Operation White Panther

[olgac]

What a life good for You!

[Patagonie]

Don't even start me on medical care in US after what I am going through with my dad at Stanford Hospital (supposedly top 10 in US) my husband and I pretty much decided to fly to Singapore , Thailand or somewhere else if something serious were to happen to one of us. I am very disappointed in US healthcare right now.

I mean they lost his biopsy results and I had to email them to Stanford, they just today couldn't find his ultrasound result that they ordered, and I had to email it to them (I dowloaded both from THEIR portal)

Then They wanted to discharge my dad with heart failure tomorrow and for last 4 days haven't treated the heart failure at all and stopped his heart medications for the reason they couldn't explain. They never call to consult me even though I have advanced heath directive on file. And so on
 
Only with a help of my beautiful Russian surgeon friend Milana in th Bay Area I was able to get them to keep him hospitalized and do something about his heart.

   
     
In my country globally medicine is top notch. In Thailand they have everything you need also. The difference is, for French citizens, we almost don't pay in our country. 
Singapore is a very expensive city and I suppose that medical care, at least, should be more expensive than in Thailand.
Thailand if a know location for medical care. 
   
This story you relate about you Dad is close to a professional fault, no?

[olgac]

Yes I have already looked at Thailand medical travel, it's amazing!
And in Franco You guys are lucky with Your health care!
In case of Stanford Hospital I thinl this could be a case for law suit later on

[ML]

And in France You guys are lucky with Your health care!

Remember that most Europeans, Canadians, etc., falsely think their medical care is 'free' . . . that's partly why they rave about it.

Except for some bad experiences (which can happen anywhere) . . . hard to believe that USA health care is not number one in the world.

[Patagonie]

BTW Costa Rica has better climate than Thailand
it's a possibility

Costa Rica gets a lot or rewards in the expats destinations.

[Patagonie]

thailand interior is brutally hot and humid during and after monsoon...
not as bad along the coast, where I imagine Pat will stay

it's kinda like Cancun or Hawaii
you can strip down to shorts and walk around...and it's fine there...none of that, "no shoes no shirt no service"
Thai beaches are 5 star

I have no idea what it's like today
in my time, Bangkok was a dump
you smelled it before the airport bus even got there
a weird smell of sewage mixed with something that smelled like baked beans... NO it wasn't me!!!!!

   
Yep 
Humidity is a real problem, more than the absolute temperature.   
It screwed up a little bit my sportive performances.   
I am not fan of the big cities anymore, and will not stay in Bangkok more than very few days. I would avoid it as much as possible. 

[Patagonie]

Remember that most Europeans, Canadians, etc., falsely think their medical care is 'free' . . . that's partly why they rave about it.

Except for some bad experiences (which can happen anywhere) . . . hard to believe that USA health care is not number one in the world.

Of course we pay for it, we pay tons of taxes. But indirectly, I mean.

[Patagonie]

I didn't know what you wanted to become...

now I know that you want to be "Le Français Errant
d'aacord..i've heard of "something like that"
now I see...

naturellement, this is not a country for me
the lion in winter
wants to sleep by the fire in the den

I'm slowly convincing my wife to permanently leave the comforts of America...
we've tried a few experiments
I tend to avoid all the places "I've worked in",
becuz it has a "return to the scene of the crime" paranoic feel to it
i'm getting my wife used to Latin culture
also, if/when Ukraine "winds down" I'm planning on buying a property that borders Hungary and making something like what yo're doing
and anticipating it might end up belonging to Hungary one day, and "Ukrainians" can become EU citizens
and I can go buy a place in Amsterdam and live there
and be a street performance artist with a trained monkey who dances while I play the accordion
and we both wear sailor uniforms
so yur dream ain't as weird as mine
   
what yur doing has rarely been achieved except by a few sailors from Marsailles
a woman in every port, 2 cars in the garage, and a chicken in the oven

I SALUTE YOU SIR!!!
if you are able to achieve this
or if you die trying!!! at least you will not perish from boredom

you follow the beat of a different drummer
you are (a) papillon
the wind is yur destiny

bon chance
bon voyage

i'm guessing yur "femme russe" is blonde, non?
http://youtu.be/XT9IDo-vF5k

for me it Was "Russia House"

   
   
I was in communication with her this morning. 
She started to talk herself about our destiny. 
I remind you what does it mean. I am her destiny, and so she is mine.
I sent her flowers few days ago. 
Women love flowers. I ended to buy high grade flowers which, long time after the purchase, were still perfuming all her room. 
I sent also a little letter, written in Russian. 
I could translate by:
Your elegant hand was writing in the sand of the beach while you were staring me in the eyes "you are my destiny". I right away decided to buy the beach. 
 So you can invert or replace it by the wind, whatever you like, 
But the fact is now something powerful is moving us into the visa road. 

