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« on: April 10, 2024, 05:27:37 PM »
I stumbled upon a beautiful resort in Pattaya that had 80% Russians. The swimming lessons were taught by Russian instructors speaking in Russian. The beach was filled with old Russian old men in tightie and short snuggly swimming gear with their chest hair curling outward. I'm sure you've all seen those images.

I spotted two Russian women having breakfast then lounging around the pool. There was a pretty one and there was a beautiful one. Luckily the beautiful one had the better personality. One dinner and 5 margaritas later I'm in love - for the night. Try to play it cool and not too clinging but met both of them for lunch and tried to arrange an activity like with watersports but they just wanted to stay by the poolside. Kept in touch through Telegram for a week or so but then she stopped answering my messages. That sucks. I thought this journey was going to end on a happy note.

What are your best ways to approach Russian women on vacation. Most likely they know English. Most likely traveling with a few girlfriends or family.

I tried to meet another woman when she was with a group in Bangkok and it creeped her out and I sunk back to my hotel feeling like a loser.

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Re: Best ways to approach Russian women in Thailand
« Reply #1 on: April 10, 2024, 07:19:31 PM »
that's EASY
just speak to them in Russian
pre-war, I was in Amsterdam, manoga Russkies, just listen to the voices in the crowd, till ya hear 'em
these russian girls did not know 'reefer kultura' at all
I was happy to be an 'ambassador of goodwill' and introduce it to them
I was just havin fun with them deavotchki  and nothin more than that....
sweet girls though...
few russians in the 'Dam now

but listen holmes, when you playin a 'game of chance'
you always gotta be 'aware of the odds' yur playin against
play when/where the odds are more in yur favor
you can EASILY go to Phukut, or Mamaris in Turkey and meet vacationing Russians
but yur gonna have the SAME problems with them Russians that ya would if you were in Moscva
they understand that, and that's WHY what happens in Phukut, stays in Phukut, ponelle?

these kinda places are not good places for you to 'try your luck in'
cuz THERE the odds are more stacked against ya compared to THE CASINO ROYALE A.K.A Ternopil State University in Ternopil or similar venue

« Last Edit: April 10, 2024, 07:58:45 PM by krimster2 »

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Re: Best ways to approach Russian women in Thailand
« Reply #2 on: April 10, 2024, 09:35:14 PM »
so true. Nothing impresses them more than speaking Russian to them. In Dubai a group of young Russians asked to sit next to me in a sushi bar and I replied to their English thank you with "pozhaluysta" - oh the smile on their faces. Nothing came out of that other than small talk.

Got to learn Russian.


that's EASY
just speak to them in Russian
pre-war, I was in Amsterdam, manoga Russkies, just listen to the voices in the crowd, till ya hear 'em
these russian girls did not know 'reefer kultura' at all
I was happy to be an 'ambassador of goodwill' and introduce it to them
I was just havin fun with them deavotchki  and nothin more than that....
sweet girls though...
few russians in the 'Dam now

but listen holmes, when you playin a 'game of chance'
you always gotta be 'aware of the odds' yur playin against
play when/where the odds are more in yur favor
you can EASILY go to Phukut, or Mamaris in Turkey and meet vacationing Russians
but yur gonna have the SAME problems with them Russians that ya would if you were in Moscva
they understand that, and that's WHY what happens in Phukut, stays in Phukut, ponelle?

these kinda places are not good places for you to 'try your luck in'
cuz THERE the odds are more stacked against ya compared to THE CASINO ROYALE A.K.A Ternopil State University in Ternopil or similar venue

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Re: Best ways to approach Russian women in Thailand
« Reply #3 on: April 11, 2024, 07:08:35 AM »
Got to learn Russian.

No, you don't got to.

I made around 30 trips to FSU (some strictly for business) over 20 years or so, and never learned Russian or Ukrainian or anything else.

Met over 100 gals.  Not just for tea.

I had basic German since Univ days, but never used it in Germany either.

No English . . . then no meet . . . for business or pleasure.
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Re: Best ways to approach Russian women in Thailand
« Reply #4 on: April 11, 2024, 07:28:51 AM »
"No, you don't got to."

