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Re: Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #75 on: May 16, 2020, 04:03:02 PM »
2. Attractive and smart women have always been able to control the
events that surround them IF they know what they want.....

5. Avoid romantic involvement with desperate women
(they tend to act desperately).
2. Attractive and smart women have always been able to control the
events that surround them IF they know what they want.....

There's A LOT of truth to this.

http://www.amazon.com/Smart-Sexy-SA876-Womens/dp/B0723CQ4BQ

5. And, for God's sake, don't be a desperate man (they tend to act like idiots).
« Last Edit: May 16, 2020, 04:25:17 PM by mhr7 »
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Light at the end of the tunnel, Trench theories or Anna Karenina
« Reply #76 on: October 26, 2020, 01:09:52 PM »
Here is a good place to write about your various theories.

When you think of something totally off topic in a thread, simply copy
and paste it here and comment on it here. Your ideas and theories are
sure to generate debate, here is a good place for that.

Udachi!

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« Last Edit: October 26, 2020, 01:11:41 PM by 2tallbill »
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #77 on: October 26, 2020, 02:14:08 PM »
5. And, for God's sake, don't be a desperate man (they tend to act like idiots).

Or doormats 

FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #78 on: October 26, 2020, 02:37:38 PM »
I'm surprised that you agree with Trenchcoat.  Steering toward the "creepy" part of the equation vis a vis women?

I've dated almost exclusively very intelligent and educated women. I've actively avoided
desperate women and damaged women, (I'm not the Kenmore repairman). I don't think
that Trench would have success with the ladies that I tended to pursue, but I have been
totally wrong before about which lids ended up fitting on which pots.

What does a REAL MAN do to satisfy a woman during sex?
Nothing, real men don't care.

Please don't assume that my beliefs are reflected in the jokes I tell.

FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #79 on: October 26, 2020, 03:08:20 PM »
Bill was joking.  However, not meeting emotional, rather than physical needs, is the first way men get cheated on, at least, in long term relationships.


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Re: Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #80 on: October 26, 2020, 03:12:55 PM »
Lack of taking care of a woman's needs physically, is a sign of emotional neglect. I also think there is some truth in Bill's joke, some men do adopt this mentality.

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Re: Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #81 on: October 26, 2020, 03:15:28 PM »
I've dated almost exclusively very intelligent and educated women. I've actively avoided
desperate women and damaged women, (I'm not the Kenmore repairman). I don't think
that Trench would have success with the ladies that I tended to pursue, but I have been
totally wrong before about which lids ended up fitting on which pots.

What does a REAL MAN do to satisfy a woman during sex?
Nothing, real men don't care.

Please don't assume that my beliefs are reflected in the jokes I tell.

I'm not that into very intelligent women, they tend to prattle on about stuff I already know about or is so detailed about something else that I do not care hearing about. A woman that is very intelligent and very beautiful could be a problem both to hold onto and for finding a guy that matches up. It's why if I had daughters the best I would hope for them would be beautiful/very beautiful and somewhere around reasonable intelligence or so. If they were very intelligent as well it could cause them trouble finding guys that they would be happy to date.

I think people that are probably happiest in life in terms of having easy dating are those not under par or over par but instead just better than average in general.
"If you make your own bread, then and only then, are you a free man unchained and alive living in pooty tang paradise, or say no and live in Incel island with all the others." - Krimster

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Re: Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #82 on: October 26, 2020, 03:17:32 PM »
Anyway some thought to my idea here would be appreciated :)

http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=24753.0
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Re: Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #83 on: October 26, 2020, 03:20:54 PM »
Lack of taking care of a woman's needs physically, is a sign of emotional neglect. I also think there is some truth in Bill's joke, some men do adopt this mentality.

You just proved you don't understand how the vast majority of women think. 

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Re: Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #84 on: October 26, 2020, 05:30:35 PM »
I'm not that into very intelligent women, they tend to prattle on about stuff I already know about or is so detailed about something else that I do not care hearing about. A woman that is very intelligent and very beautiful could be a problem both to hold onto and for finding a guy that matches up.

I think people that are probably happiest in life in terms of having easy dating are those not under par or over par but instead just better than average in general.

Reading the above you admit you are lazy and unwilling to accommodate and learn from your spouse.

