Russian Women Discussion
RWD Discussion Groups => Starting Out => Topic started by: Sculpto on December 07, 2009, 05:53:06 PM
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1. Smell bad.
2. Be an egotistical jackoff
3. Try to be someone you aren't
4. Read lots of "how to attract women" advice
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1. Smell bad.
2. Be an egotistical jackoff
3. Try to be someone you aren't
4. Read lots of "how to attract women" advice
LOL! Dang! You just won't cut Tiger Woods some slack, can you?
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lol...
I forgot to mention..
5. be a perv
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When your lists grows to 101 different ways, I will join in and add a few from personal failures in my 20s. :D
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anyone is free to add.. i posted in response to the spammer today.. ;) 4 ways to attract a girl or whatever he said..
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smoke weed ;)
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smoke weed ;)
hahaha wise guy.. that depends entirely on the lady
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- dont feed a stray kitty she wants to feed
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- dont feed a stray kitty she wants to feed
Marina did a good job of fattening up kitty we rescued from shelter. It 's a good thing I don't feed her any more than Marina does.
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Say about future deeds that will be impossible!! brave girl
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Say about future deeds that will be impossible!! brave girl
Like having enough money to keep brave girls interest :)
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being too dominant
being too rude to people around
showing no manners/class
being ignorant
being arrogant
talking about his ex (either in positive or in negative light)
being overall gloomy/blue
using canned phrases for communication (like when a WM reads forum, and makes notes on which questions to ask, and what to say and what not to say - and then memorizes it and says as a lesson)
trying to apply NLP or any "mind tricks" in general
lying
being physically unattractive
being unrealistically self-confident
drinking
smoking too much
being a couch potato
being too much of a "dreamer" and too little of a "doer"
being too egoistic
having shoes with pointy toe
or some types with square toe
cowboy shoes (sorry - i just don't like them)
certain types of jeans repulse me quite much
wearing sport-suit (this rule holds for RMs mostly)
wearing men rings (in most cases i don't like them)
opening top button on the shirt with some chest hair peeking
old shaggy t-shirts (unless the guy is super skinny - then it may look hot)
looking at other girls and making compliments to them while going out with me
being shorter than i am
being too un-sporty
sweating too much
if i'll think of more ways - i'll add them
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What is NLP ?
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What is NLP ?
Neuro-Linguistic Programming at the amateur level. I have not met it among WMs, but quite a few RWs on my way were unskillfully using it. on me. and they were quite dumb. Not very good combination.
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being too dominant
being too rude to people around
showing no manners/class
being ignorant
being arrogant
talking about his ex (either in positive or in negative light)
being overall gloomy/blue
using canned phrases for communication (like when a WM reads forum, and makes notes on which questions to ask, and what to say and what not to say - and then memorizes it and says as a lesson)
trying to apply NLP or any "mind tricks" in general
lying
being physically unattractive
being unrealistically self-confident
drinking
smoking too much
being a couch potato
being too much of a "dreamer" and too little of a "doer"
being too egoistic
having shoes with pointy toe
or some types with square toe
cowboy shoes (sorry - i just don't like them)
certain types of jeans repulse me quite much
wearing sport-suit (this rule holds for RMs mostly)
wearing men rings (in most cases i don't like them)
opening top button on the shirt with some chest hair peeking
old shaggy t-shirts (unless the guy is super skinny - then it may look hot)
looking at other girls and making compliments to them while going out with me
being shorter than i am
being too un-sporty
sweating too much
if i'll think of more ways - i'll add them
Mies do continue, I thought that was a pretty funny post.
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Like having enough money to keep brave girls interest :)
Be calm shallow pockets!! :) brave girl
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Mies do continue, I thought that was a pretty funny post.
ok - two more. And please don't take me wrong on those two.
