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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #50 on: April 26, 2020, 01:17:35 AM »
I see a few red flags in that message:

"attention to girls of my age"
"sensual girl"
"no cheating, no betrayals"

Also, she really didn't say much about herself or what she's looking for.  Very generic.

I saw a vlog today about someone in Ukraine right now.  He was wondering what the date scammer girls/pro daters from Odessa and other cities are doing now that they have no tourists to scam.  Also all the call girls without customers.  Maybe they are joining these online PPL/PPC sites?


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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #51 on: April 26, 2020, 02:08:02 AM »
You can bet your ass they are! Someone seeing their main source of income
dissipate just like that has to do something else to survive or at least cope
up with a little of what they spend!!
How big is the escort business in UA with foreigners you know?
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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #52 on: April 28, 2020, 06:20:07 PM »
Dear "iloveukrayinkas", I know youre very careful about dating online.
I had read many stories, some even scam and hurt stories. I also had my own,and wanted to give up on my search.
It was when I came to other country, but man didnt appear.
but I want to find my love..
I am real, serious. I am really sad about other slavic women that are hunting for sugar daddy or some material things.
I dont need it! I am sure you also had bad experience...but I want to prove you that real women still here.
I am open for serious dates and meetings.
how about you?
LADAdate bride


One of the letters I received not long ago. You think they are sending these kinds
of letters for you to let your guard down or could
some of them actually be sincere?
It seems some of them have like psychic powers or sth! haha
I mean I could give it a shot, like tallbill says to send just 1 message with my phone
or email encrypted on it and see what happens.
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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #53 on: April 28, 2020, 09:15:44 PM »
If these women are contacting you first, keep in mind that I’ve only had two genuine women contact me first and the other 50+ were scammers.

Genuine women who like you will give their whatsapp, Skype etc... details within a couple of days of meeting online and will ask to video chat soon after. If that goes well, within a few weeks you’ll be chatting most days and video chatting several times a week.
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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #54 on: April 28, 2020, 09:28:08 PM »
Dear "iloveukrayinkas", I know youre very careful about dating online.
I had read many stories, some even scam and hurt stories. I also had my own,and wanted to give up on my search.
It was when I came to other country, but man didnt appear.
but I want to find my love..
I am real, serious. I am really sad about other slavic women that are hunting for sugar daddy or some material things.
I dont need it! I am sure you also had bad experience...but I want to prove you that real women still here.
I am open for serious dates and meetings.
how about you?
LADAdate bride



It's a canned agency letter. Real women don't write like that.
Fund the audits, spread the word and educate people, write your politicians and other elected officials. Stay active in the fight to save our country. Over 220 generals and admirals say we are in a fight for our survival like no other time since 1776.

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #55 on: April 29, 2020, 10:23:32 AM »
If these women are contacting you first, keep in mind that I’ve only had two genuine women contact me first and the other 50+ were scammers.

Genuine women who like you will give their whatsapp, Skype etc... details within a couple of days of meeting online and will ask to video chat soon after. If that goes well, within a few weeks you’ll be chatting most days and video chatting several times a week.



I've had hundreds of genuine women contact me first but most
were either old, fat, cross eyed, ugly or worse. If you have a
hot young thing send a message to you unsolicited then it
would be wise to be highly skeptical or her genuineness 
and her motivations.

Absolutely a good girl will want to chat with you away from the
forum ESPECIALLY if it costs you a single Kopeck to do it.

A good girl is what you are looking for and they will want to
see your face and hear your voice. A good girl wants you to
seduce her and win her heart.



FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #56 on: April 29, 2020, 11:15:26 AM »
A good girl wants you to seduce her and win her heart.

I want to relax and be seduced.

An equal opportunity male.
A beautiful woman is pleasant to look at, but it is easier to live with a pleasant acting one.

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #57 on: April 29, 2020, 11:57:55 AM »
A good girl who occasionally has dirty thoughts?  Best of both?

Reminds me of one weekend afternoon when on the couch watching a video, when T came over and got on top...

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« Reply #58 on: April 29, 2020, 12:30:59 PM »
A good girl who occasionally has dirty thoughts?  Best of both?