I am not intentionally planning to have a woman in every port because it's too time expensive and I want to keep time for myself and quality time for the woman I love. I rather prefer to focus on one woman and having a high quality time with her.
There is many reasons for why you screw up a LTR or a marriage.
 One of them is when you have lost control on Willy and he starts to explore new places. 
That's the reason number one I have never cheated during my marriage. Because I didn't want to take the risk to loose my (ex) wife. 
 As you wrote it:
I SALUTE YOU SIR!!!
if you are able to achieve this
or if you die trying!!! at least you will not perish from boredom
 
Yes I will not perish from boredom for the moment. Thank you Krim
I think there is a whole sea to explore now and we have not even left the dock of the port. 

[Patagonie]

There are a force into her who makes her moving forward, 
while I was having doubts creating friction and moving somehow backward. 
     
You perfectly understand what I mean Krim.
   
Now I let it go and we are on the wave. 
Don't even have a fucking idea where it moves, but the swing is damned good.
I fucking love it.

[Patagonie]

What a life good for You!

   
Thank you.   
I was with a couple of friends in Thailand, and they were daily updated with what was happening.
And they were constantly keeping saying "man, if this working, that will be a blockbuster love story!"     
We need to wait this summer to know more of course.

[olgac]

Remember that most Europeans, Canadians, etc., falsely think their medical care is 'free' . . . that's partly why they rave about it.

Except for some bad experiences (which can happen anywhere) . . . hard to believe that USA health care is not number one in the world.

Well I talked to oncologists in several Thai hospitals. Over there he would have gotten a private room with a sleeper couch for visitors. They would have immediately done biopsy and start immunotherapy. the whole time he would have been taken care of. Even if the cancer is terminal he would have died taken care of with dignity.

Here he was running around to different providers for 3 weeks because they refused to do biopsy until he gets clearance from a cardiologist who was booked for next 2 months.
only 1 month after cancer diagnosis they finally did biopsy and for another 2 weeks did not tell him what results were and scheduled appointments with oncologists 1 month away. Then they lost his biopsy results. Now they can't start treatment because of problems with heart which could only be fixed with oblation procedure that has 3 months waiting line. Meanwhile they just throw him out of the hospital after ER even though he clearly can't take care of himself.
As a result 3 months after cancer diagnosis he still received zero treatment! And todays MRI showed melanoma now spread to his brain. At least now he is hospitalized and I did not let them discharge him today. This is Stanford the top US hospital!

You might call this the best health care system in a world, but I do not! Also Europeans might pay for their health are with high taxes but ours is much much more expensive than theirs, the prices went up because of how our system operates.

[Patagonie]

Well I talked to oncologists in several Thai hospitals. Over there he would have gotten a private room with a sleeper couch for visitors. They would have immediately done biopsy and start immunotherapy. the whole time he would have been taken care of. Even if the cancer is terminal he would have died taken care of with dignity.

Here he was running around to different providers for 3 weeks because they refused to do biopsy until he gets clearance from a cardiologist who was booked for next 2 months.
only 1 month after cancer diagnosis they finally did biopsy and for another 2 weeks did not tell him what results were and scheduled appointments with oncologists 1 month away. Then they lost his biopsy results. Now they can't start treatment because of problems with heart which could only be fixed with oblation procedure that has 3 months waiting line. Meanwhile they just throw him out of the hospital after ER even though he clearly can't take care of himself.
As a result 3 months after cancer diagnosis he still received zero treatment! And todays MRI showed melanoma now spread to his brain. At least now he is hospitalized and I did not let them discharge him today. This is Stanford the top US hospital!