- being too suspicious - probing and testing, setting some sort of "experiments" and "exams" for a women
- coloring gray hair. I like gray hair. I think it's very sexy. i ultimately dislike colored gray hair on men. If they colored it some wild colors like older RWs do - blond (for brunette woman), purple, orange, red, wine - maybe it would be more fun. But those dull "black" and "brown" colors ::)
To participate in discussion of earlier posters
- smoke weed is a turnoff for me. It has to do with eyes. The "weed-eyes" irritate me greatly. Also slow reaction too - i prefer sharp and fast people.
Though i don't think there are many men on this forum who smoke or ever smoked.
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Be calm shallow pockets!! :) brave girl
hahahhaha - Brave girl - i love your style ))))))
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- smoke weed is a turnoff for me. It has to do with eyes. The "weed-eyes" irritate me greatly.
My wife says the same thing. It's not as much the fact of smoking it but seeing people sitting around with stupid looks on their faces (wether drinking or smoking) drives her nuts.
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To participate in discussion of earlier posters
- smoke weed is a turnoff for me. It has to do with eyes. The "weed-eyes" irritate me greatly. Also slow reaction too - i prefer sharp and fast people.
Though i don't think there are many men on this forum who smoke or ever smoked.
You would be surprised how many have and do on a regular basis.. and the truth of the matter is high quality weed doesn't do the above... its more like fine wine...
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:rolleyes2:
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pm-ed
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You would be surprised how many have and do on a regular basis.. and the truth of the matter is high quality weed doesn't do the above... its more like fine wine...
So tell me something 2012. At what point do you tell the ladies that you are corresponding with that you are into drugs?
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To those of you who have limited or no knowledge of the affects of cannabis and since this topic has come up in the thread.. I thought i would illuminate a bit...
Years ago when all that was available was pretty low grade that was often harvested from wild growing plants there was a fairly predictable affect on people.. red eyes, munchies and lethargy were typical.
However.. these days in places like SF, Seattle, Vancouver and Amsterdam where growers have perfected the process a wide variety of affects are now possible due to strain mixing and so on. This is absolutely a result of the demands the legal medical cannabis industry has responded to from patients.
Top grades of cannabis can now be found that can produce a sharpness of mind that makes coffee and other more harmful stimulants seem weak. Others can produce highly relaxing sensations. Some are designed to enhance social interactions while others are very contemplative. Others yet are bred to specifically function like strong pain killers for those who suffer back and other chronic pain. Some strains are made to produce very little mental impact but to make cancer and AIDS patients have a strong appetite and eat. The variations and combinations that exist are numerous and as time goes on more and more specific and exacting. Other positive benefits and strains will be discovered as time goes on.
Cannabis will most likely be legalized for recreational use in California within the next couple of years. The substance is far less harmful than alcohol and actual chemical drugs. The plant has been demonized for a variety of bad reasons and it is high time this persecution is ended. This wonderful plant was given to us by God or nature and our bodies are equipped with the appropriate receptors to feel its affect. Everything in moderation. Don't abuse anything.
I might be the only one on the forum that is open about it, but, many members, and you all know who you are, also partake. For those who know nothing about it, it would be better for everyone if instead of spouting off misinformed opinions you asked questions if truly interested.
And, as I have proven in the past, cannabis culture does exist in the FSU. It might not be as widespread as it is in the USA, but, there is a decent sized and growing population that understand the positive affects of the plant.
Finally, once and for all.. my personal consumption is almost nil and has been for a long time. When given the choice between a vicodin or a joint, I will choose a joint every time. (after my car crash) When given the choice between ambien and a joint, I will choose a joint every time. I far prefer the affects, and the security of knowing the long term side affects are almost nil, as opposed to newly formulated prescriptions that may contain highly addictive opiates or other unknown and new compounds that might have negative results over time.
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:rolleyes2:
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So tell me something 2012. At what point do you tell the ladies that you are corresponding with that you are into drugs?