TRUE, you don't ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO
BUT, if you DO learn to speak Russian/Ukrainian, you become a MUCH better player in this game than a monolinguistic player
and THAT is a fact my friend...

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Re: Best ways to approach Russian women in Thailand
« Reply #5 on: April 11, 2024, 05:16:59 PM »
some of us need every advantage we can get :)


No, you don't got to.

I made around 30 trips to FSU (some strictly for business) over 20 years or so, and never learned Russian or Ukrainian or anything else.

Met over 100 gals.  Not just for tea.

I had basic German since Univ days, but never used it in Germany either.

No English . . . then no meet . . . for business or pleasure.

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Re: Best ways to approach Russian women in Thailand
« Reply #6 on: April 11, 2024, 08:11:10 PM »
Most Ukrainians seem to be ditching Russian and learning Ukrainian now, the ones who didn't already know it. However English is apparently now pretty prolific across Ukraine also now, it's been given special status in Ukraine and much business is done in the language.

Ukraine's fate hangs in the balance though.

I personally wouldn't bother learning Ukrainian though, with English now so dominant there you might as well use that there.

I think knowing a language other than English doesn't have as much going for it as it once did. Even if knowing Russian, etc I would probably still lead in my native tongue as it has greater status among all the languages out there. Simply put the language of the wealthiest parts of the world tend to do that.
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« Reply #7 on: April 12, 2024, 09:00:48 AM »
Most Ukrainians seem to be ditching Russian and learning Ukrainian now, the ones who didn't already know it. However English is apparently now pretty prolific across Ukraine also now, it's been given special status in Ukraine and much business is done in the language.

Ukraine's fate hangs in the balance though.

I personally wouldn't bother learning Ukrainian though, with English now so dominant there you might as well use that there.

I think knowing a language other than English doesn't have as much going for it as it once did. Even if knowing Russian, etc I would probably still lead in my native tongue as it has greater status among all the languages out there. Simply put the language of the wealthiest parts of the world tend to do that.

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« Reply #8 on: April 12, 2024, 09:09:02 AM »
"No, you don't got to."

TRUE, you don't ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO
BUT, if you DO learn to speak Russian/Ukrainian, you become a MUCH better player in this game than a monolinguistic player
and THAT is a fact my friend...

You don't have to be tall, but it helps. You don't have to be interesting, but it helps.
You don't have to be funny, but it helps. You don't have to know Russian, but it helps.
You don't have to be handsome, but it helps. You don't have to have money, but it helps.
You don't have to be confident, but it helps. You don't have to be fit, but it helps.

You don't have to be _______________, (any other positive attribute here) but it helps.

FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: Best ways to approach Russian women in Thailand
« Reply #9 on: April 12, 2024, 04:02:23 PM »
I stumbled upon a beautiful resort in Pattaya that had 80% Russians. The swimming lessons were taught by Russian instructors speaking in Russian. The beach was filled with old Russian old men in tightie and short snuggly swimming gear with their chest hair curling outward. I'm sure you've all seen those images.

I spotted two Russian women having breakfast then lounging around the pool. There was a pretty one and there was a beautiful one. Luckily the beautiful one had the better personality. One dinner and 5 margaritas later I'm in love - for the night. Try to play it cool and not too clinging but met both of them for lunch and tried to arrange an activity like with watersports but they just wanted to stay by the poolside. Kept in touch through Telegram for a week or so but then she stopped answering my messages. That sucks. I thought this journey was going to end on a happy note.

What are your best ways to approach Russian women on vacation. Most likely they know English. Most likely traveling with a few girlfriends or family.

I tried to meet another woman when she was with a group in Bangkok and it creeped her out and I sunk back to my hotel feeling like a loser.


There is a number of Russians in the West these days. It looks like a great opportunity to get their attention and may be even strike friendships or more!


Sorry to hear that it went nowhere with that one. Have you seen any more recently? Any contact?





