City Girls versus Country Girls (What are the pros and cons) (Ukraine)

[Iamthere]

Ok, I know I shouldn't generalize, but are there some traits good and bad that are more prevalent?

[Iamthere]

Forget it. I don't know why i come here, just tobe insulted. Good bye.

[ML]

I would say there is a fairly big difference.

Same as exists between big city gals (and guys) and country gals (and guys) in USA.

Can't name all the differences, but you should know them.

Now . . . can a person transition between country and big city?
Yes, many can without too many problems.

Can a person transition from big city to country?
Fewer can do this.


I was lucky . . . at least with respect to this issue.
My wife was born and raised in a very small town in Ukraine, then went to University in a larger city, then lived for 20 years or so in Kyiv.
So she has the work ethic and appreciation of nature of a country gal,
but is educated and sophisticated enough to carry her own in any big city setting.

[BillyB]

Forget it. I don't know why i come here, just tobe insulted. Good bye.

What happened? Don't see an insult in this thread. Was it from Moby? He doesn't discriminate and will eventually insult everybody including imaginary posters. Whenever you mix it up with a variety of different people, you're likely to find somebody who doesn't like you or what you're saying/writing. Take what you need and discard the rest.

If you're living in a big city, you can attract big city and country girls. If you're living in the country, you're more likely to get turned down by big city girls. If you're communicating with women, it's important you give them an idea about your life and living conditions.

[2tallbill]

Ok, I know I shouldn't generalize, but are there some traits good and bad that are more prevalent?

I've only met city girls. The country girls tend to get married when they are
teenagers. There are different levels of what are called country girls. Since
the FSU have very populated cities they start calling cities with 400,000
people country folks. 

The most important thing is to find a good girl. 

Udachi!

Bill

[Gator]

I assume a US "country girl"  would be the same as a "village girl" in the FSU. 

I communicated with a hundred UW and RW.  I met maybe 25 different FSUW.  I never met a real village girl.  Most lived in multiple story buildings and expressed some disdain towards a "village man" and his unsophisticated ways. 

You will learn that when you scratch the skin of a FSUW you will find more peasant qualities than in almost all American women.  Most FSUW  know how to sew and do it well.   Many city girls have sent time in the country such as at a summer dacha where some collected freshly laid eggs, killed a yard walking chicken, dug potatoes, and milked a goat.  [Caveat:  my experience is with women who are in their 50s today.]

I love nature and I purposefully looked for women who love nature.  I failed.  They like nature, but most demanded a flushing toilet and were fearful of creepy crawlers.    Scandinavian women were far more tolerant of the basics.   

My suggestion - Find a girl with a good heart.  A good heart will show itself almost immediately.  I met only a few with an obvious good heart.   So keep looking until you get the feeling. 

[ML]

My suggestion - Find a girl with a good heart.  A good heart will show itself almost immediately.  I met only a few with an obvious good heart.  So keep looking until you get the feeling.

I agree this is a good idea.

However, I can't really agree that a good heart will show itself almost immediately.

Perhaps it is better said that:  A bad heart will not show itself almost immediately.

As Boe and others have said here many times . . . you have to live with someone full time for quite a while before you really know them for sure.

To avoid a lot of wasted time and money; try to eliminate the obvious bad apples as soon as possible.
If the woman (man) has some obvious bad traits (or at least traits that are unacceptable to you), then don't continue with them . . . regardless of how hot they look . . . except for some sex while you look for someone better.