You might call this the best health care system in a world, but I do not! Also Europeans might pay for their health are with high taxes but ours is much much more expensive than theirs, the prices went up because of how our system operates.

   
That's a nightmare     
eto tragédia     
This is what we call in aviation disaster a chain of malfunctions.

[Patagonie]

Things start to be interconnected more and more.
     
She is asking a female friend about the travel   
While I am redirecting her to one female friend of mine for the same purpose.         
We have more daily exchanges and this intensifies the ossification of the relationship.   
Even with my level in Russian, I am still struggling with the language. It's when you realize what you know, then you understand better what you still don't know. 
   
Someone it reminds me the situation of Lady of Kiev few years ago.In the very beginning, you remember (go back to the topic), when I knew she will be flying to meet another guy in Italy. I had only few days before her departure to Italy and I intensified as much as possible our communication to make her focusing on me.  (of course her interest was already high from the scratch). 
     
Now our communication is really intensifying.

[Patagonie]

Actions speak louder than words   
This is worth remembering when you are dealing with FSU women,
   
Newbies or recent incomers, take note.     
You will be adding weight as soon you start to take real actions with a FSU woman.     
This is why the long remote time pre-romance with no previous visit in her country has limited effects in my experience. 
It's more about "what he is doing" rather than "what he is saying"     
           
I have cultivated and raised my label, I put my personal brand from the very beginning by vindicating to be a latin lover, with a very French Touch Seduction in the blood.
You must understand that I am facing a woman who has been married for a very long time. 
You are the one who gonna to make her discover love again.   
To make her loving love again.     
I consider that's a huge responsibility.   
And love is not only about two bodies making some physical movements in and out.     
it's re-giving her an education,   
Sewing day by day this sexual tension in the background,     
Showing her how aesthetes are declining the romanticism (c'est charmant, c'est mignon) that makes women's hearts noticing. 
 
For all those who would copy this by believing that you just have to copy some poems on a book and send it to her, I would say you are just leading the wrong direction, because you are absolutely not raising the sexual tension. 
But you can play both if you know how to do this and having the right calibration.   
   
I was too high in colors in my endeavors to stay sexual in the beginning.
I have learnt to make it smoother. 
I am shaping it to the maximum power admissible for the moment. 
The beauty of this is when you know her better and she knows you better you can change the threshold of the maximum power.     

I am gonna to teach her again the thousand of variation of a hand moving along her skin
How imitating cats when their desire are face to face with no issue than a war of love
When it's cold in the mountains at night and you have nowhere to go except the shelter of his arms 
   
I have died a hundred times, I can add another night.
 
   
If you wear this special negative-entropy, all time, in the man you are, women will notice it.
And it's nothing about to fake it. It's in you.



 
 

[Patagonie]

I have sent her the necessary documents three days ago for the visa
It does it include the official invitation supervised by the local city hall.
And also the medical insurance for her time spent in France. 
And also I have provided a complete financial guarantee for the same time, that of course needs several documents.
I have also sent some money for the photos, visa, visa's intermediate services, stamps, airfares reservation and correspondences.   
       
Now she starts to call me regularly and we are having fun out of the visa requirements. 
She speaks a little too fast for me in Russian and I need to ask her to slow down a little bit.
I suppose her accent and her high command in Russian don't help. Yet despite the fact that I could understand sometimes some C1 level, all depends on the topic. 
Mobile phones and messenger applications are also guilty, due to a lot of compression, which means that a lot of frequencies are cut off during the communication, the quality badly suffers. 
That doesn't help. 

[Patagonie]

I have finally filled online the visa request.
Now my documents sent from my country should arrive very soon. 
 
I all time find a good reason to push over things in life. 
So at the moment I am focusing more on learning Russian. 
I have online courses through Italki. 
This a huge site where you can learn almost any languages.
The prices have really raised up, but nothing more than the inflation, which is striking a lot of countries, including Europe. And especially last eleven years, and even more, since the war in the East. 
   
We had almost half an hour of conversation yesterday and we had great time together, laughing and learning more about each other. 
My last girlfriend was speaking also almost no English. But at the end we learned a lot about each other. Just a matter
of time.   
However when you are face to face, it's really easier because you can use translators and non verbal language helps. 
On the phone only it's more difficult. I need to learn more.