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Re: Looking for a Russian/Ukranian. Had no luck so far
« Reply #25 on: September 24, 2012, 06:37:12 AM »
what are you guys talking about???  :rolleyes:   He is 19!!! He needs to be in college focusing on his studies, and not looking for a Russian wife!
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Re: Looking for a Russian/Ukranian. Had no luck so far
« Reply #26 on: September 24, 2012, 07:04:46 AM »
what are you guys talking about???  :rolleyes:   He is 19!!! He needs to be in college focusing on his studies, and not looking for a Russian wife!

He's not here asking permission Eduard. He's asking for information

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Re: Looking for a Russian/Ukranian. Had no luck so far
« Reply #27 on: September 24, 2012, 07:14:46 AM »
   
I will ask you why are you looking to get married?
What do you have to offer a potential mate that is more impressive than the other 4 billion men on this planet?
What is it about you that will make you a perfect husband and father?
   
 
Jason, those are great questions. IMO everyone who wishes to get a partner, man or woman, should have a ready answers on them. It would be also great to discuss on how do we answer the questions. Kind of taking stock on ourselves and our life situations.  :)
 
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Re: Looking for a Russian/Ukranian. Had no luck so far
« Reply #28 on: September 24, 2012, 05:54:13 PM »
what are you guys talking about???  :rolleyes:   He is 19!!! He needs to be in college focusing on his studies, and not looking for a Russian wife!
Ed, he is joking.

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Re: Looking for a Russian/Ukranian. Had no luck so far
« Reply #29 on: December 08, 2012, 10:46:52 PM »
Jason, those are great questions. IMO everyone who wishes to get a partner, man or woman, should have a ready answers on them. It would be also great to discuss on how do we answer the questions. Kind of taking stock on ourselves and our life situations.  :)

Thank you Lily.
I completely agree.
It seems so often this step is missed and it is indeed the most important.
Let's start a thread and discuss our answers, and  situations.
That would be a pleasure  :)

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Re: Looking for a Russian/Ukranian. Had no luck so far
« Reply #30 on: December 08, 2012, 11:03:36 PM »
I've been using free dating site but had no luck - only 48 out of 1388 women responded to my message (a 3.4% response rate!) and most of them were not even serious.


You only have to find one woman. Even if only a dozen of the 48 were serious, that is still a dozen more women you could potentially meet before you started  ;)

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Re: Looking for a Russian/Ukranian. Had no luck so far
« Reply #31 on: December 09, 2012, 12:14:44 PM »
Get out of Palestine and you will get hundred times more responses  :deadhorse:

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Re: Looking for a Russian/Ukranian. Had no luck so far
« Reply #32 on: December 09, 2012, 03:02:30 PM »
Israel, I hate to tell you this, but your chances of finding a good FSU girl are slim. Most girls in Russia (and I think it's very much the same with Ukraine) finish their high school at the age of 17 and immediately enter the University. They graduate no sooner they are 22-24, and a good and serious girl will not leave her studies to move to a foreign country for marriage.
Then, an average Russian/Ukrainian girl would prefer a man who is older than her to a younger one. That's because girls want men who are mature, educated and able to provide for a family of two, as there is no way she will be able to work in your country during the first few months (or even years). Of course you might possess these qualities, but if so then you are a rare exception.

As for your location, it does matter, but only to some extent. Of course there are quite a lot of girls who would generally prefer to live in Europe/Australia/Canada/USA, but there are also those who look for a dream man, not for a dream country.

A girl you may find on a dating site is 18-19 y.o, no higher education, no life and work experience (does not know how to make money, only knows how to spend it), hardly any serious attitude towards marriage and family, and it is highly possible that she is just desperate to leave her country. Would you seriously want such a girl?
« Last Edit: December 09, 2012, 03:05:11 PM by Little_D »

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Re: Looking for a Russian/Ukranian. Had no luck so far
« Reply #33 on: December 09, 2012, 03:10:17 PM »
Israel, I hate to tell you this, but your chances of finding a good FSU girl are slim. Most girls in Russia (and I think it's very much the same with Ukraine) finish their high school at the age of 17 and immediately enter the University. They graduate no sooner they are 22-24, and a good and serious girl will not leave her studies to move to a foreign country for marriage.
Then, an average Russian/Ukrainian girl would prefer a man who is older than her to a younger one. That's because girls want men who are mature, educated and able to provide for a family of two, as there is no way she will be able to work in your country during the first few months (or even years). Of course you might possess these qualities, but if so then you are a rare exception.

