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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #25 on: July 08, 2015, 04:07:06 PM »
A girl I met, before my wife, asked me if I had ever shaved under arms.
I said no, but thought what the hell I will try, ( open minded)
I also said if I didn't like, I wouldn't do again.
I liked it, swear less, feels cleaner, so I continued.

I also prefer going without armpit hair.  But I don't think it made me swear less.

I had to get to that before ML did. :)

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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #26 on: July 08, 2015, 04:14:38 PM »
I also prefer going without armpit hair.  But I don't think it made me swear less.

I had to get to that before ML did. :)

What ever do you mean  :)
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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #27 on: July 08, 2015, 04:54:21 PM »
I also prefer going without armpit hair.  But I don't think it made me swear less.

I had to get to that before ML did. :)

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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #28 on: July 08, 2015, 08:22:58 PM »
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noch1 For those who comment, they are more of man with hair, or someone with out is less of man, shake your head, it is the 21st century LOL.
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ahh noch can you find such a comment your reffering to ?

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Each should do as they wish. Women can make suggestions, as you can with them.
But each should do as they wish and accept it in kind.

within reason thats acceptable

however im pretty sure my wife would spin out if i went home with some full  arm sleeve tatts,dyed  blue hair mowhawk style and a few piercings /nose ring  & vice a versa lol

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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #29 on: July 08, 2015, 11:15:40 PM »

What?  Of course (I assume) most of the men have NOT been shaving their nutsack



A razor goes over the nutsack fine. No worries.


im totally comfortable with BEING A MAN & all that goes with it 



Last time this issue was talked about, Gator said shaving downstairs makes your Manly thingy look bigger to the ladies. Most men like ladies who trim or shave it all off. Most of us don't like going down on a big bush and they don't either.


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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #30 on: July 09, 2015, 12:10:36 AM »

 Most men like ladies who trim or shave it all off. Most of us don't like going down on a big bush and they don't either.


Be careful Billy...
Last time a thread ventured into the topic of female grooming downstairs it got shut down by Admin quickly.
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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #31 on: July 09, 2015, 12:15:27 AM »
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Don't be afraid of changes.

bill being comfortable in your own skin with hair on your balls and a clean shaved face is ''not being afraid of change  ;D ;D

change is fine , it is going on in our lives all the time ,it isnt scary ..ITS A NECCESITY  funny thing is though i usually like to decide what changes within my control i make when it comes to me  ;)

thats my view and im not asking it to be yours or anyone elses

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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #32 on: July 09, 2015, 01:50:26 AM »
ahh noch can you find such a comment your reffering to ?


within reason thats acceptable

however im pretty sure my wife would spin out if i went home with some full  arm sleeve tatts,dyed  blue hair mowhawk style and a few piercings /nose ring  & vice a versa lol


SX

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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #33 on: July 25, 2015, 09:38:09 PM »
I have had several Russian women try to convince me i need to shave my armpits. None of them suceeded. My Fiance' doesn't care one way or the other about things like that.

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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #34 on: July 26, 2015, 10:00:47 AM »
My Fiance' doesn't care one way or the other about things like that.

That's probably because your Fiance' is a man.
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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #35 on: July 26, 2015, 10:12:05 AM »
Guys don't shave their armpits.
...Well, that's how it was back in the 20th century.
I'm reactionary. I also don't understand why guys shave their
chests and stomachs...?

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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #36 on: July 26, 2015, 10:16:23 AM »
Guys don't shave their armpits.
...Well, that's how it was back in the 20th century.
I'm reactionary. I also don't understand why guys shave their
chests and stomachs...?

I'll explain my reasoning. When a middle-aged guy is dating a girl who is much younger and hot he should do everything possible to enhance his appearance. This includes eating right, working out hard, and removing the hair (especially bc the girls appreciate this). It also includes dressing as well as possible and getting a spray tan before visiting the girl.

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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #37 on: July 26, 2015, 10:36:42 AM »
I'll explain my reasoning. When a middle-aged guy is dating a girl who is much younger and hot he should do everything possible to enhance his appearance. This includes eating right, working out hard, and removing the hair (especially bc the girls appreciate this). It also includes dressing as well as possible and getting a spray tan before visiting the girl.