Truly sad.
« Last Edit: October 27, 2020, 01:06:38 AM by AnonMod »
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Re: Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #85 on: October 27, 2020, 10:28:41 AM »
You just proved you don't understand how the vast majority of women think. 

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What a person says and does is two different things , I had women breakdown because not only were their partners terrible in bed but also not active enough .

Biggest reasons for a divorce is money and sex . I know in FSU people love to talk about the soul . But it is all talk .I prefer less talk more action , something women now understand about me .


I remember my ex fiance had a bf after me , he talked about her never needing to cook , he will buy food , never need to worry , he will care for her financially , buy her a car etc , but after she moved in , he ordered her to cook for her , and was eating pot noodle , he was also terrible in bed (why she nearly had a breakdown in the start). He tried to dodge a 300 dollar medical bill. She cheated on him  , and so did his previous wife .

Moral of the story? He was great at talking. Would say he would go to the moon and back. Less talk about emotions , more valuing a woman's orgasm , protecting her , cooking for her , doing chores so she can sleep a bit extra .

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Re: Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #86 on: October 27, 2020, 11:54:15 AM »
Moral of the story is she sounds as big a "winner" as him.

Number 1 cause of divorce is money.  Number 2, as I noted previously, is lack of intimacy.  That goes way beyond sex.  But you don't get it, and perhaps never will.


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« Last Edit: October 27, 2020, 12:00:58 PM by Boethius »
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Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #87 on: October 27, 2020, 01:07:28 PM »
I'm not that into very intelligent women, they tend to prattle on about stuff

Find a girl that you like inside and out. Then they almost never prattle, they are having
actual conversations with you and you will enjoy them. If you don't talk to them in the
beginning middle and end then they will go to someone else who does.

The road to a girls heart starts with your ears.

Start having conversations with women, this is the key to your success. Few people are
good at this naturally in the beginning, but you have to do this. Not doing this will lead
to failure. You think you aren't good at it so you want to skip over this, but it doesn't
work that way.

Read Boe's comments about when she talks about intimacy. Read all my comments when
I talk about finding a good girl.

The cool thing is that the FSU has a zillion unmarried women. Find one and have a conversation
with her. If it isn't going swimmingly move on to another and another until you find one that you
enjoy talking with. Also you will get better at this as you go.

Stop trying to skip this step. You have to find a good girl that you enjoy talking
with or you will fail.

Lastly,

So many people have given you so much good advice that you've ignored or twisted somehow
to tell yourself that your way is doing it right. Let's make a list of stuff you don't want to do.

1. Talk or have conversations with girls
2. Work at making money more than the absolute minimum required
3. Restrict yourself to girls within 5 years of your age
4. Work out at the gym more than one day per week
5. Learn Russian
6. Accept any advice unless it conforms with numbers 1 through 5

« Last Edit: October 27, 2020, 01:09:18 PM by 2tallbill »
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #88 on: October 27, 2020, 01:21:07 PM »
Moral of the story is she sounds as big a "winner" as him.

Number 1 cause of divorce is money.  Number 2, as I noted previously, is lack of intimacy.  That goes way beyond sex.  But you don't get it, and perhaps never will.


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Moral of the story , don't say you will do things that you won't do. Do more than what you say , lying to people brings bad karma , that is what you fail to understand . Bit of philosophy for you

I approach dating the same way , people say they will do what I want but don't , and I cut them out . Focusing on actions not words

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Re: Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #89 on: October 27, 2020, 01:34:14 PM »
He did what he wanted to manipulate her, she probably manipulated him as well.  So there is no "lying" moral in your story.


As the better half says (paraphrasing the Bible), when two clay creatures come together, the inevitable result is dust.


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Re: Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #90 on: October 27, 2020, 01:51:32 PM »
"clay creatures" are not necessarily bad.  They just put emphasis on the wrong things.  The girl in this case put emphasis on the wrong things as well. 


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Re: Light at the end of the tunnel for saving Western Society
« Reply #91 on: November 08, 2020, 05:16:48 AM »
First way to get cheated on, and a woman to walk away with a  tidy divorce settlement,.

What? You honestly think you are a sex god?

If that were the only criteria you would be happily married with several kids by now...based on your advice on what women want...

In my time, I have seen off richer, younger suitors and do not try to suggest I am an 'alfa male' (spelling deliberate)..




 

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