I am not into drugs. I occasionally smoke some weed which is a plant and far less processed than even wine or other alcohol. And I tell them almost from the beginning, right about the time when I tell them I almost never drink. Most ladies who put on their profiles they do not drink are liars, much as the non smoking tag, and such comments are added to the profiles by agencies. I have not encountered a single lady that ended a communication because I smoke weed. They are far more concerned, in general, about men who abuse alcohol.
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My wife and I know several RW who occasionally toke up, it's not really a big deal among younger women.
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A short break from comments about dope.
Be calm shallow pockets!! :) brave girl
You should know!
JR sent all the men a PM about how you put your hands in his pockets. BTW, he liked it.
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In all seriousness what are the laws in Russia for weed?? If you have a dime bag in your hand bag whats the most you can expect?
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decriminalization
http://stopthedrugwar.org/chronicle-old/328/russia.shtml
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You would be surprised how many have and do on a regular basis..
You'd be surprised on how many people don't do drugs on a regular basis. None of the people I know, friends and relatives, do drugs. If I want to know people who like to do drugs, I know where to find them. It's a personal choice anyone can make on who they want to associate with.
I occasionally smoke some weed
A few days ago you said you only experimented with it. Which 2012isFiction is telling the truth? The one from a few days ago or the one today? What do you tell the ladies? It would be nice if everyone who uses drugs, has an alcohol problem or criminal record to be open with the ladies so they could make a decent decision if they can accept the man's behavior.
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You should know!
JR sent all the men a PM about how you put your hands in his pockets. BTW, he liked it.
Yes and I found nothing!! :)
nothing unusual!!
understand??
Please do not excite shallow pockets with such fantasies!! :evil: brave girl
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hahahhaha - Brave girl - i love your style ))))))
Really? :-\
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Really? :-\
absolutely! It is almost like a minimalistic abstract art :cheesygrin:
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A few days ago you said you only experimented with it. Which 2012isFiction is telling the truth? The one from a few days ago or the one today? What do you tell the ladies?
I never said I "experimented" with weed. I carry a medicinal card and may or may not have a grow room at different periods of time. I have always on this site, as everywhere in my life, been open about enjoying a smoke. Other non narcotic things, I may have experimented with on rare occasion. No regrets for sure. See my re to Turbo for the answer to your second question. Why would I even consider being anything less than open about what I smoke when I would not want to be married with someone who did not either accept my habits or share them? Thats just another stupid assumption and feeble attempt at character assassination on your part.
I always find it interesting when people like you have an opinion about something you have absolutely no experience with. So.. lets get it straight.. there were WMDs, there is no Global Warming (which is really an AIR POLLUTION problem) you constantly demonstrate conditional ethics particularly in regards to women, and an inability to discuss things without vendetta or personal attacks and you have the proud distinction of stating you have a clear mind because you never smoked a joint. :rolleyes2:
Billy, you of just about everyone here could use a toke. You might be surprised at the positive impact. Lighten up dude. Life doesn't have to be so painful.
BTW.. I am proud to say I have smoked inside the US Capital in DC, while sitting on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial, with a number of well known political and entertainment celebrities, and a large number of other interesting places. Between 1986-1990 I was one of thousands of "Johnnie pot seed" people who planted cannabis EVERYWHERE as a form of social protest and resistance to the insane drug war policies. In my neck of the woods more people smoke cannabis than tobacco. Walk down the street on a Friday night and the pungent smell is wafting out of almost every bar and nightclub. WE have about 40 legal dispensaries providing medicine to tens of thousands of patients. Yet, Billy is still stuck back in the 1950s or even worse in the "just say no" (with your fingers crossed) generation. Dinosaur.
Ladies typically are repulsed by ignorant narrow minded men. ;)
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And, as I have proven in the past, cannabis culture does exist in the FSU. It might not be as widespread as it is in the USA, but, there is a decent sized and growing population that understand the positive affects of the plant.
