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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #50 on: October 14, 2021, 03:51:19 PM »
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You could change your life by doing a proper job earning better money and pay your fair share but since you’ve opted to be a tax dodger and earn minimum wage you’ve only yourself to blame for having to live in a hovel and not being able to afford a normal lifestyle so unless you choose to join society and be a productive citizen I suggest you quit with the blame game and STFU.

Keeping up your trolling activities hey Gaunty.

I've already explained that most people in society can't just go out and earn much above £20 - £25k per year. I could get one of those jobs or increase my hours in my present job to get that but for what purpose? Getting an extra £7.5k per year is not that big a deal. I can do other stuff and just as much or more in effect. Personally I don't feel that I should work all hours under the sun like a bugger to attract a FSW, I don't owe them anything. Yet I increasingly get the impression that so many FSW international dating seem to think they are owed something. That's not a great place to be for me, I'm just looking for someone who wants to be with me and work with me not just sit on the sidelines taking.
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #51 on: October 14, 2021, 05:26:42 PM »
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I'm just looking for someone who wants to be with me and work with me not just sit on the sidelines taking.
So the ideal lady will be one who will love her low income husband [that has no interest in advancement] and who together considers toast a la beans a delicacy
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #52 on: October 14, 2021, 09:01:44 PM »
Keeping up your trolling activities hey Gaunty.

I've already explained that most people in society can't just go out and earn much above £20 - £25k per year. I could get one of those jobs or increase my hours in my present job to get that but for what purpose? Getting an extra £7.5k per year is not that big a deal. I can do other stuff and just as much or more in effect. Personally I don't feel that I should work all hours under the sun like a bugger to attract a FSW, I don't owe them anything. Yet I increasingly get the impression that so many FSW international dating seem to think they are owed something. That's not a great place to be for me,
The truth hurts, doesn’t it, Trench.
So you feel you shouldn’t work all hours under the sun for little return but you expect UK Inc to pick up the tab to fund your freeloading taxpayer funded lifestyle who don’t owe you anything either.

After years of no success you now blame those ‘greedy, grasping’ FSUW for your lack of success in dating.


Well, that’s no surprise and a typical response from many who fail because they lack the courage and honesty to recognise their own moral deficit.
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I'm just looking for someone who wants to be with me and work with me not just sit on the sidelines taking.
The irony here is breathtaking.
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #53 on: October 14, 2021, 09:14:06 PM »
So the ideal lady will be one who will love her low income husband [that has no interest in advancement] and who together considers toast a la beans a delicacy
With such a candidate, the ladies are queuing up ready to break the door down to get their sticky mitts on this  glorious specimen of British Manhood.

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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #54 on: October 15, 2021, 01:16:47 AM »
With such a candidate, the ladies are queuing up ready to break the door down to get their sticky mitts on this  glorious specimen of British Manhood.

:cheesy: LOL

Never really sure how much go there is left in Ukraine for women. Increasingly it looks like the EU is trying to suck in Ukraine into being an EU member in effect without actually being one, probably as the EU is too strapped for cash to give it if they gave Ukraine membership. The recent EU open skies agreement allows for far more travel between EU cities and Ukraine than ever before, Wizz Air is expanding to cover this with many more routes to EU cities:

http://simpleflying.com/wizz-air-ukrainian-expansion/


On the other side of the coin there still seems to be women on sites like Fdate, etc that are looking for a guy. So while they can go travel to the EU and find a guy there or unofficially work there are some that still look to find a western guy either in Europe or the US. My intuition tells me that many but perhaps not all of these women are looking for a guy that is quite wealthy and well set up to avoid having to make much effort and live in comfort. I don't necessarily blame them for wanting that but it's not that great when looking for a woman with that being a part of the mix. That said compared to some English women it's not necessarily the worst issue, but for me I've not likely got enough of what they are looking for.
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #55 on: October 15, 2021, 08:02:19 AM »
Trench,


        I'm sure you must have realized by now that FSUW are not for you.