Reminds me of one weekend afternoon when on the couch watching a video, when T came over and got on top...

On top of the couch ?

Could she balance without too much danger ?
A beautiful woman is pleasant to look at, but it is easier to live with a pleasant acting one.

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #59 on: April 29, 2020, 01:56:16 PM »
I want to relax and be seduced.

An equal opportunity male.

Then marry a good girl and it will happen from time to time.
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #60 on: May 02, 2020, 07:21:57 AM »
On top of the couch ?

Could she balance without too much danger ?

One of those couches with reclining sections.  She displayed some unusual dexterity.

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #61 on: May 12, 2020, 01:48:16 PM »


I've had hundreds of genuine women contact me first but most
were either old, fat, cross eyed, ugly or worse. If you have a
hot young thing send a message to you unsolicited then it
would be wise to be highly skeptical or her genuineness 
and her motivations.

Absolutely a good girl will want to chat with you away from the
forum ESPECIALLY if it costs you a single Kopeck to do it.

A good girl is what you are looking for and they will want to
see your face and hear your voice. A good girl wants you to
seduce her and win her heart.

I mean, you could have a point. But for example if I was an employee
of the agency or just someone who wants to view the RAW statistics
of the site I would tell you that since there are actually a little less than
3000 profiles(compare this to Anastasia with about 20,000) and they have
about 500 or 600 registered men, then the competition can be fierce,
even with sexy and professionally taken photos because many girls are
just beautiful, and there's an abundance of them.

Last time I logged in to the chat room just to check the amount of chat
requests ascended to 24 girls. That's less than 1% of the total of women
here.
That's CATEGORICALLY not something too outrageous! If 1% of the total ladies
are corresponding with me as well, it wouldn't be outrageous either. I'd say theres
about 100 different ladies that have corresponded through letters, so its about
3% of the total amount of profiles there, and during the course of several months.
You be the judge...
 I mean, there could be several legit ladies in there. I've discovered that for something
to work and keep working, even though it may be a SCAM, some of it HAS to be
true. And that's where they get you! So for example John Doe found his dream girl
and married her through the agency, while other 8 men didn't find anything and
were completely disappointed, they agency then says: "You see John Doe found
someone on our site! So it's not a scam. It's been proven!!"
So you be the judge.
Same happens with
bingos and lotteries, some of the winners are paid actors while the others just
get minor prizes and stuff. This I knew from a Bingo room owner in Guatemala, the
grand prize each night was awarded to an actor who actually received the money that
night and the next week he went to hand over the money back and get paid for his
performance.
Perhaps that's going too deep into the problem but I think the monetary system in
itself is corrupt, that's why there are so many injustices in life, but what can we do?

In other topics I wanted to update on my own interactions in LADA date. It turned out to be quite
interesting. 2 of the girls that wrote to me first actually agreed to send me the confirmation
photo that I asked for. One wrote my name with the date on it while the lady I'm most interested
in sent me something similar to what I asked, probably misunderstood me but leaving that confusion
aside, I found something a little bit strange.
Up to this point I hadn't noticed anything strange in our correspondence as she seemed llike
a real person and not just writing some "I'll write whatever you want to hear from me" type of messages.
My "spidey sense" was telling me that she has serious intentions and responds questions from real experience, not just
a translator posing as her.
Because of this I made up some story that my close friend had advised me to leave the site (actually it's you
guys) because it wasn't real and there was actually someone posing as her as she was too beautiful to be
on one of these types of sites.
Ok, to the point! So I asked for my name or a circle sign and she did send it, but guess what?! If you zoom
 in that photo in the notebook you can see some sort of editing or photoshop. As if something that was
 written there was erased or cloned from another part of the sheet. I just covered her eyes and nose in black
with my own photoshop, the rest is intact.

Another new girl from Russia intrigued me so I wrote her back. She said she wanted to call me or for me
to call her and that she would send her info via attachment picture. Guess what happened? They blocked
the image with another one stating something in russian I belive. Then i advised her that her info had been
blocked and she told me that I should send my contacts and she would try to contact me instead thinking that
my photos wouldn't be blocked. And guess what? My message got to her without any attachments. So I belive
they are actually filtering and checking every incoming and outgoing message so that you don't break their
so called rules, forcing you to interact with the girl 15 times so you can ultimately "buy" her contact info.