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Re: Best ways to approach Russian women in Thailand
« Reply #10 on: April 12, 2024, 04:19:34 PM »
I have a few good prospects. A 35 year old Russian executive. She detests Russia but I tell her she's in the top 10% and should feel privileged. She's very smart but also a little snobby. Very pretty. Raised a daughter by herself for the last 10 years. She's traveled to Europe a number of times. She looks artistic and like an aristocrat but surprisingly she's very much into health and exercise. I would think she'd be more inner centered and not so much superficial. She highlighted a photo I sent to her while in the jungle where the rope straps hugged my body a little too tight and gave the illusion of body fat protruding out.

Another one was through a friend. She's Ukrainian and living in New York and just called me today.

And a few through a dating site but they are mid 20's so I'm just talking to them in case they show me something more solid.

I think 32 to 40 is a good age for me. The longer Slavic women stay here in America they more they become Americanized and they lose a little luster.



There is a number of Russians in the West these days. It looks like a great opportunity to get their attention and may be even strike friendships or more!

To be totally honest - Slavic women here in America often attract too much attention. It's not that I am afraid of a little competition because I have a lot to offer - freedom, financially stable, high profile job and career - just I like to thin the competition. I don't like to pump up my chest too much like a neanderthal hoping to take home a prize.


Sorry to hear that it went nowhere with that one. Have you seen any more recently? Any contact?

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Re: Best ways to approach Russian women in Thailand
« Reply #11 on: April 12, 2024, 07:03:05 PM »
I think 32 to 40 is a good age for me. The longer Slavic women stay here in America they more they become Americanized and they lose a little luster.

And they are prone to pork up.

A number of reasons:

They eat more here.
They walk less.
They don't have as much peer pressure to stay slender.
A beautiful woman is pleasant to look at, but it is easier to live with a pleasant acting one.

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Re: Best ways to approach Russian women in Thailand
« Reply #12 on: April 14, 2024, 05:56:56 PM »
And they are prone to pork up.

A number of reasons:

They eat more here.
They walk less.
They don't have as much peer pressure to stay slender.

About girls "porking up"
It was something I was surprised about in my youth.
The hottest chicks with tits at age 14-15, often transformed into "grandma" looking women in a few years time.
I debuted relatively early at 14, although more than a year later than my best friend.
Just after 13,, he put a "bun in the oven" of an 11 year old girl next door.

During the next 7 years I had been in the panties of almost half of the hot chicks in a 25 mile radius.
Ahh, those were the days,,,
And the start of my life long fascination with slender beautiful women.

Of course, I also learned about all the telltale signs of wether a woman will stay slim or not.

Resulting in all of my relationships, were with smart young women, capable of taking care of themselves.
Always careful about what they were eating, and getting enough exercise for being fit and in physical good condition.

None of them added weight at all, in my years together with them, wether it lasted a couple of years or 10+ years.
Of course my ex-wife added weight when pregnant with our twin boys, but it was all gone a few months later.

It's more than 10 years since I first met with Tanya for half an hour, before my flight home.
I made the decision there and then,, that she would be the one.
And I knew that she would stay slender, (for life).
Today at 42, still model-slim, and looking like 30 (with moderate makeup)

Read my story here:
http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=15509.0

A selfie she did a year or so ago,
with film grain filter for some kind of a special effect.
I like,,, :-)





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Re: Best ways to approach Russian women in Thailand
« Reply #13 on: April 14, 2024, 06:47:59 PM »
my Ukrainian born wife is Elizabeth Hurley's equal, in 6 months we have our 25th anniversary
OTOH, as I have aged, I look more and more like freakin Schmegal from the Hobbit
where's my precious-s-s-s-s?

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Porking up . . . or not
« Reply #14 on: April 14, 2024, 07:46:30 PM »
About girls "porking up"
It was something I was surprised about in my youth.
The hottest chicks with tits at age 14-15, often transformed into "grandma" looking women in a few years time.
I debuted relatively early at 14, although more than a year later than my best friend.
Just after 13,, he put a "bun in the oven" of an 11 year old girl next door.

During the next 7 years I had been in the panties of almost half of the hot chicks in a 25 mile radius.
Ahh, those were the days,,,
And the start of my life long fascination with slender beautiful women.

