Forum > Experienced

only a desperate dumb man would search R/U women

(1/14) > >>

Rodney42:

After 5 years of on and off searching for a wife from Russia/Ukraine,  and 2 very miserable trips to Ukraine to meet what only turns out to be typical R/U woman scammers and their agency , I finally realized that only a very stupid desperate man would search R/U women. Sure some of you guys have got and or will get very lucky to find a good honest R/U woman but thousands and thousands of men just like me have only got and or will only get scammed into losing lots of $ and wasting lots of time again and again time after time after time. 
 So I haven't even bothered or cared to search any more R/U women for about a year now because Russian Love Match and Anastasia Web very well proved and have shown so well how much of an easy 90% of the more attractive R/U women on the Internet are just scams/scammers  . Even if you do find a real sincere beautiful woman as I'm sure I  did a few times you will most likely do as I did and turn her off and away from you because you can't just go hop on a plane to go see her until you know for sure she is real and sincere about trying to form a meaningful relationship with you that would hopefully lead to mirage.  And she sure won't like you acting like a detective interrogating her to find out if she is for real or not .
Since I finally pulled my head out of my ass and wised up about R/U women on the internet and went totally Latin  I had the best of luck way beyond my expectations with  so many  beautiful Latin women  that were really and truly serious about marriage no matter how young and  beautiful they were.  I did correspond with a few women that were only looking for presents and a good time but they really didn't try to hide their intentions much at all.    Latin scams/ women scammers were almost non existent in my  search before I found my current gf-fiance. The reason for this seems to be that Latin women for the most part are more religious which seems to give them higher morals , better family and cultural values ,total dedication and loyalty to their man. I don't think any R/U woman would ever drag me into church just so she could give thanks to God for bringing me into her life.  Two Latin girls did this to me even though they knew I'm totally not religious  .  All the Latin women I corresponded with really despised all the Latin men in their country as cheaters,beaters, drunks and lazy. Gringos are definitely unique and very desired with the Latin women and It sure nice to be noticed by a lot of Latin women on the internet and when I visited Brazil and Colombia .
You should know your really stupid and desperate to search R/U women when all the scammer web-sites  on the whole Internet are about 99% R/U scams/scammers . :cluebat: The only so called Latin woman scammer site I was able to find is almost all about R/U scams/scammers  . I'm sure there is a good bit of Latin scams/scammers going on but I  had almost no problems what so ever probably because I stayed away from agencies and women who showed any kind of insincerity about showing me she was for real and wanting a serious relationship.  At the beginning of my search , 2 women insisted that I must first show my-self on a web-cam. This really told me that I was now searching women who were for the most part real and very serious about finding their soul-mate.
The best Latin sites I used are latineuro and latinamericancupid. I really like LAC  because the site has unlimited /unrestricted online chatting for $25 a month. Also I really like that the women will hide their profile when they are no longer available and many of them do this very soon which really shows how serious,  honest and loyal to their man that they are .   When I would chat  with the girls  many times we would go to MSN to chat , exchange photos and sometimes have a web cam/voice chat . Most of the time it was a very good connection to see and hear each other .   The girl that I'm dating now also has high speed Internet and we see and talk to each other every day like we are sitting across the table from each other. There is absolutely no better way , besides in-person, to get to know each other this way to find out if we are compatible or not. If not for MSN , I really feel I would have wasted a lot more time with this other girl I had started a fiance visa with.  On my MSN list at one time I had about 30  Latin women and several of them are now engaged or in a serious relationship .Further more I could easily get into 30 serious relationships with almost any good looking Latin woman before I could even find one ok looking for real  R/U woman that is honest and really serious about a relationship with me that would hopefully lead to marriage .  I estimate that I at best had about a 5% chance of finding a R/U woman that fit all my desired requirements of the type of woman that I want to marry . As to where I guess that I easily have about a 90% chance of finding a  good looking Latin woman that fits all my desired requirements of the type of woman I want to marry. I now feel so stupid that I was really getting so desperate with R/U women by lowering so many of my requirements so low that would have absolutely no doubt led to a unhappy mirage that would for sure have failed .
   Even though I'm very happy with my current gf , I still sometimes can't help but brows through the Latin sites to check out all the new super hot mostly all for real and sincere women that I know are so available to any average looking good guy no matter his reasonable age difference. My gf is 18 years younger than me and that is very reasonable to her and me .
I've been to Brazil and Colombia 7 times now and it sure is a lot cheaper, warmer and closer than going to R/U. Maybe it's not so far for you European guys to travel to R/U but your still most likely going to just get scammed depending on how young and/or beautiful of a woman your pursuing. Also Latin women that move to the US will have a huge advantage over R/U women in cultural support/comfort  and  job/career opportunities
  Russian and Ukraine women ( especially the beautiful ones) for the most part seem to reflect and act like the corrupt culture that they have grown up in . Scamming western men seems to be very well accepted and growing  among R/U people and even bragged about , especially if its a American man that is getting scammed. There is no doubt that R&U scammers really make western men look like the stupid dumb asses that we are for searching for searching R/U women.   :wallbash:
   RLM  very well proves how many super hot looking real women on video cam are really and truly low-life pimped out scummy chatting WHORES. My old , short, fat photo less profile on RLM still to this day very well proves this every time I get online . I still do this occasionally for fun and because it's still so unbelievable and shocking to me at how many of the most beautiful high class looking not so young (24 + ) real online RLM women will ask my photo less profile to chat .  I guess that some of the scum that lives on this earth is not always an ugly site to look at

Thor:
As long as you use agencys so is the chance to be scammed very high---Agencys are business and nothing more....

Ade:

--- Quote from: Rodney42 on July 27, 2008, 01:40:24 AM ---After 5 years of on and off searching for a wife from Russia/Ukraine,  and 2 very miserable trips to Ukraine to meet what only turns out to be typical R/U woman scammers and their agency , I finally realized that only a very stupid desperate man would search R/U women.

[snip]


--- End quote ---

Damn, that was one funny post  :cluebat:

If I wasn't about to leave the house to catch a plane I would respond in full to its silliness; all I can say is that I'm looking forward to getting back to read the replies that it provokes. :)

Shadow:
Rodney, I am glad that you found a good partner that you are happy with.

However it seems that you have found this site too late in your life. The agencies you used are known for having a high risk content, even if it is possible to find sincere women. If you add to this that 80% of the scammers are men, and about 90% of all scam profiles lead to the same group, the reality is much better as you projected.
Similar, you will probably be able to find scammers in Latina sites, although there might not be as many organized efforts.

If you are suspicious by nature, and at the same time easy to be suckered in by a nice picture, stay away from RW.
We often mention that they are not for everyone, and you just confirm it by your post.

vwrw:
I agree with Shadow.   As soon as I got to the part where he said which agencies he used I knew what his problem was. 

Good Luck Rod,  Thanks for sharing your story. 

Navigation

[0] Message Index

[#] Next page