I guess it's their business and if you really are into a girl, you should at least spend the minimum that they
require from you so they're not giving that info just like that, unless you can break the system on your own
and find the girl through VK or another means of social media(which I already did! haha ;) ).

Your opinions? Let me know in your reply!
Cheers guys

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #62 on: May 12, 2020, 02:05:51 PM »
My opinion is simple .. WHY are you still bothering with the site and not trying to find a real woman..one seeking a partner .. not a 'mark'?

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« Reply #63 on: May 12, 2020, 02:51:07 PM »
they are actually filtering and checking every incoming and outgoing message
so that you don't break their so called rules, forcing you to interact with the girl
15 times so you can ultimately "buy" her contact info.

Your opinions? Let me know in your reply!
Cheers guys

First get a new email address one that you don't use for anything else.
You want to be sneaky? Use something like Gramsofsalt@mail.com

Start a new facebook and VK page based on that.

Dear Sexy Olga,

You asked about my Grandmothers famous recipe for Spam cream pie

You will need the following ingredients
415 Grams of diced spam
515 Grams of chopped onions
121 Grams of cream cheese 
   2   cloves of garlic and a dash of salt.

NOTE: This phone number is information for the San Francisco area.
Combine those ingredients and

Combine ingredients and simmer then put in 10 'Gramsofsalt' at that
time dot com municate.

Filters are made to be bypassed also search for the girl on other sites.
They might sell her contact information far cheaper.

The girls on your pay per view site are not prettier than on the other
free sites. They look prettier because they have professional photos,
makeup and photoshop and possibly they don't allow the fatties to
put up profiles.

FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #64 on: May 12, 2020, 05:00:01 PM »
I mean, there could be several legit ladies in there. I've discovered that for something
to work and keep working, even though it may be a SCAM, some of it HAS to be
true.

No, it does not have to be true.   There is a statistic somewhere that the actual percentage of ppl who get on a plane and visit a girl is very low: 5%?  3%?

So, for 95% of the "clients", they are enjoying themselves chatting with the pretty lady pictures, and the business works and keep working from milking them.  How much does it cost to chat there?  $.50 per minute?  Heck, at even $0.01 per minute they are typing up money.  Literally.

The 5% of those standing alone at airports or train stations...well, there will be more keyboard romeos signing up to replace them.

So, if the intention is to fantasize about chatting up a hottie, then that site or similar will do the trick.

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« Reply #65 on: May 12, 2020, 06:36:06 PM »

Another new girl from Russia intrigued me so I wrote her back. She said she wanted to call me or for me
to call her and that she would send her info via attachment picture. Guess what happened? They blocked
the image with another one stating something in russian I belive. Then i advised her that her info had been
blocked and she told me that I should send my contacts and she would try to contact me instead thinking that
my photos wouldn't be blocked. And guess what? My message got to her without any attachments. So I belive
they are actually filtering and checking every incoming and outgoing message so that you don't break their
so called rules, forcing you to interact with the girl 15 times so you can ultimately "buy" her contact info.


They are probably sending that mail. They don't need a filter. They already write on behalf of women pretending they want to give you contact info so they send you a woman's photo with a part blacked out. Guys will actually believe the woman is "into them". After no success exchanging contact info, guys pump more money into the message system and when deciding to visit the woman they use the local feeder agency and their recommended accommodations and translation services.

If I was single again, I'd be 100% successful in finding another woman. It's not complicated or hard. You're wasting your money, your time, and your life using companies like that. Those agencies have a lot more experience with guys than guys have with them. Some guys try to outsmart those companies and end up getting outsmarted.
Fund the audits, spread the word and educate people, write your politicians and other elected officials. Stay active in the fight to save our country. Over 220 generals and admirals say we are in a fight for our survival like no other time since 1776.

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« Reply #66 on: May 12, 2020, 06:53:51 PM »
No, it does not have to be true.   There is a statistic somewhere that the actual percentage of ppl who get on a plane and visit a girl is very low: 5%?  3%?

