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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #50 on: June 30, 2016, 01:41:27 PM »
My congratulations!

What are the long term plans?  You probably wrote something already, but missed it.

To New York,, and one or two kids....  soon...  I hope...
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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #51 on: June 30, 2016, 01:48:47 PM »
I am in central Ukraine....

I think I can apply online...


We are still not sure if we are going...

It is still an idea..... for now...
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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #52 on: June 30, 2016, 02:12:56 PM »
I am in central Ukraine....

I think I can apply online...


We are still not sure if we are going...

It is still an idea..... for now...

You can get an invitation online but the visa is another matter. It will have to be done at the Embassy

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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #53 on: June 30, 2016, 05:44:37 PM »
To New York,, and one or two kids....  soon...  I hope...


IIRC, you have a young child?  How do you plan to deal with that?
After the fall of communism, the biggest mistake Boris Yeltsin's regime made was not to disband the KGB altogether. Instead it changed its name to the FSB and, to many observers, morphed into a gangster organisation, eventually headed by master criminal Vladimir Putin. - Gerard Batten

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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #54 on: June 30, 2016, 07:10:43 PM »
I have sole custody of my daughter...
She lives with me,, she sleeps at my house 7 days a week...
She is 6 years old... and she talks to vika on skype..
They are both excited to meet...

Vika has pictures of her all over her apartment...

to add a little bit of honesty...

I am not sure she can have children because of her diabetes...
She has told me, This is one of the reason she was looking for a man who already had children...

But, I hope with proper medical care. we should be able to have at least one child...


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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #55 on: June 30, 2016, 07:49:14 PM »
Darth, this is such a sweet and loving story. I almost got tears in my eyes when I read it. I had a huge smile on my face and just thought to myself about how kind and loving of a woman Vika must be. I don't care if Vika is 200 lbs, 250 lbs or 300 lbs, it sounds like she is such a good human being that she is exactly the type of woman I hope to meet in Minsk regardless of her appearance (but it would be extra cool if she is also extremely skinny). Sounds like Vika is the type of woman every WM dreams of meeting in the FSU.

As much as a WM without a child can fall in love with a FSU woman's child, I can see it being just as easy for a FSU woman without a child to fall in love quite easily with a WM's 6 year-old Daughter. I am sure Vika, like every FSU woman, has that natural mothering instinct embedded in her DNA, and now that you and your little girl have come along and ya'll wish to be a lifelong couple, I bet if you give Vika the opportunity to legally adopt your Daughter as her own Daughter (dunno if this is possible for you Garth - is your Daughter's biological Mother still in her life?) that will be a huge lift to Vika's self-esteem and self-worth as a Woman. I think almost every woman dreams of becoming a Mom, and if it turns out that her Type II (NIDDM) (I assume it is type II as that is far more common and curable than type I) prevents her from ever having her own Child, I see no reason that if she adopts your Daughter Darth, that she should not feel every bit as proud and protective of your little girl as she would be if she were her actual biological little girl. Your Daughter doesn't even care if Vika did not carry her in her uterus for 36 weeks, the little girl simply wants a loving Mother.    Adoption is one of the greatest acts of kindness someone can ever offer of themselves. I admire and respect families that adopt children tremendously. Those are some very cool Husbands and Wives that adopt little kids!!  :) If I marry a woman who does not have any kids, I have thought many times of having one child of our own, and then traveling to Ukraine to one of the many orphonages in that country, and adopting a child from there. I have discussed this plan with several girls from the FSU, and every one was extremely receptive to this and every girl thought it would be a great idea.

Anyways, it sounds like you have all your ducks lined up in a row and your plan will be a big success. I am very happy for you and your new family Garth and I wish you the best.   

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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #56 on: July 01, 2016, 03:19:31 AM »
Some pictures...  for the RWD community..
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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #57 on: July 01, 2016, 11:35:17 AM »
Some pictures...  for the RWD community..

Pretty woman!  Congratulations squared!

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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #58 on: July 24, 2016, 06:06:26 PM »
We are in New York....

Everything went good..

Now to start on more paperwork..

Green card,, permanent residents status...

Getting married
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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #59 on: July 24, 2016, 07:31:30 PM »
We are in New York....

Everything went good..

Now to start on more paperwork..

Green card,, permanent residents status...

Getting married

Congratulations! It almost seems like yesterday when you started your journey and here you are bringing a fine lady home. Hopefully Vika adjusts to her new life without culture shock. If you need any tips on helping her adjust, feel free to ask.
Fund the audits, spread the word and educate people, write your politicians and other elected officials. Stay active in the fight to save our country. Over 220 generals and admirals say we are in a fight for our survival like no other time since 1776.

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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #60 on: July 24, 2016, 07:37:27 PM »
On the ferry. Lake Champlain..  On the way home from Burlington..
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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #61 on: July 25, 2016, 11:56:23 AM »
So, how's she taking on Plattsburg?
To argue with a man who has renounced the use and authority of reason, and whose philosophy consists in holding humanity in contempt, is like administering medicine to the dead. Thomas Paine - The American Crisis 1776-1783

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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #62 on: July 27, 2016, 12:24:33 PM »
I live in Moira,,,

she likes the small town.. Life...

she said on the second day...
She like new york, more than Ukraine...

She is just excited,, but she really likes our milk...
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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #63 on: July 27, 2016, 02:31:01 PM »
On the ferry. Lake Champlain..  On the way home from Burlington..



Thanks for sharing the beautiful photos.

You had good weather!  When there in July about 50 years ago, I wanted a ski jacket.  Another example of climate change.   My ex-wife went to Plattsburg State Teachers College before she became an attorney.  I thought Ithaca too cold, and this area was even colder.

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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #64 on: September 03, 2016, 08:24:25 AM »
The Flow Chart....

Almost done
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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #65 on: September 04, 2016, 03:53:48 PM »
Married

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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #66 on: September 04, 2016, 05:08:05 PM »
Congratulations

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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #67 on: September 04, 2016, 05:11:15 PM »
Darth,


Congrats. Hope you and Mrs Darth have a happy life. Please don't vanish on us and let us know how married life is.


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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #68 on: September 04, 2016, 05:15:29 PM »
Well, alright, alright, alright.  Congrats man!

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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #69 on: September 04, 2016, 06:22:05 PM »
Married

Congratulations, Darth!  :couple:

Now you're allowed to change your status!  :devil:

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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #70 on: September 04, 2016, 10:01:47 PM »
Married

Welcome to the club!  Thanks for sharing your story from the beginning.
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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #71 on: September 05, 2016, 12:07:07 AM »
Congratulations, Darth.  I wish you many happy years together.
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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #72 on: September 05, 2016, 02:38:04 AM »
Congrats DC!! Best of luck to you both :clapping:
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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #73 on: September 05, 2016, 06:17:34 AM »
Good luck with the marriage Darth...she looks gorgeous.


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Re: Darth Confidential 2016
« Reply #74 on: September 08, 2016, 08:42:11 AM »
Dang, I just saw this.


Congrats Darth and to your wife. May you both be friends forever.  :D
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