Of course, I also learned about all the telltale signs of wether a woman will stay slim or not.

Resulting in all of my relationships, were with smart young women, capable of taking care of themselves.
Always careful about what they were eating, and getting enough exercise for being fit and in physical good condition.

None of them added weight at all, in my years together with them, wether it lasted a couple of years or 10+ years.
Of course my ex-wife added weight when pregnant with our twin boys, but it was all gone a few months later.

It's more than 10 years since I first met with Tanya for half an hour, before my flight home.
I made the decision there and then,, that she would be the one.
And I knew that she would stay slender, (for life).
Today at 42, still model-slim, and looking like 30 (with moderate makeup)

Read my story here:
http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=15509.0

A selfie she did a year or so ago,
with film grain filter for some kind of a special effect.
I like,,, :-)



North, thanks for showing up here and passing on some interesting tid-bits.

And thanks for sharing pic of your good looking wife.

Lucky man.

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I think the age 50s are the true test as to whether the gal can stay slender and not pork up.

Interestingly . . . in our new second neighborhood, there are two older very slender Italian women  . . . which I think is unusual for that breed.

One of them told she was age 72 (this was a year or so ago).  I would guess the other one was at least 65.

The 72 year old runs a business that her grandfather started.  Her husband (also Italian) passed away 8 or so years ago.  She leaves her house around 7:30 AM and doesn't return until around 7 PM.  Drives her work van every day.  Mows her own grass and runs weed whacker; this even as my wife saw her bring a Mercedes out of the garage for first time last week or so.

A son is a petroleum engineer and daughter is an MD.  Have never seen them help with her yard work.



« Last Edit: April 14, 2024, 07:58:10 PM by ML »
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« Reply #15 on: April 15, 2024, 10:22:12 AM »
Northkape . . . forgot to ask.

You said: Of course, I also learned about all the telltale signs of wether a woman will stay slim or not.

So what are these 'telltale' signs ?
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Re: Northkape - porking up
« Reply #16 on: April 15, 2024, 05:01:01 PM »
So what are these 'telltale' signs ?

Usually check out Mamma it's not always the case, but often times it is.
FSUW are not for entry level daters
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Re: Best ways to approach Russian women in Thailand
« Reply #17 on: April 15, 2024, 07:09:56 PM »
condition of all products are "as is" and  no refunds given
you don't get a warranty or guarantee
caveat emptor

once more, the burden is on YOU, to know WTF you're doin
can you guess what happens to those who DON'T know WTF they're doin in this game
several have been on this board
it ain't good...
don't be one of 'em

winners win, cuz of their experience and knowledge leading them to good decisions
and losers lose cuz of their LACK of experience and knowledge leading them to bad decisions

only play this game, if you have some confidence in yur experience and knowledge of the game




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Re: Northkape - porking up
« Reply #18 on: April 17, 2024, 05:06:37 PM »
Northkape . . . forgot to ask.

You said: Of course, I also learned about all the telltale signs of wether a woman will stay slim or not.

So what are these 'telltale' signs ?

Look at her upper arms.  If a girl is fairly slim, but has big upper arms, you can be sure she is going to gain a lot of weight as she gets older.  Girls with slender upper arms have a much better chance of staying slim.

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Re: Best ways to approach Russian women in Thailand
« Reply #19 on: April 17, 2024, 06:40:56 PM »
krimster's heuristics

if ya take her to the beach, does she wear a small bikini or a 1 piece          + 1 for bikni -1 for 1 piece
is her face heavily tanned, wrinkly                                                                +1 if no -1 for yes
does she invest a LOT of time/money in her appearance                             +1 if yes 1 if no
does she smoke/drink                                                                                  +1 if no -1 if yes[/left]

a score of +4 would correlate to a higher probability of youthful appearance
but THERE IS NO guarantee, nor is there a perfect 'predictor'
each woman is an individual with individual characteristics, don't over-generalize

A thing of beauty is a joy for ever: Its loveliness increases; it will never pass into nothingness;



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