Operation White Panther

[Patagonie]

  ML I love you so much....

[ML]

ML I love you so much....

Well . . . don't tell my spouse !!!

[Patagonie]

This is a very interesting link about how to build and keep a couple :

/http://www.forbes.com/sites/kareanderson/2012/09/03/the-end-of-men-and-the-rise-of-women-and-heated-debate/

the best passage imho is here :
"Contempt, they have found, is the number one factor that tears couples apart. People who are focused on criticizing their partners miss a whopping 50 percent of positive things their partners are doing and they see negativity when it’s not there. People who give their partner the cold shoulder—deliberately ignoring the partner or responding minimally—damage the relationship by making their partner feel worthless and invisible, as if they’re not there, not valued. And people who treat their partners with contempt and criticize them not only kill the love in the relationship, but they also kill their partner's ability to fight off viruses and cancers. Being mean is the death knell of relationships."

I quote myself, lol, 
But that exactly what was happening and why I left lady of Kiev.Her contempt was slowly piercing the horizon and became more present as months were passing by, and with not reasons relied to the facts.     
So contempt destroys a relationship in the end.
The mechanism is double : it lowers and destroy partner's self esteem and it is also used to manipulate him in the sense that it pushes him to react in the way waited by the perpetrator. 

[Patagonie]

Well . . . don't tell my spouse !!!

 
Only internet will know.

[Patagonie]

So now I try to prepare for the summer.
For the moment, it's out of the question of traveling due to the coronavirus crisis and because I have a new job and cannot take the risk to suffer from something bad abroad right now.
I have two women from the same city to manage now. And one is scheduled to come to my country.
Probably if the covid don't prohibit it, for may.
I have decided to take this risk and make a try. .
We will see.

[Patagonie]

Mistress is showing that she is a real bitch,   
No honor, no remorse, 
All immensely helped by the feminist brigades that are flooding the western courts. 

[Patagonie]

I have found out the dream I was searching for. 
A week Russian course in Kiev. 3 hours every morning for one week and possibly hanging around the city in the afternoon if you are ready to pay more.
Only coronavirus will prevent me from following this course.
If interested, ask or send me a PM.
 
I am really excited about this.
 
Even if I am quite busy, I try to keep time to learn Russian between 5 and 15 hours per month, depending on my schedule.
I hope to be able to use correct cases 80% of the time for this summer.
And learning more vocabulary and verbs are the key. 
To fix all of this in your memory, you have to write the word at least twice.
I start to write and read in miniscul cyrillic too.   
   
It's really worth of to learn it. So it's never too late to start !!!

[ML]

 
Even if I am quite busy, I try to keep time to learn Russian between 5 and 15 hours per month, depending on my schedule.

Pat, how will this help any woman adapt to living in France ?

Ask Calmissile (Doug) about this.

[japtats]

Pata from what I heard is employed. I am guessing he is content at the level he is at , so he doesn't need to focus on his work as before. if someone is an entrepreneur or working the career ladder , my advice forget the language, focus on improving your income.

A woman doesn't care as much as you think about the language. Spend time on your income , physical appearance , and skills in bed , the rest will follow

[Patagonie]

Pat, how will this help any woman adapt to living in France?

Ask Calmissile (Doug) about this.

Dear ML, I hope your health is improving and the pain is lowering.
She will have no problem adapting because it's me who is intended to adapt to Ukraine.

[ML]

Dear ML, I hope your health is improving and the pain is lowering.
She will have no problem adapting because it's me who is intended to adapt to Ukraine.

Thanks a lot for your kind words regarding my health.  Still a lot of pain.

Yes, I always say the couple needs to know the language of where they will live.

So if you are going East to live, then OK.

But if it's to Lviv, then Ukrainian language the only way to go.

Also, I always advise USA folks of the foolishness of thinking they can retire to somewhere outside USA because our Medicare will not cover you outside USA.

Eventually all USA folks will need medical care, and it will cost a ton to enroll in the supplemental medical and prescription plans if you don't sign up and pay from first required date.  There are penalties because otherwise people would wait until they are sick to enroll.

Of course you (as French citizen) are more near the EU for medical care if you live in Ukraine, but still the concern about traveling for medical care when you are on a stretcher or in a coma !!

[Patagonie]

You have been remarkably courageous—hat off.

[Patagonie]

Your topic is of the utmost importance. 
I think that people will care about this health topic accordingly to their age. It's probably better for the US guys who have no Medicare or very little protection to go abroad. 
In Ukraine, it needs to be checked, but I think public hospitals are not opened for foreigners. But private hospitals will never be as expensive as US hospitals.
I think that heavy surgery costs 20 times less in Ukraine than in the USA, from the data I have. But I don't know how much it costs in a private clinic in Ukraine.  But in the end, it cannot cost as much. Probably you divide the cost by 5. Of course, what is the level of trust do you give to them. That's a good question.
 
From what I know, french Medicare will be active when I return to France, and subscribing to a special ex-pat french Medicare should protect me abroad.
But interesting question, what is to be an ex-pat?   
If your main revenue is coming from France, you are still a French resident whatever the time you spend abroad. 
That should be my case in the future.

[Patagonie]

Maxx2, if you read us, maybe you can write some information here, about how things are happening for you.

[rwd123]

I have found out the dream I was searching for. 
A week Russian course in Kiev. 3 hours every morning for one week and possibly hanging around the city in the afternoon if you are ready to pay more.

That sounds great. I think I saw a similar type of course in Siberia but was fairly expensive for local prices/wages.

[Patagonie]

If I remind it correctly, it's about $300 for a week, but not sure if it's 5 or 7 days, normally 7;
If you hang out in the afternoon, you have to pay more, it's normal, their time is not free.
The school is around Patsa Sportu University, a perfect spot in Kiev so you are close to the city center.

[Patagonie]

I have found out another way to bring information to people 
I think mostly about newbies, many of whom are often lurking on RWD
   
For example, about dating costs in Ukraine:   
 

[Patagonie]

Or why Slavic women are not smiling at first sight :
       


 

[Patagonie]

And for the old guard, maybe you will discover some unknown things about the German occupation during ww2:
   
   

[Patagonie]

There are many other videos,    ,  so if you want to know more, go there :   

                                          http://m.youtube.com/channel/UC2a4lsyFm8UG32MhHnZoRXg

[Patagonie]

Starting by the introduction followed by basics 101, is also not so bad  (for newbies)

[ML]

Pat thanks for the layout of info.

Should be helpful for many.

[Patagonie]

Pat thanks for the layout of info.

Should be helpful for many.

Thanks ML, l read that your condition is still severe. Are you breathing correctly?

[ML]

Thanks ML, l read that your condition is still severe. Are you breathing correctly?

My breathing is better, but still somewhat labored and short of breath.
So far, wife has decided to keep me !!!

[BillyB]

Pat, I don't know who's making the videos but there should be beautiful women in there. When shown on Youtube as a video a person can choose to watch, beautiful women get lots of attention and clicks. Mix in scenes of women and of the FSU throughout the video would hold a man's attention. A guy's little head will tell him to watch the video long enough so his big head may learn some useful tips.