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« Reply #250 on: June 10, 2021, 11:38:43 AM »
I SWEAR by the 3-date rule...
TRY not to do sex until the third date...
BUT, if you havenít done it by the 3rd date, then it ainít gonna happen, so move on...

I never paid any attention to this 3 date rule.
I did 'move on' if there seemed to be no compatibility, but not because of no sex on 3rd date.
There can be many reasons for no sex on 3rd date that are perfectly understandable.

1) On third date the two of you go to some event that ends quite late.  Then there is the time to travel to  home.  You are both exhausted.

2) On third date the gal tells you she really wants to become intimate, but her period is still going on and can we wait for 1-2-3 more days.

3) On third date, you have a very important business meeting next day and have to do quite a bit of 'homework' that evening to get ready for the next day.

4) . . . . . .

I think I have gone on 5-6 dates with same gal before sex . . . and all turned out fine for a good LTR.

Now if the gal is just totally, totally cold toward you . . . that is a different story.  I would end that relationship after second date.
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Re: Pursuing FSUW 101. The procedures and the dating websites.
« Reply #251 on: June 10, 2021, 03:27:29 PM »
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INTERNATIONAL DATING ETIQUETTE FOR DUMMIES

Section IV - When to initiate sex with your date; Sub-section 3.B: How to get her horny for pokey-pokey time; Paragraph 2; 3rd sentence.

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Seriously? There's actually a rule for this? Does it matter if the gal is vegetarian? Does age play a part on the time frame? Is there any particular rule if the girl have living parents, maybe a one parent household? Does the girl's height have any bearing if the 3rd date is the right time, or what if she's below 5'5", would sex then be the norm by the 2nd date?

Would the type of clothing she wears on the 3rd date signals she's ready for some pokey-pokey action? Pants: no-go!? Skirt: Come to mama time?!

You guys are killing me softly.

SEX was definitely a very viable option on *every single woman I met my first visit*. Some were even suggestive of that fact with me. It certainly isn't isolated with the MOB either. The only question one needs to ask is, is the ensuing relations post-poke-pokey action worth the pokey-pokey time?


If sex is a mutually consented part of any association, so long as it isn't used under false premise by either party, by all means, enjoy yourselves. Why place some silly rule in an otherwise basic and primal human relations.
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Re: Pursuing FSUW 101. The procedures and the dating websites.
« Reply #252 on: June 10, 2021, 05:10:05 PM »


Would the type of clothing she wears on the 3rd date signals she's ready for some pokey-pokey action? Pants: no-go!? Skirt: Come to mama time?!



The Smell Signal.

Two young adult farm kids go on date and are walking back toward her home.

They pass by a bull and cow going at it.

The gal asks:  How does the bull know the cow will be receptive ?
The guy says:  The cow produces a smell when the time is right, and the bull smells it.

The pass by some other animals also going at it.  She asks the same question each time, and he gives the same answer.

When they reach her door and he gives her kiss on cheek, she says . . .

I think you should get tested for Covid.
He says: Why ?

She says: Something is wrong with your sense of smell.
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Re: Pursuing FSUW 101. The procedures and the dating websites.
« Reply #253 on: June 10, 2021, 05:27:23 PM »

Would the type of clothing she wears on the 3rd date signals she's ready for some pokey-pokey action? Pants: no-go!? Skirt: Come to mama time?!


Thinking back, a majority of women I met for date in FSU did wear trousers versus skirt or dress.
The trousers did not translate into  no-go.

Often, we ended up in apartment somewhat tired from our daytime activities.
I would sit on sofa and suggest she lay down on her back with her head in my lap . . . for relaxation.

Sometimes, after a bit of rest, the gal would pull her shirt out of her trousers exposing a bit of stomach.
Seemed to be a signal of some sort.

Other times a gal would unbutton the top of her trousers.  Also seemed to be some sort of signal.
Sometimes, for fun, I would ignore this signal.

Then the gal would undo another button or pull the zipper down a bit.
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Re: Pursuing FSUW 101. The procedures and the dating websites.
« Reply #254 on: June 12, 2021, 01:55:03 AM »
Just yesterday I was shopping in my local supermarket, there was this woman, I guess probably in her thirties ish. Anyway she was slimmish but wearing a dress, plain colours, beiges, creams, etc on it, quite an elegant number, no boob out or anything like that, it was a smart-casual dress, had a kind of almost formal edge to it, not a teeny sort of dress or anything more grown up looking. Anyway this was highly unusual for a supermarket, most women don't wear dresses, or at least not well or if they do they are more of the slutty type. This woman looked great though, I had to try hard not to look too much to avoid freaking her out, I passed her by but don't think there was anything but she looked great in that dress. It followed her body figure down but in a slightly loose way not skin tight or anything. My guess is that the dress probably cost her a few bob though I could be wrong. I don't think it would be so much the expense more the choice of dress, right size, etc that did it for her and would do it for many other women if they tried.