So, for 95% of the "clients", they are enjoying themselves chatting with the pretty lady pictures, and the business works and keep working from milking them.  How much does it cost to chat there?  $.50 per minute?  Heck, at even $0.01 per minute they are typing up money.  Literally.


Hehe, seems we both listen to Marc from Dream Connections. He said 3% in a recent conference.
I know there may be deceit from both parts of the spectrum, the ladies who perhaps are getting paid
to chat up foreigners with their nice profiles hoping that they will never go to visit them and
Keyboard romeos like you say who their only intention on a site like this is to chat up hotties. In my case
I'm not like that and ultimately would like to visit Ukraine once the restrictions are lifted by next year at
most.  Not that I owe explanations to anybody but just wanted to make that clear.

Heck! seems you do do your homework my friend Steve! It around that price the cost of each minute of
chat. Personally I prefer correspondence but on rare ocassions I chat as well. Not that other more credible sites
like the ukReine.com don't charge for letter translations. They use a similar dynamic as regular PPL PPC sites.
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« Reply #67 on: May 12, 2020, 06:59:23 PM »
First get a new email address one that you don't use for anything else.
You want to be sneaky? Use something like Gramsofsalt@mail.com

Start a new facebook and VK page based on that.

Dear Sexy Olga,

You asked about my Grandmothers famous recipe for Spam cream pie

You will need the following ingredients
415 Grams of diced spam
515 Grams of chopped onions
121 Grams of cream cheese 
   2   cloves of garlic and a dash of salt.

NOTE: This phone number is information for the San Francisco area.
Combine those ingredients and

Combine ingredients and simmer then put in 10 'Gramsofsalt' at that
time dot com municate.

Filters are made to be bypassed also search for the girl on other sites.
They might sell her contact information far cheaper.

The girls on your pay per view site are not prettier than on the other
free sites. They look prettier because they have professional photos,
makeup and photoshop and possibly they don't allow the fatties to
put up profiles.

Brilliant! But "NOTE: This phone number is information for the San Francisco area. "
is not included on the sneaky message right?
Life won't get easier. You just have to get stronger.

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #68 on: May 12, 2020, 09:09:36 PM »
They are probably sending that mail. They don't need a filter. They already write on behalf of women pretending they want to give you contact info so they send you a woman's photo with a part blacked out. Guys will actually believe the woman is "into them". After no success exchanging contact info, guys pump more money into the message system and when deciding to visit the woman they use the local feeder agency and their recommended accommodations and translation services.

If I was single again, I'd be 100% successful in finding another woman. It's not complicated or hard. You're wasting your money, your time, and your life using companies like that. Those agencies have a lot more experience with guys than guys have with them. Some guys try to outsmart those companies and end up getting outsmarted.

It's quite possible what you say, if the agency is run by crooks, they could even be pretending to
have the will to send me their contact info just for me to spend my credits faster and not give me
anything in the end. So I appreciate your concern
and advice. In this case 2tallbill gave me a good advice on how to send my contact information
in sneaky ways through the same messaging system, and it seems he's a very experienced poster
in this forum as you can see. So I believe there could be ways to go around it.
I'm not actually planning on spending a whole lot of money into this site as I know that it can turn
out to be false, still I'm willing to put some of the eggs on this basket and see what happens. I know
there have been guys spending tens of thousands of dollars just communicating through PPL with individual
ladies, but I'm definitely not planning on spending that kinda money! Never!
Life won't get easier. You just have to get stronger.

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #69 on: May 12, 2020, 09:51:24 PM »
In this case 2tallbill gave me a good advice on how to send my contact information
in sneaky ways through the same messaging system, and it seems he's a very experienced poster
in this forum as you can see. So I believe there could be ways to go around it.


You could send your contact info in secret code to the agency employee you're trading love letters with all you want as long as you're paying them for the fun and games they provide. Just don't expect a phone call or text message. There's better places to spend your time and be productive increasing your chances of finding someone. When you do find someone, don't tell them your experience with this agency.
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LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #70 on: May 12, 2020, 11:03:36 PM »
It
Because of this I made up some story .........