Even, if in the unlikely event that you managed to charm one of those women into joining you in the UK,you'd soon lose her as she'll be looking to trade-up once she gets here.


Your only chance will be with a 5 or less out of 10 in looks who already has kids and is desperate for ANY bloke who'll accept her because the local blokes won't,and if that's all you want i'm sure you can find that where you live.


In your current financial circumstances,and if you want better than the kind of woman i've described in the previous paragraph, you'd be better looking for a partner in Thailand or Philippines IMO.
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #56 on: October 16, 2021, 01:46:49 AM »
Trench,


        I'm sure you must have realized by now that FSUW are not for you.


Even, if in the unlikely event that you managed to charm one of those women into joining you in the UK,you'd soon lose her as she'll be looking to trade-up once she gets here.


Your only chance will be with a 5 or less out of 10 in looks who already has kids and is desperate for ANY bloke who'll accept her because the local blokes won't,and if that's all you want i'm sure you can find that where you live.


In your current financial circumstances,and if you want better than the kind of woman i've described in the previous paragraph, you'd be better looking for a partner in Thailand or Philippines IMO.

I think you are right CB and have pretty much hit the nail on the head. Possibly I could get away with one without kids who was not above average on looks but had interests or personality that meant she wasn't part of the mainstream. One of the girls I turfed up was into Elon Musk, Space Exploration and all sorts of geeky stuff like Aviation simulators, etc. Didn't appeal to me as I kind of got the impression that every day would be a school day with her and that stuff I don't find fun. I mean I don't mind an occasional bit of talk on it but she looked heavily into it. There are also girls that don't socialise well, I might last longer with them but it still depends on their expectations, looks, etc.

Thai women I have generally been skeptical off because I've heard a fair few where they seem money grabbers. Philippine women I have heard any bad stories/rumours about, there no doubt probably are some but I get the impression likely in less quantity than elsewhere.

I think the advantage that comes with Philippine women is that a lot of guys in the UK will pass over them on the grounds of race. A white chick will be able to readily move to other white guys but a girl who is obviously if different ethnicity not so. I think Philippine culture would not be something in line with a lot of UK guys also. Many UK guys can be load but I get the impression that Philippine women don't fit into that very easily.

Other people's kids I've got to be honest that I don't wish to be burdened down with. It's not that I don't like being around kids, I often find them funny and joyful but it wouldn't feel great bringing up and paying for someone else's kids when I would really want my own.

I think over the next few weeks I'm going to have to re-evaluate where I am going with am of this. Like you say I kind of know that most FSW would likely be a difficulty for me and not necessarily suited in terms of outlook. Many expect a certain standard of living and unless entirely into me in some particular way there would be a big risk that most would go searching for someone more of what they want once here. I don't really want to spend a lot of money importing a girl and her then deciding things are now different and she doesn't care about all the time, money and effort I took to get her here and she goes off to find a guy who can provide her with what she wants more. Unless a girl really is real close to me that's what I can see happening. I think that can happen to many guys from what I hear.

How are things going in your search CB?
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #57 on: October 16, 2021, 02:42:44 AM »
My reading of the situation in Ukraine & FSU is that the pretty girls want a rich guy who will keep them in good confort with their wants and needs. Its why they are willing to leave their family & friends assuming thet have any. If they find out the guy isn't what they had hoped for then they can easily move on once in UK, US or wherever.

The less pretty girls will vary, some will just want a pension plan, especially so if they are getting on a bit, mid to late thirties or older I would say. The younger less pretty girls may want to genuinely find someone but they can't at home as guys pass over on them either because they are too ugly or if everyday looking then perhaps difficult personalities, etc. A few everyday looking girls might have pretentions towards finding a wealthy guy also and may think chucking on a silk dress or whatever will get them in the frame. There are always some girls around with their head up their rear.