I personally have only seen jeans work well enough on a woman if she has a great figure and gets tight fitting ones, then it can do it, particularly stretch denim (which apparently isn't really denim it just has that look). In this country there is a big thing for stretch denim at the moment but most people (possibly even guys also) don't have the right figure to carry it off. Fat women of course is the worst and it looks awful, but even slimmer people can get it wrong, just a bit too much flab on the rear of a slim girl and it can not look at all flattering. Even on guys if not quite in shape it can look terrible giving a look where it's showing all of the out of shape stuff. I'm not into guys of course but if something looks wrong it just looks wrong. That's the problem when something becomes the fashion that everyone starts wearing even if it looks bad on them I think. An out of shape bod on a man or woman and stretch denim will highlight it all in the most awful way.

I really prefer women in dresses and skirts unless it's a really awful looking dress with a bad pattern, bad flowery stuff or bad cut, etc. Generally though a girl can't go far wrong if she gets one to suit her body type. Way easier to get a hand up a dress or skirt if she so desires :P
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Re: Pursuing FSUW 101. The procedures and the dating websites.
« Reply #255 on: June 12, 2021, 04:32:06 AM »
The Smell Signal.

Two young adult farm kids go on date and are walking back toward her home.

They pass by a bull and cow going at it.

The gal asks:  How does the bull know the cow will be receptive ?
The guy says:  The cow produces a smell when the time is right, and the bull smells it.

The pass by some other animals also going at it.  She asks the same question each time, and he gives the same answer.

When they reach her door and he gives her kiss on cheek, she says . . .

I think you should get tested for Covid.
He says: Why ?

She says: Something is wrong with your sense of smell.


LOL! Thank you for that.


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Re: Sex on third date
« Reply #256 on: June 12, 2021, 06:50:57 AM »
I never paid any attention to this 3 date rule.


Not sure what it is but my GCG Russian ex-wife must have known about it. It was on he third night we consummated our unholy relationship.

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« Reply #257 on: June 12, 2021, 10:18:53 AM »
I never paid any attention to this 3 date rule.

The 3-5 date rule is recommended for guys with poor social skills who have difficulty
reading a woman. I do not belong to that school of thought.

Many of the lower social skill guys will go visit one woman and since she knows
that he came only to see her, she feels obligated to show him around even though
there isn't any chemistry. He has all this time, emotion, energy and hopes tied to
this woman so he keeps looking for any gesture that might indicate that she is
coming around*

The theory goes that if you are visiting only one girl and 5 days/dates have passed
by and she hasn't stepped into the shower** yet, then you need to move on.

My theory goes like this.
1. If a Russian woman is romantically interested in you then you will know.

2. Russian women are not for entry level daters. If you are a low social skills
person, then Russian women might not be for you.

3. If you are on a visit one guy and your girl is not smothering you with kisses
then you are barking up the wrong tree and need to move on.

4. I won't be going on three dates with a woman if I don't feel the chemistry.

*In Hollyweird movies and nowhere else, women realize that you are the love
of their lives and just realize it now. If a woman, especially a Russian woman
doesn't want to have hot freaky sex with you then WTF are you doing?

**Shower: Often times a trip to the shower means that she is going to have sex
with you. This is not an invitation to join her in the shower. She will want to
scrub up her secret places to make sure that she is squeaky clean and doesn't
want you watching her while she has one foot in the air while pressure washing
her butt crack.

You need to shower every day at least once. If you are one of those guys who
showers three times weekly then you need to change your habits. Change your
socks, underwear and everything else every day. It's NOT ok to wear the same 
sweater day after day.

« Last Edit: June 12, 2021, 01:10:23 PM by 2tallbill »
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

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Re: Pursuing FSUW 101. The procedures and the dating websites.
« Reply #258 on: June 12, 2021, 11:41:05 AM »



I'm not a selfish person. I will always put out by the third date if a woman wants it.
Fund the audits, spread the word and educate people, write your politicians and other elected officials. Stay active in the fight to save our country. Over 220 generals and admirals say we are in a fight for our survival like no other time since 1776.

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« Reply #259 on: June 12, 2021, 02:52:58 PM »
Change your socks, underwear and everything else every day.

I think the best rule is to change those items when the holes become very large.

If the items look dirty, then turn them inside-out.
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« Reply #260 on: June 13, 2021, 09:32:42 AM »
I think the best rule is to change those items when the holes become very large.

If the items look dirty, then turn them inside-out.