Your opinions? Let me know in your reply!
Cheers guys

My advice is to never make up stories. If this is a real girl then it could
wreck your future with her. Try to be as honest humanly possible and
get away from the site. You've been there long enough to get a good
girl away and you know about the possibility of clever translators
communicating instead. It's far better to fish in clear clean water
than fish in a sewage ditch.

Avoid pay by the letter agencies and go to the pay by the month or
free sites and stop trying to game the system. Don't play games.

Udachi!

Bill





FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #71 on: May 13, 2020, 02:31:47 AM »
Here some stern advice from an old rusty member, who experienced most fo the errors people make.
What you need to do is stay focused. What are you up to? Are you trying to play around trying to survey how many women are insincere or are you looking for someone to share your life with?
f the latter, do not fool around. Go only for the ones who show sincerity and act swiftly. While currently travel is a problem, that does not mean you can not build something using modern technology.
If you need to pay for contact details, do it. If you can not afford that, forget about the whole thing. Once you got direct contact, call through Whatsapp, Viber or similar.If the lady tries to tell you she has no such thing, drop her at once.My MIL who recently turned 80 and lives on a pension has three cell phones and uses video calling. A friend from Dagestan living in a village with more live stock than people also uses strictly mobile. So if a woman tells you she has none, she is lying.
Go for the target and all will be cleared up in an instant.



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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #72 on: May 13, 2020, 02:23:19 PM »
Here some stern advice from an old rusty member, who experienced most fo the errors people make.
What you need to do is stay focused. What are you up to? Are you trying to play around trying to survey how many women are insincere or are you looking for someone to share your life with?
f the latter, do not fool around. Go only for the ones who show sincerity and act swiftly. While currently travel is a problem, that does not mean you can not build something using modern technology.
If you need to pay for contact details, do it. If you can not afford that, forget about the whole thing. Once you got direct contact, call through Whatsapp, Viber or similar.If the lady tries to tell you she has no such thing, drop her at once.My MIL who recently turned 80 and lives on a pension has three cell phones and uses video calling. A friend from Dagestan living in a village with more live stock than people also uses strictly mobile. So if a woman tells you she has none, she is lying.
Go for the target and all will be cleared up in an instant.

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Kissing girls is a goodness.  It beats the hell out of card games.  - Robert Heinlein

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #73 on: May 14, 2020, 03:20:07 PM »
Here some stern advice from an old rusty member, who experienced most fo the errors people make.
What you need to do is stay focused. What are you up to? Are you trying to play around trying to survey how many women are insincere or are you looking for someone to share your life with?
f the latter, do not fool around. Go only for the ones who show sincerity and act swiftly. While currently travel is a problem, that does not mean you can not build something using modern technology.
If you need to pay for contact details, do it. If you can not afford that, forget about the whole thing. Once you got direct contact, call through Whatsapp, Viber or similar.If the lady tries to tell you she has no such thing, drop her at once.My MIL who recently turned 80 and lives on a pension has three cell phones and uses video calling. A friend from Dagestan living in a village with more live stock than people also uses strictly mobile. So if a woman tells you she has none, she is lying.
Go for the target and all will be cleared up in an instant.

Yeah, I mean, you are absolutely right. It's not my intention spending too much time and money or being in an
endless search and alert mode on this site. If I buy the contact details whatsapp or skype then I'll shift my focus
to there and close my lada account. If it turns out to be fake or the girl says she cannot communicate through there then
I'll dust it off and move on with another dating site. I already opened a couple more accounts in the websites the
friends here advised so I think it's just a matter of time finding somebody worthwhile.
Cheers!
Life won't get easier. You just have to get stronger.

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #74 on: May 14, 2020, 10:36:08 PM »

Long ago, one member here  dated an agency girl who said she or another agency girl(can't remember) carried dozens of phones with her everywhere she goes. On each phone was a label with the girl's name she's supposed to answer for. If you buy the contact info and you get a girl to respond, don't break out the champagne. They have figured out ways to keep guys on the hook longer. There are much better/productive ways to spend your time. Just saying.
Fund the audits, spread the word and educate people, write your politicians and other elected officials. Stay active in the fight to save our country. Over 220 generals and admirals say we are in a fight for our survival like no other time since 1776.

 

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