LOL! I got a good wiff of pot walking behind a couple of dudes in Downtown Novosibirsk over 5 years ago!
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For me the most repulsive traits include:
-a lack of good hygiene (dirt under nails, not shaved or showered, etc. )
-a skinny body especially when coupled with narrow shoulders (I perceive men with such figure as if they are teens and I feel zero attraction.)
- facial hairs
- tantrums and other outbursts of aggressive behavior
-pessimism, depression, compulsive obsession and other abnormal mental states.
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For me the most repulsive traits include:
-a lack of good hygiene (dirt under nails, not shaved or showered, etc. )
-a skinny body especially when coupled with narrow shoulders (I perceive men with such figure as if they are teens and I feel zero attraction.)
- facial hairs
- tantrums and other outburst of aggressive behavior
-pessimism, depression, compulsive obsession and other abnormal mental states.
i second all, facial hairs is ok if man will agree to shave it :D
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in re: to the PM I can not answer because it is still turned off..
I don't judge anyone because they do or don't smoke weed. I could care less. It is a small part of my life that I enjoy a lot, for medicinal and sometimes recreational reasons. I would never impose on someone who doesn't smoke to join me or reject them as friends because they don't, the same as I wouldn't for someone that doesn't enjoy a glass of wine. I can't stand to be around drunks the same as I can't stand tweekers and junkies. Hope that answers the question of the person who wrote me in PM.
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I always find it interesting when people like you have an opinion about something you have absolutely no experience with.
I knew a guy a few years ago that had a major problem with alcohol, destroying his health, his family and going through counseling. I talked to him about alcohol and I was trying to give him tips to quit. He cut me off and basicially said what you said. He told me that I will never understand him or what other alcoholics are going through until I drink and walk in his and their shoes. I told him "I understand more about alcohol than you know and if you knew what I knew, you'd be walking in my shoes and you wouldn't be screwing up your life".
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-a skinny body especially when coupled with narrow shoulders (I perceive men with such figure as if they are teens and I feel zero attraction.)
- facial hairs
LOL! Good thing you didn't meet me in my college years! I was a supper twig! I was 185cm tall and weighed 69 kilos! Washboard abs,Could split a shirt that fit me by flexing up,did all my weight lifting repetitions with 60 kilos(various types of curls,straight press,etc),could do around 25 repetitions on the bench press with somewhere approaching twice my weight,ran 10 kilometers on the off weight lifting days and 4 or kilometers on weight lifting days,and best of all! I had a virgin mustache! :cheesygrin:
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I knew a guy a few years ago that had a major problem with alcohol, destroying his health, his family and going through counseling. I talked to him about alcohol and I was trying to give him tips to quit. He cut me off and basicially said what you said. He told me that I will never understand him or what other alcoholics are going through until I drink and walk in his and their shoes. I told him "I understand more about alcohol than you know and if you knew what I knew, you'd be walking in my shoes and you wouldn't be screwing up your life".
Apples and and swiss cheese. Pot heads 99.9% of the time do not encounter the kinds of problems alcoholics and junkies do. On the contrary.
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2012, Based on some of your past postings about some of your struggles in life and in business, you've given me the impression that you are not financially well off. I'm not saying you're poor but wouldn't you think quitting drugs and saving it for your future family would be a worthwhile investment? I'm sure finding a woman you could spend your life with is more important than smoking dope. IMO doing drugs hurts accomplishing some of your important goals in life. My advice would be the same for those guys abusing alcohol. You know who you are. 2012, somehow I have a funny suspicion that you will come back and lecture me about the financial benefits of dealing drugs and how it's improved your financial standing.
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2012, Based on some of your past postings about some of your struggles in life and in business, you've given me the impression that you are not financially well off. I'm not saying you're poor but wouldn't you think quitting drugs and saving it for your future family would be a worthwhile investment? I'm sure finding a woman you could spend your life with is more important than smoking dope. IMO doing drugs hurts accomplishing some of your important goals in life. My advice would be the same for those guys abusing alcohol. You know who you are. 2012, somehow I have a funny suspicion that you will come back and lecture me about the financial benefits of dealing drugs and how it's improved your financial standing.
