but there are very few who when their main interest faded out were able to actually connect to their backup plans.
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Re: Cherkasi and Kiev Agencies
« Reply #2 on: September 30, 2014, 05:58:58 AM »
Welcome Delegator to this forum.

First of all, how did you 'meet' this lovely girl from Cherkasi?   Which dating/marriage site did you find her?

How long have you known her?  You know that you won't get scammed if you send her money - any amounts! 

When going to Ukraine, always have a backup plan "Plan B"
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Re: Cherkasi and Kiev Agencies
« Reply #3 on: September 30, 2014, 06:48:11 AM »
You know that you won't get scammed if you send her money - any amounts! 

Somehow I do not think this is what you meant to say. :P
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Re: Cherkasi and Kiev Agencies
« Reply #4 on: September 30, 2014, 02:48:39 PM »
I don't have much invested yet into the girl from Cherkasy yet. (Neither financially or emotionally). I found her through the big box agencies. I believe I want to give her a chance :-) regardless.

I know that there are many marriage agencies in Kiev, which is only 2.5 hours away. There are many beautiful women in those agencies. My backup plan is really just an integrated chance to go on 8-10 dates(through a Kiev agency) including the girl from Cherkasy and see if there is a connection with anyone of them. I also have a girl who will be coming in from Melitopol come in from bus who will also be part of the pool of women I would like to date. She is also from the big box company the girl from Cherkasy is from.

If I give all the women an equal chance, then I can choose, who will match my efforts and have a connection. I will be hiring an outside interpretor who represents me, and has an insight on which girl has the best connection. Wish me luck

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Re: Cherkasi and Kiev Agencies
« Reply #5 on: September 30, 2014, 02:58:19 PM »
well that's my plan.

Do you see any flaws, or just go with it and hope for the best.

hopefully not lost,
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Re: Cherkasi and Kiev Agencies
« Reply #6 on: September 30, 2014, 04:58:50 PM »
 :welcome: delagator7!

well that's my plan.

Do you see any flaws, or just go with it and hope for the best.

hopefully not lost,
Del

Doesn't look too bad a plan.  The main things here are that:

1.  You're getting off your backside and actually visiting, which puts you ahead of 95% of the competition;
2.  Judging by your posts, you haven't spent too much (yet!);
3.  You're hiring an independent interpreter (extremely good idea); and
4.  You have what seems to be an eminently sensible backup plan.

Provided the girl from Cherkassy (and the others whom you are considering) are not 20 years younger than you, you should be OK to start with.

Good luck!  :thumbsup:
« Last Edit: October 01, 2014, 02:07:38 AM by Anotherkiwi »

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Re: Cherkasi and Kiev Agencies
« Reply #7 on: September 30, 2014, 06:15:07 PM »
 Thanks.

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Re: Cherkasi and Kiev Agencies
« Reply #8 on: September 30, 2014, 06:19:21 PM »
So, which big box agency are we talking about? Anastasiadate? A Foreign Affair? If its either of these I'd say "Run Forest, Run"


These are some of the worst agencies to use.
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Re: Cherkasi and Kiev Agencies
« Reply #9 on: September 30, 2014, 06:56:10 PM »
again just part of the equation, 2 out of the 8-10 dates. The rest from a smaller local agency. I believe there are  a few (not all) honest girls from the big box agencies because I know men who used those services who are married and living great marriages.

I believe I will know which woman I will have a connection with. :deadhorse:
I believe meeting her in her country, is better than being a keyboard Romeo.
I want to explore all options including the big box companies as well as the local agencies.
I am well aware of all the bad reviews and I will be careful, I promise.

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Re: Cherkasi and Kiev Agencies
« Reply #10 on: October 16, 2014, 02:42:55 PM »
Only go in Cherkasy if you have some others contacts and at least one serious agency.

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