As for your location, it does matter, but only to some extent. Of course there are quite a lot of girls who would generally prefer to live in Europe/Australia/Canada/USA, but there are also those who look for a dream man, not for a dream country.

A girl you may find on a dating site is 18-19 y.o, no higher education, no life and work experience (does not know how to make money, only knows how to spend it), hardly any serious attitude towards marriage and family, and it is highly possible that she is just desperate to leave her country. Would you seriously want such a girl?

WOW.  It doesn't get much more accurate than this!
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Re: Looking for a Russian/Ukranian. Had no luck so far
« Reply #34 on: December 09, 2012, 07:44:21 PM »
Israel, I hate to tell you this, but your chances of finding a good FSU girl are slim. Most girls in Russia (and I think it's very much the same with Ukraine) finish their high school at the age of 17 and immediately enter the University. They graduate no sooner they are 22-24, and a good and serious girl will not leave her studies to move to a foreign country for marriage.
Then, an average Russian/Ukrainian girl would prefer a man who is older than her to a younger one. That's because girls want men who are mature, educated and able to provide for a family of two, as there is no way she will be able to work in your country during the first few months (or even years). Of course you might possess these qualities, but if so then you are a rare exception.

As for your location, it does matter, but only to some extent. Of course there are quite a lot of girls who would generally prefer to live in Europe/Australia/Canada/USA, but there are also those who look for a dream man, not for a dream country.

A girl you may find on a dating site is 18-19 y.o, no higher education, no life and work experience (does not know how to make money, only knows how to spend it), hardly any serious attitude towards marriage and family, and it is highly possible that she is just desperate to leave her country. Would you seriously want such a girl?

Excellent post Little D

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Re: Looking for a Russian/Ukranian. Had no luck so far
« Reply #35 on: December 09, 2012, 08:30:39 PM »
Israel, I hate to tell you this, but your chances of finding a good FSU girl are slim. Most girls in Russia (and I think it's very much the same with Ukraine) finish their high school at the age of 17 and immediately enter the University. They graduate no sooner they are 22-24, and a good and serious girl will not leave her studies to move to a foreign country for marriage.
Then, an average Russian/Ukrainian girl would prefer a man who is older than her to a younger one. That's because girls want men who are mature, educated and able to provide for a family of two, as there is no way she will be able to work in your country during the first few months (or even years). Of course you might possess these qualities, but if so then you are a rare exception.

As for your location, it does matter, but only to some extent. Of course there are quite a lot of girls who would generally prefer to live in Europe/Australia/Canada/USA, but there are also those who look for a dream man, not for a dream country.

A girl you may find on a dating site is 18-19 y.o, no higher education, no life and work experience (does not know how to make money, only knows how to spend it), hardly any serious attitude towards marriage and family, and it is highly possible that she is just desperate to leave her country. Would you seriously want such a girl?
:clapping:  Thank God for women like you  :applaud:
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Re: Looking for a Russian/Ukranian. Had no luck so far
« Reply #36 on: December 09, 2012, 08:44:52 PM »
Ahhhh . . . now we know more about the age of Little_D

Somewhere north of 50 in wisdom.   8)
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Re: Looking for a Russian/Ukranian. Had no luck so far
« Reply #37 on: December 10, 2012, 06:31:03 AM »
Ahhhh . . . now we know more about the age of Little_D

Somewhere north of 50 in wisdom.   8)

Sure, why didn't it occur to anyone that I might have posted a bit outdated photo of me (e.g. taken in Lenin's times)?  :D

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Thank you guys. Hope it was useful.
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