There will probably be a few girls who genuinely want to find a guy that match their interests who may be a bit unusual in their interests who don't find it easy to find another guy where they are. These it will just be a case of how easily a guy can genuinely share the same interests and get on with their interests as a basis for it all most likely. These girls are not likely to be pretty girls, everyday average at best as most pretty girls tend to end up with mainstream activities. So these girls probably aren't bad but only if a guy can genuinely be into the same fringe interests they have.

Other girls of course the ones with kids will want a guy to pay for their kids etc. As CB rightly says if with a lot of kids they will likely stick around if with just one then it may vary, they may choose to upgrade once in the west.

So I think most of the girls on International Dating sites generally are there as they want the guy to pay up/provide in some meaningful way. If not they aren't interested, maybe if they got to know the guy and found they really liked him they might but that likely rarely happens. Odds are many probably know a lot of guys in the west aren't rich they are just chancing it to try and get hold of one who is rich in my opinion.
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #58 on: October 16, 2021, 03:57:30 AM »
Most recent trend seems to be on Fdate is girls expressing that they are only interested in a 'Serious Relationship' or maybe it is more down to me applying for or getting interest for girls in their mid to late thirties. May have to check and see if the profiles of younger girls also put the same later.

Other commonality is that I'm getting the phrase that they wish to 'create a Family' again sane age group, mud to late thirties, early forties. My guess is that a lot of them may mean without children, one of them states this. I'm finding it a but of a pain in the arse as I would rather have it clear on their profile if they wish to have kids rather than keep getting this ambiguous 'family' phrase. I feel like it's almost done to dupe the guy. Most I wonder if it's just weighted in their interests of wanting a pension plan and with little in it for the guy other than going out to get the money in. I don't need someone to cook these days I have a microwave! :D

A lot of the girls when questioned why looking abroad say that it doesn't matter where the guy is from. I'm just thinking that it may just really mean it doesn't matter where so long as he fulfills the criteria if providing, i.e it is papering over the real reason, to find a guy to provide for them.
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #59 on: October 16, 2021, 05:42:48 AM »
I think you are right CB and have pretty much hit the nail on the head. Possibly I could get away with one without kids who was not above average on looks but had interests or personality that meant she wasn't part of the mainstream. One of the girls I turfed up was into Elon Musk, Space Exploration and all sorts of geeky stuff like Aviation simulators, etc. Didn't appeal to me as I kind of got the impression that every day would be a school day with her and that stuff I don't find fun. I mean I don't mind an occasional bit of talk on it but she looked heavily into it. There are also girls that don't socialise well, I might last longer with them but it still depends on their expectations, looks, etc.

Thai women I have generally been skeptical off because I've heard a fair few where they seem money grabbers. Philippine women I have heard any bad stories/rumours about, there no doubt probably are some but I get the impression likely in less quantity than elsewhere.

I think the advantage that comes with Philippine women is that a lot of guys in the UK will pass over them on the grounds of race. A white chick will be able to readily move to other white guys but a girl who is obviously if different ethnicity not so. I think Philippine culture would not be something in line with a lot of UK guys also. Many UK guys can be load but I get the impression that Philippine women don't fit into that very easily.

Other people's kids I've got to be honest that I don't wish to be burdened down with. It's not that I don't like being around kids, I often find them funny and joyful but it wouldn't feel great bringing up and paying for someone else's kids when I would really want my own.

I think over the next few weeks I'm going to have to re-evaluate where I am going with am of this. Like you say I kind of know that most FSW would likely be a difficulty for me and not necessarily suited in terms of outlook. Many expect a certain standard of living and unless entirely into me in some particular way there would be a big risk that most would go searching for someone more of what they want once here. I don't really want to spend a lot of money importing a girl and her then deciding things are now different and she doesn't care about all the time, money and effort I took to get her here and she goes off to find a guy who can provide her with what she wants more. Unless a girl really is real close to me that's what I can see happening. I think that can happen to many guys from what I hear.

How are things going in your search CB?
Rubbish.
My reading of the situation in Ukraine & FSU is that the pretty girls want a rich guy who will keep them in good confort with their wants and needs. Its why they are willing to leave their family & friends assuming thet have any. If they find out the guy isn't what they had hoped for then they can easily move on once in UK, US or wherever.