To enhance his appearance the man should develop  a big belly.  Big bellies indicate the man has surplus money to eat a lot and follow the good life.

In addition, the man should not shave his chest, but instead get hair implants for chest.  The more hair on chest, the bigger the chest looks giving a more robust appearance.

As for spray tans . . . reminds me of the time two of us walked over a hill and noticed we were overlooking a nudist colony.  My friend suddenly exclaimed:  "Isn't that Dick Brown down there."
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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #38 on: July 26, 2015, 10:47:56 AM »
I would recommend to shave armpits.


" In fact, women prefer relatively hair-free guys across the board, according to new research published online Sept. 13 in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior."
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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #39 on: July 26, 2015, 10:49:36 AM »
I'll have to ask Ray about that....


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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #40 on: July 26, 2015, 10:55:29 AM »
To enhance his appearance the man should develop  a big belly.  Big bellies indicate the man has surplus money to eat a lot and follow the good life.



This is true. My mom and step father, who has a big belly, went with a few friends to vacation in Vietnam. My step father was 15 and 25 years older than the two male friends that came with him. Walking down the street, my step father got all the attention from the women even with my mom present. Because of his bigger belly and whiter skin, they thought he eats good and doesn't work which makes him the boss.
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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #41 on: July 27, 2015, 12:41:48 PM »


Groovy baby....shagadelic



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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #42 on: July 29, 2015, 12:14:36 AM »

Funny, my wife brought this up a week or so ago.  I responded, "When you get a new set of boobs I will consider shaving my armpits".  She said no to the idea.  She indicated that UA men shave their armpits.  I reminded her that she is in the USA now and adopting to our culture.  It was meant as a joke.  We will see what happens in the future.  It really is not that important to me.  If it makes her happy, I will shave the armpits.  Just had to have a little fun with her.

Just some of the day to day adjustment period following marriage.  Certainly not worth creating a conflict over. With the daily improvement learning English, I now am able to understand some of the UA jokes she tells.    ;D

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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #43 on: August 04, 2015, 05:53:23 PM »

A razor goes over the nutsack fine. No worries.



Last time this issue was talked about, Gator said shaving downstairs makes your Manly thingy look bigger to the ladies. Most men like ladies who trim or shave it all off. Most of us don't like going down on a big bush and they don't either.


Don't be afraid of changes. I see lots of big women telling men in their profile they are looking for a man that will accept them for the way they are. They'd more quickly have success in finding a man by losing weight than finding a man that will accept them the way they are. We are trying to attract people of the opposite sex and there's nothing wrong making changes that appeal to them.

I totally agree. She's asked for both upstairs and downstairs. So I did. It's not a huge deal, and it makes her happy.

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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #44 on: August 05, 2015, 07:25:20 AM »
I had done it for a previous girlfriend and my current likes it so I dont see the big deal.
and yes, ive asked mine to grow her hair out and go back to natural color

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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #45 on: August 05, 2015, 10:50:30 AM »
It really is up to each person, I see some old school guys saying
Nope not gonna happen LOL. It is the 21st century, open your mind
and try a few things. You wanted a wife from FSU because they are different.
Now you have it, you want your life and wife to be same as the old lifestyle.
Careful for what you wish for :)
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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #46 on: August 05, 2015, 01:23:36 PM »
I had done it for a previous girlfriend and my current likes it so I dont see the big deal.
and yes, ive asked mine to grow her hair out and go back to natural color

So you mean she currently has an un-natural hair color . . . somewhere?  Green, orange or what?
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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #47 on: August 05, 2015, 02:26:58 PM »
So you mean she currently has an un-natural hair color . . . somewhere?  Green, orange or what?

What girl hasn't dyed their carpet green and shaved it into a shamrock for St Paddy's day?
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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #48 on: August 06, 2015, 07:08:33 AM »
So you mean she currently has an un-natural hair color . . . somewhere?  Green, orange or what?

Nah,  i prefer dark hair and she had gone blond when I met her.  I came across photos of her before that and told her I prefer the original color

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Re: Guys' grooming for FSUW - to shave armpits or not?
« Reply #49 on: August 13, 2015, 08:40:18 AM »
I returned back to the UK with a 'Mullet' hair style that has been causing much merriment

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mullet_(haircut)

SC cut my hair and I was happy to try out what she liked until I got back here ...

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