Again more ignorance. I dont do drugs Billy. Weed is a plant that grows on every continent and has been consumed by every culture for the positive effects it has on personal well being. I haven't spent money on weed in over 2 decades. I do not deal, on the occasions I grow it has been for personal consumption and gifts. My financial status has more to do with trying to use my business enterprises to finance a conceptual art practice that never had any monetary motive or potential for creating wealth, and to finance extended travel experiences. Chances are my net income is equal to or higher than yours if you are a GC. It has only been recently, in the last 5 years, that I seriously considered "settling down" with a woman. I have had an amazing life with tons of travels to exotic locations, amazing people, and unforgettable experiences. No regrets. I do however, have pity for people who have bitterly worked themselves to a pulp always chasing the elusive golden egg only to discover they missed out on all the beauty this world and life have to offer.
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Again more ignorance. I dont do drugs Billy.
I must be old school and didn't realize they changed the definition of "drug".
Since you don't spend any money on weed, send me a box of those free weed seeds and I'll pay ya for the postage.
When your future wife shows up, what do you think she's going to say when she sees the bathroom windows painted black, heat lamps all over the place, an electric bill through the roof, and the bathtub full of dirt growing weed?
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I must be old school and didn't realize they changed the definition of "drug".
Since you don't spend any money on weed, send me a box of those free weed seeds and I'll pay ya for the postage.
When your future wife shows up, what do you think she's going to say when she sees the bathroom windows painted black, heat lamps all over the place, an electric bill through the roof, and the bathtub full of dirt growing weed?
god you are thick.. she knows.
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:cluebat: Do you 2 guys wanna borrow some boxing gloves? :cluebat:
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god you are thick.. she knows.
Then my hat off to you if you're that honest. Most marijuana growers searching for a RW would not enlighten a RW about the farm in their home. You see, I don't have to smoke it, drink it, inject it, or snort it to have some understanding what people doing drugs are going through and how they live their lives.
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Then my hat off to you if you're that honest. Most marijuana growers searching for a RW would not enlighten a RW about the farm in their home. You see, I don't have to smoke it, drink it, inject it, or snort it to have some understanding what people doing drugs are going through and how they live their lives.
LOL.. you have absolutely no idea what is going on in my life. The level of assumption you make is beyond even being worth ridicule and is just hilarious. Don't you realize everyone is laughing at you?
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You two are derailing the thread.
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You two are derailing the thread.
LOL! I think they are both demonstrating a way to repulse a woman! Neither one knows when to quit! :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat: :cluebat:
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true Vaughn but I am the OP.. nevertheless.. this side topic has run its course
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this side topic has run its course
Hopefully. I believe boaterguy nailed down the truth.
A guy steps off the plane/train wearing a Green Bay Packers jacket,
ballcap and Nike cross-trainers. Ladies ~ what sayeth thee ??
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You two are derailing the thread.
Let me get back on topic then.
How to repulse a lady: Have a drug farm in your home and bathtubs full of dirt.
Maybe 2012 will learn to get his life in order before criticizing how other people live their lives and insinuating they are liars. Glass houses come to mind.
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Let me get back on topic then.
How to repulse a lady: Have a drug farm in your home and bathtubs full of dirt.
Maybe 2012 will learn to get his life in order before criticizing how other people live their lives and insinuating they are liars. Glass houses come to mind.
Dude.. you had to try and get a parting shot in didn't you.. again, you have no idea what you are talking about. And.. frankly being defensive about being called out for BS typically indicates some level of guilt.. another thing I would say is repulsive not only to ladies but just about everyone. Now go back to your own silly thread where how many people have called it immature and how many other truisms? Immaturity would certainly rank high on the repulsive list also. :)
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Hopefully. I believe boaterguy nailed down the truth.