The less pretty girls will vary, some will just want a pension plan, especially so if they are getting on a bit, mid to late thirties or older I would say. The younger less pretty girls may want to genuinely find someone but they can't at home as guys pass over on them either because they are too ugly or if everyday looking then perhaps difficult personalities, etc. A few everyday looking girls might have pretentions towards finding a wealthy guy also and may think chucking on a silk dress or whatever will get them in the frame. There are always some girls around with their head up their rear.

There will probably be a few girls who genuinely want to find a guy that match their interests who may be a bit unusual in their interests who don't find it easy to find another guy where they are. These it will just be a case of how easily a guy can genuinely share the same interests and get on with their interests as a basis for it all most likely. These girls are not likely to be pretty girls, everyday average at best as most pretty girls tend to end up with mainstream activities. So these girls probably aren't bad but only if a guy can genuinely be into the same fringe interests they have.

Other girls of course the ones with kids will want a guy to pay for their kids etc. As CB rightly says if with a lot of kids they will likely stick around if with just one then it may vary, they may choose to upgrade once in the west.

So I think most of the girls on International Dating sites generally are there as they want the guy to pay up/provide in some meaningful way. If not they aren't interested, maybe if they got to know the guy and found they really liked him they might but that likely rarely happens. Odds are many probably know a lot of guys in the west aren't rich they are just chancing it to try and get hold of one who is rich in my opinion.
More rubbish

Most recent trend seems to be on Fdate is girls expressing that they are only interested in a 'Serious Relationship' or maybe it is more down to me applying for or getting interest for girls in their mid to late thirties. May have to check and see if the profiles of younger girls also put the same later.

Other commonality is that I'm getting the phrase that they wish to 'create a Family' again sane age group, mud to late thirties, early forties. My guess is that a lot of them may mean without children, one of them states this. I'm finding it a but of a pain in the arse as I would rather have it clear on their profile if they wish to have kids rather than keep getting this ambiguous 'family' phrase. I feel like it's almost done to dupe the guy. Most I wonder if it's just weighted in their interests of wanting a pension plan and with little in it for the guy other than going out to get the money in. I don't need someone to cook these days I have a microwave! :D

A lot of the girls when questioned why looking abroad say that it doesn't matter where the guy is from. I'm just thinking that it may just really mean it doesn't matter where so long as he fulfills the criteria if providing, i.e it is papering over the real reason, to find a guy to provide for them.
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #60 on: October 16, 2021, 07:44:42 AM »
Rubbish.More rubbish
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Rubbish? I'm just repeating back the answers they gave. You not like their answers Gaunty, a bit too much home truths for you ;)
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #61 on: October 16, 2021, 07:54:04 AM »
Rubbish? I'm just repeating back the answers they gave.
It isn’t the answers they give, it’s your interpretation of them based on your warped notions of women.

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You not like their answers Gaunty, a bit too much home truths for you ;)

Am I missing  something here?
Who’s been married to a FSUW for a decade+ and still in a thriving relationship?
Clue:  It isnt you.
You haven’t a f****** clue.




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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #62 on: October 16, 2021, 09:03:36 AM »
It isn’t the answers they give, it’s your interpretation of them based on your warped notions of women.

Am I missing  something here?
Who’s been married to a FSUW for a decade+ and still in a thriving relationship?
Clue:  It isnt you.
You haven’t a f****** clue.

I am surprised Mrs JG has lasted. On here you come across as a crotchety old fart. If like that in real life I don't know what woman would ever put up with you.
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #63 on: October 16, 2021, 09:26:54 AM »
I am surprised Mrs JG has lasted. On here you come across as a crotchety old fart. If like that in real life I don't know what woman would ever put up with you.
The day you have a Mrs to talk about I might take your comment seriously.
Of course, we know that you’ll never have any woman put up with your crap.

