Fly to Warsaw, Write 50-100 women an introduction letter, saying that can meet them in Lviv.
Most of them can't/won't do it, but some will.
If only 1 in 10 say yes, then you have 5-10 meetings. More likely 3-4 in 10 say yes
so you would need to schedule 15-40 meetings.
If you can find 50-100 women you are interested in meeting, then you don't have any standards. This is the strategy for men who are looking for a hookup with a Tinder hoe. Men are told to like every woman on Tinder, in the hopes that a few women will like them back...and of those who like you, you can find one who will have sex. (While men typically like every woman on Tinder, women on Tinder only like 5%-10% of the men. A coworker once showed me his Tinder account, and the women on Tinder were almost all the nastiest hoes that nobody in their right mind would would date. And if a guy you knew got drunk and slept with one of these girls at a party, everyone would tease them for years.)
This is not the strategy for finding a long term partner. If you use this strategy in your search for a wife, you will end up with a Tinder hoe. Unless your idea of a successful relationship is a one night stand with the same woman every night, this is a recipe for disaster.
One of the problems with this approach is that you are not playing a numbers game to find girls who like you. You are selecting girls who are impulsive, risk taking, and looking for instant gratification. These are traits you want if you are looking for an easy lay, but traits you want to avoid like the plague if you want to find a committed relationship.
I was divorced with a child, my wife was the same. She is honest with excellent character.
A woman with an excellent character will not get involved with a man who is divorced. She knows she deserves better.
A woman of excellent character gets married as a virgin. If the marriage ends in divorce, she remains single and hopes to reconcile.
A woman of excellent character puts the needs of her family members above her own desires, which also reduces the likelihood of divorce.
A woman of decent character who is still raising children will not allow a man who is not a blood relative of her children to live in the same house. She knows that there is a 1 in 3 chance her child will be abused if a man moves into the home who is not a blood relative of her child. No woman of decent character is going to take that risk. Women of decent or excellent character care about the welfare of their children.
A man or woman who lacks good character will care not for the way they hurt other people as long as their own needs, desires and objectives are met. They will not care how much their children will suffer. (Smiley Girl didn't waste any time going to another country, leaving her family behind. If that's not a sign of problems, I don't know what is.)
A woman of excellent character is not going to have a kid in her 40's with a man that is 50. She knows that this period of life is for helping raise grandchildren (if/once they have them) and for paying off the house and saving money for retirement. A woman of excellent character knows that if they have a child at a later age, they will be spending money on raising the child instead of getting their financial house in order preparing for retirement. She also knows that they will not have as much energy for grandchildren if they have spent all their energy on this new baby. But, people run into these problems when they are focused on instant gratification. A woman of excellent character is focused on delayed gratification.
I have been very happy with my wife at my side and raising/playing with the boy we made together.
The ENFP personality type is the most common personality type found in homeless people. They are very happy people, who make impulsive decisions based upon how they feel.
You have a pen-pal who has taken leave (maybe several) and didn't tell you about it or lied about it.
She did take 2 days off for an uncle's funeral.
Maybe she lied. Maybe she told the truth. Time will tell.
Some people are very high in trait conscientiousness. This is not a trait impulsive people understand.
This woman doesn't have a child?
No. She has no children.
There is no reason to worry about Beefarmer. He has a pen pal. He hasn't met her in
real life yet so she is just a cyber friend at this time.
Who did I meet then? Does she have an identical twin sister that she never told me about, and who never appears in any family photos?
The girl I met in Georgia is sort of like his dream girl.
She was a virgin, went to church 3 hours every Sunday, fasted every fast. Read psalms
and all the other things, that chaste girls do. I was her cyber pal every day for almost a
year. I visited her and romance did not happen.
Real girls like this need to be romanced in person. You have to go to church with them
and fast with them for at least a year maybe two. Then she will marry you. It can't
be done over the internet. I don't have any way to make money while in Georgia
or wherever else you find this type of girl.
She sounds like a good girl.
I think what you are trying to say is that the price for a lady like this is higher than you were willing to pay...so you just say, "Sour grapes."
And if another guy shows interest in a good lady of high standards, you discourage them from pursuing such ladies, and instead resort to encouraging them to use your strategy for picking up Tinder hoes...because heaven forbid a guy actually have the integrity to be successful in pursuing a high quality lady when you didn't have what it takes.
I find it quite interesting what is not said. How many times on here have I been encouraged to pursue a woman of high standards?
Birds of a feather flock together. Of my circle of friends, only one is divorced...and he reconciled and remarried his wife. All have been married for decades. All of us are entrepreneurial, and either own a business or a side business if we have a regular job. (Except Doug, who retired early.) All are debt free, and none live paycheck to paycheck.
And without exception, all of my friends have encouraged me to continue pursuing this girl.
It has not escaped notice that men who are happily married for decades encourage me to pursue this girl, while divorced men try to discourage me, and instead encourage me to be like them and be sex tourists or pursue Tinder hoes.
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