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Offline bboyblue

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Newbie Looking for advice
« on: November 01, 2014, 02:22:39 AM »
Hi all, Glad to join the forum as i have decided that i will be looking for a Russian woman. They really are premier league compared to other nations.

I am 40 year old male from the UK now living in Spain on a non resident status.


I have recently made conversation with 5 stunners, but the thing that is throwing me is their first email was almost identical.

1. Nice to get an email with age and no kids.
2. Making out that they are lonley and so am i.
3. Cant find a man, 1 man to 4 woman in Russia.
4. Trying internet to find a man a broad.
5. They are ready to go.
6. They like sport. Do i?
7. They want to know about my past relationships after telling me about their last 2.
8. They are waiting on my reply.

Each email has almost the identical template. I have exchanged around 60 emails with one of them other that last few weeks and she said she will give me her phone number soon, as she is not confident of talking on the phone yet. She says another 4- 5 days.  This woman is all positive and i feel we are getting on great.

The others are just about to say they love me and are ready to move in with me abroad.

I have only started using the internet for dating in the last few months, so it is all new to me. I was in a relationship for many years and missed the internet dating boom.

What do other think?

BBB
« Last Edit: November 01, 2014, 02:29:40 AM by bboyblue »

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Re: Newbie Looking for advice
« Reply #1 on: November 01, 2014, 04:12:57 AM »
If you are using a pay per letter site there is a good chance all the letters were written by the same office worker pretending to be those different ladies.  May we ask which site you used to connect to those ladies.

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Re: Newbie Looking for advice
« Reply #2 on: November 01, 2014, 06:29:45 AM »
Yeah something not right here blue. What website did you find these stunners?

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Re: Newbie Looking for advice
« Reply #3 on: November 01, 2014, 09:10:16 AM »
I found them on Zoosk, an add on to facebook.

I contacted one of them myself and that is the one i have been talking to. Then the others contacted me later. I find it strange that non of them contacted me before i made contact.

I used the IP finder for one of them and it is traced to Finland. I asked her if she has ever been to Finland and no was the reply. All the rest have been russian IP addresses.

Im new to all this internet dating stuff. As long as im not parting with cash i will play along. It keeps me occupied at work as i have nothing to do for at least 6 hours of a 12 hours shift  :D :D

Thanks guys.

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Re: Newbie Looking for advice
« Reply #4 on: November 01, 2014, 09:18:21 AM »
I found them on Zoosk, an add on to facebook.

I contacted one of them myself and that is the one i have been talking to. Then the others contacted me later. I find it strange that non of them contacted me before i made contact.

I used the IP finder for one of them and it is traced to Finland. I asked her if she has ever been to Finland and no was the reply. All the rest have been russian IP addresses.

Im new to all this internet dating stuff. As long as im not parting with cash i will play along. It keeps me occupied at work as i have nothing to do for at least 6 hours of a 12 hours shift  :D :D

Thanks guys.

Well cross off the blame on PPL's!!! Where's the blame going now?

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Re: Newbie Looking for advice
« Reply #5 on: November 01, 2014, 09:23:35 AM »
Sorry, but what is PPL's?


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Re: Newbie Looking for advice
« Reply #6 on: November 01, 2014, 10:23:33 AM »
Sorry, but what is PPL's?

Pay per letter.  Where do you work?  I need a job where I don't have anything to do for 6 hours of a 12 hour shift!   :D

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Re: Newbie Looking for advice
« Reply #7 on: November 01, 2014, 10:38:24 AM »
Pay per letter.  Where do you work?  I need a job where I don't have anything to do for 6 hours of a 12 hour shift!   :D

Please don't get a job like that....... This 'forum' will turn into RWD featuring AC at the con-trolls... :P
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Re: Newbie Looking for advice
« Reply #8 on: November 01, 2014, 10:48:08 AM »
Please don't get a job like that....... This 'forum' will turn into RWD featuring AC at the con-trolls... :P

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Re: Newbie Looking for advice
« Reply #9 on: November 01, 2014, 10:52:00 AM »
:D

I take it you guys like my posting style!   :P

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Re: Newbie Looking for advice
« Reply #10 on: November 01, 2014, 12:12:43 PM »
Sounds like they are grooming/screening you out. If they figure you become quite invested into them, they might all of a sudden send you an email saying something like "my mother is in hospital and I don't have money" etc.