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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #64 on: October 16, 2021, 11:23:54 AM »
The common idea of life in Ukraine is, you grow up, you get married, you have children, you raise the children, and you die.  That's changing, but it is still a fairly prevalant idea.  So a UW saying she wants a family is adhering to her cultural norms.
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #65 on: October 16, 2021, 03:12:09 PM »
The common idea of life in Ukraine is, you grow up, you get married, you have children, you raise the children, and you die.  That's changing, but it is still a fairly prevalant idea.  So a UW saying she wants a family is adhering to her cultural norms.

I thoughts when a FSW says that she wants family that it can just mean the two of you. So for me the term family as FSW use it is quite ambiguous. Here if a woman says she wants family it's basically means she wants kids, there as I understand it, it can mean either.
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #66 on: October 16, 2021, 06:39:22 PM »
I thoughts when a FSW says that she wants family that it can just mean the two of you. So for me the term family as FSW use it is quite ambiguous. Here if a woman says she wants family it's basically means she wants kids, there as I understand it, it can mean either.

When ANY woman says she wants a family it includes kids.
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #67 on: October 17, 2021, 12:56:51 AM »
The day you have a Mrs to talk about I might take your comment seriously.
Of course, we know that you’ll never have any woman put up with your crap.

JG, You've already admitted before that your woman is not a model, no problem with that, but is she even everyday average looking? Again no problem if she isn't but if you've headed for the easy pickings at the bottom of the tree you can't very well have a dig at a guy playing a few levels above can you ;) Any guy can go out to Ukraine and get a girl who isn't at all very pretty, they will desperately welcome any guy, especially a western man, virtually any guy can accomplish that. Few guys want to do that but sone guys will and then think they are in the same level as all other married guys just because they found a other half while in reality they are the same level if bit worse than the guy going for a reasonable looking girl. I've not met Mrs JG so don't know what she looks like, age could well be a nice person either way but something tells me you make out you're all that for getting and marrying a FSW but that you like to live in your own illusionary world and have a dig at others trying for what you would like to have gotten if you thought you had any chance at it.
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #68 on: October 17, 2021, 01:32:31 AM »
JG, You've already admitted before that your woman is not a model, no problem with that, but is she even everyday average looking? Again no problem if she isn't but if you've headed for the easy pickings at the bottom of the tree you can't very well have a dig at a guy playing a few levels above can you ;) Any guy can go out to Ukraine and get a girl who isn't at all very pretty, they will desperately welcome any guy, especially a western man, virtually any guy can accomplish that. Few guys want to do that but sone guys will and then think they are in the same level as all other married guys just because they found a other half while in reality they are the same level if bit worse than the guy going for a reasonable looking girl. I've not met Mrs JG so don't know what she looks like, age could well be a nice person either way but something tells me you make out you're all that for getting and marrying a FSW but that you like to live in your own illusionary world and have a dig at others trying for what you would like to have gotten if you thought you had any chance at it.

Xaxaxa
LMFAO

I’m not going to bother responding to the tosh you’ve come up with now.
You can carry on dreaming while I carry on living the dream.

I don’t subscribe to idiotic notions of model looking or scales of 1-10.
I’m very happy with my wife, her character, looks, etc. Don’t need any validation from the likes of you who can only dream of getting what I have while jerking off in your basement.

Since it’s so easy for virtually any guy to go and get any woman I’m waiting for you to show us all up and land one of those easy fish.

Go on, put your money where your mouth is..... Oh, I forgot, you haven’t any dosh and can’t afford a woman.


I won’t hold my breath.  :cluebat:










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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #69 on: October 17, 2021, 02:50:40 AM »
Xaxaxa
LMFAO

I’m not going to bother responding to the tosh you’ve come up with now.
You can carry on dreaming while I carry on living the dream.

I don’t subscribe to idiotic notions of model looking or scales of 1-10.
I’m very happy with my wife, her character, looks, etc. Don’t need any validation from the likes of you who can only dream of getting what I have while jerking off in your basement.