Some Euro's don't shower more than 3 times per week, it's a fact. Some will wear
a sweater a dozen times or more without washing.
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

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« Reply #261 on: June 13, 2021, 12:24:53 PM »
Some Euro's don't shower more than 3 times per week, it's a fact.

That's what perfume is for.
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« Reply #262 on: June 13, 2021, 12:27:52 PM »
Some will wear a sweater a dozen times or more without washing.


That's actually the best procedure for those who are concerned about saving our planet.

Each time an item is washed, a bit of the material is lost . . . so the item 'wears out' quicker. 

Plus there is energy consumed in the washing process and certainly in the production process.
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« Reply #263 on: June 13, 2021, 01:34:19 PM »
That's actually the best procedure for those who are concerned about saving our planet.

The best procedure for those concerned with sex, blowjobs and Russian wives
should shower and launder their clothes.

« Last Edit: June 13, 2021, 01:37:07 PM by 2tallbill »
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

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Re: Pursuing FSUW 101. The procedures and the dating websites.
« Reply #264 on: July 22, 2021, 06:57:11 PM »
Hello,
I am new to this. I just broke up with a Belarusian girl that I dated for 8 months in USA , We had great time together as lovers. However, we started to have fights as soon I started to discuss with her how I want our family together to be. I am Christian orthodox who is not really strong religious however I like to raise my future children in more of conservative way. My question is, Where I can find more conservative Orthodox girls in FSU countries..is it better in big cities or  small towns...are people in small towns are open minded for foreigners ...Are churches in small towns are good places to find women like that ? Please help
Thank You!

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Re: Pursuing FSUW 101. The procedures and the dating websites.
« Reply #265 on: July 22, 2021, 10:32:22 PM »



Welcome to the forum RayMoore. There are lots of FSU people in America and most I've encountered are conservative Christians and have voted for Trump. Continue looking at home and abroad. Write to girls in small towns and big cities because you'll never know where you'll find the ONE. Tell the ladies your views and religious preferences and you may find one that is thrilled to find a person like herself.
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Re: Pursuing FSUW 101. The procedures and the dating websites.
« Reply #266 on: July 23, 2021, 06:09:09 AM »
Thank you BillyB for your answer...if you remember any more tips. Please share.. I really appreciate that
Thank You!

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Pursuing FSUW 101. The procedures and the dating websites.
« Reply #267 on: July 23, 2021, 10:30:45 AM »
I am going to answer your question in your other thread here

http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=25270.new#new
« Last Edit: July 23, 2021, 10:35:31 AM by 2tallbill »
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

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Re: Pursuing FSUW 101. The procedures and the dating websites.
« Reply #268 on: July 14, 2022, 11:29:10 AM »
This was posted in another thread.

I think it is a useful update to this thread also.

Same kind of idiot AND imbecile that would recommend UKRAINEDATE.COM
(See post: Pursuing FSUW 101. The procedures and the dating websites.)
as "great" sites to meet FSU women!! Which is a dating site well known for being a site crawling with scammers, although it's a monthly subscription site!
Heard dozens of scam stories from this website.
Also, BADOO.com?? Pleeeease! Just like tinder and mamba.ru these are horrible and LOW QUALITY sites for finding good date or sth, not to mention serious relationships with a woman.

Not sure if your comments were directed toward me (the originator of Pursuing FSUW 101) but, in any event, I have the following comments.

1. Nowhere did I use the word "great" with respect to any site posted.

2. I always encouraged others to add new sites, and to evaluate existing sites for continued relevance.

Here are examples of my follow-on postings when others added a site or made complaints about existing sites:

I haven't used it, but others here said they did to satisfactory results.
- - - - - -
Some of you that are interested can check it out and report back here on what you think.
- - - - - -
Very excellent posting Gaspar; thanks a lot for it.
This is exactly the type of info that those in the hunt should be sharing.
Very specific analysis rather than just wild statements that some make about a site being great or terrible.
Thanks again.
- - - - - -
This is the place to add info, not just mention what is missing.
So . . . tell what are the app based dating sites.
This thread does always need constant updating to keep current; so everyone . . . do it!!!
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** And my 'crown jewel' posting:

Periodically there are complaints that my original list is out of date:
OK you 'up to date guys'  please provide a listing of those sites in my original listing that are not even around anymore.
Complaints without solutions are not very productive.
Then, we can see if a moderator can go into the thread and delete those.

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My suggestion:

For those who have the time . . . compile all the sites listed in this thread into one list.

Then make comments about each site.
Which ones no longer exist, which is full of scammers, etc.

Let's don't eliminate any of the sites, just put comments about each site.

Anyone up to the task . . . or just want to complain in general about the  lists without specifics?
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