Before I met my fiance, everytime I got generic letters fitting your decription - when I didn't express initial interest - I knew that they are targeting a lot of guys, and questioned whether or not they are trying to increase their chances in finding a partner, or successfully scam someone?


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Re: Newbie Looking for advice
« Reply #11 on: November 01, 2014, 12:56:26 PM »
Sounds like they are grooming/screening you out. If they figure you become quite invested into them, they might all of a sudden send you an email saying something like "my mother is in hospital and I don't have money" etc.

Before I met my fiance, everytime I got generic letters fitting your decription - when I didn't express initial interest - I knew that they are targeting a lot of guys, and questioned whether or not they are trying to increase their chances in finding a partner, or successfully scam someone?

Just 5 mins ago one of them told me how nice her father is and that she told him about me and i have his approval.  ;D ;D ;D  Looks like he's going to hospital soon i would imagine  :D :D :D

Thanks guys.

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Re: Newbie Looking for advice
« Reply #12 on: November 01, 2014, 04:37:55 PM »
Blue, you're talking to guys in Russia or employees of a scam agency. 100%.
But don't quit, do talk with them more : you will learn what scam writing sounds like, the dynamic, how they present themselves, what their ways are, what "buttons" they push, see how they say "yes" to everything, and in general, say what you like to hear. Actually, it's just occurred to me that this could be a good way of training your analytical skills and common sense when taking this venue of finding your wife/girlfriend online. Been happily married to an AM for 15 years. Met online.

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Re: Newbie Looking for advice
« Reply #13 on: November 02, 2014, 12:36:22 AM »
Please don't get a job like that....... This 'forum' will turn into RWD featuring AC at the con-trolls... :P

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Re: Newbie Looking for advice
« Reply #14 on: November 02, 2014, 05:10:24 AM »
Hi all, Glad to join the forum as i have decided that i will be looking for a Russian woman. They really are premier league compared to other nations.

I am 40 year old male from the UK now living in Spain on a non resident status.


I have recently made conversation with 5 stunners, but the thing that is throwing me is their first email was almost identical.

1. Nice to get an email with age and no kids.
2. Making out that they are lonley and so am i.
3. Cant find a man, 1 man to 4 woman in Russia.
4. Trying internet to find a man a broad.
5. They are ready to go.
6. They like sport. Do i?
7. They want to know about my past relationships after telling me about their last 2.
8. They are waiting on my reply.

Each email has almost the identical template. I have exchanged around 60 emails with one of them other that last few weeks and she said she will give me her phone number soon, as she is not confident of talking on the phone yet. She says another 4- 5 days.  This woman is all positive and i feel we are getting on great.

The others are just about to say they love me and are ready to move in with me abroad.

I have only started using the internet for dating in the last few months, so it is all new to me. I was in a relationship for many years and missed the internet dating boom.

What do other think?

BBB
I think that is all fake.
It has nothing to do with what i got when i was actively dating in FSU. Three things especially get my eye :

3. Cant find a man, 1 man to 4 woman in Russia.
5. They are ready to go.
7. They want to know about my past relationships after telling me about their last 2.

This is not about FSU women
3 is a pure lie
5 is a red flag
7 Only western women start to talk about their marital problems.
And 8 only agencies translators finish their letter by such stupidity
"Je glissais through the paper wall, an angel in the hand, s taboy. I lay on the floor, surgi des chants de Maldoror, je mix l'intégrale de mes nuits de crystal, i belong to the festival.

 

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