A guy steps off the plane/train wearing a Green Bay Packers jacket,
ballcap and Nike cross-trainers. Ladies ~ what sayeth thee ??
what do i say? I'd say it looks hot
(http://images.footballfanatics.com/productImages/_371000/FF_371877_xl.jpg)(http://product.images.fansedge.com/51-89/51-89331-F.jpg)
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Yes and I found nothing!! :)
nothing unusual!!
understand??
Please do not excite shallow pockets with such fantasies!! :evil: brave girl
One usually finds what one is looking for....never fear brave girl, the likes of you have no place in my fantasies.
Why do you call yourself brave? While it is indeed true that it is just as easy to fall in love with a prince as it is a pauper it requires a certain amount of fortitude to place yourself beside the pauper for the sake of love. So I have to wonder what your consider so brave about yourself? I see only a frightened child who is afraid of not having...more.
Gator, the hands were cold and desperate. They reminded me of those of a street urchin begging for money.
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Gator, the hands were cold and desperate. They reminded me of those of a street urchin begging for money.
I would have thought that Brave Girl's hands were as nimble as those of a Gypsy child, who give you a first impression of a starving beggar only to separate you deftly from your money clip.
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dirt under nails
Ugh! Not only would that repulse a RW, she will also think that you have not had sex in a year.
Do we actually have to remind men to clip their fingernails frequently?
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the hands were cold and desperate. They reminded me of those of a street urchin begging for money.
I would have thought that Brave Girl's hands were as nimble as those of a Gypsy child, who give you a first impression of a starving beggar only to separate you deftly from your money clip.
Dearest men
Please do not speak cruelly about nice Russian girl who knows her value!! 8) brave girl
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it requires a certain amount of fortitude to place yourself beside the pauper for the sake of love.
sorry only stupid chicken will stand next to pauper. :(
for the sake of love.
again words of BIG LOVE with shallow pockets!! :) brave girl
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Brave girl if you want to know your value, then I have some lint in my pocket, no wait, the lint might come in useful.
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sorry only stupid chicken will stand next to pauper. :(
Now that very much depends on what one values in life.
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no wait, the lint might come in useful.
agree!!
your beloved village girl may knit you a scarf?? :D brave girl
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my beloved "village girl" as you call her, is worth more than you will ever hope to be worth. She has character and soul two things I am afraid you do not have at all. You can insult me all you want, please leave my fiance, soon to be wife, out of this conversation.
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to all the newbies. There is a light at the end of the tunnel and now I can see it very clearly.
be careful!!
it might be train coming!! :evil:
understand?? :D
please leave my fiance, soon to be wife, out of this conversation.
Russian Women Discussion
fiance is not Russian?? :rolleyes2:
sorry!! :) brave girl
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Fiance is Ukrainian, but as she is not here, then there is no need to insult her.
oh and I know its a shock, but I can tell the difference between sunlight and the lights of a train :o
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absolutely! It is almost like a minimalistic abstract art
Surrealistic, more like. :D
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Surrealistic, more like. :D
More like ignorant, infantile, insulting, shallow, and just a little stupid.
But maybe it's just a cultural difference thing? :rolleyes2:
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I think Bravegirl is just a troll pulling our legs. If you don't take her posts too seriously, they are hilarious, at least to me.
The "shallow pockets" had me laughing hysterically.
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I think Bravegirl is just a troll pulling our legs. If you don't take her posts too seriously, they are hilarious, at least to me.
The "shallow pockets" had me laughing hysterically.
I tend to agree.
Anyway, to get sorta back on topic.. of the original list and later additions... 2 and 5 seemed to have worked quite well for me; Mies and vwrw will be attracted to me at about the same time hell freezes; I suddenly have an uncontrollable urge to squeeze a couple o' Packers (at least the label) and I've removed the interior of the pockets -- just in case.