Since it’s so easy for virtually any guy to go and get any woman I’m waiting for you to show us all up and land one of those easy fish.

Go on, put your money where your mouth is..... Oh, I forgot, you haven’t any dosh and can’t afford a woman.


I won’t hold my breath.  :cluebat:

And yet you spend so often on here, doesn't look like you are all that taken with your wife to choose posting on RWD over her.
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #70 on: October 17, 2021, 03:51:20 AM »
And yet you spend so often on here, doesn't look like you are all that taken with your wife to choose posting on RWD over her.
You must be as thick as two planks if you think I spend 24hrs a day with my wife.
I work for a living but you wouldn’t know much about that, would you.

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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #71 on: October 17, 2021, 05:21:45 AM »


How are things going in your search CB?


I honestly don't know Trench.


I'm very specific in the kind of woman i want to be with..if i don't get the wow factor when i see her it ain't happening .


I go for the woman all the other guys want but are too frightened to ask  out because they think she's out of their league...so i aim high.


I spent eleven years with a "normal nice "girl and after that ended due to my boredom i married a traffic stopper for twelve years.Sadly she had a gambling addiction so that ended  after too many arguments about her addiction.


I'd rather be alone than be with a woman just to avoid being alone.


Anyway,i've met such a wow woman online and we planned to meet up and if things go well take a holiday together.
Unfortunately the Covid pandemic hit and has put everything on hold...so we'll see what happens.
Just saying it like it is.

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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #72 on: October 17, 2021, 06:37:04 AM »

I honestly don't know Trench.


I'm very specific in the kind of woman i want to be with..if i don't get the wow factor when i see her it ain't happening .


I go for the woman all the other guys want but are too frightened to ask  out because they think she's out of their league...so i aim high.



I spent eleven years with a "normal nice "girl and after that ended due to my boredom i married a traffic stopper for twelve years.Sadly she had a gambling addiction so that ended  after too many arguments about her addiction.


I'd rather be alone than be with a woman just to avoid being alone.


Anyway,i've met such a wow woman online and we planned to meet up and if things go well take a holiday together.
Unfortunately the Covid pandemic hit and has put everything on hold...so we'll see what happens.

Good choice CB :D I know what you mean to be honest I bfind it's not really a choice so much in the girls that appeal. It's not that I go out looking for real pretty girls but they are just the ones that seem to do it for me. Yet I know they are probably a bit like local celebrities/pop stars they will turn a lot of guys on and enjoy the admiration. So it's not easy with all that other attention they get.

The way I feel is that I can't get into a girl if she genuinely doesn't light my fire so much the same really. Some guys will just go for any girl who they think will be an easy get but I can't carry on like that it would kind of feel like living a lie I think.

I know the pandemic is a real pain. Cases are rising in Ukraine so although it's possible to get out there now I don't really know where it's going to go out there. In India the official figures show cases fallen off a lot after a big surge despite not enough vaccine in Brazil similar so perhaps it will due down after a while. I'm getting a fair few responses from women of Fdate now so possibly I'll take a trip out there but still would depend on finding one I am totally happy that we were both really into each other I think.

Hope you get out to see your girl soon.
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #73 on: October 18, 2021, 03:15:14 AM »
Another thing I'm getting from the women I communicate with is stuff like them wanting, 'respect, trust and care'. Now I'm not into brutalising women, I don't like the look or feel of it, it's not what I'm about or ever have been, it hold no interest for me, but I'm not looking for a prim and proper girl either. I've of course we need to trust each other and be decent to each other but I also like the idea of a girl who has a bit of an edge.

In FSU terms what do girls mean by stuff like wanting, 'respect, trust and care' is it the same as western girls see it in the western sense of being a bit prim & proper?
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Re: How to know if FSW in general are right for you?
« Reply #74 on: October 18, 2021, 06:47:21 AM »
Yes . . . it means sex only once a month in Missionary position.
A beautiful woman is pleasant to look at, but it is easier to live with a pleasant acting one.

 

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