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Red flags
« on: August 03, 2019, 01:02:07 PM »
In addition to the usual red flags, I thought maybe a few videos might be helpful to the younger site users.

This one is a bit "tongue in cheek"






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Re: Red flags
« Reply #1 on: August 03, 2019, 10:20:59 PM »
 After watching all the videos did you see anything familiar?  Did you look in a mirror? See anything to work on?
Remember deal breakers work both ways!

I will try to comment on each video tomorrow and maybe add some more in coming weeks.

Anyone wishing to add more red flags or constructive comments are welcome. 
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Re: Red flags
« Reply #2 on: August 03, 2019, 10:24:09 PM »

It's actually easy to identify people with problems and avoid them. The hard part is identifying and then attracting winners. If a guy can't attract a quality woman, all he's got to choose from are the losers or being lonely.
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Re: Red flags
« Reply #3 on: August 03, 2019, 10:39:27 PM »
Sorry, but I thought much of the contentn of these videos was .... nonsense ..

Example .. "how a 'narcissist' handles no".. May be the issue is the person saying "no"... ? ;)

« Last Edit: August 04, 2019, 12:15:38 AM by msmob »
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Re: Red flags
« Reply #4 on: August 04, 2019, 04:45:29 PM »
Video 1: Paul tells it like he sees it, not much beating around the bush.

Video 2: Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) You can not fix it, you can not live with it, don't even think about trying.
Several train wreck trip reports have been posted over the years on this forum and others with this issue. The woman will be into you more than any person you ever met ( fear of abandonment) when suddenly all hell breaks loose (mood swings).
Move on like a cheetah with it's tail on fire!

Video 3: Bad behavior, manipulative behavior, MOVE ON

Video 4: If a woman has 50 photos on her dating profile she might be a narcissist. MOVE ON


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Re: Red flags
« Reply #5 on: August 04, 2019, 06:14:26 PM »
Thanks for your input Billy and Moby.

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Re: Red flags
« Reply #6 on: August 04, 2019, 07:06:07 PM »
Quote from: Grumpy on August 04, 2019, 06:14:26 PM
Thanks for your input Billy and Moby.

Grumpy

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Fifty ways to leave your lover  .. what a drum rift ..  Paul Simon - one of my fav composers..

Have to disagree on more stuff: Lots of pics in a profile can also mean someone who is serious about finding someone and the type of photos shown can reveal a lot more than only one .. which puts me off...

Things like,

1/  do they lie about their age,

2/ are the photos clearly old

also put me off progressing to contact at all

 

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