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Dearest men
Please do not speak cruelly about nice Russian girl who knows her value!! 8) brave girl
Your value? My dear girl you have no value of your own. You married money because you could not achieve of your own merits that which you cannot live without. So you sold yourself to the highest bidder... "a subtle form of whoring" to quote an old ballad :)
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Do we actually have to remind men to clip their fingernails frequently?
Some men have a lot of responsibilities, and start planning their business day and thinking what on their agenda when they are in shower or brushing teeth. With all this thinking through, they can forget about clipping their nails and give their wives a chance to nag and be bossy. ;)
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Some men have a lot of responsibilities, and start planning their business day and thinking what on their agenda when they are in shower or brushing teeth. With all this thinking through, they can forget about clipping their nails and give their wives a chance to nag and be bossy. ;)
Actually we do this on purpose to see if you still care enough to check the minor details :)
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it is so repulsive to see chest hair poking out by the neck. Its fine when u r naked, but with clothes on its horrible! Unless you are super hot, then its ok even with clothes on, but in vast majority of cases its just awwwwwfulllllll
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it is so repulsive to see chest hair poking out by the neck. Its fine when u r naked, but with clothes on its horrible! Unless you are super hot, then its ok even with clothes on, but in vast majority of cases its just awwwwwfulllllll
you are an adorable Kitten. If all women were as cool as you the world would be a much happier place.
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Mies is an FSUW, her list is a bit of her personal tastes (like shoes), but most are
generally things not to do.
being too dominant
being too rude to people around
showing no manners/class
being ignorant
being arrogant
talking about his ex (either in positive or in negative light)
being overall gloomy/blue
using canned phrases for communication (like when a WM reads forum, and makes notes on which questions to ask, and what to say and what not to say - and then memorizes it and says as a lesson)
trying to apply NLP or any "mind tricks" in general
lying
being physically unattractive
being unrealistically self-confident
drinking
smoking too much
being a couch potato
being too much of a "dreamer" and too little of a "doer"
being too egoistic
having shoes with pointy toe
or some types with square toe
cowboy shoes (sorry - i just don't like them)
certain types of jeans repulse me quite much
wearing sport-suit (this rule holds for RMs mostly)
wearing men rings (in most cases i don't like them)
opening top button on the shirt with some chest hair peeking
old shaggy t-shirts (unless the guy is super skinny - then it may look hot)
looking at other girls and making compliments to them while going out with me
being shorter than i am
being too un-sporty
sweating too much
if i'll think of more ways - i'll add them
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- being too suspicious - probing and testing, setting some sort of "experiments" and "exams" for a women
- coloring gray hair. I like gray hair. I think it's very sexy. i ultimately dislike colored gray hair on men. If they colored it some wild colors like older RWs do - blond (for brunette woman), purple, orange, red, wine - maybe it would be more fun. But those dull "black" and "brown" colors ::)
To participate in discussion of earlier posters
- smoke weed is a turnoff for me. It has to do with eyes. The "weed-eyes" irritate me greatly. Also slow reaction too - i prefer sharp and fast people.
Though i don't think there are many men on this forum who smoke or ever smoked.
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the "weed thang" is a 'generational' issue
older Russian wimmin will tend to look at weed like it's the "Reefer Madness Movie"
however, most younger ones 'dey like de dank 'herb mon'
avoid wimmin, who hold a long list of things they don't like
cuz sooner or later, somethin yur doin is gonna be on that list
and yur either gonna have to defend your choices, or give 'em up
Being tolerant of others is not only good but also essential for healthy interactions
Tolerance, sez “I may not understand or agree, but I respect your right to make yur own choices in yur life.”
tolerant women generate harmony
intolerant 'controlling' women ONLY generate animosity
and if this animosity breaks the relationship...guess who's gonna end up payin for that?